Isn't it the same thing after traditional then go to court for papers,you can't leave the country and be recognized as married without legal court papers that is what the constitution recognises

Minemrys:

i wouldn't advise any0ne to go for a court marriage.

Teebaba30:


She even say something like this before that I should impregnate her, that with that her dad might consider, But I resist from doing that.

. Asiwaju Bola Tinubu is a Muslim and his wife is a pastor in Redeem Christian Church of God. Mike Adenuga globacom chairman his daughter married to a Muslim guy and heaven did not fall what I know is that the way poor people think is very annoying. But my advice is please they should have their parents blessing otherwise they might leave to regret it. God will help them.

She is way smarter and she is the one really in love. From the antecedents to the present situation, owing to her suggestion and readiness to foot all bills, she is the one in love. If you love her as half, u wouldn't have objected to her plans.

Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

. Pls end the relationship. Love alone doesn't sustain marriage trust me. I have been in ur shoes b4. U need parental approval and blessings.

Wetin Christian dey like for Muslim self...
A believer should marry a believer.

Wetin Christian dey like for Muslim self...
A believer should marry a believer.

Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

You don't yet know who a Christian is.

samincredible44:


two of you should run away

Make dem go listen to Fireboy what if say very well.

tyisrael:
. Pls end the relationship. Love alone doesn't sustain marriage trust me. I have been in ur shoes b4. U need parental approval and blessings.

But she will never ready accept to end the relationship... have tried it, so many times, she refused,

Brotherly,

Pls follow your heart, women don't have religion if she's yours she will give in to your religion peacfully without been forced IAM a living proof, but while planning to exit, the country there should be one elderly person your both parent respected that will make them see reasons, one of the major problems of Nigeria today is religion, i attend a Muslim secondary school owned by late Chief M.K.O Abiola in Osiele about 30 years ago in Abeokuta till today most of my good friends are muslims, and we still get in touch from time to time until we stop this discrimation we will not move forward above all pray and fast over this issue there's nothing God cannot do. All the best.

DA.

gunners160:
why can't the both of you stick to your various religion without the other person trying to covert the other?
must their be convertion self? Una just dey make a mountain out of a hill

what of future implications.
She will want all her child's to join that terrorist group of a religion,

That's were the true implications lies

RamessesIV:
Isn't it the same thing after traditional then go to court for papers,you can't leave the country and be recognized as married without legal court papers that is what the constitution recognises

wow. I didn't think of that. I just saw how detrimental d court thing is, and didn't think it'll be a g0od idea.

Kingstanding:
. Asiwaju Bola Tinubu is a Muslim and his wife is a pastor in Redeem Christian Church of God. Mike Adenuga globacom chairman his daughter married to a Muslim guy and heaven did not fall what I know is that the way poor people think is very annoying. But my advice is please they should have their parents blessing otherwise they might leave to regret it. God will help them.

Thanks so much for the advice bro...

My brother marriage is a beautiful things but it's 100% spiritual( Christ Jesus) and physical(Church). The issue is not the person u r marrying to but who the person is connected to.
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
Love alone doesn't and can't sustain marriage. U need wisdom( the fear of God), understanding of the spirit and trust of the person. Don't marry based on morality coz it will not stand in eternity.
Christians and Moslems have different doctrines concerning who Christ is and both can't come to agreement because of certain things beyond human understanding.
Galatians 4:22 For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman.
4:23 But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise.
4:24 Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar.
4:25 For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children.
4:26 But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all.
4:29 But as then he that was born after the flesh persecuted him that was born after the Spirit, even so it is now.
4:31 So then, brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free.
If you are a heaven bound Christian,u should know what the bible says about being unequally yoke with unbelievers in anything. If you study the case of Abraham very well,u will know that one of the issue d world is facing is as a result of d free woman son(Isaac, the grandparent of the Israelites of today) and Ishmael (the grandparent of Moslems). As long as she hasn't accept Jesus as her Lord and personal savior and doesn't believe in the TRINITY, please look for a born again sister. Shalom

Many Nigerians don't know this,those court papers are very important,men fear it cause it gives women rights in the marriage

Minemrys:

wow. I didn't think of that. I just saw how detrimental d court thing is, and didn't think it'll be a g0od idea.

My friend currently is dragging with her husband on which religion the children should practice. It got to the extent they fight always. Just know that it won't be easy for u as the man to decide for the children.

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samincredible44:
guy give am belle

Belle or no Belle d fact it will very difficult for both u and yur children to chose religion
D children will be confused
It gonna be easy honesty I have seen it and still seeing it
Just try to distance yourself tym will heal
But didn't he know before dat she was a Muslim
Can't imagine Alfa and pastor coming together for a single child naming ceremony
U guys can adjust but
Just walk out with caution

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No try fornication because Bible says NO to it. Convert to lslam then get ready to learn lslam because lslam requires a lot of learning. And if you can't convert then leave the girl alone because is prohibited for a Muslim lady to marry Christian guy. But Christian lady can MarryMuslim guy.

