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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Judybash93(m): 2:20am On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

Well, Y'all need to talk about your relationship. It's her choice not to have sex with ya and it's your choice to either agree or disagree with the idea. The baseline is... Know the reason and y'all should come to a decisive conclusion.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Dizter101(m): 2:20am On Mar 02, 2019
grin grin
BobbyJayAms:
my papa no be dangote or adelleke.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by JakesAy: 2:24am On Mar 02, 2019
I just hope we aren't dating the same girl at this point.... also in the same dilemma.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by XTHRONE(m): 2:29am On Mar 02, 2019
stanliwise:
wish you all the best bro. Good night

Gnit
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Nobody: 2:34am On Mar 02, 2019
Well in my experience I’ve opted for that to have a deeper connection with someone so you know that it’s beyond the physical and you won’t lose excitement

For me it was choosing to love someone beyond their flaws. We all have our flaws some are even more obvious than others but if your able to see beyond that and into their soul you can tell if maybe he’s not saying what he truly feels as opposed to being blinded by infactuation.

Infactuation is there for a minute but love a lifetime
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by IdeasPro(m): 2:42am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs


if you want more advice, follow me smiley
is she his wife? no!

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Nobody: 2:49am On Mar 02, 2019
This will be you if you don't end up the marriage

Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by NCANTaskForce: 3:24am On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
actually the funny part is that this same issue of no kissing, hugging, sex of a thing made her break up her relationship with her ex cos she saw him with another girl and also cos d guy refused to buy her stuffs which she told me. But I decided to give it a shot hopping my case will be different but to no avail.
Baba run, Break up with the idiot, I once dated a girl for 4yrs, I mean 4yrs of no sex, no kissing & no visitation, The idiot married another guy after she graduated from University, I am regretting not raping her sef, Dump her on time, There are many girls that are ready to have sex from the first date till you are tired, Dump her, Don't say I didn't warn you.

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by NCANTaskForce: 3:26am On Mar 02, 2019
IdeasPro:
is she his wife? no!
Is he her brother that will keep her company?, No!
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by NCANTaskForce: 3:34am On Mar 02, 2019
luluosas:
If you value your soul, and you don't want it to rot in hell fire at the end of your life here on earth, please, stop dating and having sex when you are not legally married. You are committing fornication and it has grave consequences in hell fire.
Give your life to Jesus Christ now, live a holy and a righteous life, and you will experience the peace of life LORD.
Cheers as you surrender your life to Jesus Christ now.
Rubbish

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by forexprophet(m): 4:11am On Mar 02, 2019
One of the easiest way to handle it is to also declare no money, gift relationship. Just talking about the future..... It works....am serious. Don't spend a dime on her.... Don't be the fool
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by uneducated: 4:19am On Mar 02, 2019
Op her set of rules / rule setting is commendable in itself. Such must b her PERSONAL CONSTITUTION that should b acted on respectfully and playfully ; as it is said ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS. In my opinion, it amounts to DISRESPECT for a lady who is truthfully interested in d relationship leading into marriage to voice-out such to her MAN. The problem here is HABITS DIE HARD , most actions acted BEFORE MARRIAGE will b the same 2 b replicated AFTER MARRIAGE. Think about it ... at d smallest of challenges in the home, that ur wife will voice-out her set of rules. It worked before on you, why should you resist those rules now? However, before your final decision, its possible she might be practising what she read in a book/ article but is not aware of d WISDOM to practise that KNOWLEDGE. Playfully find out what motivated/ is d reason for those set of rules. Then decide WILL i CONTINUE ? or NOT ?
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by ifyy07(m): 4:31am On Mar 02, 2019
XTHRONE:


No sir, it is not after sex it is about the woman character as time move on, once a woman have sex with a man, she talks to him the way she wants with the mindset she already know him after all I be seen everything in him. , it is when she starting displaying pugnacious attitude that is when a man start losing respect for such woman, if she respects him, he will reciprocate accept he is a fool.Respect is reciprocal.
Most women are like this bro and they tend to be on the losing side because of their character...fear women

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by adanny01(m): 4:45am On Mar 02, 2019
OneCorner:
Don’t end it, she’s a virtuous woman

Virtuous woman my foot.

She may be using op as a spare boyfriend. Fucking, hugging, and kissing the main b but dont want to be disloyal. As far as she is concerned, she isnt wrong if she is double dating but not cheating.

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Rtopzy(f): 4:46am On Mar 02, 2019
How old are the both of you?
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by naijacentric(m): 4:55am On Mar 02, 2019
Boxer007:



Brother forget her. Females are useless.
Let me put your great lip into great use. Bring it sir
baskat gay
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Brighteva(m): 4:59am On Mar 02, 2019
This is why you need https://istews.com/tips-to-know-before-marriage/ before going into marriage very important.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by pek(m): 5:03am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:


What to do -


2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them


if you want more advice, follow me smiley
More advice to keep having premarital sex? Your advise is evil. Why do you think a relationship is only defined by sex?

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by crispyJ: 5:20am On Mar 02, 2019
CyberWolf:
Is she a virgin? I hope you goes through her phone too? .. Stay woke bro, women ain’t loyal
i'm normally less concerned about it although my fingerprints are registered in her phone.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by crispyJ: 5:21am On Mar 02, 2019
IamCharles123:

and you think you and your gf are normal?
werey people

your standard bro
thanks
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by crispyJ: 5:24am On Mar 02, 2019
Ormorh:



Obvious reason the first relationship had to end, watch out for the second.
not it. she relocated to a distant land, i told her we had to end the stuff, after everything we both were depressed but had to move on
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by veekid(m): 6:09am On Mar 02, 2019
happney65:
veekid come and see one olofo.. grin grin

Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Captain6(m): 6:20am On Mar 02, 2019
obembet:
How many guys can hold their joystick for 1yr
You so cute kiss
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by verifiablefacts: 6:22am On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?
if that's what the relationship is all about,end it,but tell her the reason first.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Qlbets: 6:32am On Mar 02, 2019
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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by okoroemeka(m): 6:33am On Mar 02, 2019
XTHRONE:



In this game, there are no permanent rules, you just flow with the moment. What works in girl A may not work with girl B, is about knowing who you dealing with. But still u are on point...play boys gets played sometimes, matters of love are matters of heart, no one is immune to the sadness or joy it brings.
so on point,you can drive the latest cars,r be a rich guy,fine, handsome and still be rejected by a girl u really like, like my good friend said there's no permanent rules, the goal post can be shifted anytime anywhere

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Deltatoto: 6:37am On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?
how you waka
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Ugo4hotish(m): 6:38am On Mar 02, 2019
badadvice:
I will advise you dont end the relationship.
Instead, shower her with enough gifts, expensive gifts like a phone, large sum of money, car, land, etc, and wait patiently till she finally sees how much you love her and agrees to give you the cookie.
Patience while providing for all or almost all her financial needs is the key!!

bad advice
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by fr3do(m): 6:46am On Mar 02, 2019
badadvice:
I will advise you dont end the relationship.
Instead, shower her with enough gifts, expensive gifts like a phone, large sum of money, car, land, etc, and wait patiently till she finally sees how much you love her and agrees to give you the cookie.
Patience while providing for all or almost all her financial needs is the key!!

grin bad advice
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Hawbets: 6:50am On Mar 02, 2019
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