Sandra8:


I'm a BAD girl dear. Good doesn't work for me

Smiles!

eni4real:
Smiles!

Love you

ubunja:
what's your problem?? Do you think Sandra is Ubunja? You guys are a big disappointment

Don't denied it boss, your storylines and write up always has a pattern, it has a direction which is no different from the said Sandra's write up

Sandra8:
Love you

You and this love?? If I provoke you small now, you will bite me.. How is that love??
Your style is funny
"Good one dear"

eni4real:
You and this love?? If I provoke you small now, you will bite me.. How is that love??
Your style is funny
"Good one dear"

Thanks dear. And remember I still love you

Sandra8:

Thanks dear. And remember I still love you

Awwn

To me all these feminists are just like BokoHaram, I dont just understand their cause.

Boyooosa:
To me all these feminists are just like BokoHaram, I dont just understand their cause.

Just understand your purpose as a man dear

Sandra8:
After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to swallow, they must certainly still swallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

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Firstly, only a self imposed retard will interpret being told the natural potential consequence of her attitude as bullying to the extend of invoking UN.
Secondly, the next generation of ladies will likely learn to flee from your toxic irresponsible feminism once they observe the consequence on you and your kind.
Thirdly, it is men without money who are likely going to be lonely even in marriage than single men who have enough dough and know where to seek for companionship.

Lastly wailing on men to go hustle while the ladies focus on making budgets on the result of the man's hustle simple tells how selfishly greedy and out of touch with conscience you are and deserves to be treated as a the bitch you are.

So my friend you have it all convulated.

princfred:

Firstly, only a self imposed retard will interpret being told the natural potential consequence of her attitude as bullying to the extend of invoking UN.
Secondly, the next generation of ladies will likely learn to flee from your toxic irresponsible feminism once they observe the consequence on you and your kind.
Thirdly, it is men without money who likely going to be lonely even in marriage than single men who have enough dough and know where to buy companionship.
So my friend you have it all convulated.

Time is a good teacher dear, worry not you will catch up with time love

Sandra8:


Time is a good teacher dear, worry not you will catch up with time love

An advice fit for your shallow convulated brain.

princfred:
An advice fit for your shallow convulated brain.

Your brain hurts, I know baby. Take pills of pain killers with some red pills, you be just fine booboo

SNizar:



Nailed it!! Feminists are bitter, sad, unhappy, potentially violent, and sharp tongued individuals. And yes, no matter what you girls do, we'd always fing a way to come out on top.

I concur.

Sandra8:

We still love you dear

I love you too baby

Sandra8:


Just understand your purpose as a man dear

Tell me more about feminism since u r a Promoter...
willing to learn.

Boyooosa:

Tell me more about feminism since u r a Promoter...
willing to learn.

Know more about yourself dear

Sandra8:

Know more about yourself dear

Boring.

Boyooosa:

Boring.

Love you dear

Sandra8:

Love you dear

you really doing great.. nice one dear

Starboytwo:
you really doing great.. nice one dear

Sandra8:


Thank you MNDY for this.

I avoid Feminists like plague because they are progressively senseless.

For guys who fall into their hands, the only remedy like someone already opined here is to bring another woman into the picture.

She the Feminist will be forced to compete with her own fellow woman and therefore stop trying to equate herself with a man.

MNDY:


I avoid Feminists like plague because they are progressively senseless.

For guys who fall into their hands, the only remedy like someone already opined here is to bring another woman into the picture.

She the Feminist will be forced to compete with her own fellow woman and therefore stop trying to equate herself with a man.

Extreme masculinity or feminism are both senseless dear, we all as humans must learn how to accommodate one another to live in peace and harmony.
I may not like transgenders but they are humans too, so I do my best to accommodate them without any ill intentions towards them.

Sandra8:


Extreme masculinity or feminism are both senseless dear, we all as humans must learn how to accommodate one another to live in peace and harmony.
I may not like transgenders but they are humans too, so I do my best to accommodate them without any ill intentions towards them.

Submission is what Feminists now see as slavery and are fighting against which has given rise to what you called extreme masculinity. Let me ask you a simple question: Were things like this before? Or did God make it so?

