stanliwise:
Many of this kissing and sex rampant everywhere are actually regarded as youth social vices in the typical Afrcan society, which in my opinion is true and I would advise youth to stay away from.

The only problem here will be in what manner and in what context she told you this. could it be because of your past attitude and actions, could it be because she is just been paranoid or she is acting on her religion and she felt the need to let it out directly just like that. If it was actuallu born out of discussion, then I guess it isn't so bad.

Again what kind of a guy are you?? if she wants you to be this faithful and responsible then it is fair she is also being responsible too.

If you're gonna stick by the rule, ensure she truly likes you and what she told you was born out a greater picture for the relationship and not just because she wants to put you in thr friendzone. if you suspect the latter then she is just playing on your emotions and stating rules she wouldn't give to other males, if this is the case I advise you walk out.

In conclusion, is this girl in question really in love with you and would she tell the same thing to any other of her boyfriend (former or future) other than you??

actually the funny part is that this same issue of no kissing, hugging, sex of a thing made her break up her relationship with her ex cos she saw him with another girl and also cos d guy refused to buy her stuffs which she told me. But I decided to give it a shot hopping my case will be different but to no avail.

Lol
She has probably gotten wise

Boxer007:

Brother forget her. Females are useless.

Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwww

Let me put your great lip into great use. Bring it sir

Op see Someone who wants to kiss you and Hug you and have sex with you

greatnaija01:
It is COOL o
you both are NOT compatible... YOU ENTERED RELATIONSHIP as EXCUSE for sex AND SHE IS SAYING SHE DOES NOT WANT SEX... so why deceive yourself... WALK AWAY.
Why wont she be jealous... she is HOPEFULLY gullible to believe that you are also a DISCIPLINED guy who can WAIT TILL MARRIAGE... but you cant wait to prove to her that she is wrong.

Then YOU WILL FINISH SMASHING ALL THE GOOD OUT OF HER AND LEAVE HER AS FAIRLY USED FOR WHOMEVER WILL MARRY HER... (you and our kwarupt government are on the same whatsapp group)

When you are 20 years OLDER, you would not want any GUY to do the same to your DAUGHTER but they may outsmart you OR she may even sell it out to someone lower than your current standard...

IT WILL BE MORE PAINFUL BY THEN... A PAIN NO TABLET CAN CURE.
It is best to let her GO and FIND A GIRL who is ready for sex from even FRIENDSHIP level before you enter relationship.

your so on point bro. you nailed everything.

Dude, are you having a stroke or something? I had to read this statement several times to make sense of it.

BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

Take a look

emwye:
Dude, are you having a stroke or something? I had to read this statement several times to make sense of it.

u really need to go back to school

OneCorner:
Don’t end it, she’s a virtuous woman

My friend abeg stop.
Most women play virtuous lady when dealing with a gentle guy they seem eligible. While at the same time she opens her legs one in Brazil and the other in Australia for one good for nothing jobless gigolo.
Na today?

Abstinence is good if both parties want it. Otherwise each can walk away.

Is She a Jehovah Witness Girl, even If she Doesn't Want Sex can't She Manage Hug? but She'll Come And Collect Money Ba?? Thunder Fire Devil and All His Agent... if na me she tell that thing, ifa elbow her brain by the way let

ajalawole:
wash ur hand off it my brother, wash ur hand of it. just fear woman
a female friend do such thing to me, she told me she and her husband break up and she want to scot with me for sometime
we bang everyday for 2 good months not knowing she was 4months pregnant for her husband self
now she is back to her husband house and I was like killing myself

Thanks I'm not actually doing any shit with her she's just a friend and I know her ex too. I wanted to help her out because she's gong back to school after election. But I think I will just be ony own

BobbyJayAms:
actually the funny part is that this same issue of no kissing, hugging, sex of a thing made her break up her relationship with her ex cos she saw him with another girl and also cos d guy refused to buy her stuffs which she told me. But I decided to give it a shot hopping my case will be different but to no avail.

