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Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by SavonEric: 5:43pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
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Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by NeoWanZaeed(m): 5:47pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
First of all.. Never bring serious issue to nairaland. So many stupid people and kids here.. Most only read the content not the context. Best solution is to accept fate.. Since the other woman has subeb backing.. that's all.. If you write to commissioner of education .. no solution .. they have power more than you do.. God bless |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by SavonEric: 5:47pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
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Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by cutefy: 5:50pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
DrTee1: Sir, with due respect, you've got no point here. Forget about the grammar, becos that's not the message. Set aside his grammar and deal with the message. The op is in pains so leave him alone if you have nothing reasonable to say. Just imagine if it's your mum who was treated this way, how would u have felt? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by Lifewithme: 5:51pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
DrTee1: Lmao. Only if you know what emotions can do to people. I type trash a lot when in sad, happy or confused. Just take a chill pill. She needs help not grammar checkers. 4 Likes |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by OlawaleBammie: 5:52pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ayoadeifee: Thank Goodness u re a lady ursef... can u now see the reason why SOME MEN LIKE US SAYS WE PREFER TO HAVE A MALE BOSS TO HAVING A FEMALE BOSS 100×?? I dont know why, but I just hate women in power, 92percent of dem wil scatter thins wen dey assume power, dey wont reason with their brain again but with the intoxication of power while 6percent wil always b doin the godie thingy..only 2 percent are of decent xters and where are the 2%?? when u have a female boss dat knows ogas at the top just know dat ur own is kpau. anyway, i tink ur mum should just gently accept the selfless service she bargained for 32yrs back.. abi what do u do now?? |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by OlawaleBammie: 5:56pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
DrTee1: And to ur first, second and third paragraph, i think queen Elizabeth has inducted u into the parliamentary house of England by now as u re very sound with ur diction?? |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by akaahs(m): 5:56pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ur mum is just 3 years for retirement, advice her to accept the transfer and retire in peace. 2 Likes |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by MrFly(m): 5:57pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
from ma own perspective as a teacher with government, she has no right to reject transfer, she works for the government and the same government transfered her. Maybe they see her as someone who will normalise the situation in that school. She owes the government an apology through writting. We are all bound by ethics of civil service commission. 2 Likes |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by midnighter(f): 5:58pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Lifewithme: But the thing is that it was genuinely so difficult to read what she wrote. Maybe that guy went overboard, but he had a point. 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by delpee(f): 6:05pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
In the Civil Service, you obey before you complain. You hardly win a case once disobedience is involved. She shouldn’t have refused to collect the letter. It’s an offense under Civil Service code of conduct. She should accept and then work towards changing her posting to a more favorable place on medical grounds. She’ll retire within 3 years anyway. It’s unfortunate but she shouldn’t push her rejection further to avoid disciplinary action which could affect her retirement plans. God in His mercy will help her win the battle. 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by Giftexx: 6:07pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Best advice Slawormir: |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by greatseed: 6:07pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
GboyegaD:U pple must Sha show yourselves to be noticed for the wrong reasons... You can simply summarize what the OP has said abt the mum, must u crucify, you obviously have an idea what he is talking abt MR LINGUISTIC... IF U DON'T THEN KEEP SHUT |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by Qoko: 6:09pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
GboyegaD:Shut up your trash, we understood the story properly, no need for amendment or editing, Mr Bigot as if English is your papa language. 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by extol1(m): 6:11pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ayoadeifee:is your mom working with ondo state subeb |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by TradeCorner: 6:17pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
DrTee1: While trying to prove your political correctness, may you not use your misguidednes to cause a person to take their own life. Just like a rifle is deadly in the hands of the unprofessional,so is intelligence in the head of a tactless tactician like your kinds 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by nlPoster: 6:17pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Isn't she due for retirement after 32 years? ![]() It's not good for her health to be struggling for position in this manner. Btw I don't think it's your fight, op, there are too many mother threads/references on nl, all very subjective. How can Nigerian women be having various fights all the time for decades, always one thing or another. No rest in any form, even when elderly? ![]() Can't you the kids help her out so she doesn't have to feel worried, you could start a school or something if you're financially empowered. 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by TradeCorner: 6:20pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
