talktrue1234:
But can't we stop all this premarital sex? It's obvious this thing is destroying our society

StacyO:
This only brought about the conclusion that NIGERIAN MEN ARE CONFUSED.

talktrue1234:
But can't we stop all this premarital sex? It's obvious this thing is destroying our society

CosmicPhoenix:

what kind of badly written article is this?society will always view men and women differently when it comes to certain things,a man with multiple sex partners will be seen as a Spartacus,a sharp guy,a real nigga but a lady with multiple sex partners will be seen as a hoe,the confused op even said nigerian men dont want virgins as wives.

i dont know what her agenda was but she failed miserably.she said women who sleep around for money are prostitutes but also said girlfriends render services which the boyfriends have to pay for

Kalatium:

Women are not logical, they try to use Logic but end up using emotions, hence the confusing statements.

PUNAengineOIL:
Nigerian men are not confused, neither are the women too. You writeup is nonsense, you have no point and you made no sense.

Depression is real, please go and look for help.

CosmicPhoenix:

i dont know what her agenda was but she failed miserably.she said women who sleep around for money are prostitutes but also said girlfriends render services which the boyfriends have to pay for

Iretii0511:
The problem with this writeup as is the case with lots of romance topic is generalization of people's opinion. Mr A may wants a full housewife for example while Mr B wants a working class. They are two different people with two distinct opinion.

This is why it's funny when I hear people say Naija girls are confused or Naija guys are confused. People with these line of thought should learn that as human, we have our distinct perspectives. Don't muddle up peoples opinion and then conclude that a group of persons are confused.

StacyO:



I hope you read the NB's??

Iretii0511:


Maybe you didn't understand my submission.

You can't have a straight answer to your question because people have diverse perspectives. What I want as a man differs from what my brother want. That is not confusion. It just happens we want different things and non of us is wrong. You won't deny that among your peers, each of you have different view of who prince charming is. It the same for everybody.

StacyO:


You didn't get the discussion I presume. Putting this up there,I just want to get one explanation.
I see wailing all over the thread already
It's just an honest and direct question.
You men are using your own confusion to confuse the ladies




*The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something)*

Drafted from the writeup.
How would you go about this, assuming you were to be a lady??

Iretii0511:


The reason I said you probably didn't get my submission.

if A wants a virgin, B may not want a virgin
It doesn't make any of the opinion invalid.

We should learn to treat each other as unique entity. That way, there won't be any confusion to start with.
Ann, do you get me now?

My point is, your conclusion stems from muddling up different people's opinion and dragging all of the persons involved in a single umbrella.

StacyO:

How would you go about this, assuming you were to be a lady??

Answer:

Iretii0511:




We should learn to treat each other as unique entity. That way, there won't be any confusion to start with.
Ann, do you get me now?

StacyO:


*As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for*


I hope you get now. Even regardless typo errors,try to comprehend before commenting.

StacyO:


I got where you were driving at the whole time.

But, how can you treat each other as a unique entity when the damage have already been done

Then,I'm trying to note from you, how you would position your decision as a lady.

CosmicPhoenix:

tell us the services they render that deserve payment

Iretii0511:


To answer your question, there is no damage anywhere dear. It's only in your head.

I will do my best to treat each person's opinion as uniquely theirs and not try to allow the opinion of their kinds confuse me.


You stayed up late today though.

StacyO:


You meet Mr A ready to settle down and he doesn't accept two of the qualities above.
You quit and then comes Mr B. Now he accepts the qualities Mr A rejected but, rejected the qualities Mr A accepted.
As a lady, where will you position your opinion?

1StopRudeness:
Women will never learn... till kingdom come they will continue this body count argument....

How will u make choice of spreading ur legs for several men and start complaining when a man says he doesn’t want a lady with Several body counts and a couple of abortion on her CV....it’s his choice.....

Correct me cos I may be wrong, there’s actually nothing nice or cool about sleeping with several people and a couple of abortions to match.
So why do you women expect men to embrace it like its a something to be happy we found??

Here’s the fact... becos I’ve driven several 5th hand vehicles doesn’t mean I don’t deserve a new car.....in fact, the fact that I’ve used cars many other people have used and dumped will make me desire a new one the more..

If you don’t want men to complain about ur high body count.... then close ur legs.... but if u must spread it.... then deal with the consequences.... stop whining......