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Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by KevMitnick: 1:00pm On May 18, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble:No, wait a bit 1 Like
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Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Realhommie(m): 1:01pm On May 18, 2019 |
czarina:True that but also note say dez days age limit no dey for the actual display of foolishness and outright immaturity ooo.. Na there you go fear, hehehehehehehehe.. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by dingbang(m): 1:02pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:better. You have tried your best in reaching out so please reserve your dignity and allow him to call you at his time 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by CertifiedGee(m): 1:02pm On May 18, 2019 |
iCauseTrouble: Silence is golden. Let her find out herself before they start calling you “bad belle”. Lol 2 Likes
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Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 1:02pm On May 18, 2019 |
JastSiryin: Doesn't make sense to YOU? Maybe the problem is with you and your ability to comprehend things. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by greypencils: 1:03pm On May 18, 2019 |
Predstan:If it were your sister involved, will you advise her to have sex at first sight? Me as a guy, I know my natural tendencies would scream for sex...I be guy na...but if the girl confirm to my taste...I go prepare marriage tins...you think say e easy to get marriageable girl for yankee? plus whitee, plus Akata, all of them spoil join, serial cheating motherfuckers...and dem no dey clean self...the ones wey clean done get wide kpekus...lol...seriously speaking...but like this girl now, she sounds unspoilt...I am not vouching for her o...i dont know her...So if I am the guy involved, I go still keep myself, depending on the setting wey she bring, if she bring setting say she want sex, omo, na turn off, cos even after I'm gone, she is always going to have that craving and someoneelse go dey there...na so my broda...guys keep coming home to get wives...Akata wife na the last thing wey i go marry...just prepare for heart-attack 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Chidokes4real(f): 1:03pm On May 18, 2019 |
This brought his attention. So, you send him whatsapp messages and call him at night but he doesn't respond. So why then is he responding after seeing this thread? This guy is just stressing your heart and playing with your emotions. Adviseasister: 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Timmyking01(m): 1:03pm On May 18, 2019 |
It happens when you're actually so much in love and it's a sign of real and good Love I must say. I'll only implore you not to conclude on anything yet, give it time and try to ask why he suddenly changed like that. He might probably be facing one problem or the other, he might actually be depressed, show him more love more than he could actually Imagine as you are doing rn. Don't forget to put it in prayer as well, good things need prayer let alone bad things. I Wish you all the best in your love life. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by safarigirl(f): 1:04pm On May 18, 2019 |
Realhommie:the very hard way as it is 23 is not young and inexperienced. At 23, I had enough sense to not be played by anyone. People are married with kids at 23, a 23-year old female ought to be reasonably sensible. You never see person, you dey talk pretty-wedding. Maybe she's naive sha, that's why she started a topic to get a man's attention and is now cowering at his 'anger' 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by ghettochild4u(m): 1:04pm On May 18, 2019 |
Nofavorss: Werey re ooooo |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 1:05pm On May 18, 2019 |
safarigirl: Cut her some slack na. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Daeylar(f): 1:06pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:How is he breaking all the bad stereotypes when he is disrespecting you like the typical Nigerian fuckboy? 1)Ignoring your chats while chatting with someone else? Adviseasister:2)Playing typical stupid games where when he sees you're tired of running after him for the crumbs of his affection and you're trying to withdraw from him, he starts giving you attention again so when you're hooked, he withdraws so that you start chasing him all around town and the game continues? Adviseasister:He is a typical Naija fuckboy na. What's special there? The handwriting is on the wall. Ignore the guy, block and delete all numbers, block all means of communication, social media e.t.c, love yourself a little bit more so you won't want a person so much that you would consider sacrificing your self-respect just to be with the person Next time someone ghosts you. Ghost them back, block and delete and never look back. If you feel down because you feel you lost someone whom you loved. Ask yourself how you can love a person who disrespected you so much, ask yourself how you can mourn such a love. Then tell yourself that you're better than that and pick yourself up. Adviseasister: SMH Wish you the best sha. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by safarigirl(f): 1:06pm On May 18, 2019 |
czarina:I hate foolishness in my life. I don't suffer fools. I mean, just read that balderdash, I know 17-year olds smarter than that. The dude is controlling and potentially abusive, and she has sold her sense for flowers and a few gifts. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by mistijude: 1:08pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:And what if he sees this very post of yours and he now try to establish a fake smooth conversation with you tonight in order to keep you on the line and be playing with your emotion?If I were you,I will only say thank you to any comments and allow whatever I would want to do be in my mind.That way,the will of God will be done and God himself will be glorified.NOTE THAT I MADE THIS COMMENT BECAUSE I WAS ONCE IN YOUR SHOE. