| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by luminouz(m): 12:12pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Another crybaby thread  2 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Enemyofpeace: 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .
Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .
 come make I break your own and shatter it into pieces 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by jaxxy(m): 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. From the chat it seems u broke up with her not not the other way around. She said Smtn hoping she was wrong and u in ur distressed mind or smtn confirmed she was right about her negative statement about ur relationship. She even got upset about ur reaction and said she hated u out of anger or Smtn. Couples shud learn how to handle the rainy days relationships is not all about sunny days or atleast shudnt be if u planning or focusing on marriage here. So pls sort out ur bad communication issues with her and be positive despite temporary set backs. Hopefully she will be understanding and if not she’s not the one for u. A relationship that isn’t tested isn’t true yet. Also I know it’s hard to find such relationships these days. Cheers. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Pavarottii(m): 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Guy from Ur chat u r the one at fault... Wat kind thing would u think its a prank ...
U said u r tired... Still asking her Wat she thinks... At this ur age...
The way she replied u shows u d one who wants to leave ... She never wanted to leave 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by joyandfaith: 12:14pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
OmalichaJesus:
You don't have enough time to talk with your babe but u are free enough to come here and complain �
First thing first, I don't think you are living within your means.
A rent of 200k
A younger brother to take care of
An elder brother duty to take care of.
A girlfriend who is so emotional and needs constant attention.
Oga seriously if you continue taking up more responsibilities while you have not really find your feet, e go hard u big time.
Your girlfriend is not wrong for craving attention. I think she likes you so much and if there's a "holdup" in communication between you guys, she starts getting worried plus having ideas and she rushes to breakup with you before you'll do the breaking up.
She likes you, you like her.
Try make things work and please stop coming here to complain about ur relationship, except u don't want it to work.
nice one. he wants to use his family problems to chase people away as if others do not have problems. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by meobizy(f): 12:15pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
I don’t get it. You made me read irrelevant things when the title alone was enough. You need to invest this skill into freelancing, at least that will chase her from your memory and make you richer.
This is one breakup, likely your first, out of many which will happen in life. Picturing every relationship leading into marriage and a happy-ever-after is the job of the female partner not the male. Sha, with more of this sort of thing you’ll get emotionally stronger. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Kingrefreshed: 12:15pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. Any guy wey dey complain about a girl in this country called Nigeria is a Fooooooooooooooooool!!!!!! As a married man still girls wan kill me sef. But dem no reach. I cough out girls. I shit out girls. I sneeze out girls. I'm always on the run because na so dem dey pursue me. You dey here dey mourn like an Afghanistan widow. Oga go Hotel De Casablanca. Order for a bottle of chilled Heineken .Drink as you watch sharp sweet bottilicious babes display for your face NAKED. CHOP LIFE!!! 3 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by lastempero: 12:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .
Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .
That means u never had that connection  1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by TheRedpillguy: 12:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace:
no be sey he even sabi do set with that him small prick. Na the thing wey make the girl run be dat. Him no sabi shift girl's belle Yes and him the do, do cry cry lover boy the save the girl name say treasure hehehehe, the girl ma don know say this one she don catch am put for ground. Him no get any body else. Fvck it am not saving anybody name anything if ur name na Mary, na Mary I d save for u. No the fvck well, e d do love the cry. Girls hate this kind ppl 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Lightangel65: 12:16pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
msmon:
She loves you and she won't say all that right to your face, try and see her. That's not love ldy. It's pity You can't say you love someone and abandon him/her at a place of distress. Trials and tribulations are the best test of love and if she can't stay then there was never any love to begin with. Just some other form of attraction 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Froshloaded: 12:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
CAPSLOCKED:
THE RATIO IS ALWAYS 99.5:0.5
I'D LOVE TO ADVICE HIM TO TRY AGAIN, BUT THAT WON'T BE A GOOD. WHEN WE LOVE THINGS, WE USUALLY DON'T WANT TO EASILY THROW THEM AWAY.
THE ONE THAT IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A WAY OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP HAS NO LOVE FOR THE OTHER PERSON, ONLY PITY, AND OTHER EMOTIONS.
IF YOU BEG THEM TO STAY ONCE, YOU'LL HAVE TO KEEP BEGGING CUS THEY'D KEEP THREATENING TO LEAVE. AND THEY'LL KEEP HURTING AND DISTRACTING YOU.
BEST THING IS TO LET THEM GO. YOU CAN'T WIN IF YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE FIGHTING FOR TWO.
