Kaycee54321:
You said she helped you fund for ur ride... I'll say smtng here...that is rare. It shows she Loves you and cares. Op, she's a woman. Often times, they are more emotional than logical. I'll advise you meet her face to face and trash it out... That's if the relationship meant smtng to you

I doubt I'd break up smtng legit like ur relationship over the phone. Think about it, in 2 years time, would you regret not being with her because of a misunderstood whatsapp Text?


Your answer would determine how you should proceed.

Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .

Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .

pocohantas:




No time o. Abroad guys do not insult us like homebased miscreants

That said, I read through the messages and OP's babe seems to love him, she is just doubting if they can work. It happens. I wouldn't know their ages, but this isn't what a little talk can't fix.

Kaycee54321:
You said she helped you fund for ur ride... I'll say smtng here...that is rare. It shows she Loves you and cares. Op, she's a woman. Often times, they are more emotional than logical. I'll advise you meet her face to face and trash it out... That's if the relationship meant smtng to you

I doubt I'd break up smtng legit like ur relationship over the phone. Think about it, in 2 years time, would you regret not being with her because of a misunderstood whatsapp Text?


Your answer would determine how you should proceed.

coolk:



This is the only thing I've read that makes sense. Call her brah and forget all those bitter lonely nairalanders welcoming you to Singlehood.

From your write-up, I can tell she's a KEEPER. keep her bro, even if it cost you your pride.... F**k pride... And get her back.

MusaDanladi1:

pocohantas, why you dey harsh like this na...

pocohantas:


Even undergraduate guys with three smelly boxers and 2 singlets have babes, why not the OP? A hustling young man. He can have a babe, he should just be ready to be a transitional bf, he will dump and be dumped well well. Till he stabilizes and finds a younger girl, who will probably dump another young guy.



Na red pill people. Good you can see them o. They will soon mislead OP and move on to the next thread.

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

nubianchio:
Why are u complaining when the breakup has been ur wish....




I Want To Breakup With My Girlfriend. by vowsng(m): 9:35pm On Oct 02


Hello dears, so I usually share different views with my girlfriend, ranging from politics, entertainment and so on.

Last night we argued alot about bbnaija, I am in support of Frodd to win and she is in support of Mercy to win.

This is a girl I love so much, but I'm afraid this may affect us when married as it is a serious relationship, please I need advice on how to cope with this view discrepancies or back out in time cause I think as a couple, we are supposed to share same view or she is supposed to see through my view as the man. thank you

deltateam:


She's not serious yet she invested in getting him a car for business!

How many girls have done that for you in your life?

Just because we have phone and can afford data doesn't mean we should be insensitive.

bestdudes:
You have a point. I have never met any girl that gave me 10k sef... na me dey always spend lol.

AwkaetitiBabe:
The op should go pursue money. There ain't no respect for a broke person in this society. For a lady to stay with a broke guy, she must have calculated how bright the future would get. Love ain't enough. True Love will buckle at d face of lack and challenges... Unless you guys are simply merry souls.

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

mechanics:
For her to leave a hard-working man that has a future surprises me o, she's really confused.

Funjosh:

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Where you go bring this one come now

mechanics:
For her to leave a hard-working man that has a future surprises me o, she's really confused.

op ignore this advice.
I advice you to read rollo tomassi's book: the rational male.
You will learn alot about female nature there.
Women don't truly fall in love with a man, they fall in love with his lifestyle.
We men love idealisticly while women love opportunisticly.
Always remember this fact when dating anyone;dont be dumb.
Now work on your life and forget girls matter.

pocohantas:
But why do guys do this?
Act all tough then go home to cry. No wonder they commit suicide pass. Hahahahahaha

See OP is in serious pains and taking advice from people that will logout to go cuddle their own babes.

By evening, we would all have forgotten about you and your thread. Then the real pains will set in. Shey you have enough Westlife on your playlist. Lmao.

No go call your babe

nairalandbuzz:

Peace of mind better pass that one o

Bola146:


Her village people at work

Kaycee54321:
You said she helped you fund for ur ride... I'll say smtng here...that is rare. It shows she Loves you and cares. Op, she's a woman. Often times, they are more emotional than logical. I'll advise you meet her face to face and trash it out... That's if the relationship meant smtng to you

I doubt I'd break up smtng legit like ur relationship over the phone. Think about it, in 2 years time, would you regret not being with her because of a misunderstood whatsapp Text?


Your answer would determine how you should proceed.

mechanics:
hahahahaha, I suspect something like that o, village people can be wicked o.

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

Newguyhere:
op ignore this advice.
I advice you to read rollo tomassi's book: the rational male.
You will learn alot about female nature there.
Women don't truly fall in love with a man, they fall in love with his lifestyle.
We men love idealisticly while women love opportunisticly.
Always remember this fact when dating anyone;dont be dumb.
Now work on your life and forget girls matter.

mechanics:
Sure, but not in these case, but she didn't say she does not have peace of mind since when they have been together.

nairalandbuzz:


Yeah u are right... Me think the lady is just tired of his manliness ... after checking his other thread