@yetty classy all the way. Yetunde classy for dumbo to know. Our Yoruba woman repping womanhood since 1021.unlike madam nneka nkechi who's rep is sucking ducks and exploting men's pocket and baby mamaism. Hehehe. Go Accra and international countries and do a measurement of where Nigerian prostitutes comes from

She’s Igbo .
I’m not surprised

LesbianBoy:


My post pain you no be small. And as for you calling me "broke ass".....I won't blame you. Ladies like you are used to guys being mumu for them so when you see guys like me you get angry!


Meanwhile, the cost of just my perfume will feed you for a year! Rubbish!

..

Nonsense.

Would you allow your sister date a stingy man?.
Any man that cant provide for his household is worse than an infidel.

Some men are very terrible when it comes to removing money..it's not about entitlement mentality here...same way you men test run babes, that's how women test run men too to know if they will be good providers ... Some men are very lazy, Some men are just plain akaradites, akagum, akasuperglue, they never want to spend , if they can even collect urs and add it to theirs and still be fvvking you on top say dem never pay money for the woman head they would gladly do it...I love that Nneka girl she's just like me, we know our right.Bunch of modafvvckers.

Omega30:
That's one reason, we bang the hell outta u girls before leaving u.We bang u like whores not like girlfriends because it is all about the money not love.And that's is only thing u offer in relationship: Sex

That's y we keep demanding for money money n money.....
Maga don pay, once we find out that u r a broke ass ,we vanish...
No time for dulling

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

Your response to this issue would have been correct if what they were contending was about if it right to support or oppose a lady's feel for self entitlement which is the assumption of been provided when expressed or not, be it by request, favor or gift with or with no basis. SugarBrown isn't saying men/guys MUSTN'T provide, give or gift to impress, surprise, excite, elevate, help, aid, assist or even out of sheer generosity borne out of intense likeness, what she is actually raking against is the slyness at which some ladies/babes, have and still continue to exploit that unwritten prerogative for their own personal gains, milking a guy for your own advantage, especially in this part of the world where the majority of ladies do.

MissRaine69 and NellyKalu_of_99.3fm have address this issues severally. Left to me, it is one that can be unraveled applying a simple logic that speak to castigate those ladies who actively take advantage of that sense of entitlement in a false way and thus I say to them, if you don't like a guy, fine, you don't dig him, fine. He's not in your class, or not operating on the same level with you, fine. Let him be, why accept it all when he reigns gifts on you ?, Why lead him on? What does that make you ? Regardless of whatever his reasons or interest may be to have expressed his fondness for you, why make him think he's got a chance? People have got to know that the same precept by which that unwritten/unspoken prerogative is underpinned on to want to obey that emotional proclivity to do nice things to her, also powers the same precepts that understood but unspoken/unwritten motives driving those BB guys/males who regard most girls and ladies as B!tch3s for getting involve in a relationship with them based on the size of their pocket or bank account balance. I think what we should be discussing is how the fantastic corruption bedevilling this amalgamation of a country can be reduced if not totally eliminated so that wealth can go around so much thsy both girls and guys can have access to earnable funds from wider means available opportunities like we see in European and America where a young lady who works McDonalds and maybe two more other hustle as she school can afford to take care of herself without needing to rely completely on every next available guy who's mistake will be to show interest in her as we have here.

Onyi22:

That's y we keep demanding for money money n money.....
Maga don pay, once we find out that u r a broke ass ,we vanish...
No time for dulling

Then how long will u keep vanishing like a thin air? For how long will u vanish before u become unattractive and old?

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

speak for yourself bro..... stop acting like you know us all

LesbianBoy:
In the past, I would have insulted this lady but I know better now.

Notice how she said if a man won't give her money he should go. Do you know why she said that? Because she knows that if one goes another nigerian maga will spend on her. I don't blame her sha. Nigerian guys dey fvck up....Seriously!

In fact, i now HATE my fellow Nigerian guys with passion!

Apart from the few sensible one, I spit on the majority of Nigerian guys out there! Magas!

Even here on nairaland, just watch how guys on here will start insulting her. Calling her olosho or gold digger etc. But don't be deceived! They are only insulting her because THEY ARE BROKE. Let ordinary N100k enter their hand, you will be surprised how they will even be the one pursing girls up and down and be the one to give them their money even if the ladies didn't ask.

If all or majority of Nigerian guys were like me, Nigerian ladies will have no choice but to respect us and stop seeing us as magas!

Sharrrrrrrrrrrrrap there, u have spoken nonsense....
How can all d Nigerian guys be a 5 minute guy like u?
Ordinary yash way u go see, u go start to day speak in tongues, if u can't afford to foot our bills, someone else will do it...
Get out

Omega30:
Then how long will u keep vanishing like a thin air? For how long will u vanish before u become unattractive and old?

Sharrrrrrrap there , broke ass nigga, if u no get money ,hide ur face

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

Notice she said that the man should spend 'all his money' on her. Don't be a mugu, guy, you can never satisfy such women. It's natural to give in a loving relationship, whether you are a man or a woman.

Such women will collect your last n20k even when they have millions of naira in their own bank account! If you get trapped by that kind of woman, you are finished!

Don't allow the love of pussy override your mental faculties my brother.

Onyi22:

Sharrrrrrrap there , broke ass nigga, if u no get money ,hide ur face

Just like u hid ur broke face in ur broke room.

Call me broke or whatever...


The day I spend for any lady na that day I go carry you go house

You are mine forever o...



