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Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Duru1(m): 12:36am On Aug 31, 2018 |
You are a dumbass fool. What is wrong being a second wife since almost Nigerian customs allow such practice? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Mariangeles(f): 12:48am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Martinez19:Did she ask God to?? 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Dollabiz: 1:30am On Aug 31, 2018 |
hmm |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Mankosi: 1:58am On Aug 31, 2018 |
That u kept urself doesn't mean ur are a good girl, u may be good in that aspect but what of others? We all are sinners as far as I am concern and nobody is beyond attack or temptation or experiencing bad things from Satan, Nobody! ! |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Chiboto414: 2:07am On Aug 31, 2018 |
brodalikeme:God wisedom and knowledge will not leave u ijn..God bless u 2 Likes |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Nobody: 2:52am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Martinez19:God minister and speak all the time, the question is was she listening, did she ask? Did she recorgnise the voice of God and did she obey? 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by SamgoldBaba: 3:35am On Aug 31, 2018 |
donbachi:Beke2020 I am quoting donbachi because he actually brought out sumfin reasonable In addition.. Love urself, ur child, ur parents, everyone around u.....LIKE ur husband...believe this is ur CROSS(if probably u are religious)...Believe in yourself, work hard, do anything to make it in life..I MEAN ANYTHING Mind u follow "De Law of d land" LOVE FROM SAMGOLD CO-founder Think Positive Africa
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Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Amberon: 3:42am On Aug 31, 2018 |
And if God had told her and she came here to share her story it is the same you who would call her a liar. When will you people get sense? Martinez19: |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Amberon: 3:46am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Too many senseless people on nairaland. Duru1: |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by DilyAtlantis: 3:54am On Aug 31, 2018 |
The worst mistake you made is not knowing about the man and his family background for two good years. Did you meet him on the road side and decided to fell in love with him so blindly you could not even know about his background. I still wonder how possible it would be to marry someone I don't know in and out of the family. You need to divorce him and work on yourself. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by FRCS(m): 4:12am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Story ! Story !! ..... Story !!! What does this teaches us ? Hmm; I thought you will tell us that God gave you someone's husband or lead you to him. Abeg, park well. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by marvinsync(m): 4:19am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Beke2020: wow that guy was too cruel everything u did was right ,if u were looking for someone to tell u that well u found one now the thing's how to completely rid that shameless loser out of ur life , u have a son which ties u two together but that should be all . now u said u got a restraining order against him which makes me wonder if ur in Nigeria but oh well.... good riddance to bad rubbish |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 4:31am On Aug 31, 2018 |
ecstasy357:You dont know some men. If you really do you'll realize some are so good in playing such games.. By the time they are through with you all your intelligence and smartness will fail you..So if you fast and pray before marriage (talk to GOD) it guarantees a successful marriage abi? I have 10s of real life experience of devot christians that married that had crazy marriage problems later on.Even bro j talked about divorce. Apologies but I dont think you understand what life is really about stop defending God and give her the right answer. she should be strong, have faith and move on hopefully better days ahead..I just dont understand the way some christains reason nowadays.. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by trumpcoat(m): 4:36am On Aug 31, 2018 |
This is not the best place to seek for advice,most of these people here are mockers,God will comfirt you,join this group called FIN it's sisters group,and you will be better of 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Nobody: 4:51am On Aug 31, 2018 |
if h e is a good man and spends time with you, minimum 2 weeks a month, i will say you try and forgive him and let him be. Who knows what the next man in your life will be? This might be a saint where the next man is. So i will say, if you find happiness and comfort and the only thing missing is not having him 100% to yourself, then you dont have any problem. Many monogamous marriages are going thru serious turmoils you will wanna do thanksgiving for yours. tALK THINGS OVER AND MEND FENCE. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by ASO001(m): 4:54am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Where and where did she gets her spiritual backing b4 falling in love? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Tushed: 5:19am On Aug 31, 2018 |
What exactly is the the problem here? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by EagleNest(m): 5:35am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Why are you blaming God for your mistake. You didn't do what they called proper "due diligence". You would have done proper secret checks on him and his background. There is no way you would have missed that he'd married if you had checked. A hard lesson of life. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by selfmade22: 5:38am On Aug 31, 2018 |
soberdrunk:and sperm receiver is not love by d man and family, maybe she was a disgrace to the entire family, did he pay her dowry? if NO , den u enjoy ur new marriage |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Jabioro: 5:41am On Aug 31, 2018 |
I can nderstood your predicament and mindset,let the past be.He is taken care of you,you lack nothing except the little gap.Do not leave your home to firmament,all these move on would get you a virgin and faithful man as the one you've at hand.He love you ,be calm do as a virtue woman.if divorce him you way find it difficult to secure another go6d home.Do not listen to all the religion fallacy "one man one wife" yet the man would many concubines.Talk to him,forgive him and find the way "solidfied" your seat..He cares yes or no? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by meobizy(f): 5:54am On Aug 31, 2018 |
I don't understand, bad things should happen only to evil people nowadays?
Everybody has times of hardship. Accept your bad decisions and keep living. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by israelmao(m): 6:00am On Aug 31, 2018 |
It is quite pathetic that sometimes bad things happen to good people not because God likes it like that but because devil is at work or we seek God's confirmation after our own approval in most matters.The deed has already been done and you just have to pick the bits and pieces of your life together and move on with your life.Life is a choice.You can choose to be happy or choose to be sad.You can choose to breakdown or choose to break through.Please and please choose to live and be happy,weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning.God will see you through. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by kabie(m): 6:24am On Aug 31, 2018 |
There is no part in the bible dat promises "Fortune" or abundant blessings on earth if u live a holy life or u re with God |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Nwaohafia1: 6:26am On Aug 31, 2018 |
SouthendOnSea: Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by ashjay001(m): 6:28am On Aug 31, 2018 |
donbachi: Some pple no dey use brain. The kind of things, some of us fall for ehn |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by playmaker148: 6:38am On Aug 31, 2018 |
soundforce: When you they chop shawama and ice cream you no tell us o. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by michodgreat: 6:41am On Aug 31, 2018 |
God which you didn't involved in your take of, so now you expect me to grant you a soft landing. People should stopped blaming God for their actions and inactions. I am very sure you will get a signals about the truth you just found out, you just ignored because you were drunk in love. If God allowed Jesus is Son who didn't sin to be crucified, so tell me are you Virgin Mary? It's never too late return to God and He will provide a way of escape for you. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by tete7000(m): 6:45am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Choice, choice, choice! Until people understand the meaning of that word, they won't know that even God cannot stand in the way of our freewill to choose as we want. Nevertheless, his grace is sufficient if you will allow him pull you through. Eschew bitterness and embrace pardon and forgiveness. 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Nobody: 6:50am On Aug 31, 2018 |
why should you blame God for your bad decisions? at 35 you obviously forced your self on this man, your actions show a lack of maturity and understanding of what marriage is. FYI marriage is not a bed of roses, it takes more than love to sustain it, cant just walk in and out of marriage like its your bedroom. the man has a problem, so do you, it cannot be solved by downgrading to single motherhood. think about ur child and make the right decision. |
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