maya007:
Sorry dude....am a girl but it pains me wen a girl is trying to play s victim,just forget the girl she has found somone better and is trying to use ur situation as an excuse instead of encouraging you to do better she wants to frustrate you the more....it wont b easy but just block her and move on....God never neglects somone who works hard...doors will open for you soon....cheer up!

mechanics:
Really, don't know that one o.

now let's look at it backwards:
What happens when you get old with fallen tits, wrinkled stomach and skin?
The man kicks you out and marries a younger chick.. right?
Seems fair to me, don't you think

How I wish all men were this ruthless to throw out their wives when she gets old and no longer serves her purpose
Una for hear am.

pocohantas:


Lol. I have never claimed to fall in "love" with a man. If you don't have certain things, nothing fit happen between us.

But for people like OP that found a girl that supported him to buy car, he is indeed lucky. I don't build men. I don't fix them either. Arrange your life and I will come in to enjoy

Newguyhere:
now let's look at it backwards:
What happens when you get old with fallen tits, wrinkled stomach and skin?
The man kicks you out and marries a younger chick.. right?
Seems fair to me, don't you think

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

Cladez:
She wanted you hurt after the breakup but your unintentional lackadaisical reply backfired at her.From her reply,she felt the heat instead.

Just move on.....no need for the long epistle.

nairalandbuzz:

https://www.nairaland.com/5449579/want-breakup-girlfriend

Kaycee54321:
You said she helped you fund for ur ride... I'll say smtng here...that is rare. It shows she Loves you and cares. Op, she's a woman. Often times, they are more emotional than logical. I'll advise you meet her face to face and trash it out... That's if the relationship meant smtng to you

I doubt I'd break up smtng legit like ur relationship over the phone. Think about it, in 2 years time, would you regret not being with her because of a misunderstood whatsapp Text?


Your answer would determine how you should proceed.

maya007:
Sorry dude....am a girl but it pains me wen a girl is trying to play s victim,just forget the girl she has found somone better and is trying to use ur situation as an excuse instead of encouraging you to do better she wants to frustrate you the more....it wont b easy but just block her and move on....God never neglects somone who works hard...doors will open for you soon....cheer up!

mechanics:
lolz, but she didn't think of what she invested into the relationship before quitting.

rexandyke:



I like your comment, but WHY ON JESUS' EARTH WILL YOU SPELL SOMETHING AS SMTNG? God of Host!

Gordieshegz:
In all honesty, the op didn't handle that chat very well. I would say many a lady who loved a certain guy very deeply might act the way she did.

When she said she was tired, it didn't translate into it was over. And your tempo in that reply showed you were less concerned should she leave.

Come on, she might just being emotional. Who knows if she was on her period or having a bad time out!

In this generation where love is for sale to the highest bidder, a "beautiful" lady who could help you raise some "money" to buy a car really did love you truly.

And her last response showed she didn't want to let you go. All she wanted there was some pamperings and sweet words. Considering the number of suitors that an average beautiful girl has, she might have just been seriously disturded by a guy and wanted some soccour from the very man she was dating.

My suggestion is you try anything possible to meet her in person and be sure she truly wants it over. I would rather you reconsidered that WhatsApp break up and put it up for an appeal. Even best of women can be at their worst days at times.


Selah

ooh please I'm tired of girls regurgitating this line of thought abeg;una usual shaming tactic.

pocohantas:


What is my business? My expectations from a Nigerian horseband is really low na. I can only be surprised when you guys start building spaceships.

swedbase:

I guess you're under 18

Newguyhere:
ooh please I'm tired of girls regurgitating this line of thought abeg;una usual shaming tactic.

Enemyofpeace:
him save the girl's name as treasure, while the girl save him name is mumu 4, which means sey mumu 1, 2 and 3 dey before him dey dey chop the girl too

nairalandbuzz:

https://www.nairaland.com/5449579/want-breakup-girlfriend

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

KiidaACE:
Sorry chief.. Shit happens..
If being in a relationship threatens your sanity then you shouldn't be in one..
She probably thinks you're emotionally unavailable for her and perhaps, she's right to an extent.. All the same, you should sit and talk with her so she understands your plight.. If she doesn't, kiss her goodbye.. This is life..

citruslimited:
My dear its obvious the girl in question does not love you.
Please I beg you let her go. She is not the right woman for you, she is only a gold digger.

Any girl that truly love you will accept for who you are not what you have, and your current status.

Later in life you will find the right woman and then you will thank God she left you now.

Cheer up bro

Kaycee54321:




Bad habit. That's how it's stored on my keypad.

twosquare:
link to the thread

pocohantas: