Sandra8:
After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to shallow, they must certainly still shallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Blackivy29
Guest007
Fountainofyouth

Keep it coming. The more you write on this, the better

danilmo:


uv only explained further and indirectly passively encouraged Men to stop such bully against d female gender, was thinking u ll actively boost their unmarried status confidence..


but all dsame, u try sha,.

in answer to part of ur post about wooing a woman for long like a year hence making her a treasure, my dear I fell for that scam in my teens, the new sure method now is multiple wooing ( like 3-4). Only if u know the number of female we flirt with , whatsap b helping us for long.

in as much I dnt support cheating, this method pushed me to double date, wooed 3 ladies and 2 agreed. wetin man go do again, na to keep on playing the 2 game na, las las, in my mind there might b a breakup, kept on like this for long, though currently I'm currently into 1 .lol, and it's cool o , life can still b simple

Moreover, I love to play on feminist intelligence though, I never scold any of them against feminism, I have them plenty in my contact , play on thier senses, access their weakness and watch their lamentation and eventually node in accordance just for fun ( that weakness can never be taken from women). very weak vessel only if a guy know how to play cool with them...


But I noticed something triggers feminism, it isn't natural, look for that trigger and fix it. u ll be fine and naturally adore like the woman u are

The post had some positive impact on you, that's something to cheer about dear

Nice one dear,very apt.

Jesuspikin8:
Keep it coming. The more you write on this, the better

I will dear. Thank you

Sandra8:
After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to shallow, they must certainly still shallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Blackivy29
Guest007
Fountainofyouth

Who else noticed she's just confirming what redpillers have been shouting against?

Jesuspikin8:


Who else noticed she's just confirming what redpillers have been shouting against?

I'm only helping out my kind love. Thanks

In all thy writing....remember a man can start a family and raise kids at 70 but a woman will likely not at 50....secondly, due to hypergamy...A man's marital value increases as his wealth and social power increases while a woman's value decreases with age and body changes...regardless of a societal standing....In economics....A man's supply of women increases as he ages and does well with his life.....As for marriage...most men are beginning to see it as an hindrance to their access to more women....they see it as a limitation to being able to enjoy all the women they can afford.
..so if u observe, the benefits are being unbundled and realized without the actual act....Baby mama secures kids for him while he is out there living his life as long as he provides and maintains a level headed relationship with her....In conclusion...He who has all the time has more power. ..she who gas less time should put on her best behaviour and pick the best she can get while her value is high.....It is basically biology and little about societal reprogramming....

Funmmyastic:
Nice one dear,very apt.

Hello dear, thank you so very much .how are my sisters you refused to share with me ?

Sandra8:


Hello dear, thank you so very much .how are my sisters you refused to share with me ?

They are fine.Good morning.

tunjilana:
In all thy writing....remember a man can start a family and raise kids at 70 but a woman will likely not at 50....secondly, due to hypergamy...A man's marital value increases as his wealth and social power increases while a woman's value decreases with age and body changes...regardless of a societal standing....In economics....A man's supply of women increases as he ages and does well with his life.....As for marriage...most men are beginning to see it as an hindrance to their access to more women....they see it as a limitation to being able to enjoy all the women they can afford.
..so if u observe, the benefits are being unbundled and realized without the actual act....Baby mama secures kids for him while he is out there living his life as long as he provides and maintains a level headed relationship with her....In conclusion...He who has all the time has more power. ..she who gas less time should put on her best behaviour and pick the best she can get while her value is high.....It is basically biology and little about societal reprogramming....

You tried to sound smart but your logic is faulty. What makes a man truly great is not because according to you "he has all the time to raise a family" love, no it's not. If you check out our African culture and even ancient cultures across the world, what made great men, truly great love was their offspring, male and female heirs of theirs. That is the purpose of child bearing to continue a man's legacy and lineage (that's from a man's point of view) love. A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.

This should never be confused with sex. Men and women have all the time in the world to have sex. Love you

Funmmyastic:




They are fine.Good morning.

That's good to know good morning dear

I keep wondering wheather women r the ones responsible for the down fall of men on this forum.....
Y must they always channel their frustration on them?

Onyi22:
I keep wondering wheather women r the ones responsible for the down fall of men on this forum.....
Y must they always channel their frustration on them?

Women are just an easy outlet to vent their anger on, that's it dear

Sandra8:


You tried to sound smart but your logic is faulty. What makes a man truly great is not because according to you "he has all the time to raise a family" love, no it's not. If you check out our African culture and even ancient cultures across the world, what made great men, truly great love was their offspring, male and female heirs of theirs. That is the purpose of child bearing to continue a man's legacy and lineage (that's from a man's point of view) love. A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.