Sparro:
She is way smarter and she is the one really in love. From the antecedents to the present situation, owing to her suggestion and readiness to foot all bills, she is the one in love. If you love her as half, u wouldn't have objected to her plans.

Truly she's really in love, but the religion barrier keep scared me, cos travelling out of country, wot if her parent starts disturbing my parents

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HeavenlyHolines:
My brother marriage is a beautiful things but it's 100% spiritual( Christ Jesus) and physical(Church). The issue is not the person u r marrying to but who the person is connected to.
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
Love alone doesn't and can't sustain marriage. U need wisdom( the fear of God), understanding of the spirit and trust of the person. Don't marry based on morality coz it will not stand in eternity.
Christians and Moslems have different doctrines concerning who Christ is and both can't come to agreement because of certain things beyond human understanding.
Galatians 4:22 For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman.
4:23 But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise.
4:24 Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar.
4:25 For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children.
4:26 But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all.
4:29 But as then he that was born after the flesh persecuted him that was born after the Spirit, even so it is now.
4:31 So then, brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free.
If you are a heaven bound Christian,u should know what the bible says about being unequally yoke with unbelievers in anything. If you study the case of Abraham very well,u will know that one of the issue d world is facing is as a result of d free woman son(Isaac, the grandparent of the Israelites of today) and Ishmael (the grandparent of Moslems). As long as she hasn't accept Jesus as her Lord and personal savior and doesn't believe in the TRINITY, please look for a born again sister. Shalom

dmaygee:

Religion shouldn't be a barrier to Love. What's important is getting both parents approval irrespective. I, for example is a Muslim married to a Christian wife, MFM member/ worker for that matter. We've been married for 8 years now to the glory of God.

Ogs you're a Christian, leave that thing. A Muslim by theory only.

davidadenrele:
Brotherly,

Pls follow your heart, women don't have religion if she's yours she will give in to your religion peacfully without been forced IAM a living proof, but while planning to exit, the country there should be one elderly person your both parent respected that will make them see reasons, one of the major problems of Nigeria today is religion, i attend a Muslim secondary school owned by late Chief M.K.O Abiola in Osiele about 30 years ago in Abeokuta till today most of my good friends are muslims, and we still get in touch from time to time until we stop this discrimation we will not move forward above all pray and fast over this issue there's nothing God cannot do. All the best.

DA.

Thanks so much bro,

Concern the prayer , we are now very strong in that now, she can never do a day without waking me up in the mid night with a phone call to pray, all centering on our parents to calm and support our mindset.

Go and meet her parents to propose marriage if they refuse then let her go ....nobody has to convert for anybody







Men need to be bold and decisive so stop looking for approval

If you have to ask then yes.

Lee84:


Hypocrite! Because he is Christian, he will bring moral bankruptcy.. Is it not the girl that refused to let go. Hypocrite!

U even get time dey answer am person wey no well

madridguy:
Since getting her parent approval will be hard please let it go.

END TIME: Russia has banned any form of religion soon it will be universal

Troubling times for the Church in Russia as the State tries to seal loopholes for anyone to meet Christ.

A new law has been signed this week by President Putin stating that:

1) Foreign guests are not permitted to speak in churches unless they have a "work permit" from Russian authorities

2) If a friend or relative from outside Russia wishes to share his/her faith in your home the guest will be fined and expelled from Russia.

3) Any discussion of God with non-believers is considered missionary activity and will be punishable.

4) Missionary activity will be permitted by special government permission. Example: If one travelling on a train shares his faith without written permission, the offender will be taken into police custody for the duration of the journey and will be fined 50,000 rubles ($1,000).
Offenders from the age of 14-years-old will be subject to prosecution

5) Religious activity is no longer permitted in private homes. Most churches in Russia meet in homes.

6) Every citizen is obligated to report religious activity of neighbors to the authorities. Failure to be an informant is punishable by law.

7) One may pray and read the Bible at home but not in the presence of a non-believing person. You will be breaking the law and be punished.

If the church has purchased property it cannot be converted into a place of worship.

9) In church buildings, it is not permitted to invite people to turn to God. Worship services are permitted but making a non-believer a follower of Christ is against the law.
Let us pray against such evil statutes.

http://www.charismanews.com/world/58295-7-000-churches-fasting-praying-over-terrifying-new-persecution-law

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gunners160:
why can't the both of you stick to your various religion without the other person trying to covert the other?
must their be convertion self? Una just dey make a mountain out of a hill

Exactly my point

DimIsaac10:
Wetin Christian dey like for Muslim self...

A believer should marry a believer.

This few words of yours is a summary of what I am about to say.

Love alone does not sustain a marriage, its might sustain a courtship to some extend but not marriage.
You need to have the same belief in order to flow well at the end.
Be careful lest you allow emotions to cover your eyes.
How can a Christan date a Muslim?
is it that there is no Christan lady you are compatible with?

imagine

gunners160:
why can't the both of you stick to your various religion without the other person trying to covert the other?
must their be convertion self? Una just dey make a mountain out of a hill

Yes I once concluded to go in line with this idea, but when we both think of our kids, there will be serious problem in which one to choose. of follow.