Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by msmon(m): 11:57am On Dec 13, 2019 |
She loves you and she won't say all that right to your face, try and see her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by pocohantas(f): 11:58am On Dec 13, 2019 |
ednut1: An abroad guy just returned lol No time o. Abroad guys do not insult us like homebased miscreants That said, I read through the messages and OP's babe seems to love him, she is just doubting if they can work. It happens. I wouldn't know their ages, but this isn't what a little talk can't fix. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by PotatoSalad(m): 11:58am On Dec 13, 2019 |
You don't know how blessed you are right now. Nobody to call first thing in the morning to ask how they slept, what they ate, how they are breathing.
Or hit them up in the evening to know how they are doing and they say "not fine". You ask why and they say "nothing" and you spend the rest of the night being Sherlock Holmes over their matter..
Enjoy the single life and face your hustle brother. 11 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Gallantrugged: 11:58am On Dec 13, 2019 |
No worries brother, manage in soapy zone before another replacement comes. It's well... |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Sanchez01: 12:00pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng: She isn't getting attention. It is obvious from your screenshots. You need to make money, agreed, but relationships are somewhat expensive. If you are not willing to give attention in a way, then don't enter into one. Plus, I felt you might have been spared if you poured out your heart to her rather than come on Nairaland to tell strangers your story. She has fears, no doubt and she is worried over certain issues and you are not just connecting! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by OgaBuhari: 12:00pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
kongolo: Lord knows I will never understand how these powerful creatures called men made themselves completely useless for their weaker female counterparts it's a mystery. it even affected me too. I'm a man of power and dignity, I command respect wherever I am and with the hustle that is hugely paying me off financially I still can't fathom how I knelt down and begged my ex and cried my eyes out an became so obsessed with her and worst of it was all she had nothing to offer through out the years we dated, I was the one spending out and emptying my pocket all in the name of the scam called love. Despite this she still left me and when she left me I was so heartbroken. NOW AFTER TAKING REDPILL THANKS TO UBUNJA AND MARTINEZ39 I REGAINED BACK MY DIGNITY. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by GeneralPula: 12:00pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
[s] vowsng: Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. [/s] |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by scopp(m): 12:01pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
realokopi: I swear man..... Haven't experienced a heart break before but to an extent I know how it feels. Stop contacting her..... If possible delete her number and place your whatsapp "last seen" on phone contacts only. Download alot of motivational quotes pictures from net(not the ones that talks about heartbreak, love or any emotional stuffs ooo). Download the one that talks about hustles, focus and enjoyment of life. Use them as your dp, change them once in 2-3 days. After a week if she didn't come back begging then she never loved you in the first place. Point to note, never put it in your mind that she will be back. Just face your hustle and keep your mind busy. |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by TheRedpillguy: 12:01pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Hehe wow another freeman, man you should be celebrating, all girls see in a man is a walking ATM and a sperm bank. Don't date girls and put your hrt to it. Fvck and when she wants to leave. She can go ahead and go. Girls are not yours its only your turn. Stop trying to be stingy, fvck and let some else fvck bro. We are all inline here and our dick is hard. WTF move. Anyways don't be hurt. She will get old soon in two yrs tops and you will get better as u make more money. You are the prize and she lost it 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Enemyofpeace: 12:01pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
The thing wey you chop since 2017 never do you?Abeg leaf the girl jo make she look for a brown new prick to chop from 2020 jare. I ate stingy people 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Chibossboi(m): 12:01pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Bro, use d anger convert it to money and blow big time I mean make better money. Don't b surprise,she might come back later saying u rape her when u don blow��� |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Enemyofpeace: 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy: Hehe wow another freeman, man you should be celebrating, all girls see in a man is a walking ATM and a sperm bank. Don't date girls and put your hrt to it. Fvck and when she wants to leave. She can go ahead and go. Girls are not yours its only your turn. Stop trying to be stingy, fvck and let some else fvck bro. We are all inline here and our dick is hard. WTF move. Anyways don't be hurt. She will get old soon in two yrs tops and you will get better as u make more money. You are the prize and she lost it don't mind him. Very stingy boy 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Nobody: 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
why did you called her Jesus Christ? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Nobody: 12:02pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Take heart!
