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Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Ishilove: 5:48pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
naptu2:And you just had to quote everything?? 14 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
naptu2:Enugu |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 5:50pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:nobody is asking to hear his side of the story. Maybe she's a nag. Maybe she opened legs for another man. It could be that her tongue is acid and the man reacted. These women can make a kitten become a tiger with their mouths. Who knows if she hit him first. She set him up. Where are the men with these questions? Waiting for them. |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by naptu2: 5:50pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: Please click on this link below and contact them if you are in Lagos. Don't leave it alone, done leave it up to yourself and don't leave it up to the police. This is a very difficult case and these people have got experienced professionals that know how to tackle it. Please contact them now. https://www.dsvrtlagos.org 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by naptu2: 5:50pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Ishilove: Go back and look at the post. That was a placeholder while I modified the post. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Pavore9: 5:51pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
mysticgal: Has that school become that notorious at night? Used to live at Ifite Ukpo street. |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 5:52pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
ednut1:the battered woman is confused from the battering. She is in love. It's her dear hubby. She must cover him. She's building and holding her family. Marriage has eroded the brains of some foolish women. She will pray it back to normal. |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:Regardless, there are other approach to such issues than hitting your wife. 7 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Ishilove: 5:54pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
naptu2:Hokay |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Kendumazy(m): 5:54pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Ishilove: For the pictorial pictures, she can say she was even the one at fault and her husband is right for beating her. They will just make you a fool. You can't predict a woman who is hell bent in staying in her marriage come what may. That's what am telling you. She is not ready to be helped and as such, you can be termed a home breaker or even be mocked by the husband and wife when they temporarily settle their issues. You never live for face me, i face you house before. Na face me, I face you house experience am telling you. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 5:55pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Kendumazy:you are so correct. Saw such a case. Woman became aggressive at the people who intervened 8 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 5:57pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:evidently not. And the women don't help matters. How desperate can they be to the point where they will gladly lose their lives? Woman in the story will be killed by the man with a smile on her face and a song in her heart. She will float up to the skies and tell how she was a good wife. And he will marry that new girl she was killed for. |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Ishilove:Thanks Ishi. That's my problem. When I called the fool on phone you need to hear the anger in his voice as he threatened to kill her. Thank God my phone auto records calls. That man is so violent that he can snap a wall in two. I feel bad my son had to witness the beating. I'll just keep him preoccupied with things that make him happy so he can forget this awful ordeal. What her own kids are going through is beyond me. Trying times mehn. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by ednut1(m): 6:00pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:there is no justifications for his actions. But her wanting to go back shows how silly she is 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Ishilove: 6:02pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek:If she foolishly insists on going back then please keep your son away from that household. It's bad for his tender mind. 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Dominique is viewing. Mama please get them to take this to FP. Even if I don't get the advice I need, women really need to follow this thread. Someone could beat you to the brink of death!!! You could land in the hospital!!! I lifted a woman with a broken face into my car, her kids crying, my son speechless. My husband does not seem like he wants to let this go. He's an activist lol. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Ishilove: 6:06pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA:That's what happens in a society that pressures women into marrying the wrong people, that makes young girls feel incomplete without the MRS title, and stigmatises divorced women. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 6:12pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Ishilove:saddening. And it's bad enough that women are being educated on such matters but still hold on to it desperately. Methinks woman in the story should be allowed to get what she's asking for. How can she be so obsessed with marriage that she can't think of saving even her life if nothing else? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 6:13pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