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by RiyadhGoddess(f): 1:08pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: Dear Poster. So sorry for what you are going through. That's one of the disadvantage of distance relationship. There's a high probability that they guy was already involved with someone over there without your knowledge. The chance of him having challenges and not being able to talk to you is very very low. This is my advice- 1) Cry out if you need to. Don't withhold your tears if pressed to cry. Cry, yell. 2) When the tears are no longer rolling, take a deep breath then get a piece of paper and pen down everything you would have said if he was standing right in front of you. Stroll back memory lane of the funs and chats you two had together that brought you happiness. Pen everything down. Let him know you appreciate every bit of it. Tell him thank you but most importantly he should know that you are moving on with your life as you have no idea where the relationship is heading to. So you are moving on. Please in all, do not write in desperation. Do not sound desperate! 3) After writing, send them to his phone via SMS, email or better still read and voice audio it to him. Pray for him or rather pray for the two of you to find your heaven ordained soul mates. End it with a BYE. 4) Go ahead and send it to him. 5) Listen to your favorite music. If you are a Christian, I advice you listen to worship songs that will connect you to the spirit. Play and play the music over and over again till your spirit connects to the heavenlies. 6) Close your eyes, while the music is playing and your spirit connected to the holy of holies, Fall asleep. 7) When you are awake, Remember to thank God. Then get busy with work or the things you love to do the most. While at work, listen to music. Get engaged with work, activities etc. Do not give room for evil thought or self condemnation. The devil will send his smaller legions to come tell you how you can never love another man again bla bla bla. How unfortunate bla bla bla Don't listen. When he speaks, CAST HIM OUT. Give it some days, if the guy doesn't call, text or respond, then he wasn't the one for you at the beginning. Give thanks to God and move on!!! E-hugs dear. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by safarigirl(f): 1:10pm On May 18, 2019 |
Daeylar: You really know them. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by safarigirl(f): 1:11pm On May 18, 2019 |
mistijude:he has already done that and she has fallen like the mugu she is. Peeps her last post...love makes people very foolish indeed 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Evercurious(f): 1:11pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: I really love your personality.. You love love, you know how to love and love to be loved..Some advice here by some Nigerians are 'demonic' . Deep down in your heart you know them. Plz forget them. Their advices are based on fake and 'wuruwuru' love they have experienced in the past. Most of the relationships here are just 'kalokalo'.. ( game playing).. Always keep your heart as pure as it is. And you ll surely find love 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 1:11pm On May 18, 2019 |
czarina:What's a good life about? |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Realhommie(m): 1:12pm On May 18, 2019 |
safarigirl:It is not "Maybe" for the naivety oooo, it is pretty obvious. I pray make e work out for dem otherwise i doubt she'd be able to recover from wetin go hit her in a very very long while, lol.. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 1:13pm On May 18, 2019 |
safarigirl:"love" does things to the mind. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Predstan: 1:13pm On May 18, 2019 |
safarigirl: Read my reply with an open mind. read the post that I comment in before u talk anything. Quit quoting me if you can’t read and comprehend what u read |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by raymi: 1:14pm On May 18, 2019 |
MariaLavina: Great post. Couldn't have put it any better. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Realhommie(m): 1:15pm On May 18, 2019 |
safarigirl:No mind her.. The handwriting dey all over yet she dey mumu, she never know life. She go learn.. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Antichristus: 1:15pm On May 18, 2019 |
Nofavorss: Smell a dead fish. Fake counsellor and prayer warrior. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by czarina(f): 1:16pm On May 18, 2019 |
SmartestG:Honestly, a good life is relative in my opinion . What I'll tell you I see as a "good life" may be total nonsense to another. But then, I believe we can create our "good lives" wherever we wish, not necessarily "abroad". |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Boyooosa(m): 1:17pm On May 18, 2019 |
safarigirl:In most cases, ladies don't have personal room to host their s.ex mate, the reason they travel upandan to get forked. The only person I know that acts in contrary is Linda Ikeji; has mansion but will still travel for hours just to get laid and bringing another F'less to the world. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nat404: 1:19pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister:Hasn't your mom ever told you fishing with dynamite is dangerous? *laughs*. What are you still waiting for? I tell you something, a man can meet any girl he wants anytime and she'll be a thousand times better than you and he sticks to her and forgets about you. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Predstan: 1:19pm On May 18, 2019 |
greypencils: You are still talking based on love within Nigeria. I have traveled from Lagos to see my ex and there was nothing. We only met online and u asked me to travel from Europe or America to Nigeria just to see you?? You are now including the clause that there isn’t gonna be sex. Sex shouldn’t be what u decide beforehand. It comes In Naturally between two lovers. Not a preplanned Event. Once it’s preplanned, there is never love. Remember that before I can agree to come see u in Nigeria, we must have been together for nothing less than a month, video calls and all that. So It’s never a first time anymore. You know how many hours I go use travel from France or Germany to Nigeria? Abeg Shift, fell that your younger sister to find someone she go date here in Nigeria. |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Nobody: 1:25pm On May 18, 2019 |
ghettochild4u:tani werey? Antichristus:Babyyyyyyyyyy |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Biglittlelois(f): 1:26pm On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: Jeez girl, @bolded sounds like desperation, I have no words for you anymore, do you.... 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by Adviseasister: 1:29pm On May 18, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: Not desperation, those were the things we talked about. I am sorry if I am beginning to sound like the proverbial stubborn fly. I hope I don't hurt myself. The pain is too much for me. |
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