TimFisher2: And you feel this is the right thing to speka to someone at their low point. May the desire to appear correct not let you guys cause people's death. Some people will stand before God and get thrown into the lake of fire, albeit not knowing their words killed people who took their life after they heard hurtful words from your kinds. Smh |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by chigoizie7(m): 6:21pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ayoadeifee: Lol, let us call a spade a spade. Your mom should have known the ethics of government work, she is a civil servant. Your mother deserves what she got. You know why? Because she disobeyed orders from the governing and regulatory body. What she should have done is, since she has been transferred, she would have collected the transfer letter, report to the said school and then work for her redeployment. There are rules of engagement. My mom retired as a government secondary school principal. Trust me, I know how some of these things work. Your mom deserves the suspension. Well except for the dragging out and disgraced. Simple and short. As for her health? Since she knows that her health cannot carry her with the type of job she has. There are various types on retirement plans. She could have applied for a voluntary retirement based on health issues. Sentiments aside. Let us tell ourselves the truth. Obey first. Do you know how those people that gave your mother the orders to transfer will feel when their orders are disobeyed? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by nlPoster: 6:21pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
![]() The thread should be deleted please. |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by dominique(f): 6:22pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
My mum retired as a Lagos State teacher a little over 2 years ago. At about 3 years to the end of her service, she was transferred twice. Another one of her colleagues was transferred thrice towards the end of his tenure, the 3rd time to a school in a far away local government and he reported there till he retired. Op's mum has been in service long enough to realize that transfer letter can come at any time. It is clearly stated in their appointment letters. Failure to comply with the transfer which is part of the terms of employment will be treated as insubordination and could get penalized. The humiliation part I don't agree with. There is a national union of teachers and a teaching service commission she can report the assault to but I doubt if she can reverse the transfer 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by TradeCorner: 6:24pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
dominique: Forcefully dragging her out is humiliation. Dominique |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by travelland(f): 6:26pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
alphaNomega: He's a male |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by nlPoster: 6:31pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
delpee: Where is the dad btw? The op didn't mention him. |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by nlPoster: 6:31pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
TradeCorner: The analogy might be Nigerian men throwing out their wives, very common in Yorubaland. Scheming and Nigeria go hand in hand. Very obvious on nairaland since it's mostly Nigerians here. |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by nlPoster: 6:34pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Fixed5718: You people shouldn't post immediately after me. You know yourselves. Can whichever native doctor is handling you see to this please. 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by Johnsown1(m): 6:36pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Sorry about the embarrasment,I think the only thing that she have to do now is to report to the school they posted her. There is no excuses their before they start stories about her grantuity. Someone that I know was transferred from school in the town to a certain school in one village but she lobbied with some amount and she was then transfered to a different school in the town. There is no two way about it. Transfer is their second name. 1 Like |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by goldensoul55: 6:37pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Msheeew. Yen yen yen yen yen , spoilt children with pride U nor happy say Dem nor use jazz back your mama, You don't fight for everything u hear |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by manny4u(m): 6:40pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
ayoadeifee:She should drop her resignation letter and walk away with dignity and respect. |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by Naijaarchive(m): 6:44pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
Some people can be so annoying enh.... Your mom shouldn't have declined the transfer.... Its not done anywhere... She should go beg and accept the transfer so she can retire in peace and be able to reap all she has worked for 2 Likes |
Re: SUBEB: My Mother Was Cheated And Harassed At Her Workplace by purples25(f): 6:47pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
After all these years... I'm so sorry dear, I really hope you can get some powerful authority to intervene and your mom can get her job back. Stay strong. 1 Like |
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