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Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 9:43pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
essenceplus:Lol |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 9:43pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Marriage prep after just one month of dating is way too soon, sounds like you were fear mongered into the marriage (typical), but whilst I understand the pressure you were likely facing, your decision to enter a marriage with a complete stranger was less than sensible. But like I said, I can imagine the I would leave him personally, you don’t have any children tying you to him which is usually the main incentive for people to stay even though they’re suffering in their marriage. It’s not even like you guys have history together so 'broken heart' won’t be an issue. You don’t depend on him financially either. I guess you’re worried about how it will look? Which is fair enough but is it worth the nonsense he’s putting you through? Cut your losses and divorce him dear. Good luck 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by essenceplus: 9:45pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
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Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Acidosis(m): 9:49pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
I have dated people in d past, they didn't treat me half as badly as this one. I was just too unserious. I am too young to convince you to stay or leave your marriage, but I would advise you to work on your character. You should also desist from blaming your pastors. I want to believe you've always known him since you guys work in the same firm. You didn't marry a complete stranger. Certain things (e.g. character) are just not right. 18 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 9:52pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Acidosis:No.i never knew him. s company is quite big. we work in differ depts so I never knew him 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
ibkayee:d same church, d same establishment. not easy at all. if not for those circumstances,but I am looking for a way around it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Really sorry about your predicament, I don’t think the problem is how long you knew each other but just character issues. My friend is depressed now, he just ended his 4 years relationship. The lady was dating her ex and him. It is a crazy world 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by TSRC: 9:59pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
You had different relationships in the past but you were unserious. Before you knew it, you were in the mid 30s and desperation came in which led you to a demon husband. I have no pity for women like this. Many young girls are still coming to learn the lesson you have learnt. Youth is fleeting. 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:01pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
She said he slapped her. That is physical abuse. He also subjects her to severe emotional abuse, by blackmailing her on issues of childlessness, even when he knew he had health issues. Deepfeel: 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ibkayee(f): 10:03pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta:Choose the option least likely to end with you in a casket sha, the guy is scum Best of luck dearie |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by TSRC: 10:04pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
As a youth leader I was speaking to a lady in church on Sunday asking about her general well being. She couldn't even make proper eye contact, and was busy behaving like the queen of England because of beauty and youth. I just dey look am. 9 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by baby124: 10:04pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta:My dear, let me tell you! My husband is not perfect o! It has taken us work on ourselves to get to that point. But I did not marry an abuser. However, marriage, it’s a constant situation of self reflection and rectification of wrongs. I also can be impatient and I have a temper! We have just figured out how to respect ourselves and we have grown from our numerous issues. You are not perfect either! So, take some time to evaluate if there are issues you can work on. If yes, please work on it. If no, then you can always leave the marriage. I absolutely do not advocate physical violence. 15 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by churchee: 10:10pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
desvi:Your moniker should be "devil" not desvi. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Acidosis(m): 10:11pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta: Okay, my bad. If I may ask, what happened to your last relationship? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
any wise person can see that you are the major cause of whatever bad thing that has happened in your marriage through your post and replies, but many are not going to tell you this because of one reason or another. if you marry another man without changing somethings about you you will have this same experience again. i wish you well in your decision all the same 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by crackhaus: 10:47pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta:Then move along na, what are you waiting for? |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by clive2u(m): 10:53pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Tell your pastor u are quitting and then quit, forget d side talks. I dnt knw anything abt marriage bt i hate seeing husbands treat their wives bad. Divorse that dimwit and ask God for forgiveness. Good thing u r even working 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by chloride6: 10:57pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Abfinest007: ![]() ![]() ![]() Really sad for your parents.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Lonelypacifist6: 11:00pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
You dated for four Months and got married already 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
You married him because age was no longer on your side and because of your pastor and that is so annoying. If the kitchen seems so hot, get the fvck out of it. Marriage is not for everybody. ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Take your Marriage out of Nairaland. People here will scatter it even further... The man tho ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Simply him to his face that you are moving to another house until he is ready to live his life like an husband who care and love. Am not talking about divorce, just separation, in fact you can be calling and checking out on him to see if he is fine, if your body needs him you visit if will. But living under same roof with and is making you unhappy is no different. But risky sha oo. PLEASE GO TALK TO YOUR PASTOR ABOUT IT. |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Seun360(m): 11:04pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Flee the marriage as fast as you can. 3 Likes
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Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by rusher14: 11:05pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Leave the fella.
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Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by ogbonti: 11:06pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Elesta: You must love yourself enough to walk away from a toxic relationship or marriage. My question is, do you love yourself enough to walk away from high blood pressure or potential homicide? The choice is yours! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by armyofone(m): 11:07pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Op, next time he abuses you of not having a child, tell him straight "Mr. husband, the doctor said I'm okay that you should come check your sperm count because the problem might be you" No child yet so this is a good time to find your way. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Yonce(f): 11:07pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
This just reminds me of "I got flowers today" ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Halo22: 11:09pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
Is like you don't women, very indecisive. youngest85: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
essenceplus:Feminists have arrived... They will forget all news about irresponsible wives now.. "Men are scum" crew loading.. ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Is Torturing Me Emotionally by moshino(m): 11:12pm On Jun 10, 2019 |
mhizdebbygold: To achieve what exactly? Total BS, makes no sense. |
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