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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 11:57pm On Oct 10, 2019
Does she complain about the act?
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by joe120120(m): 11:59pm On Oct 10, 2019
2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.


.u hv 2 go to church bcose water spirit is involved
u may not believe me .I was also involved when I left secondly school in 80s but at last church ,prayers and fasting solve the whole issue .2day I can't get my mind or even remember that such thing exist .
go to a living church

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by spiritedtete: 11:59pm On Oct 10, 2019
justbusy:
What are the characteristics of a woman with high libido? I need one, too!


A woman with High libido doesn't mind another round immediately after the last... they feel almost all the time the tingly spark... just like a guy having a boner...


They don't ever get tired... they also get wet easily and even when they cum.. they want you to continue... last last you will be feeling like you are being raped.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 12:01am On Oct 11, 2019
spiritedtete:



A woman with High libido doesn't mind another round immediately after the last... they feel almost all the time the tingly spark... just like a guy having a boner...


They don't ever get tired... they also get wet easily and even when they cum.. they want you to continue... last last you will be feeling like you are being raped.
what tribe can we find them?
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by owoshuyi(m): 12:02am On Oct 11, 2019
First off... Masturbating is a sin.

It is demonic and it is only by being delivered by JESUS you will be able to stop. Give your life to Jesus Christ and you will be saved.

Pray and fast, it will help you also.

And please STOP WATCHING PORN completely, and avoid any magazine, tv shows, etc that show and talk about sex and nudity.

For to be carnally minded is DEATH, but to be spritually minded is LIFE AND PEACE. ROMANS 8: 6

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by na2016: 12:03am On Oct 11, 2019
dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

Very useless advice. Meet 2-3 and 5 that will start telling people and using it against the man later?
The one person that can help this man is the wife but unfortunately, some of our women now are senseless.
They don't understand the word helper. How can someone starve the husband of sex which I am sure will be out of a very flimsy excuse? What if this man had gone to brothel to help himself and probably catch a virus? Is it not this same woman that will suffer?
I wish women of nowadays will know that building their homes will help them in the long run.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by ayomidepaul(m): 12:05am On Oct 11, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"


This guy na evil spirit��

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by DaddyMorenike: 12:07am On Oct 11, 2019
kolafolabi:
You need to stop watching porn.. At least lets start from there
na una two dey Masturbate?
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by ayomidepaul(m): 12:07am On Oct 11, 2019
TwoBottles:
Masturbate away your pain bro, your wife doesn't deserve you. You are special. It will be better for you to bore a hole on the wall and slot your d1ck into it whenever you feel like it than make love to her.



����� this is not fair

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by gozzlin: 12:09am On Oct 11, 2019
Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

Going by your post, you're around thirty nine years old and yet you're still single and jerking off? Guy help yourself Na.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Xtardom(m): 12:10am On Oct 11, 2019
I'm short of words���

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by spiritedtete: 12:11am On Oct 11, 2019
justbusy:
what tribe can we find them?

Are you whining me ni? Ehehehehehe. Okay it is not by tribe o. It is an individual thing.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by dalongjnr: 12:12am On Oct 11, 2019
na2016:


Very useless advice. Meet 2-3 and 5 that will start telling people and using it against the man later?
The one person that can help this man is the wife but unfortunately, some of our women now are senseless.
They don't understand the word helper. How can someone starve the husband of sex which I am sure will be out of a very flimsy excuse? What if this man had gone to brothel to help himself and probably catch a virus? Is it not this same woman that will suffer?
I wish women of nowadays will know that building their homes will help them in the long run.
Hehehe, na so u see am? Maybe the woman is not attracted to him sexually.
But the guy need help,physical, psychological, spiritual, and otherwise.
For this guy to come out, it shows that he's tired of his predicament.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 12:12am On Oct 11, 2019
Cutehector:
There is no solution to your problem

All I can say is..

Your marriage is fake..

It' started when u centered your mind to marry in order to stop it..

You ddnt allow God to take control of your marriage, u just marry to stop wack.