This should never be confused with sex. Men and women have all the time in the world to have sex. Love you

A very faulty assumption....The reason some kids align with their mother is cos those very women downplay the role of the father for selfish reasons....It happens even in marriage ....Men are wiser these days and more involved...they found ways to bond with kids and display their importance....You see men legally taking up issues that prevent them access to their kids...this is 2019 and the child is an asset to both parents not only the mother....As for offspring bn tied to greatness....how many great men's children do you know...in history people achieve greatness by their deeds, inventions and all.....people don't even do plenty kids again...maybe 2....A generation is coming that will do 1 and then maybe none....so if u still tie a woman's value to her ability to produce kids....then u need to watch the trend...

tunjilana:
A very faulty assumption....The reason some kids align with their mother is cos those very women downplay the role of the father for selfish reasons....It happens even in marriage ....Men are wiser these days and more involved...they found ways to bond with kids and display their importance....You see men legally taking up issues that prevent them access to their kids...this is 2019 and the child is an asset to both parents not only the mother....As for offspring bn tied to greatness....how many great men's children do you know...in history people achieve greatness by their deeds, inventions and all.....people don't even do plenty kids again...maybe 2....A generation is coming that will do 1 and then maybe none....so if u still tie a woman's value to her ability to produce kids....then u need to watch the trend...

Men's influence in the raising of children outside of marriage will always be downplayed by women. No kid will ever support a father who disrespects his mother by first not marrying her (making him a bastard in the process) and also by cheating on her with multiple women .
The respect this kids end up having for their mom always supercede whatever respect they may have for their dad.
And yes a man's greatness is linked to the quality of his offspring. Man is a social animal dear. So after all is said and done. After all the man has achieved personally and in his good old age all his kids turn out different than he did, or failed in life or failed to acknowledge him after being successful which most are doing now, what joy does the man gain from that my dear. Absolutely nothing but pains. Wake up dear

Sandra8:


You tried to sound smart but your logic is faulty. What makes a man truly great is not because according to you "he has all the time to raise a family" love, no it's not. If you check out our African culture and even ancient cultures across the world, what made great men, truly great love was their offspring, male and female heirs of theirs. That is the purpose of child bearing to continue a man's legacy and lineage (that's from a man's point of view) love . A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.

This should never be confused with sex. Men and women have all the time in the world to have sex. Love you

You mean Davido's kids won't love him because he doesn't marry their mothers.
In marriage, 60-70 percent still live their mothers more than their fathers. So, what's your point?

Korllami007:


You mean Davido's kids won't love him because he doesn't marry their mothers.
In marriage, 60-70 percent still live their mothers more than their fathers. So, what's your point?

Your figures are self manufactured dear

Sandra8:


Your figures are self manufactured dear

Since you mean marriage guarantees children to love their fathers, what can you say about children loving their mothers despite the fact their fathers married their mothers to the extent of hating their fathers?

Korllami007:


Since you mean marriage guarantees children to love their fathers, what can you say about children loving their mothers despite the fact their fathers married their mothers to the extent of hating their fathers?

I never said any of the above quoted texts dear. Any man who provides only money without being fully involved in the training of his kid, will only have himself to blame when he isn't recognized fully for the role he played. We are our biggest promoters and not someone else. If you are absentee dad, just know your kid already sees her mom as his/her all and all,helping them to cope through the daily challenges of growing up dear

Sandra8:


I never said any of the above quoted texts dear. Any man who provides only money without being fully involved in the training of his kid, will only have himself to blame when he isn't recognized fully for the role he played. We are our biggest promoters and not someone else. If you are absentee dad, just know your kid already sees her mom as his/her all and all,helping them to cope through the daily challenges of growing up dear

This is what said;
A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.
This is the opposite of the above.
So, a man, who marries, won't shoot himself in the foot. In later years, those children become legacies of their mothers including their fathers' love because they marry the mother of their children. This is logical enough now.
In the context of your write up and the guy you qouted, what do you think should be the opposite of baby mama?

Korllami007:


This is what said;
A man who willfully keeps baby mama's is shooting himself in the foot, in later years those children become the legacies of their mothers mostly, excluding their fathers entirely love.
This is the opposite of the above.
So, a man, who marries, won't shoot himself in the foot. In later years, those children become legacies of their mothers including their fathers' love because they marry the mother of their children. This is logical enough now.
In the context of your write up and the guy you qouted, what do you think should be the opposite of baby mama?

Honestly so much has been lost in translation dear. Kindly state your Question clearly dear

Sandra8:
As hard a pill as this is for men to shallow, they must certainly still shallow it.

Lol. Olodo. Men should shallow pills

OP are you sure you've graduated js3?

genq:


Lol. Olodo. Men should shallow pills

OP are you sure you've graduated js3?

You could have just corrected me politely... Swallow and shallow look similar but are different, I know dear. Bye dear

LilMissFavvy:
Hahahahaha..... Girl, be careful how you reply some irrelevant comments, except you don't mind, the guy above me is a funny dude, he's just trolling.

These bitterness you ooze around, will only consume whateva is left of ur small ass ... if u continue like this i will stop flirtin wit u oo !

Sandra8:
After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to swallow, they must certainly still swallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Blackivy29
Guest007
Fountainofyouth
Seun

Men, please Hustle very hard so that you can afford 2 wives...
You can marry the OP now and then marry a younger, fresher wife in the next 10 years to keep up with your youthful self...

