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Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Ikennablue(m): 6:58pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Olanrefront3355:mehn... You are damn good. Am going to try this on a lot of lady. After all there's nothing to lose 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by blackmaine: 7:58pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Who talk say u no fit date ur colleague, haba brothers na person for oversee in go date, if u like woman make in know if she no gree na him still lose becos for me I no dey see person for road tell am I like am 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 8:27pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Good point. Now the question is, does this always be the case? 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:39pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
tintingz: the important question should be: how often did you break up with someone and stayed on great terms with her? 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 9:01pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Humans are imperfect, we don't know what the future will hold. I know of someone who got married to her colleague at work and they acted professionally in what they do. Breaking up often with different people does not mean it will continue that way. I don't think your question is the important question now, the important question is does this always be the case? Your premise is as if it's always be the case which are just assumptions in my view. 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Olanrefront3355(m): 9:02pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Ikennablue: Lol, that's the point |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Zhahovic(m): 9:07pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
office romance between colleagues does not usually end well.. if you can't control this your crush, just let the cat out of the bag and oh, don't fall too hard in love with her. .. she might just want to toy with u or have " fun" |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by grandstar(m): 10:00pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Why don't you test if she likes you? Ask a female friend to visit you during break and act tight with her. If your crush is jealous, you're on to something. Or even a well orchestrated phone call by any female friend asking you to forgive her and you saying you'll think of it. If she's fuming, try and denote it from her body language. She may suddenly become cold, provide very short answers to your questions, she has that "how could you do this to me" look. She may even start expressing any deep feelings she has for you. But note, you have to be careful of office romance. One of you may have to quit if you both decide to wed. Also, how soon do you wish to settle down? The longer it takes, the more likely it fails( Too many people poking their nose into your business) 3 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by crunchyg: 10:02pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Chinny024:Lol, ok since its not allowed in your place of work, let me ask you out na, will you be my date? |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:07pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
tintingz: as many success stories you got, i can give you 5times more that ended miserably... and probably half of these stories would be my own personal experiences. Breaking up often with different people does not mean it will continue that way. I don't think your question is the important question now, the important question is does this always be the case? more often than none, these office romances end badly... and we should be real on this issue, and accept the facts: - how many of us can gamble/jeopardize our whole life because of a hunch? - how many of us always believe that the next/new babe is indeed the "right" one? 2 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
babyfaceafrica:Isoko. Such is life, but I'll take my chances |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by babyfaceafrica: 10:53pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
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Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 7:09am On Apr 17, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:This can not always be the basis of fact or you will results to fallacies. more often than none, these office romances end badly... and we should be real on this issue, and accept the facts: This is no fact, people are getting married to their colleague at work, we should just accept "it may work out or it may not work out" concluding it cannot work out is fallacious and not fact. There might be some weight of it advantage and disadvantage in office romance. How people get affection for each other comes in different ways my experience can be different from your experience, using your experience to judge another person's experience and claim it's the fact is fallacious. It's like argument from authority fallacy 2 Likes |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Rilwayne001: 7:15am On Apr 17, 2019 |
Olanrefront3355: This is succinctly put. EOD. 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by iamfelixy: 12:43pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
legend! Olanrefront3355: 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:16pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
tintingz: i am giving you points as to why I BELIEVE you shouldnt date people at your workplace... points that i can vouch for as A) personal experiences coupled with tons around (while almost NO success story) B) extensive knowledge on the issue as an employer (when you sign a contract with me, it is stipulated that there can be NO romance between colleagues), C) by no mean i am forcing you to follow what i write. these are my views on the subject. This is no fact, people are getting married to their colleague at work, we should just accept "it may work out or it may not work out" concluding it cannot work out is fallacious and not fact. There might be some weight of it advantage and disadvantage in office romance. what you wrote above would be as crazy as saying that because someone jumped out of a plane with no parachute, and survived, its safe to jump out of planes with no parachute.... highly laughable!!!! whats next? some uneducated person became a successful biz owner, so you will now advice people not to get an education?! yes, "some" may have succeeded in their office romance, but the majority DIDNT... so again, more often than none, these office romances end badly... and we should be real on this issue, and accept that fact How people get affection for each other comes in different ways my experience can be different from your experience, using your experience to judge another person's experience and claim it's the fact is fallacious. this issue has absolutely NOTHING to do with "how" people get affection for one another... stick to the subject at hand. 