Aside this, what do you want??
Are you someday planning to have sex with her before marriage, are you planning to someday hug her?? Are you planning to kiss her someday??
Note: by "someday" I mean. before marriage.

BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

hehehehe

ajalawole:
u own better. mine worst, she won't even come my place to visit me, but she prefer I take her out to malls or nice eatery.... but I start using my brain and told her am not a homeless person like her, since then we have not talk and have let her be

.
Lol. Chai.
She wan chop you run like tsetse fly.
Some girls just want guys to flex with.
The guy digging her just dey one corner.

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Quinolone:


hey dear, this is a forum where anyone can say his/her mind, i've said mine, and you've just said yours,and i respect your opinion , however the op can choose to follower the advice if he so wishes, its a free world afterall

Now

1 you call it manipulation, i call it self defense, for all we know that girl might be getting the d from another guy, yes it happens most of the time.

2 Mind you, the anger and jealousy is a very potent psychological manipulative technique, whether intentional or not.

3 The op has stated his intentions clearly on wanting a sexual relationship, she agrees, yet she doesn't comply, and proceeds to get angry when he wants to look for it elsewhere, what do you call that?

Now as i said, the op has free will to decide whether or not to follow my steps. its a free world, have a wonderful night

quinolone

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1) You said your mind. I said my mind, and we all keep "saying" our mind, you see how this goes.

2)I'm not your dear by the way. Manipulation, emotional abuse, untop ordinary relationship. Nope, I'm not your dear

3)He hasn't broken up with her. He leaves her in the relationship and tries to cheat on her yet acts brand new when she gets upset. Which is why he is asking us if he should leave her..
Besides, What was he expecting? If she doesn't get upset. You guys would use it as fodder for your "she is definitely getting the D from elsewhere" stupid lines.

4) free world doesn't mean I will carry a gun and shoot you, same way it doesn't mean you will suggest emotional abuse and trying to break down an innocent girl's life just because you don't like her relationship conditions

5) op actually agreed to her decision for no sex. He should have gotten out immediately if he didn't like what she was saying.
Case in point

BobbyJayAms:
actually the funny part is that this same issue of no kissing, hugging, sex of a thing made her break up her relationship with her ex cos she saw him with another girl and also cos d guy refused to buy her stuffs which she told me. But I decided to give it a shot hopping my case will be different but to no avail.

labanj1:

Use your head. Don't allow ladies to be using your head anyhow. Don't meddle in affairs like this. Advise her at best.

Its not matter of using my head bro, she's truly pregnant for the dude, I don't have anything to do with her its because she's about going bact to school after election next week that's why

What kind of advise bro, to keep the baby or ?


But I will stay off sha

So na sex u find go there abi..... Sex kee u there

1StopRudeness:

Have u ever been told something u don't need is missing at month end and ur heart starts to race....

#absteinance...ur road to peace of mind...


Don't say I ddnt tell u

That feeling go give you headache, cold and catarrh...
You go become restless....You no go fit sleep.....confused.....disoriented..

If e never do you, you no go kno

Daeylar:
I want to see how many likes this useless comment will get. let me know how many people are as empty as you are.

After looking at this comment, Please just tell me what use men are in a woman's life? Look at all the manipulation and emotional abuse you want to subject an innocent girl to just because she spoke her mind on the kind of relationship she wants WHICH OP AGREED TO smh.

E.Q = 0
What happened to just telling op to break up with the girl since he cannot cope anymore?
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Why enter into the relationship in the first place when you don't like her rules?
Why won't she get jealous when she sees you with other girls, are you no longer her boyfriend?
Wouldn't you get jealous if she stops talking to you and you see her with other guys?

Please end the relationship, some of you do not have the emotional intelligence needed to be in a relationship.

sorry bro but I don't get jealous if I see her with other guys cos I actually know her ability. And don't say "some some of(u) do not have the emotional intelligence needed to be in a relationship" that's wrong of u to say cos it's what we humans learn how to BUILD UP, no human being was born with %100 emotional intelligence.

Thank me later....







Girls are like....


