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| I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by 2blockus: 9:44pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth. I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money. fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife. At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self. this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause. please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself. note i still watch porn but not much shaaa. 63 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by LOMBARDY(m): 9:45pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
The question should be..Why did your wife refuse you sex?? I mean for that long 395 Likes 19 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by kolafolabi(m): 9:46pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
You need to stop watching porn.. At least let's start from there 354 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by donstan18: 9:47pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
You just have to accept the fact that marriage can't stop masturbation. 524 Likes 28 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by 2blockus: 9:49pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
honestly at times bro there head de touch....she don't see it as a big deal, I guess.. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by GuyWise(m): 9:50pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness. You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it) I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate. Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act" 176 Likes 14 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Cutehector(m): 9:50pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
There is no solution to your problem 16 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Mutemenot(m): 9:50pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Your wife is your helper here . She should be able to satisfy you anytime anyday you have urge. Gradually you will keep away... if you are a Christian, reading your bible and hearing God's word 'll also help you... You can even look for a good preacher online who's audio tape you can listen to often 80 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by 2blockus: 9:51pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
kolafolabi: at times I don't need to watch porn but I'll just have the imagination and start doing the thing. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by HarunaWest(m): 9:54pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
2blockus: Kwantinue don't feel bad joor... don't sha cheat on your wife..Many married men masturbate 94 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by TwoBottles: 9:54pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Masturbate away your pain bro, your wife doesn't deserve you. You are special. It will be better for you to bore a hole on the wall and slot your d1ck into it whenever you feel like it than make love to her. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by dalongjnr: 9:55pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator. Be open minded about it. 2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you. 3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue. 4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place. 5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing. 44 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by blackpanthar: 9:56pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
2blockus: The major problem is NOT porn... though PORN is an addiction you have to stop THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS LACK OF TRANSPARENCY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE You seem to have married a sexual misfit... guys who have ever been victims of masturbation are meant to marry women with very HIGH LIBIDO so that they can be distracted from the act... She was supposed to always look for new ways to seduce you and try new things in BED... she is supposed to be kinky and open to sex any day and any time... I am NOT saying you married wrong... am saying you didnt tell her about your addictions and your HIGH sexual drive. You both need to see a counselor and a sex therapist. If this is not checked early, you wont desire your wife sexually anymore... and that is where CHEATING STARTS... your wife cheated on you by refusing you sex... MARRIAGE MEANS, HER BODY IS YOURS... and your BODY is hers... lemme stop here 109 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by MrCuteking(m): 10:00pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
My advice for you is exactly what worked for me. You will cancel the old addiction with a new addiction. The new addiction is the inability to masturbate. Using this quote "I can't masturbate" as a new lifestyle And if the thought comes, remind it that you've heard but not today, instead let it be next year. Another thing is to remember that sex and masturbation are overrated. We were so engrossed with it because then we were kids. Apostle Paul said "When I was a child, I thought like a child but now that I am old I put away with my childish behaviour" Not clearly quoted but if you view it from my angle, those who masturbate are in the class of those who think like kids but now that you have grown up to be wise that you need to stop, you have to start putting away the childish behaviour including every other things you did that can spring up the thought. Never listen to the useless sound that says "Do it this last time" Let it suffer as well as it can't be compared to the pain it has caused you for years. That private part has suffered you enough, now is the time for you to make it suffer too. When that deceptive sweet sensation comes, let it suffer, soon it will go. Do this from time to time before you know it you would be relieved and free from it. Don't forget, DON'T FIGHT IT, JUST BE ADDICTED TO A NEW LIFE WITHOUT MASTURBATION Remember you once learnt it, you can as well unlearn it with this new lifestyle. I wish you well as you digest my comment. 298 Likes 21 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by PabloAndreas(m): 10:01pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
"Whoever is hitting ain't hitting her right cause she act like she need dick in her life"... up ur game bruv and she ain't never gon turn u down no more...huh? How's that 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Austineperez(m): 10:15pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
If your wife is giving you sex anytime you want it you won’t masturbate except you are not mentally okay  79 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Godtschild: 10:20pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
lol why can’t she if she isn’t in the mood? Couples aren’t in sync all the time. Are you married? LOMBARDY: 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Godtschild: 10:24pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Why do Nigerians always expect the wife to give it to the husband anytime he wants it  !!! What about her? Does he give the wife anytime she wants it? Anytime my partner is not in the mood, I get MouthAction. Nobody should be forced to have sex if they are not feeling it. Marriage should be sweet not endured. Austineperez: 82 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Godtschild: 10:34pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Op, there is nothing wrong in masturbating or watching porn. It depends on how you use the above. I am married, and in marriage it’s not all the time couples are in sync to have sex. I would never force or make my partner feel bad she is not ready to have sex when I am, that’s selfishness. When only one one of us is in the mood, the other helps by MouthAction or aid in masturbation. Sometimes we watch soft porn together to get both of us in the mood. If you have much higher libido than she does, then you don’t have to masturbate alone, she can help you jerk off. 148 Likes 16 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by chucks185: 10:36pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
advise yourself 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Okoroawusa: 10:37pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
You started late sef...me I started 12 n still do masturbate... It's no big deal 20 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Okoroawusa: 10:39pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
dalongjnr:You think the pastor is not masturbating? Think again 155 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by dalongjnr: 10:50pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Okoroawusa:Lol,ordinary pastor is just a man but the ones ordained by God are,men of God. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by chigoziri2403(m): 10:55pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
You have already made up your mind to continue the act When you are ready to stop, you will stop. 10 Likes |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by seanwilliam(m): 10:59pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
well 80% of guys ive come across said they masturbate. stop it if it is affecting ur sexual life. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by comradewanle(m): 11:05pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
dalongjnr: I agree with ur first point abt discussing it with his wife and the fourth but others forget bro 6 Likes |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by dalongjnr: 11:12pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
comradewanle:Yea, so u mean he doesn't need a psychotherapist to work on his mindset? Wow! The reason why I brought the issue of pastor and village people is because of most Africans' mindset of linking simple life challenges to religion and diabolic means. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 11:12pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
I started when I was 13. I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation. Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication? Is not the same semem u release? Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer? People are seriously crazy. Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts. Masturbation is a blessing. Fornication was condemned by God. Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing. People sha are weird 103 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by wiseone28: 11:13pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Get a second wife, if you still Masturbate after the second one, get another one till your libido reduce 51 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by comradewanle(m): 11:29pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
wiseone28: 142 Likes 7 Shares
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| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Amarabae(f): 11:35pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Untamed premarital sexual habits. Go to mountain of fire for deliverance 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Xirmuhel(m): 11:38pm On Oct 09, 2019 |
Please when someone masturbate Is it counted as a sin? 6 Likes 1 Share |
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