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 3:55pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Since they are your opinions and personal experience then no argument here. We can't take this as fact. what you wrote above would be as crazy as saying that because someone jumped out of a plane with no parachute, and survived, its safe to jump out of planes with no parachute.... highly laughable!!!! whats next? some uneducated person became a successful biz owner, so you will now advice people not to get an education?!Someone jumping out from plane with no parachute is different from the argument here. We all know one is not likely to survive a fall from plane even with parachute the chance is not 100% But office romance we have seen testimonies of people getting married and we have seen the ones not ending well. Companies especially private companies don't encourage office romance/relationship due to it professionalism. The premise is not about office professionalism, it's about the "relationship working out in work place", kindly follow the premise. yes, "some" may have succeeded in their office romance, but the majority DIDNT... so again, more often than none, these office romances end badly... and we should be real on this issue, and accept that factCan you provide evidence to this claim of yours, give statistics not empty claims. this issue has absolutely NOTHING to do with "how" people get affection for one another... stick to the subject at hand.I didn't deviate from the subject, you were the one using your experience as basis of fact which I pointed out experiences varies, your experience can be different from mine and vice versa. 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:45pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
tintingz: the above is my fact, whether you agree to it or not is your issue... but certainly wont change these facts. Someone jumping out from plane with no parachute is different from the argument here. exactly, just as people are not likely to survive office romance. But office romance we have seen testimonies of people getting married and we have seen the ones not ending well. Companies especially private companies don't encourage office romance/relationship due to it professionalism. ... and these are your facts?! Can you provide evidence to this claim of yours? any statistics to back them up? The premise is not about office professionalism, it's about the "relationship working out in work place", kindly follow the premise. ARRANT GIBBERISH!!!!! what the hell are you writing gibberish about (trying to act smart)?!?! where in my above post did you see anything written about "office professionalism"?!?!?!?!! BWAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!! Can you provide evidence to this claim of yours, give statistics not empty claims. but of course... i will even bring an essay coupled with a social experiment too, lol! I didn't deviate from the subject, you were the one using your experience as basis of fact which I pointed out experiences varies, your experience can be different from mine and vice versa. ARRANT GIBBERISH AGAIN!!!! whether your experience varies (or not) is irrelevant as to "how" people get affection... the issue here is: office romance is it right or not, and has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with how people get affection, DUH! |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 5:07pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Lol, it seems you dont know what a "fact" it. Personal experience does not equate to fact. exactly, just as people are not likely to survive office romance.And people survive office romance. Even outside the office people still have problems with relationship. ... and these are your facts?!Does it look like it's not? ARRANT GIBBERISH!!!!!Oga can you explain the bolded part in this your post? >> https://www.nairaland.com/5136157/crush-colleague-should-let-know/4#77596859 but of course... i will even bring an essay coupled with a social experiment too, lol!I'm waiting. ARRANT GIBBERISH AGAIN!!!!Lol, if there is no affection in relationship then why is it a romantic-relationship? There's nothing like right or wrong here, it's does it work or not? Except you want to talk about office professionalism. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:11pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
tintingz: so because "few" people survive office romance, it is your reason to believe that people should indulge in it?!?! well, some people went to Sambisa forest and survived, should we now all follow suit?! Even outside the office people still have problems with relationship. YES..... with people that are NOT related to their employment, duh! Oga can you explain the bolded part in this your post? >> https://www.nairaland.com/5136157/crush-colleague-should-let-know/4#77596859 ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!!! the above you quoted has absolutely nothing to do with what you wrote... stop trying to type rubbish trying to make any sense here.... but since you are losing focus, here it is again: MBJ wrote (today) ....what you wrote above would be as crazy as saying that because someone jumped out of a plane with no parachute, and survived, its safe to jump out of planes with no parachute.... highly laughable!!!! whats next? some uneducated person became a successful biz owner, so you will now advice people not to get an education?! Tintingz irrelevant reply to the above was ... The premise is not about office professionalism, it's about the "relationship working out in work place", kindly follow the premise. so MBJ tells you that what you wrote is IRRELEVANT to what was quoted.... FACT!!!!! ... and now you want to bring something that i wrote YESTERDAY. well guess what? what you wrote above is STILL IRRELEVANT to what you quoted me for, DUH!!!! now, if you want clarification as to what i wrote YESTERDAY, then quote exactly that. Lol, if there is no affection in relationship then why is it a romantic-relationship? ANOTHER DOSE OF ARRANT RUBBISH!!!!! are you bipolar or you just want to write nonsense online.... ok, lets go back again: MBJ wrote ...more often than none, these office romances end badly... and we should be real on this issue, and accept the facts. how many of us can gamble/jeopardize our whole life because of a hunch? how many of us always believe that the next/new babe is indeed the "right" one? Tintingz replied ...How people get affection for each other comes in different ways my experience can be different from your experience, using your experience to judge another person's experience and claim it's the