Money that your father work for abi


Stab night for months now you want to come and eat..oya na




Come

Onyi22:

Sharrrrrrrrrrrrrap there, u have spoken nonsense....
How can all d Nigerian guys be a 5 minute guy like u?
Ordinary yash way u go see, u go start to day speak in tongues, if u can't afford to foot our bills, someone else will do it...
Get out

Who are you trying to deceive? GUY stop this nonsense!

KIDfurniture:
This is why i might not settle down with any Nigerian girl.. Their mentality is way too poor.. I still believe background matters so much.. Hungry girls every where..

Who care?

LesbianBoy:


Who are you trying to deceive? GUY stop this nonsense!

Babe stop this rubbish

Omega30:
Just like u hid ur broke face in ur broke room.

E pain am

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

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trash ...


which men are you talking about

maybe men of the stone age

Onyi22:

E pain am

lmao, pain me, u that is d definition of brokenness.Liability no be love!!

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

. if a man would do this for you ..

then you too would submit to him 100%


if he tells not to go out .. you obey

if he tells you to lick his feets .. you obey

if he tells you to roll on the ground .. you obey ..

if he tells you to Bleep his friend .. you obey

anything he commands must be done without no questions asked..

lets see who backs out first..

Anagha123:
Money, Money, Money. why is it all about money. Money doesn't define a relationship either can money save a relationship. Ask Jeff Bezoz the richest man in the world. Mentality matter a lot and I can see why this girl mentality is all about money. I strongly believe she is from a poor background looking for a guy that will spend on her when her mate is busy investing in their future.


Please Understand me, am not saying money is not important but money doesn't define you.

Jeff Bezos is a wrong example bro.

Wow! So apt

StaffofOrayan:
When women like Nneka give birth to a boy, they become useless mother in laws because they are afraid their sons wife would be just like them

The day i spend for brokeass galz and they claim entitlement mentality. I will use deir pant..

Foolish whores

The only thing he owes you is a job so don't get hungry when the chips are down and the poor dude is back to the woods. What most ladies don't know is that Men's providence towards you renders you less enterprising and independent

If you meet any girl called Nneka, just run in a japa style thank me later

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

This isn't the natural order of relationship between a man and woman. Each couple will decide how they want conduct their relationship. Men are not wired to provide, they are raised to have this mentality. Just like some women are raised to believe the man is supposed to provide for all their needs.

Second, Brown Sugar is not saying a man shouldn't spend on his woman (and vice versa). What her point is that Nneka is acting like an entitled woman. She's carrying on as if she is owed her significant other's money. No one should ever feel entitled to what they didn't earn. If some women are so concerned about their upkeep and appearance, why can't they spend their own money? They were doing it before there was a man in their life. That's the whole point of being financially independent. That's the whole point of being an adult.

Third, although some men feel entitled to pretty women whether they're rich or not, I don't agree with your implication that when a man is broke there's a lack of choice for him. You're implying the more money he has, the more women will want to date him because of his money. Not all women think this way, especially the ones who've got their own.

Finally, there is nothing wrong with masculinity or femininity. There is room for them in the modern/dating relationship. We don't have to pick between masculinity/femininity and the modernity.

mightyhaze:
Both of them have good points.. But id tilt more towards nnekas views. No girl will ever force u at gunpoint to spend a dime on her. It behoves u as a man to give a lady u love/respect reasons to chose u above others. For instance how many of you guys will support a broke lazy unambitious or gravely stingy guy seeking ur sisters/daughters hand in a serious rel/marriage ? Be truthful guyz

If the guy is coming for my younger sister, I'd gladly let her go.

I just love that brown sugar

Omega30:
That's one reason, we bang the hell outta u girls before leaving u.We bang u like whores not like girlfriends because it is all about the money not love.And that's is only thing u offer in relationship: Sex

See promo o! Women love being _fucked like whores!! This is why good girls come last (pun intended).

You pay them and knack them better than the good ones.

LesbianBoy:
In the past, I would have insulted this lady but I know better now.

Notice how she said if a man won't give her money he should go. Do you know why she said that? Because she knows that if one goes another nigerian maga will spend on her. I don't blame her sha. Nigerian guys dey fvck up....Seriously!

In fact, i now HATE my fellow Nigerian guys with passion!

Apart from the few sensible one, I spit on the majority of Nigerian guys out there! Magas!

Even here on nairaland, just watch how guys on here will start insulting her. Calling her olosho or gold digger etc. But don't be deceived! They are only insulting her because THEY ARE BROKE. Let ordinary N100k enter their hand, you will be surprised how they will even be the one pursing girls up and down and be the one to give them their money even if the ladies didn't ask.

If all or majority of Nigerian guys were like me, Nigerian ladies will have no choice but to respect us and stop seeing us as magas!

I tell you mah nigga

ikewaterwater:
A Nigerian lady identified as Nneka is currently trending on Twitter following her statement of 'once you say you love me, you already owe me money'.

Nneka who clashed with another lady who dragged her over the comment of 'once you say you love me, you already owe me money', further stated that a man who claims he loves you already knows you are his responsibility. Read screenshots of the exchange below;


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/11/nneka-once-you-say-you-love-me-you-already-owe-me-money-nigerian-ladies-clash/

lol......another block head!!!

if you are a nairalander and you have never spent money to woo a girl . pls standup , we want to see all of you.

Me I spend little on my girl, because I have little. And when I have big I will also spend big..

You don't expect me to give babe 2000 when I have 10 million in account. That is wickedness..

The day I will reply Nneka is the day I find her claiming and promoting feminism.. Until then, I comment my reserve.