LET THEM GO FOR THAT GREENER GRASS THEY BELIEVE IS ON THE OTHER SIDE. WHATEVER RESULTS THEY GET OVER THERE SHOULD SERVE AS THEIR LESSONS OR BLESSINGS.
A HEART BREAK NEVER KILLS. YOU KNOW WHAT DOES? OVER THINKING. FRUSTRATION. STARVATION. OVER DRINKING. IDLENESS. INGESTION OF POISONOUS SUBSTANCES. AND OTHER THINGS WHICH CAN BE TRULY DETRIMENTAL TO HUMAN LIFE.
DRIVE YOUR BOLT CAR IN PEACE. HER ABSENCE WILL HELP YOU SAVE MONEY AND IF YOU PLAN WELL, IN A YEAR OR TWO YOU WILL HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO FIX UP YOUR SELF AND YOUR FAMILY, AND ALSO START UP A FAMILY IF YOU WANT.
IF THEY LOVE YOU, THEY'LL ALWAYS FIGHT BY YOUR SIDE TO KEEP THE LOVE ALIVE. THEY'LL ONLY LEAVE TOO EASILY WHEN THEIR FEELINGS ARE NOT FOR YOU. Best Advice So Far  |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by luminouz(m): 12:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Cladez:
She wanted you hurt after the breakup but your unintentional lackadaisical reply backfired at her.From her reply,she felt the heat instead.
Just move on.....no need for the long epistle. Oil dey ur head. You nailed the mudafvcking point. The others were just giving advice without getting the main point. Girls like that need to feel in control. Don't give them that. Alright as a reply was enough but OP had to be sending crying emojis everywhere. Why do guys do this anyways? You are a man. A woman who is so emotionally immature to threaten to end shiit and misconstrue your words doesnt even deserve a reply. Anyways, to each his own 3 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by lasheun: 12:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Don't be too quick to break up when you are not ready...
It obvious that she isn't really prepared for the break up..
One this i know for sure is that she will keep tab on your activities and eventually want to come back.. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by 989900: 12:17pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
fredoooooo:
[s]Make more money or money and get another one , no be by force...[/s] |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by BabaIbo: 12:19pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by lastempero: 12:19pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
But we have enough problem in this country already. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Nature8(m): 12:20pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. Sorry about that bro, be strong |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Enemyofpeace: 12:21pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
TheRedpillguy:
Yes and him the do, do cry cry lover boy the save the girl name say treasure hehehehe, the girl ma don know say this one she don catch am put for ground. Him no get any body else. Fvck it am not saving anybody name anything if ur name na Mary, na Mary I d save for u. No the fvck well, e d do love the cry. Girls hate this kind ppl him save the girl's name as treasure, while the girl save him name is mumu 4, which means sey mumu 1, 2 and 3 dey before him dey dey chop the girl too 2 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Hallabee1(m): 12:21pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
was once in this situation of yours but I moved on ,but it wasn't easy sha 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Nobody: 12:23pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. I don't really see any pressure here yet she can't withstand it. If you eventually end up with her (cos she'll come back and you will stupidly fall for her again. I know) and the real pressures of marriage comes, how will she cope? She can't cope. So end this child's play. Get a bearing for yourself. Get a mature lady but take your time and build a sane and decent relationship. Also watch and pray. Marriage is not for prematures. It not for school leavers. Its for mature and prepared adults. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by SpyAC(m): 12:25pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .
Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .
If u can give me the opportunity, will really show u what a true love is 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by pansophist(m): 12:26pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
I hope this teaches you the timeless life lesson that to women, men are nothing more than success object to them. You will also experience first hand that as your career improves and you make more money, the pendulum will swing in your favour and you'll have better pick of women with qualitative attributes such as beauty, age, youthfulness and curvaceouness.
Continue your hustle, and it should be the only thing that have your undivided attention, loyalty, and dedication. It is what will define and refine you, because as a man, you have to establish yourself and become formidable. Men are born poor, but grow rich, while women are born rich, but grow poor. She is utilizing her youthfulness to aim for the highest bidder, you should do the same. Utilize your time and build yourself up.
