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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by WeRblessed(f): 9:16pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please


You are doing the right thing. Forget about your age; is it not when one is capable of feeding two mouths that he can get married.

Do make sure though, that whoever she is has a job. In other words, she brings in at least 40 to 50% family upkeep. This will ensure that your children have a decent future.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:17pm On May 12, 2020
All these nairalanders are hypocrites. So now someone marrying at 41 is a choice and its his life and can marry whenever he likes but if it were to be a lady, you guys will start calling her names. And tell her how she wasted away her youthful hue and now that she has become an evening newspaper, she's looking for someone to dump herself on.
A woman doesn't have the choice to marry when she wants.
You people should keep contradicting yourselves.
I salute una.
As for the op, brother evening newspaper, you can marry whenever you like. You can still wait till you reach 60yrs. Just make sure you don't go looking for a teenager because she will cheat on you with young sweet guys. Marryi
your age mate biko.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:17pm On May 12, 2020
How many times will they tell you that giving advice is not for you?? You're a mumu woman.
Sixfeetbelle:


41 and unmarried? Yeee! Bia, is this not a typical example of midnight newspaper that is popular on this forum? Op, you're too old already and should have been married at least five years earlier. What were you doing all this time? Sampling? Hustling? Being an introvert? Chai! This one is Shiloh things ooh.

Sha, you're fortunate you're a male so I expect men to compare your case with a woman's as being better, and tell you to marry when you're ready and all that crap that really helps no one in the long run. I also expect they might be tempted to bash me for giving you a title. In my defense, you wanted an advice, so suck it up, buttercup.



We move cheesy cool

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Mrsserene: 9:18pm On May 12, 2020
Dear poster, you are marrying late!
Dear men, stop waiting till you are rich to marry. The bitter truth is that it is not everyone that is destined to be rich.
Besides, it is hard to find true love when one is rich, there are women that would marry you and be praying for you to die so they can inherit. Think.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by ibinaboonline: 9:18pm On May 12, 2020
I'm not 40 yet but my mom is currently pressuring me so that I won't be you.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:21pm On May 12, 2020
faithfull18:
OP is an evening newspaper according to NL boys.
Yes he is. Na suya them dey use this paper wrap. This type of news paper should be in museums only. cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Sermwell(m): 9:21pm On May 12, 2020
SageMK:
Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

how is life expectancy in Nigeria 53?? make una sofry dey lie abeg!!
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:21pm On May 12, 2020
At 41 , you shouldn't even come to Nairaland to ask this question. That was what pissed me off. You of all people should know it's not about how far but how well. And again being Single is never a bad thing. To be happy is the Goal. Marriage is not a Goal to happiness. We have thousands if not millions of divorcee out there. They married 10 years ago. And there is nothing to show for it. Don't be sounding like a looser or a failure. And don't allow some peeps who haven't see any in this life to be condemning you for not marrying at 41. It's Rubbish. People that doesn't know their right from left.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:22pm On May 12, 2020
ibinaboonline:
I'm not 40 yet but my mom is currently pressuring me so that I won't be you.
Wait till you reach 70. By then you will marry a nanny that will be taking care of you cheesy
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:22pm On May 12, 2020
[quote author=SageMK post=89409306]Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

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This comment dey scare man pickin oo
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by innobarca(m): 9:22pm On May 12, 2020
The amount of money some single guys spend on women(girlfriends), drinking with friends, buying expensive clothes jewelries, clubbing and changing expensive phones always, furnishing their homes with expensive electronics to attract girls,..... Can take care of their wife and children if they can get married and face their family.

Late is late..... No other way to say it.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by cutefy: 9:23pm On May 12, 2020
Liposure:
but our society doesnt care whether u are ready or not. their own is just marry

The society you fear today will still be the one to insult life out of you if ur marriage failed.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by kemii8025: 9:24pm On May 12, 2020
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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by EtteP(m): 9:25pm On May 12, 2020
Yes ooo. Its too late
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:28pm On May 12, 2020
What now matters most in life is sound health and long life. With these you will see your last child getting married when you're 80 to 90 years old. Bad wife can lead you to your untimely grave so do your due diligence and don't allow rush rush make you regret your decision.

Some persons I know just had their first child after 20 + years of marriage. Nothing in life is cast in stones.

One good child is worthy more than 20,000 miscreants of a children just like the almagiris

A 15 years old girl (first child) in my area just got admitted into medicine and surgery. Her father is fifty something but looks fourth something and doing fine. These are the kind of kids we should wish to have and not bringing children to inherit our ancestral curse life. Innocent children suffering the sins of our ancestors and having delays in breakthrough

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by otomatic(m): 9:28pm On May 12, 2020
Better late than never.

However, son of man should have married latest by his early thirties.

Reasons:
1. you will train your children with the energy of a youth. Go on outings you enjoy with them and even play together. Imagine you are 35/yo and paying ball with your 5/yo son.
Without discouraging ambition, I will add that the only thing you owe your children is education as opposed to schooling. Any inheritance for them is jara. Education by my definition is booksmart plus street smart. Otherwise your sweat will be squandered once you're gone. With education they can make and surpass any achievement they want. And mind you, achievements are personal

2.You won't be paying school fees in your retirement. And of course considering life expectancy, you won't leave them young and vulnerable to suffer.