Take her a man of God to pray for u guys and let the holy spirit replace the bad spirit of masturbation..
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by ayomidepaul(m): 12:14am On Oct 11, 2019
Austineperez:
If your wife is giving you sex anytime you want it you won’t masturbate except you are not mentally okay grin grin grin


Nairaland need to start allowing us to upload our pics so we can see u guys face
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 12:14am On Oct 11, 2019
spiritedtete:


Are you whining me ni? Ehehehehehe. Okay it is not by tribe o. It is an individual thing.
OK!
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Icon79(m): 12:15am On Oct 11, 2019
Masturbation is a bondage and dangerously addictive. Will power alone cannot help you overcome it. That's impossible plus cannot. Do yourself a favor and get a copy of this book , It would tell you what to do: .... how to break the chain/bondage of homosexuality and other forms of sex perversion.

https://www.amazon.com/Homosexuality-Explaining-Zeitgeist-Emmanuel-Ekwo/dp/1452047618/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=homosexuality+explaining+the+zeitgeist&qid=1570749032&sr=8-1


O pari


2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Badlimo(m): 12:15am On Oct 11, 2019
Bonatheripper:

Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively
lol..Mr Fornicator tha masturbator grin grin

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 12:16am On Oct 11, 2019
Okoroawusa:
You started late sef...me I started 12 n still do masturbate...


It's no big deal


See your name na... Okorohausa..

Rochas still de masturbate? Lol

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by wofayouths(m): 12:17am On Oct 11, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.

Hey... You need Gods help ASAP


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 12:18am On Oct 11, 2019
chigoziri2403:
You have already made up your mind to continue the act
When you are ready to stop, you will stop.

U no even see his username 1st of all,

Una de here de wast time for advice..

Brocus and brodick.


Cornelius and Dickson
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by ayomidepaul(m): 12:22am On Oct 11, 2019
[quote author=wiseone28 post=82995996][b] Get a second wife, if you still Masturbate after the second one, get another one till your libido reduce


Atleast 10 wives should reduce is libido��by then you will have sense by force

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by na2016: 12:27am On Oct 11, 2019
dalongjnr:

Hehehe, na so u see am? Maybe the woman is not attracted to him sexually.
But the guy need help,physical, psychological, spiritual, and otherwise.
For this guy to come out, it shows that he's tired of his predicament.

Yes he needs help. But truth is, a great part of his help is with the wife. That help will never come from people who will use it against him in future.
Must everything be spiritual in Nigeria? I repeat, how can a woman deny his married husband sex?

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by nasire(m): 12:28am On Oct 11, 2019
Please, you've to deal with that foul spirit in your members called masturbation is a manipulating spirit. Am so sorry dear that you're married will not cure your urge for masturbate. God created sex for enjoyment for the man & woman to bind them together not for lustful gratification. Because of your urge & lustfulness you will not end up satisfying her, she isn't a toy or machine she has an emotion & needs satisfaction too. She will resist you somehow someday because of that without fight. You've to a change of heart & meet your wife, tell her about your short comings & attend a bible believing church

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 12:32am On Oct 11, 2019
You're married and you're hiding to masturbate, what is wrong with you? Listen, you need to orientate your mindset about masturbation. It's not something you should be ashamed of or hide doing. I and girl masturbate while watching each other and sometimes she could be masturbating and I'll kiss and suck her off till she cums and she returns the favor when I'm masturbating I can ask for her help or just do it alone next her while she's watching a movie. You're married and you're doing hide and seek with your wife in your house just imagine. Marriage can't stop you from masturbating, it's not everytime you should be pounding something, if she's not in the mood for sex she should be ready to help you jerk off!

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Jubilancy(f): 12:34am On Oct 11, 2019
This is what happens when u have all this on ur phone

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by longevity1(m): 12:35am On Oct 11, 2019
Friend,you need to know that this is a spirit.You need to overcome it.Firstly, you need to agree within yourself to stop it.
Your wife has to play a great role here.
Both of you need to be counselled individually and together.
You guys also need to pray together.
I could offer you counselling, if you wish.
God will help you.
Pastor Tony
08022221860
Thanks
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by nasbiafra(m): 12:37am On Oct 11, 2019
this masturbation of a thing self. am ashame too o bkus its like am a victim i do have sex occasionally bt stil masturbatei from my experience i think a strong spirit is attached to it and deliverance is the best option tired of it bt cnt seem to stop LORD SAVE US ALL gp
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by clarkmos15(m): 12:41am On Oct 11, 2019
Okoroawusa:
You started late sef...me I started 12 n still do masturbate...


It's no big deal
We started d same age bro
i'm 19 now

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by notoriousbabe: 12:43am On Oct 11, 2019
LOMBARDY:
The question should be..Why did your wife refuse you sex?? I mean for that long
I'm suspecting their landlord

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by babajay109(m): 12:47am On Oct 11, 2019
GuyWise:






I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"
you said all
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by KAHNUL(m): 12:49am On Oct 11, 2019
dalongjnr:

Lol,ordinary pastor is just a man but the ones ordained by God are,men of God.
Don't die in your folly....step away

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