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Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Oluwatosin678(m): 6:51am On Aug 31, 2018 |
who are you? are better than Paul the apostle what still has a torn in his flesh? are u better than job dat never question God? anything dat happen to u is just a light affliction which is but for a moment... Always thank God no matter what..... Thats why He is called KABIO OSI.... no one can question Him.... |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by GIFTD: 6:56am On Aug 31, 2018 |
[quote author=Martinez19 post=70630210] lol. Might defender of god. Would have cost god much to minister to her or show her a vision concerning the man? Let me hear your excuse. Mtewwww. [/quote This is so foolish of you. People perish and still perishing for lack of knowledge. Don't blame your ignorance on God because you never came to Him to be taught and educated. He said call upon me and I will show you things you know not. My child do not lean on your own understanding in all your ways acknowledge the Lord Jesus and he will direct your path. Thanks |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by gistsky: 7:02am On Aug 31, 2018 |
That is what happens when you don't carry God along. Learn from it, repent and cry to God for a second chance. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Olabestonic001(m): 7:02am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Martinez19: Are you sure she knows that GOD, really? What word did HE gave her before she went ahead into the relationship? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by livinbygrace: 7:06am On Aug 31, 2018 |
BolajiBillion: Sometimes we just give advise,without considering the consequences.You think it’s easy for a 35 year old single mother to remarry?My dear it’s easier said than done.Most of us are just being too religious.In as much as the man lied ,there is nothing new under the sun,Infact most relationship nowadays re found of that.The lady should just accept her fate and move on except she wants to be a single mother.Husband scarce abeg |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by donbachi(m): 7:08am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Ejadike:u can't fit it.lol |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by blacq2009(m): 7:13am On Aug 31, 2018 |
What's all this wailing about, op? Common man you can't share with someone. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by dododawa1: 7:28am On Aug 31, 2018 |
All girls will say LOVE whereas is MONEY BLINDED and HARD SEX,GOD never do BAD. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by EvilMetahuman: 7:38am On Aug 31, 2018 |
soundforce:but if she is having a good marriage, god should be praised and given all the credits rights? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Lush100(m): 7:41am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Dear ma,@ Beke2020 let me share with u a real life story. there was a family, the man was a junior staff to my dad then in ABUJA. he is a christian.His wife a christian too. He was married but without a child. after much frustration , he took a second wife. ( to be sincere i did not know much about the second wife if she had kids but i want to believe she had.) i was in secondary school then when i think i learnt the first wife delivered a child. now let me tell ask u some questions . Of the three of them( The man , first wife, 2nd wife): who would be the most worried during non birth of first wife? my answer the first wife. who would be the most worried during the time man takes a second wife.? my answer the first wife. who do u think will look the most confused after first wife gives birth to a child ? my answer the man. who do u think will look the next most confused after first wife gives birth to a child ? my answer the 2nd wife. who would have a lot of work in this family? my answer the man. madam read this story and go figure. May the Holy Spirit guide u aright. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Teegelop(f): 7:44am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Martinez19:And did you know maybe she didn't invite God into the relationship? Besides, god you said and not God |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by ecstasy357(m): 7:50am On Aug 31, 2018 |
HEFAIROHLUWA: Yes, some men can really lie but women are better liars. No matter how smart a man is, a woman is always smarter. Women use both sides of their brain, men can't. Uhmm... I know God speaks and He doesn't lie. He wouldn't lead us into something that will end badly. Those people that fasted and prayed, did God tell them to go ahead or they just assume all is well since they've mentioned it to God? Bros J said unless its fornication. Have you ever heard of married couples committing formication or adultery? Dearie, listen to book of life by Nathaniel Bassey. You will the average devoted Christian better. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by arma: 7:56am On Aug 31, 2018 |
I thought it is a normal thing down there....single mon,baby mama,baby factories, etc
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Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Jeromejnr(m): 7:56am On Aug 31, 2018 |
EvilMetahuman: Yes! because all good and perfect gifts comes from God. What do you know about good? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Angy55(f): 8:05am On Aug 31, 2018 |
I have a pastor friend who is in almost the same situation. Marriage is just 4 months old. The wife has left home and gone back to the former though the former, they weren't legally married. Pretence every where. She even had a child for the former. The former just came back from no where and madam has gone hay wire. I just feel 60% of marriages these days are all built on lies and deceit. Last month I read a story here, where a young man also was complaining bitterly, that her wife isn't who he thinks she is. And he stated he prayed fervently and was so sure that was his wife. They courted before getting married. Even this prayers of knowing mr and mrs right,does it really work? I'm beginning to doubt. May God help us that are still single. AMEN! |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by UjuJoan2: 8:05am On Aug 31, 2018 |
