Teebaba30:


Have called her times without number for her approval in ending the relationship, but she never opt in

davidadenrele:
Brotherly,

Pls follow your heart, women don't have religion if she's yours she will give in to your religion peacfully without been forced IAM a living proof, but while planning to exit, the country there should be one elderly person your both parent respected that will make them see reasons, one of the major problems of Nigeria today is religion, i attend a Muslim secondary school owned by late Chief M.K.O Abiola in Osiele about 30 years ago in Abeokuta till today most of my good friends are muslims, and we still get in touch from time to time until we stop this discrimation we will not move forward above all pray and fast over this issue there's nothing God cannot do. All the best.

DA.

Teebaba30:
Quit religion instead

Sparro:
She is way smarter and she is the one really in love. From the antecedents to the present situation, owing to her suggestion and readiness to foot all bills, she is the one in love. If you love her as half, u wouldn't have objected to her plans.

Vasgas:


This few words of yours is a summary of what I am about to say.

Love alone does not sustain a marriage, its might sustain a courtship to some extend but not marriage.
You need to have the same belief in order to flow well at the end.
Be careful lest you allow emotions to cover your eyes.
How can a Christan date a Muslim?
is it that there is no Christan lady you are compatible with?

imagine

Vasgas:


This few words of yours is a summary of what I am about to say.

Love alone does not sustain a marriage, its might sustain a courtship to some extend but not marriage.
You need to have the same belief in order to flow well at the end.
Be careful lest you allow emotions to cover your eyes.
How can a Christan date a Muslim?
is it that there is no Christan lady you are compatible with?

imagine

oshorstan:
I have this feeling that my Fiancee is following me on this thread. Babe I know you read my response on every thread n u know the thread that will interest me. Well I thank God for you and what u can do if we find ourselves in this position. I will gladly elope with her to a different location. I dislike religion. I have every right to choose my religion as a citizen, I am not a robot

blackfase:
Religion, scam of centuries past and present. Dont let some stoopid religion deprive you of your hapiness. Baring any personal differences you two may have, pls make yourselves happy. Only brainwashed zombies allow some stupid religion to hold them down. We all were born free.

Again, religion na scam!!!

HeavenlyHolines:
My brother marriage is a beautiful things but it's 100% spiritual( Christ Jesus) and physical(Church). The issue is not the person u r marrying to but who the person is connected to.
2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
6:15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
6:16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you.
Love alone doesn't and can't sustain marriage. U need wisdom( the fear of God), understanding of the spirit and trust of the person. Don't marry based on morality coz it will not stand in eternity.
Christians and Moslems have different doctrines concerning who Christ is and both can't come to agreement because of certain things beyond human understanding.
Galatians 4:22 For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman.
4:23 But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise.
4:24 Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar.
4:25 For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children.
4:26 But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all.
4:29 But as then he that was born after the flesh persecuted him that was born after the Spirit, even so it is now.
4:31 So then, brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free.
If you are a heaven bound Christian,u should know what the bible says about being unequally yoke with unbelievers in anything. If you study the case of Abraham very well,u will know that one of the issue d world is facing is as a result of d free woman son(Isaac, the grandparent of the Israelites of today) and Ishmael (the grandparent of Moslems). As long as she hasn't accept Jesus as her Lord and personal savior and doesn't believe in the TRINITY, please look for a born again sister. Shalom

samincredible44:


two of you should run away

stuffs4me:
Teebaba30, as a Christian you are not qualified to marry a Muslim lady and your girlfriend knows that.

You as a Christian will bring nothing but moral bankruptcy to the Muslim lady.

Carry your evil ways and go and meet your fellow kind and leave that Muslim lady alone.

Teebaba30:
There is this lady I have been dating now for almost eleven years (11) she was my first love, we started dating while I was still in my final stage of secondary school, things were moving smoothly, as we are both new in the game of love.

I could remembered, then, mtn with their free night calls, we would talk from 12am to 5:00am then, she is the daughter to the king of the town, a well known king in Lagos state, but along the line, as we progress in line, owing to my fine boy of a thing,.

You know we guys when we sense that, it seems all lady want us, due to our cute look, or academic reasons, we take the advantage to flirt, of which she so much detest a cheating guy, she caught me times without number, but still hard for both of us to let go our anyone, after my higher institution,

I relocated to Lagos to start life and keep the hustle real, but this lady was in Lagos with mom, she keep coming to my place even in Lagos, but unfortunately, we lost contact, for seven years, we couldn't reach ourselves, then i decided to relocated to another location in Lagos

But just last month, her call came, that she saw my contact on Facebook, And we try to renew the relationship, that's how we started and doing fine, she's now in her final year At Fountain University, Oshogbo,

Now the problem facing us now is, She is a Muslim, while am a Christian, her parent will never allow her to convert, while my own parent will never allow me to convert, and now we are madly in love, she try to convinced her dad, but all effort was prove abortive.

We love ourselves so much, but religion is the barrier facing us now, we are both planning to run away from the country, she promised to foot all bills for our travelling, but I told her we should try just be friend as our religion is the barrier here now.

If not for the religion issue, we plan to have our introduction this year, and get wedded next year, but religion want to truncate the whole plans,

Pls fellow nairalanders, your advice is urgently needed now, we are both confused, with no option, we can't let go of anyone, and yet we don't want our parent to turn back to us,

She keeps crying everyday, even I myself, and in the state of confused now,.

SHOULD WE QUIT THE RELATIONSHIP OR WHAT SHOULD WE DO NOW..?

tyisrael:
. Pls end the relationship. Love alone doesn't sustain marriage trust me. I have been in ur shoes b4. U need parental approval and blessings.

RamessesIV:
Many Nigerians don't know this,those court papers are very important,men fear it cause it gives women rights in the marriage

stuffs4me:
Teebaba30, as a Christian you are not qualified to marry a Muslim lady and your girlfriend knows that.

You as a Christian will bring nothing but moral bankruptcy to the Muslim lady.

Carry your evil ways and go and meet your fellow kind and leave that Muslim lady alone.

Vasgas:


AMP:Now Abraham was old, well advanced in years, and the Lord had blessed Abraham in all things.
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MP:And Abraham said to the eldest servant of his house [Eliezer of Damascus], who ruled over all that he had, I beg of you, put your hand under my thigh;

AMP:And you shall swear by the Lord, the God of heaven and earth, that you will not take a wife for my son from the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I have settled,

MP:But you shall go to my country and to my relatives and take a wife for my son Isaac.

AMP:The servant said to him, But perhaps the woman will not be willing to come along after me to this country. Must I take your son to the country from which you came?
6
MP:Abraham said to him, See to it that you do not take my son back there.

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AMP:The Lord, the God of heaven, Who took me from my father’s house, from the land of my family and my birth, Who spoke to me and swore to me, saying, To your offspring I will give this land—He will send His Angel before you, and you will take a wife from there for my son.

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AMP:And if the woman should not be willing to go along after you, then you will be clear from this oath; only you must not take my son back there.



Bro, it's even better for him to remain unmarried than to consider marrying an unbeliever....

Graxie:
Who told you Christian religion promote and support such? Typical Muslim assumptions.

Sundrus:
e fit be better plan ooh. Try ur luck.

cynhamscakes:
You were put of contact for seven good years so how did you date her for 11years?

Looks like a script abeggi.