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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 11:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
MsGood:I agree |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
janellemonae: Madam, I say no!!!!!!!! Instead of bringing a child I would despise into my home, I'd rather be forthright and say no! I no get time to pretend. I no even sabi pretend. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by dingbang(m): 11:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Afamed:the man who has abandoned his child doesn't need blame again but his punishment awaits him in heaven. 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nofav0rs(m): 11:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Odobopa:lol. It's not wrong to take the kid. My point is, why did the dad return the kid to the mum? Because he's now married? That's not a good reason knowing the mum is also married. He's putting someone else in same thing he's avoiding If his new wife loves him so much, his kid should not be a problem that he'll have to take the kid to the mum? I get it if the kid has been with the mum right from time. But it's wrong for the dad to bring to the mum just because he's now married You get my point now? Note: if I'm marrying a single mum, I'll gladly and fully accept her child wholeheartedly. But this is a different scenario 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by phemmyfour: 11:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:Why you enter the marriage in the first place? That she ll abandon her first child and face you and your kids? I doubt you understand the meaning of marrying AFTER ONE |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MsGood(f): 11:52pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Sisomugo:Thank you o. I kuku no blame the wicked man, na the woman wey leave her pikin because of marriage I blame. I hope she doesn't regret it in the future. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by maestroferddi: 11:53pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
UBGG:This has been the point I have been making. We all have different emotional constitutions. It has nothing to do with wickedness... I however pray the man accepts the child for the sake of God. My overtly emotional peeps here though... 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Swissheart(f): 11:53pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Azsalami:hello, I see you are a pastry chef, can you make pizza and sharwama 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 11:54pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Swissheart: Yes, I can make them very well 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by otunbadan(m): 11:57pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
Jiang: So ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MsGood(f): 11:58pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:Well, personally I don't let people's 'bad' change my 'good'. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by snowblaq(f): 11:58pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: You don't think your family would like this?. ..really?. ..your family?. .... Please be a Man.. ..that statement above describes a weakling. What matters should be what you think and want.. ..she comes first as your wife before any extended family.....so what the hell is the meaning of the above statement ![]() 1 Like
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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MsGood(f): 11:59pm On Aug 05, 2018 |
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Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 12:00am On Aug 06, 2018 |
MsGood:good for you.. some of us have be bitten once...so been careful is a must......once beaten twice shy 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Agilscent: 12:00am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Wow..for once we all have one voice.... |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by femichill: 12:01am On Aug 06, 2018 |
UBGG:Sincerely, I will not accept the child. I will only take the child in if the father is dead. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 12:01am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Nofav0rs: Spot on! Na true talk you dey yarn so bros.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MsGood(f): 12:02am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Daeylar:. The woman is the biggest fool for marrying a man that doesn't love her child. I'm not in support of abortion but they're all idiots indeed. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by otunbadan(m): 12:02am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Ok, without calling you names anymore, you stand at a riverbank ... A ship is ready to sail on your command, to affect that child's life for the sake of the love you do have for your wife. Biology doesn't make a child parent relationship, love does. If you could marry your wife knowing the circumstances, you can accept this child and affect her live with knowing that she isn't rejected ... It's a sacrifice you signed up for so you can see it through. NairalandFAYOSE: |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by BIXYBABE: 12:03am On Aug 06, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE:Na u will be feeding a child dat is not yours when her father is still alive. If d father can provide for all her need, let d daughter stay with u. but if not, adopt her legally. U also av ur own children dat u are responsible for their welfare. Radarada |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 12:03am On Aug 06, 2018 |
UBGG:lol, imagine a woman like you talking this way.. the mother should have married a man who will only accept her alongside her child. There is nothing wrong in letting the young girl stay in the house, a man who loves his wife will not even bulge before accepting such child. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by thedondada(m): 12:05am On Aug 06, 2018 |
maestroferddi: As a friend of mine used to say it's poor people that know how to advice a rich man on how to spend his wealth. This ish ain't an easy pill to swallow. Take up the responsibilities of another man. Though he was aware of her prior to the marriage and still went ahead. He should just do what is right in his mind. No need to complicate issues. Either way he's bleeped unless he can truly accept the child in the home with all his heart. Nairaland fayose you have 3 options open to you. 1. Accept the child truly as yours and have a peaceful and happy marriage. 2. Accept the child grudgingly and hate her and you wife for . Along you do what you didn't want to. Marriage may not survive it. 3. Reject the child and have your wife hate you in the long run for shit that ain't your fault. The choice is yours 6 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MsGood(f): 12:06am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Azsalami:I wish you the best, bro. Favour will locate you. |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Afamed: 12:07am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Beey:You can pass whatever message you have without been abusive. What has really become a man, I mean the biological father of girl, who abandoned his sole responsibility when he's still alive? 2 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by MizMyColi(f): 12:08am On Aug 06, 2018 |
The thing that put me off is not this one you people are saying...it's the "into my home" part. Smh. Is it not supposed to be "our home?" Shows the quality of man that you are. Such selfishnes... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 06, 2018 |
femichill:your mindset is wrong though... you will not accept the child, the child born by your wife just because that child belongs to another man,what message does that even send to your wife? honestly humanity has gone to the dogs 4 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 12:08am On Aug 06, 2018 |
NairalandFAYOSE: I have very strong words for you but they'll get me banned if I put them into writing. Look inside your heart and consider that you're talking about a child and not a piece of furniture. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by babyfaceafrica: 12:09am On Aug 06, 2018 |
thedondada:what gives you hope that your option number one will pan like that?...na so peace and happy marriage easy?.. even people without extra baggage sef dey complain |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Imustreturn(m): 12:09am On Aug 06, 2018 |
MsGood:that's just the truth. Bro if for any reason u do maltreat that girl, don't forget u have kids also same cup will be measured for your kids also Karma issa goal. 1 Like |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by Nobody: 12:09am On Aug 06, 2018 |
Sap0: It has. I'm sure the Wifes economic outlook is poor and why she'll tolerate the OPs backasswardness. 3 Likes |
Re: "My Wife Wants To Bring Her 7-Year-Old Girl She Had Before We Met To My Home" by DozieInc(m): 12:10am On Aug 06, 2018 |
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