Ijeoma come to my mind


She die well.....

ajalawole:
wash ur hand off it my brother, wash ur hand of it. just fear woman
a female friend do such thing to me, she told me she and her husband break up and she want to scot with me for sometime
we bang everyday for 2 good months not knowing she was 4months pregnant for her husband self
now she is back to her husband house and I was like killing myself

I am safer if I fear you. you squatted and slept with another man's wife for two months ?
where is your integrity??

Kingwizzy16:
Guys I need advice

A female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend last week, she just found out that she's pregnant and she wants to abort it
She don't have money I want to give her the money


Please is it advisable I gave her Money to abort another man baby

Help

Don't even try it if you don't want serious curse that's meant for another person to follow u.

MrAnele:


'since Your mom is a female what this ultimately means is that your mom is useless. Na you talk am oo no be me



See my signature

Brother. Females are use less. Period.we don't need them for nada.you get better sex from men. Preach

BobbyJayAms:
sorry bro but I don't get jealous if I see her with other guys cos I actually know her ability.

If she stops talking to you and starts talking to other guys you won't get jealous?

And don't say "some some of(u) do not have the emotional intelligence needed to be in a relationship" that's wrong of u to say cos it's what we humans learn how to BUILD UP, no human being was born with %100 emotional intelligence.

That's my point, build up before going into a new relationship and if it sounds harsh, know I worded it that way because you're admitting to cheating on her yet trying to act surprised when she finds out and gets upset

obembet:
How many guys can hold their joystick for 1yr

Daeylar:
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1) You said your mind. I said my mind, and we all keep "saying" our mind, you see how this goes.

2)I'm not your dear by the way. Manipulation, emotional abuse, untop ordinary relationship. Nope, I'm not your dear

3)He hasn't broken up with her. He leaves her in the relationship and tries to cheat on her yet acts brand new when she gets upset. Which is why he is asking us if he should leave her..
Besides, What was he expecting? If she doesn't get upset. You guys would use it as fodder for your "she is definitely getting the D from elsewhere" stupid lines.

4) free world doesn't mean I will carry a gun and shoot you, same way it doesn't mean you will suggest emotional abuse and trying to break down an innocent girl's life just because you don't like her relationship conditions

5) op actually agreed to her decision for no sex. He should have gotten out immediately if he didn't like what she was saying.

lmao dear, everyone is dear to me, including you, we might argue, but it isn't personal

1 so what are you intentions now? try to change my mind? - lmao Not happening

2 Try to change the op's mind? - well you can try, but that's honestly none of my business

3 Try to discredit me? - lol, listen honey, people know the truth when they see it, and that right there is the truth plain and simple

4 Get some attention? - oh honey, i'd give you all the attention you desire, see i'm a nice guy lol

Alright listen, i can see you are the modern day feminist lmao, its fine, like i said earlier, its a free world.

i hope you now see that your efforts are futile

have a nice night

Jaypreneur:


Don't even try it if you don't want serious curse that's meant for another person to follow u.

Tnxx

stanliwise:
Aside this, what do you want??
Are you someday planning to have sex with her before marriage, are you planning to someday hug her?? Are you planning to kiss her someday??
Note: by "someday" I mean. before marriage.

sex is actually the last on my list which Av not giving a thought but bro as a guy be he need to feel loved cos I don't know for u "body no be fire wood"

She listens to patoranking alot

BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

u be her side guy, she no like you

crispyJ:

Bro it's no big deal.
My first relationship lasted for 2yrs plus, we only held hands and the worst she did was peck kiss my hands or we side hugged, although it was my first relationship and i vowed to myself not to have sex before marriage.
Same thing now have dating another girl since last year February, at worst we side hug or hold hands while working, funny part she makes sure i don't even go as far as having any other girls contact on my phone, she goes through my contact every time we meet, and because of me she stopped to chat with the boys in her class, best part is we have this telepathic feelings for each other right now..

and you think you and your gf are normal?
werey people

Dont end it... make it reciropcal... dont involve finances with her too.

BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?