fact is fallacious. so MBJ replied ... this issue has absolutely NOTHING to do with "how" people get affection for one another... stick to the subject at hand. to which Tintingz replied ... I didn't deviate from the subject, you were the one using your experience as basis of fact which I pointed out experiences varies, your experience can be different from mine and vice versa. so MBJ clarified that ...whether your experience varies (or not) is irrelevant as to "how" people get affection... the issue here is: office romance is it right or not, and has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with how people get affection, DUH! and your reply to the above is ...Lol, if there is no affection in relationship then why is it a romantic-relationship? bwaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh REALLY..................?!?!?!?!?!?!? so your reply to your irrelevant gibberish is to write MORE irrelevant rubbish?! There's nothing like right or wrong here, it's does it work or not? there is always a right/wrong in life... ALWAYS... and if "you" believe that it is right to have office romance then fair enough. 1 Like |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 7:53pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:I'm yet to see the statistics (evidence) regarding your claim. YES..... with people that are NOT related to their employment, duh! \ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!!!This is nonsensical. You're beginning to grasp at straws, red herring and ad hominem . You don't have to post nonsense if you have nothing to say again. there is always a right/wrong in life... ALWAYS... and if "you" believe that it is right to have office romance then fair enough.Right and wrong is relative and more subjective. If we're talking about office professionalism then office romance is wrong as it can be demonstrated. If we're talking about relationships at work place, it works for some and it did not for some there's no absolute right or wrong in this. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:09pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
@tintingz here it is AGAIN... you write so much IRRELEVANT RUBBISH on this issue, i have to post it again (holla at me when you have something relevant to post): Oga can you explain the bolded part in this your post? >> https://www.nairaland.com/5136157/crush-colleague-should-let-know/4#77596859 ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!!! the above you quoted has absolutely nothing to do with what you wrote... stop trying to type rubbish trying to make any sense here.... but since you are losing focus, here it is again: MBJ wrote (today) ....what you wrote above would be as crazy as saying that because someone jumped out of a plane with no parachute, and survived, its safe to jump out of planes with no parachute.... highly laughable!!!! whats next? some uneducated person became a successful biz owner, so you will now advice people not to get an education?! Tintingz irrelevant reply to the above was ... The premise is not about office professionalism, it's about the "relationship working out in work place", kindly follow the premise. so MBJ tells you that what you wrote is IRRELEVANT to what was quoted.... FACT!!!!! ... and now you want to bring something that i wrote YESTERDAY. well guess what? what you wrote above is STILL IRRELEVANT to what you quoted me for, DUH!!!! now, if you want clarification as to what i wrote YESTERDAY, then quote exactly that. Lol, if there is no affection in relationship then why is it a romantic-relationship? ANOTHER DOSE OF ARRANT RUBBISH!!!!! are you bipolar or you just want to write nonsense online.... ok, lets go back again: MBJ wrote ...more often than none, these office romances end badly... and we should be real on this issue, and accept the facts. how many of us can gamble/jeopardize our whole life because of a hunch? how many of us always believe that the next/new babe is indeed the "right" one? Tintingz replied ...How people get affection for each other comes in different ways my experience can be different from your experience, using your experience to judge another person's experience and claim it's the fact is fallacious. so MBJ replied ... this issue has absolutely NOTHING to do with "how" people get affection for one another... stick to the subject at hand. to which Tintingz replied ... I didn't deviate from the subject, you were the one using your experience as basis of fact which I pointed out experiences varies, your experience can be different from mine and vice versa. so MBJ clarified that ...whether your experience varies (or not) is irrelevant as to "how" people get affection... the issue here is: office romance is it right or not, and has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with how people get affection, DUH! and your reply to the above is ...Lol, if there is no affection in relationship then why is it a romantic-relationship? bwaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh REALLY..................?!?!?!?!?!?!? so your reply to your irrelevant gibberish is to write MORE irrelevant rubbish?! [img]https://media./images/69acca43f62cb2294963d92990f95dd1/tenor.gif[/img] |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Omg, these 2 above me ^^ are a symbol of Nigeria as a state This right here is the problem! You can't file Life like some dictionary. Some of the greatest romances were born from office romance, and some of the dirtiest romps, thank you mams, and of course the biggest nightmares. There's no facts here because the question is a hypothetical one! To the OP. I didn't read your ting but never the less, follow your heart, and fuxk the rest |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 9:32pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:Strawman! I don't go back and forth with nonsense and straws. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by tintingz(m): 9:37pm On Apr 17, 2019 |
Guest007: Lol. The dude just want us to believe office romance will always end badly no matter what which is false. |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by Nwodosis(m): 6:42am On Apr 22, 2019 |
LeoFish92:Now I knew why I was charged exorbitantly by you and your co- workers for that small parcel I had on me that day. If I had known that it was for an employee to take care of another employee in the same company, I wouldn't have argued over the charge! |
Re: I Crush On My Colleague: Should I Let Her Know Or Should I Keep This To Myself? by LeoFish92(m): 10:08am On Apr 22, 2019 |
Nwodosis: Lwkmd, those I'm referring to are sales officers colloquially known as 'ticketers', Not bus attendants. But forget that thing joor, is it not you again? Even if it was a married man that wants to take care of his wife, you would have still argued over the charge |
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