Sorry bro, we all get to experience this, but if you play your game tight, this will be the last time. 24 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by agarawu23(m): 12:28pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Tosinex:
@vowsng, Out of the millions of beautiful girls in Nigeria, you don't have to bother. when you lost a relationship, it's an opportunity for you to get a better one! So don't freak out! I was in your shoes a month or two ago but my new gal is way better. Ensure ur business is making sense and raking in money, so you can do the needful when it's time. u were never in love with the siad lady before that's why everything happened so fast bro. Walahi if u love a girl, after break up u will still be giving her time to reconsider you. I know they are many girls out there ready to hook and even get married within 1 week but they are these special ladies guys need to work hard to get married to. We have cheap girls who love for money, we have these loyal girls who can go miles with you even when you are damn broke. But these days, everybody eyes don open cos no girl wanna date or marry a broke guy. On the Op's case, the girl has someone she is considering and that's the fact. Before a lady can break up with a responsible guy these days eh, she gat someone better waiting in the corner. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Simplecity(m): 12:30pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Kaycee54321:
You said she helped you fund for ur ride... I'll say smtng here...that is rare. It shows she Loves you and cares. Op, she's a woman. Often times, they are more emotional than logical. I'll advise you meet her face to face and trash it out... That's if the relationship meant smtng to you
I doubt I'd break up smtng legit like ur relationship over the phone. Think about it, in 2 years time, would you regret not being with her because of a misunderstood whatsapp Text?
Your answer would determine how you should proceed. THIS MAN SPEAKS GREAT TRUTH OP LISTEN TO THIS MAN  |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Bizibi(m): 12:30pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Kingrefreshed:
Any guy wey dey complain about a girl in this country called Nigeria is a Fooooooooooooooooool!!!!!!
As a married man still girls wan kill me sef. But dem no reach. I cough out girls. I shit out girls. I sneeze out girls. I'm always on the run because na so dem dey pursue me.
You dey here dey mourn like an Afghanistan widow.
Oga go Hotel De Casablanca. Order for a bottle of chilled Heineken .Drink as you watch sharp sweet bottilicious babes display for your face NAKED.
CHOP LIFE!!!
hmmm.... social media!!! |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by mechanics(m): 12:31pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
It's not the end of the world and don't hurt yourself the more, that's why one has to be careful in a relationship, if you put all your heart into it and there is a break up, it won't be that easy to forget, you just have to move on, try to establish yourself, get a good apartment and pray for God's guidance. 1 Like |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Pussywar(f): 12:31pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Maybe she was hurt, she said all that hoping you'd ask her what happened. But thinking it was a joke, you 'played along' and it turned into something else. You could try to talk to her but next time she should be mature about her feelings, though sometimes people don't like to be straight about things they've complained about ad nauseum. You sound hurt so talk to her sha, she could open up. If she's really tired of the relationship, move on. Won't be easy. I'm seeing as a prank tho, I mean...break up through text...with very little words...with someone you've been with for years...  |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by mechanics(m): 12:32pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Quiver:
Cheer up bro! Get up, dust yourself and FOCUS on what is ahead of you. If she comes back fine but if she doesn't, it's still good. Nice one. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by Angelfrost(m): 12:34pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
I will just be blunt and say it as I see it... That relationship never really took off. Breaking up is probably an act of mercy and a reality check.
First off, you are not truly ready for a serious relationship... If you insist you are, then she was never the person for you (Both of you are certainly not cut out of the same mold).
You are about to pay the price for investing too much sentiments and emotional energy into the wrong person... The truth remains that the signs were there all along, but you probably chose to ignore them or were too blinded by emotions to see them.
This is a great chance to learn valuable life lessons.... Work harder on your career, future, and hustle. You will meet more ladies as time goes on, have the wisdom and emotional intelligence to rein it all in till you are certain the one you fancy is on the exact same page...
Happy Recovery sir!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by mechanics(m): 12:34pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
Cladez:
She wanted you hurt after the breakup but your unintentional lackadaisical reply backfired at her.From her reply,she felt the heat instead.
Just move on.....no need for the long epistle. It's true, maybe he didn't know her intentions, that's why he played along, he shouldn't have replied her in that manner. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by mechanics(m): 12:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
2dice01:
Oya come let's me break your heart small with Buhari sledge hammer  Bros, take am easy o, this issue can lead one to depression o, no be joke matter o. |
| Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Up With Me! by atmstyle: 12:35pm On Dec 13, 2019 |
vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.
Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.
I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.
But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.
So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.
She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.
On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.
But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.
This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.
If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.
This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up. To me, this looks like a lover's quarrel. I think you both would soon settle. The thing is you are both proud but live yourselves. I think. 2 Likes |