ednut1:with her silly behavior she will be part of the statistics unless she wakes up. This isn't even about being a woman, but about common sense 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 6:16pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek:her kids are already damaged. But the good news is that one of two things will happen, 1. They will see the beastly nature of their father and swear never to be like him or in their mothers position, or 2. It will be so normal to them that they will suffer as their mother or become woman batterers like their father 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by dominique(f): 6:30pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Sadly, there's only so much you can do for a woman in an abusive marriage that doesn't want to leave. There's nothing you can do to convince her to flee from danger, but for the sake of her kids don't give up on her. From your narrative, it's easy to conclude that she's from a poor family and doesn't have a steady means of income. Her family will prefer she remains in the marriage as they might not be able to cope with feeding her and her kids. She is not working, so how will she cope with fending for two kids on her own? That's probably what's still keeping her in the marriage, that and the stigma that is attached to divorced women. I wouldn't drop the police case if I were you, let it be on their records that Mr Xyz has an history of physical assault and battery. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by UjuJoan2: 6:33pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: This is a tough situation. If it were me, I will report to her family (just to clear my conscience), then withdraw the case, and leave her to get fate Truth is there is nothing much you can do. But don't abandon her completely, keep talking to her from time to time. Keep checking in on her and her kids. Let her know you are there for her. And pray for her . . . 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by yeyeosoronga: 6:33pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: You did the right thing, by reporting to the police. You found someone unconscious, almost murdered by an assailant. You took her to the hospital, and if she had passed on from there, the police will be on your neck questioning why you were in her home in the first place. They could say you and your husband killed her for whatever reason, so reporting to the police was the right thing to do. Sadly, you can't force her to receive help. Because you reported a crime doesnt make the case automatically you versus the criminal. You weren't the victim. The police might have a case of assault against the devil husband, but even they have no case if the victim denies she was beaten, and she still goes back to her assailant. Everybody's hands are tied. If you really want to help her, find out if she has other friends that can talk some sense into her. Are there people that can house her for sometime till she's able to find her feet? You can only keep talking to her not to go back, because he has promised to kill her. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 6:34pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
dominique:We have the death threat on record. So we should proceed with the case even when she's not interested? 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by yeyeosoronga: 6:37pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
BRATISLAVA: Its deeper than marriage. Her sense of self worth is all gone up in smoke. She needs a renewing of the mind before she can leave that man. 7 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
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Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by BRATISLAVA: 8:11pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:how can one lose themselves and become only a marriage or a wife? Has she no knowledge of her true self? Also wonder at those who have become so brutal that in order to live, they need to strip another bare. Human beings! 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by dominique(f): 8:25pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: Yes, at least file a case with the evidence on you though I don't think you will be able to press charges. It's up to the victim to do that. One thing about bullies is that they're cowards. Once you stand up firmly to them, they tend to retract. If he gets invited by the police and made to sign undertaking that he won't hurt his wife again, that could rattle him enough not to inflict injuries on her again. She needs to get something doing and start being less dependent on him though her safety is of topmost priority right now. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by AK481(m): 8:39pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek:Out of all the men she has tried to date ,this one is fuccking her well. A woman once told me that ,a man’s handsomeness,riches, tallness,intelligence,smartness,degree,funniness ,loveliness ,romantic ness is “just “ an added advantage over a man that can fucck well. So a woman will prefer a man that can fucck over her own life Funny creatures! 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
AK481:look at this one.. you just described the women in your life as the ones who are foolish and befitting of the title. Mumu that thinks life starts and end with their chewing stick penis. Kwasia! 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by crackhaus: 9:00pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
computergeek: computergeek:Honestly, I don't think you have heard the full story about what is really going on between that woman and her husband. In the meantime, you have done almost everything you can do at this point. The police told you to notify them once she's awake to give her statement but she is clearly not interested in giving any statement. Why not get in touch with the friend she asked you to get in touch with, this friend may know her family and can take it up from there (you can join too). Also start making other arrangements for your kid. 5 Likes |
Re: Wife Battery: Should We Drop Police Case, Though He’s Threatening To Kill Her? by Richy4(m): 9:00pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Please do not mind your business in this issue.. some times keeping quiet and minding one's business is making the world go cold.. that is why some people will see someone drowning instead of helping, they bring out their phones take pictures and walk away... then paste on social media.. The woman is ashamed and embarrassed with herself. She doesn't have any source of income, no job, probably her family has warned her against marrying the man but she went ahead.. that is probably why she wants to die trying. All she needs is a family member that will reassure her that it's OK if she leaves the marriage. She needs that strength. If she gets it nothing will make her remain on it.. please do one last favour. Find her people.. when you have done that, u have done your duties as a neighbour and a good citizen. Let her people handle the issue... by the way thank you and extend my regards to your husband for your kindness.. a lot of people would not have cared.. they will just be waiting to attend funeral... and start claiming @ the funeral how they have witnessed it.. when it was already late. 19 Likes 1 Share |
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