I remember one guy I dated Decent, responsible, soft spoken and we'll behaved. He was a gentleman in every way. But something was just not right. He was too nice for comfort. Of course I never had any course to believe he was married. I visited him regularly and so did he. But the signs were there. Whenever he travelled for 'official' business, his phones will be switched off all through. The first time it happened I was very shocked. I panicked, I thought something had happened to him. I called his closest friends to know if they heard from him. It was just too unbelievable. Eventually he picked the call and told a lot of 'convincing' stories. But my alarm bells went off. I just felt the only excuse for him not to be available was if he was lying unconscious in a ditch somewhere. Any other thing was just not good enough. The second sign was how whenever I travelled, his 'sister' will come visiting and make him all sorts of delicacies, and lots of them for him to store. When that happened I knew in my spirit that the guy was not single like he claimed. When he asked to meet my parents, I asked him to hold on, that I needed some time. I then gradually withdrew from him. I stopped taking his calls and became unavailable. Eventually I told him I wanted to end the relationship and he clung to me and begged and said he needed me in his life bla bla bla. But I didnt believe in the relationship anymore. And I walked! He never admitted to being married, but I knew. May I also add that he was a very good Christian and devout Catholic. Fast forward to two years down the line, we met somewhere and I saw him with kids who were over 5years. And they were his. He always told me how his 'sister' had twins. Turns out his 'sister' was his wife. Not legally married though, more of a baby mama. So his intention was too marry me and make me a semi-second wife. Thank God for little mercies! We women need to trust our instincts. If something doesn't feel right then there's every chance that it is not Don't make excuses for them, don't 'understand' when they misbehave, don't ignore your heart, it will never fail you. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by upuphim(m): 8:19am On Aug 31, 2018 |
donbachi:I believe you. If you are able love someone, you can still love another wnd you can always stop loving someone. She must have seen some pointers but she either ignored or chosed a wrong person for counselling. May I ask, has he never failed any appointments since the relationship started? Haven't caught him telling lies? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by EvilMetahuman: 8:19am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Jeromejnr:lol but same good refused to give good and perfect gift to her, why? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Jeromejnr(m): 8:23am On Aug 31, 2018 |
EvilMetahuman: Did she ask for it Sir? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by EvilMetahuman: 8:26am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Jeromejnr:did you know she didn't ask? Plus, why would she blame God if she didn't ask? Would you blame your parents for not giving you school fees if you never asked? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 8:48am On Aug 31, 2018 |
ecstasy357:If God wont lead us into something that will end badly why didnt he prevent adam or eve from eating the apple back in the garden of eden. And ofcourse married couples commit adultery. its rampant nowadays.. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by bitcoinvin(m): 8:49am On Aug 31, 2018 |
donbachi: true talk:we first love before finfing out and many will now be like;;with time she or he will change |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by ecstasy357(m): 8:55am On Aug 31, 2018 |
HEFAIROHLUWA: Adam and Eve were given a choice. FREEWILL Adultery, Yes! Never fornication. But bros J said fornication. I don't know if you understand the message I'm trying to pass. |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Martinez19(m): 9:02am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Teegelop:AND did you know maybe she invited god into the relationship? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Nobody: 9:13am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Earthbound:Mehn your onpoint I would advise her if there's love in the family let her continue the marriage. Marriage is all about love not about being second or fifth |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Jeromejnr(m): 9:13am On Aug 31, 2018 |
EvilMetahuman: You dont have an argument Sir. Go ask her first if she asked then come back. Even atheists blame a God they don't believe in. Nigerians blame the govt for problems that don't concern the govt. Children themselves in their ignorance blame their parents for things they do not understand. Do you see where this is going? The point here is humans are full of ignorance yet they think themselves wise. Scriptures always have your answers. Proverbs 18 2-3 "2: Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes. 3: People ruin their lives by their own foolishness and then are angry at the LORD." |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by EvilMetahuman: 9:35am On Aug 31, 2018 |
Jeromejnr:I didn't blame her to begin with.. you asked her not to blame god like you know how close she is to god. You made the claim like you live in her compound or very close to her to know how close she is to god. I also gave you a simple analogy about parent and school fees that you find hard to grasp. Atheist don't blame god for their personal problem. They blame god to mock the sheeple. Stop posting ignorantly. Same way you are ignorant and think you are wise right? |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Nobody: 10:01am On Aug 31, 2018 |
when they advice people to pray and hear from God before going into a relationship, they start quoting "he who finds a wife..." when you pray about a relationship before venturing in, there are some things God will reveal, if not expressly with time 'it will slip' |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Allansmith: 10:02am On Aug 31, 2018 |
@ OP,I love this response ....You sure should make do with this... brodalikeme: 1 Like |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Allansmith: 10:09am On Aug 31, 2018 |
A BIG AND LOUDER AMEN TO THIS PRAYER....I AM FOLLOWING THAT MEMBER RIGHT AWAY.....VERY EDUCATIVE AND SOUND ADVICE FOR THE LADY IN QUESTION... Chiboto414: |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Jeromejnr(m): 10:10am On Aug 31, 2018 |
EvilMetahuman: I have a lot to say to you but i don't have your time. Believe wat you want sir |
Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by soundforce: 10:16am On Aug 31, 2018 |
EvilMetahuman:EVILMETAHUMAN_ seeing by your name, we are world apart.EVIL! Dey your lane! |
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