3.Your partner will not be too young if you marry early. That is to say a man might be 30 and his wife 25. But as men grow older they tend to go for younger women. As an example in your case, you're 41 presently and may be looking for a 25/yo to wife as you may consider older women to be less virile. This age difference in a wife may make some kinds of play seem insulting.
Even your interests/worldview will be more in-sync/aligned if the age gap is not much. Also, both of you will be comfortable in the same social circles. BUT of course you must shine your eyes while choosing a life-partner


These are my opinions. I could go on but it might become boring.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:30pm On May 12, 2020
jydmak:
No o! U are still in ur prime. While u are @ 70 ur first born will be preparing for junior waec.
And his wife will start nursing him and managing his old age wahala
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Adorableessy: 9:32pm On May 12, 2020
It's better late than never





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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by jayaim: 9:34pm On May 12, 2020
Getting married now is not late. Life is not about who is carrying first or last.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by otizs: 9:34pm On May 12, 2020
austine4real:
God's time is the best



Are u male or female .



If u are male starts eating foods that will boost ur sperms till u finds the right woman




If female starts eating foods that will boost ur eggs cos u nearing menopause and reduce stress .


God will guide u



Those of u qouting and insulting me ,it's because u have not seen life .



Jobs can make someone to marry late.

Spiritual attacks.

Economy

War


Health challenges

And many more ...

Because u were lucky to marry early others might not ....
Please suggest which food for male and which one for female. Thanks
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by gemini35(m): 9:34pm On May 12, 2020
Go yea into the world and multiply,common what are u waiting for,?At 42 i,m done with kids 2 boys two girs.no time.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by melviniyke2002(m): 9:35pm On May 12, 2020
SageMK:
Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.

lol....but buhari is above 70 nah�
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by hope4nigeria(m): 9:35pm On May 12, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please
you haven't tell us your sex, if you are a man, how many baby mamas have you created? You are very very irresponsible, if you are a woman, no need to disturb yourself, the one you have played life is enough, reap what you show! No responsible man will go for expired stuff.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:38pm On May 12, 2020
iHateDcrowd:
What now matters most in life is sound health and long life. With these you will see your last child getting married when you're 80 to 90 years old. Bad wife can lead you to your untimely grave so do your due diligence and don't allow rush rush make you regret your decision.

Some persons I know just had their first child after 20 + years of marriage. Nothing in life is cast in stones.

One good child is worthy more than 20,000 miscreants of a children just like the almagiris

A 15 years old girl (first child) in my area just got admitted into medicine and surgery. Her father is fifty something but looks fourth something and doing fine. These are the kind of kids we should wish to have and not bringing children to inherit our ancestral curse life. Innocent children suffering the sins of our ancestors and having delays in breakthrough


I want to relate to this.. my Father is 55 years while am 30 . Am the first born. Am from a humble family. I haven't started given my dad any money. At the same time his friend of the same age about 57 has 2 kids . 14 years and 10 years respectively.. but I can tell you that the life the Man is living, my dad never smell am.. the Man is really living large. And he married a beautiful young wife. So what's the troll about.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by bonnyhope: 9:40pm On May 12, 2020
sleemomymy:
My guy you are dam too late. At 41 you just want to start to buy pampers, at 60 you are still paying school fees. When will you eat the fruit of your labour.
Mind you life expectancy in Nigeria is around 53 year. Sea
Wish you luck ...........

You are going to die at 53

Say smen to that
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by afecgivers: 9:41pm On May 12, 2020
SageMK:
Early or late, it depends on your marital goal.

If your aim is to start a family, then you're a little late considering the life expectancy in Nigeria is 53. This means you have about 12 yrs or more.


Ha! You fit give person hypertension
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by damesilver(m): 9:41pm On May 12, 2020
Koboko444:
And you want people to tell you what? that you are young? To make you feel happy. To tell you that everybody has thier own time. At 41 you still have time to post such a depraved topic. You didn't post an article called mistakes i made in youth. You are here posting a question at 41 am i getting married late. No you are getting married early . Please wait 10 more years to marry. Very deranged and depraved question.

Let me first laugh small at this your post. I couldn't hide it.. But Bros, you wicked. You suppose take it easy on him na. Sometimes we do not get what we want.in life. But let us be grateful for the gift of life to be useful in creation. There are great respected men and women who never married. Let's live a responsible live and be pleasant. The guy might have his request repeatedly rejected by ladies he desired. It does occur real. It occurred to me so it's possible it occurred to anyone. It may not be our luck to live a partnered life. It is still good nevertheless to be grateful.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Simbrixton(m): 9:42pm On May 12, 2020
Look good for ur age package well u are good to go
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 12, 2020
Nn3muka:
You need alot of burantashi, viagra and energy booster to go atleast one round of sex.
Hopefully your woman won't cheat on you

If you are female, IVF is your answer incase you want kids.
Goodluck
u go sabi fcvk gan o hmm,mama d mama,i checked ur dp,

Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by guy222: 9:49pm On May 12, 2020
I am 35 and not yet marry, but after reading comment here fear just the catch me because i am not even thinking of marriage now.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by MicaiahOgorry06: 9:50pm On May 12, 2020
God has made all things beautiful in His own time. It is certainly certain that you will get married sooner than soon according to God's divine arrangement. Just patiently wait for Him while you are still very much active in serving Him.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Nobody: 9:50pm On May 12, 2020
Queenserah26:
For a man, I'll say it's not too late. However, make good use of this time to adequately prepare for marriage to avoid stories that touch when you eventually do!

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