MNDY:


Submission is what Feminists now see as slavery and are fighting against which has given rise to what you called extreme masculinity. Let me ask you a simple question: Were things like this before? Or did God make it so?

Women have always been oppressed from time immemorial in the hands of men. You treat us like second class citizens, like animals beneath you. If you care for complete submission, you can find that in a pet like a dog. Treat us as you would treat yourself with love and respect and you will get not only that in return but submission, but never expect it without first earning it dear

Sandra8:


Women have always been oppressed from time immemorial in the hands of men. You treat us like second class citizens, like animals beneath you. If you care for complete submission, you can find that in a pet like a dog. Treat us as you would treat yourself with love and respect and you will get not only that in return but submission, but never expect it without first earning it dear

There are relationships where the man shows the woman love and she still flexes her Feminist muscles instead of submitting like how the Bible commands: "men, love your women and women submit to your men."

MNDY:


There are relationships where the man shows the woman love and she still flexes her Feminist muscles instead of submitting like how the Bible commands: "men, love your women and women submit to your men."

And you also know their also many examples of the opposite (extreme masculinity), with the man being an abuser ( physical and emotional) plus a cheat. So feminism isnt the problem here dear

Sandra8:

And you also know their also many examples of the opposite (extreme masculinity), with the man being an abuser ( physical and emotional) plus a cheat. So feminism isnt the problem here dear

The Extreme Masculinity you are talking about is for stubborn and Feminist women, to put them in check. A man can accept challenge and competition from his fellow man, not from a woman - it's annoying. Men and women are not the same in any way.

Feminism is rebellion against God's natural order just like the Biblical fruit eaten in disobedience to God's instruction with consequence.

MNDY:


The Extreme Masculinity you are talking about is for stubborn and Feminist women, to put them in check. A man can accept challenge and competition from his fellow man, not from a woman - it's annoying. Men and women are not the same in any way.

Feminism is rebellion against God's natural order just like the Biblical fruit eaten in disobedience to God's instruction with consequence.

Dear when you are confident in your quality as a man and you keep improving on yourself, trust me whether a lady is a feminist or not won't harm or affect you in any way, cause every woman will want to be with someone like you

Sandra8:


Dear when you are confident in your quality as a man and you keep improving on yourself, trust me whether a lady is a feminist or not won't harm or affect you in any way, cause every woman will want to be with someone like you

No. On the contrary, a man who has it all can still not be comfortable with Feminism. He cannot bear the toxic attributes of Feminism because it affects his feelings and emotions even if it cannot affect his ego.

MNDY:


No. On the contrary, a man who has it all can still not be comfortable with Feminism. He cannot bear the toxic attributes of Feminism because it affects his feelings and emotions even if it cannot affect his ego.

That can't be true. Through out the ages, women have evolved, check the evolution of women in society from the 1800's till now and see the wide evolution that has occurred. But Men have still been happy, having successful marriage with women and this is because we all have the capacity to ADAPT or otherwise known as ADAPTATION. You just have to adapt to the times and all will be back to normal dear

Sandra8:


That can't be true. Through out the ages, women have evolved, check the evolution of women in society from the 1800's till now and see the wide evolution that has occurred. But Men have still been happy, having successful marriage with women and this is because we all have the capacity to ADAPT or otherwise known as ADAPTATION. You just have to adapt to the times and all will be back to normal dear

You want us to compare divorce back then with now? I bet you already know the outcome of such comparison. Adapt with which times when men are already switching to Baby Mama to avoid the drama that emanates from cohabiting with a feminist and all her drama. Good luck in your search for a man who can tolerate feminism if you are not married yet. Let me know if you find one because I know they are very very scarce, I don't know any.

MNDY:


You want us to compare divorce back then with now? I bet you already know the outcome of such comparison. Adapt with which times when men are already switching to Baby Mama to avoid the drama that emanates from cohabiting with a feminist and all her drama. Good luck in your search for a man who can tolerate feminism if you are not married yet. Let me know if you find one because I know they are very very scarce, I don't know any.

Thanks for wishing me well at least, that's true sportsmanship! By the way hope you know the domestic violence then against women was more compared to now, as there were less Human Rights to protect women? And this was in ages when feminism has not even come into the picture dear