Welcome 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 12:03pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng: Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. Never look for satisfaction outside of yourself, it is inside. No go bash your car because of any woman o, it won't bring her back. Be cheerful and never lose sight of your goals, after hitting them, all manner of women will come after you pants down. And need I mention that with a car of your own now which you are using for your own business, you not at all doing bad? Cheers man. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Expert17: 12:04pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:
THE RATIO IS ALWAYS 99.5:0.5
I'D LOVE TO ADVICE HIM TO TRY AGAIN, BUT THAT WON'T BE A GOOD. WHEN WE LOVE THINGS, WE USUALLY DON'T WANT TO EASILY THROW THEM AWAY. THE ONE THAT IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP HAS NO LOVE FOR THE OTHER PERSON, ONLY PITY, AND OTHER EMOTIONS.
IF YOU BEG THEM TO STAY ONCE, YOU'LL HAVE TO KEEP BEGGING CUS THEY'D KEEP THREATENING TO LEAVE. AND THEY'LL KEEP HURTING AND DISTRACTING YOU.
BEST THING IS TO LET THEM GO. YOU CAN'T WIN IF YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE FIGHTING FOR TWO. LET THEM GO FOR THAT GREENER GRASS THEY BELIEVE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE. WHATEVER RESULTS THEY GET OVER THERE SHOULD SERVE AS THEIR LESSONS OR BLESSINGS.
A HEART BREAK NEVER KILLS. YOU KNOW WHAT DOES? OVER THINKING. FRUSTRATION. STARVATION. OVER DRINKING. IDLENESS. INGESTION OF POISONOUS SUBSTANCES. AND OTHER THINGS WHICH CAN BE TRULY DETRIMENTAL TO HUMAN LIFE.
DRIVE YOUR BOLT CAR IN PEACE. HER ABSENCE WILL HELP YOU SAVE MONEY AND IF YOU PLAN WELL, IN A YEAR OR TWO YOU WILL HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO FIX UP YOUR SELF AND YOUR FAMILY, AND ALSO START UP A FAMILY IF YOU WANT.
IF THEY LOVE YOU, THEY'LL ALWAYS FIGHT BY YOUR SIDE TO KEEP THE LOVE ALIVE. THEY'LL ONLY LEAVE TOO EASILY WHEN THEIR FEELINGS ARE NOT FOR YOU. THANK U SO MUCH FOR DIS....................... i cn read dis all day 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by 12345baba(m): 12:04pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Thank God my brother |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by praz001(m): 12:04pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Op, Better days ahead. Keep up with ur hustling and stay strong.... |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by ednut1(m): 12:05pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
An abroad guy just returned lol 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by MDBoss(m): 12:05pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
"A struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship".. No. It should be " A struggling guy shouldn't be in a wrong relationship". Hustle very well and make more money, instead of being threatened. That's the nature of girls, even if they don't want your money, they would like you because of your money 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by TheRedpillguy: 12:06pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace: don't mind him. Very stingy boy
Lol am telling you and he is crying about it. He don know my brother. Kai men no go ever learn 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by 989900: 12:08pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng, you no get sense if those screenshots are accurate.
You are not yet matured enough to hold a woman.
She needed reassurance and fingering her brain to make her believe it would work, probably, because you were stressed and was in traffic, or just totally immature, you handled the situation totally fxcking wrong.
And you ran to Nairaland to ask toddlers like you for advice . . . you don't deserve her.
Unless, you were kinda of wanting a break too, you no get sense to handle a woman at all.
