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Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:09am On Oct 16, 2019 |
bukatyne:he doesn't give me .upkeep,I ask him for upkeep he said his salary is not fixed it fluctuate .but I told him your being paid...at this point he says nothing...he gives me money for cooking...we dont stock food stuff he gives me money to buy food stuff as it finishes from time to time..and I give him breakdowns of what I bought because he is a kitchen person and was the cook for his mum for years before he married...so he is very familiar with kitchen stuffs...I dont collect a dine from there.. |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:12am On Oct 16, 2019 |
crackhaus:I have had conversations with him...which result has been null,hence am here |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:16am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Jmk9292:could there be offshore concubine...he told me women dont come offshore..that the talk of prostitutes or ladies coming offshore are all fairytales..... |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:21am On Oct 16, 2019 |
sisisioge:In my mother in laws voice and I quote..."you are just a peasant lady,from a wretched home that wants to suck all her sons money and send to my wretched people in the village...so I ask,is it my husband's family I will call to the family meeting or my own people...?? |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:23am On Oct 16, 2019 |
baby124:thanks for the advise..I will put it to use 1 Like |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:26am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Redberyl:I have discussed with him...the part of him giving the the money is the problem part |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Owiii(m): 12:26am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Madam, most offshore workers have concubine in town. Once they are in town, they invite their concubine to the hotel, stay for some days before going to meet their family. Your mother in law have a hand in what you are suffering because it's like your hubby is a mummys boy. I believe he seeks almost all advice from his mum and that will definitely affect your home. 8 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:28am On Oct 16, 2019 |
baby124:my church dont have women group,I attend salvation ministries |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by baby124: 12:30am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Better join a church that does to help yourself. The church you currently attend cannot even sponsor your exam, so of what use are they? Relationship with church should be both ways cause they will not hesitate to collect tithe from your 12k 2 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by baby124: 12:33am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Really? Your mother in law said this to you... interesting. 4 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:38am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Femsyn:thank you for the reminder..I needed to hear this.. |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:40am On Oct 16, 2019 |
baby124:she doesn't like me....no matter how I try am never good enough...am emotional right now..but my life for you...and Yes,with every opportunity she has,she never make me forget. |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by baby124: 12:43am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Your husband knows this? Well this is your opportunity to make her eat her words. You need to have a very tough conversation with your husband. If anything happens to him and you are not stable, his beloved daughter may be the one to suffer. No one can love her like her father and mother. He needs to stand and do the best he can for his family. 1 Like |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:47am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Owiii:yeaaaaa,I think am beginning to see a clearer picture.... |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:50am On Oct 16, 2019 |
baby124:thanks for this advise |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 12:52am On Oct 16, 2019 |
baby124:I have had tons of this conversation which its result was negative..that's why am here |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Kaycee54321(m): 12:57am On Oct 16, 2019 |
This is what happens when a woman marries a man because he is 'ready' or financially stable instead of for Love... If the man Loves you, he wouldn't be treating you like this but our Ladies won't hear...anyways, what do I know? As others have said, in your career, you really need to get those certifications if you want to get a good job. Prayers are good but if you don't make moves, you won't get any results. 4 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:00am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Your hubby may be investing in software.(side chicks) Watch out. Your mother in law obviously wants him to kick you out. This your situation needs urgent prayers oooo |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 1:04am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Kaycee54321:I married him because I love him...still with that love in my heart I pour out my heart here....when he was working with his company his first pay was 60k,we were dating then and when we got married in space of 4 years ,he has been upgraded,..to the present pay he has..so I never married him for money that's y I am comfused... 3 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 1:05am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Olufemiolaolu:please what is software |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:08am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Im wondering what he is investing his money on really? It's a pity he doesn't have people to talk sense into him. Liberate your self financially through prayers. 1 Like |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:08am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:side chick |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by baby124: 1:10am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Don’t worry about mother or side chick for now. Focus on getting yourself out of the situation. You might want to make your husband use a condom If you don’t trust him though. 2 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:12am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:serious deliverance case |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 1:14am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Olufemiolaolu:why will she want me to be kicked out with nothing,have I not been through enough,I love fiercly,am dedicated wholly, I put in my best in everything I do..I practice to see the good in people even when am hated by them,I live a God fearing good life,I have never cheated on my husband both in relationships until marriage,I am very supportive,am very beautiful,I had to go on low cut because the cost of maintaining hair is beyond my reach to afford..I dont know where av gone wrong....why can't I get a good job to be useful to myself and my family who look up to me.....my life 1 Like |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:15am On Oct 16, 2019 |
roseboma:what are our men of nowadays turning into 2 Likes |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 1:18am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Olufemiolaolu:I have been praying,and still praying |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:19am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:some unseen forces are behind it I guess. You don't have to be bad for people to hate you OK. If you aren't careful he may do worse than this. Prayer is what you need now. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Ladyboobae: 1:27am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Olufemiolaolu:tnk you,I will keep praying |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by Olufemiolaolu(m): 1:39am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Ladyboobae:Urw |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by dinodesmond(m): 2:11am On Oct 16, 2019 |
This your story heavy o. I think you have offended ya husband or he didn't like you good when he wanted to wife u. Given the fact that he was upgraded after he got married to u shows you deserve better. If he could part 160k for the education of ya four years old daughter and claims he has no money then he is not being sincere here and somehow he doesn't care. And I'm sure he feels justified somehow which I can say has no candour. This case is like our government feeding fat on our common wealth and saying there is no money and gullible Nigerians will believe it. Its very possible you and your husband are not connected practically in the real of it. Probably a good sex will do and in the heat of it, you ask him some of those things you mentioned here and if he however reacts somehow to ya questions even in his weakest point then this problem has left the physical realm. We should be able to identify physical problems and differentiate them from spiritual problems. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: An Unhappy Nigerian Married Woman by baby124: 2:30am On Oct 16, 2019 |
I just looked at the ICAN fee schedule and it looks like the whole thing for all the exams is 208,750 Naira or am I seeing double or not reading correctly. Madam I salute your patience and love o for this amount of money, considering what your husband earns. Because local woman can never can biko . Chai! Abeg let me run away from this thread before I start teaching unarmed robbery . Is this not the ICAN fee schedule? Correct me if I am wrong please:
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