If you are very blessed, I mean very rich, marry 2 at the same time.. . Allow the 2 witches to have their face-off in peace.. You will be the one to settle it as the boss of the house...
Don't try it if you are not very rich o

All this initial gra, gra should not bother you please...

Oya, back to Hustle.. (Learn from Ned)


Note: She can overthrow a monogamous marriage as indicated in her write up tho! Don't underrate her!!!

eni4real:
Men, please Hustle very hard so that you can afford 2 wives...
You can marry the OP now and then marry a younger, fresher wife in the next 10 years to keep up with your youthful self...

If you are very blessed, I mean very rich, marry 2 at the same time.. . Allow the 2 witches to have their face-off in peace.. You will be the one to settle it as the boss of the house...
Don't try it if you are not very rich o

All this initial gra, gra should not bother you please...

Oya, back to Hustle.. (Learn from Ned)


Note: She can overthrow a monogamous marriage as indicated in her write up tho! Don't underrate her!!!

A last resort to save your remaining male pride. Don't worry love, it's safe

Sandra8:


A last resort to save your remaining male pride. Don't worry love, it's safe

It is not a last resort.. Modernity and civilization has taken that away from men...

I am sure your great grandfather is a polygamist.. . But your parents are likely to be In a monogamous relationship..

Modernity, civilization, religion , in recent times, teach us to have one wife so that we can become one with her, but the truth is a woman is more complicated than that...

The best thing is to marry at least 2, so as to avoid unending manipulation that a woman is scheming against you all the time.. .

It takes another schemer to counter a schemer...

Men should just Hustle hard... Polygamy under a good leadership of a man is still the best...

eni4real:
It is not a last resort.. Modernity and civilization has taken that away from men...

I am sure your great grandfather is a polygamist.. . But your parents are likely to be In a monogamous relationship..

Modernity, civilization, religion , in recent times, teach us to have one wife so that we can become one with her, but the truth is a woman is more complicated than that...

The best thing is to marry at least 2, so as to avoid unending manipulation that a woman is scheming against you all the time.. .

It takes another schemer to counter a schemer...

Men should just Hustle hard... Polygamy under a good leadership of a man is still the best...

Dear I wished I could send you back in time, before the colonial era, maybe you will enjoy your polygamous nature in peace there . But I can't, all I can say is sorry dear. Love you

Sandra8:


Dear I wished I could send you back in time, before the colonial era, maybe you will enjoy your polygamous nature in peace there . But I can't, all I can say is sorry dear. Love you

You don't need to be in a pre-colonial era to enjoy polygamy..
Polygamy is sweet if you are blessed..

More than 90% of Muslims practice polygamy now!!

More than 90% of Northerners practice polygamy now..

I will encourage men in the South West to give polygamy a trial, it is the best way to enjoy women at their best... irrespective of your religion!!

No unnecessary entitlement come with it..

As you get richer with time, your respect increase from these women..

No unnecessary evolving disrespect from a so called better half!!

eni4real:
You don't need to be in a pre-colonial era to enjoy polygamy..
Polygamy is sweet if you are blessed..

More than 90% of Muslims practice polygamy now!!

More than 90% of Northerners practice polygamy now..

I will encourage men in the South West to give polygamy a trial, it is the best way to enjoy women at their best... irrespective of your religion!!

No unnecessary entitlement come with it..

As you get richer with time, your respect increase from these women..

No unnecessary evolving disrespect from a so called better half!!

Little wonder the north is filled with the least educated and impoverished sets of women and children . The south is too smart for that boo

Sandra8:


The post had some positive impact on you, that's something to cheer about dear

ehn ehn, OK na, only if I know the positive impact it has on me,

anyway, u are doing a good job, Most feminist are kinda smart sha but i wish our dear feminist channel higher % of their thinking from equalising Men and hence channel much time /energy to know more about productivity maybe we ll have plenty female inventors in this new generation,

Productivity is what Men looks for most time , more reason we get more richer ,while a feminist will keep encountering the Man natural ego anywhere she goes and will always want to prove her point as a feminist in every situations, hence deprived from cool thinking, hence less productivity.

No wonder we have few women in the world of invention, since our smart women av been given something else to worry about.

danilmo:


ehn ehn, OK na, only if I know the positive impact it has on me,

anyway, u are doing a good job, Most feminist are kinda smart sha but i wish our dear feminist channel higher % of their thinking from equalising Men and hence channel much time /energy to know more about productivity maybe we ll have plenty female inventors in this new generation,

Productivity is what Men looks for most time , more reason we get more richer ,while a feminist will keep encountering the Man natural ego anywhere she goes and will always want to prove her point as a feminist in every situations, hence deprived from cool thinking, hence less productivity.

No wonder we have few women in the world of invention, since our smart women av been given something else to worry about.

Women are the same as men, with or without an invention. The only difference is in our secondary characteristics, that is our reproductive organs dear