Where is that "you sure say this pikin get sense so" meme? 8 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by mumumugu(m): 12:08pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng: Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. she didn't mean it initially.... just wanted you to fight for her. when you said " alright " you sealed your faith. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by omomummy13: 12:08pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng: Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. Congrats Bro. She's just been initiated into Hoe-losho lifestyle so you gotta scraaaaaaaaaaam!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Enemyofpeace: 12:09pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy:
Lol am telling you and he is crying about it. He don know my brother. Kai men no go ever learn no be sey he even sabi do set with that him small prick. Na the thing wey make the girl run be dat. Him no sabi shift girl's belle 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by udemzyudex(m): 12:09pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
2dice01: Welcome to the Single life brahh
Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you
Women love Mystery
You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her
All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)
Enjoy your single life Delete her number/pics/contacts Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes
Chop the Head of your life this December
She will come back maybe nextyear
i hope you wont give any fùck
I agree with you. |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by praz001(m): 12:10pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:
THE RATIO IS ALWAYS 99.5:0.5
I'D LOVE TO ADVICE HIM TO TRY AGAIN, BUT THAT WON'T BE A GOOD. WHEN WE LOVE THINGS, WE USUALLY DON'T WANT TO EASILY THROW THEM AWAY. THE ONE THAT IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP HAS NO LOVE FOR THE OTHER PERSON, ONLY PITY, AND OTHER EMOTIONS.
IF YOU BEG THEM TO STAY ONCE, YOU'LL HAVE TO KEEP BEGGING CUS THEY'D KEEP THREATENING TO LEAVE. AND THEY'LL KEEP HURTING AND DISTRACTING YOU.
BEST THING IS TO LET THEM GO. YOU CAN'T WIN IF YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE FIGHTING FOR TWO. LET THEM GO FOR THAT GREENER GRASS THEY BELIEVE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE. WHATEVER RESULTS THEY GET OVER THERE SHOULD SERVE AS THEIR LESSONS OR BLESSINGS.
A HEART BREAK NEVER KILLS. YOU KNOW WHAT DOES? OVER THINKING. FRUSTRATION. STARVATION. OVER DRINKING. IDLENESS. INGESTION OF POISONOUS SUBSTANCES. AND OTHER THINGS WHICH CAN BE TRULY DETRIMENTAL TO HUMAN LIFE.
DRIVE YOUR BOLT CAR IN PEACE. [b][b]HER ABSENCE WILL HELP YOU SAVE MONEY [/b]AND IF YOU PLAN WELL, IN A YEAR OR TWO YOU WILL HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO FIX UP YOUR SELF AND YOUR FAMILY, AND ALSO START UP A FAMILY IF YOU WANT.
IF THEY LOVE YOU, THEY'LL ALWAYS FIGHT BY YOUR SIDE TO KEEP THE LOVE ALIVE. THEY'LL ONLY LEAVE TOO EASILY WHEN THEIR FEELINGS ARE NOT FOR YOU. The bolded says it all..... Then you will learn from your mistake with her and amend even though I hate this..... |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Nobody: 12:11pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
You are such a child. Your girl was tired, and emotionally down and all you could do was to trivialize her emotions? A normal person would pause and listen to her... But see the insensitive replies you gave her. Giving her just 10 minutes of your time would have solved all the problem. She definitely deserves a mature man. Every woman does. Some men shouldn't be in relationship, and it is not by having a degree either. vowsng: Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by fredoooooo: 12:11pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Make more money or money and get another one , no be by force... |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by OmalichaJesus(f): 12:11pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
You don't have enough time to talk with your babe but u are free enough to come here and complain �
First thing first, I don't think you are living within your means. A rent of 200k A younger brother to take care of An elder brother duty to take care of. A girlfriend who is so emotional and needs constant attention.
Oga seriously if you continue taking up more responsibilities while you have not really find your feet, e go hard u big time.
Your girlfriend is not wrong for craving attention. I think she likes you so much and if there's a "holdup" in communication between you guys, she starts getting worried plus having ideas and she rushes to breakup with you before you'll do the breaking up.
She likes you, you like her. Try make things work and please stop coming here to complain about ur relationship, except u don't want it to work. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Leon90(m): 12:12pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Jobless! |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by joyandfaith: 12:12pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng: Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. forget her prank, the girl loves you but you are not yet mature for dating or marriage. she raised money to help you start s transport business buy you became bankrupt because of your older sister weeding. so if it is your younger sister, you will sell your car to take of family interest. people who are hustling should spend money wisely. yes, you have responsibility to take of your younger sibling but you cannot be talking about your family problem in relationship as if other person does not have any problem. everybody gets problem but it is how it is being managed that matters. 5 Likes |