KidDarkness:
Why are you calling the mods? Sex in a relationship is NOT compulsory. Chastity should be embraced.

talktrue1234:
But can't we stop all this premarital sex? It's obvious this thing is destroying our society

StacyO:


Talk of rape.
@last write up

StacyO:


Your fellow men won't agree with you on this.

KidDarkness:
Sex in a relationship is NOT compulsory. .

JOACHINpedro:

Nice question but I don't think it'll ever gonna be feasible.

StacyO:


Your fellow men won't agree with you on this.

StacyO:
As written by ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

In as much as this post may be gender based, I'll love to indicate that it is equally PUN free.
Over the years,technology and western civilization changed our lives and we all tagged it the 21st century (smiles). This 21st century didn't only bring us closer to change but,it equally is robbing the good morals left in some of us.
After this whole write up,the main BIG question comes up.
Majority of guys I've come across always complain that their women cheat or have a high body count. This leaves me wondering how many body counts the guys in question might have. You go about complaining that Nigerian girls are all for the sex,hoes,sluts(I mean, all sorts of demeaning names). But,come to think of it,who actually created this hoes you always scream about??
Being a virgin in Nigeria is not an easy task,as a matter of fact, "it is a full time job".
I hear you guys take pride in comparing foreign girls with your Niger chicks. Do you know that an average foreign babe(your babe) sleeps around as much as she wants,until she's ready to get married??
But,I don't see you guys debating about this
Instead,all you do is paint your own pride black. Just to prove what exactly??

Then comes the sex vs money war;
You claim Nigeria girls have nothing aside sex to offer,what asides money do you have to offer?? (I mean money )
Sex as research says and I believe is something both partners enjoy in a relationship. Your girlfriend can never offer you her body for money. As a matter of fact, the only person I know that will offer you her body for money is a prostitute. And don't get me wrong,they render services which you have to pay for.

The worst part of this whole issue now is that;
You claim you don't want a virgin for wife.
You claim you don't want a deflowered lady for wife.
You claim you don't need a working class lady cause their problems will be too much to handle.
You still claim you don't need a full time house wife.
You always claim that Nigeria girls can't work for their money (am I missing something or you are missing something).
This only brought about the conclusion that NIGERIAN MEN ARE CONFUSED.

To the ladies;
Stop giving out your body to people that don't appreciate it,if you want to fvck around,do it cause you want to. Stop giving someone sex due to what they say or offer you. Channel that few minutes energy into something resourceful and useful.
Forget that you've deflowered, it was your choice anyway but,stop making it look like you're selling your body out for money.

You as a lady and you're a virgin,please hold on to it cause,it's rare to find one this days. Forget all the confused rants on the internet,men are dying to find your kind.
Don't let one confused human being confuse you.

To the men;
Come off it. You complain that the girls have entitlement mentality, they can't bring new things to the table. What exactly have you brought to the table??
For you to even know that all Nigerian girls are hoes only makes you a male whóre (You're practically cheap).
You are the ones creating this hoes you cry of.

A lady can never offer you sex!!
You don't pay a lady money for sex unless she is a prostitute!!
And you wonder how or why people still get married in Nigeria with all the confusions flying around.

NB: The word "some" was used in this writeup though it wasn't indicated.
I'm not supporting any gender,just jotting



NB: All that is needed is an ANSWER to the question,don't come here and start singing your normal lullaby.

Now the BIG question as regards the topic;
#whatexactlydonigerianmenwant¿

cc lalasticlala,Dominique

fati2001:
but same gender will say "they can be in a relationship with out sex "

1StopRudeness:


Does it matter what the men think....??

Women are the determining factor in all sexual activity whether the man approached or the lady made the first move....once u don’t want the d!ck... sex isn’t happening....

So at the end of the day....I women cannot blame men for your high bodycounts.... because of all women decides not to have sex before marriage that’s what all men will get used to.... and like the days of our fathers... boys will start being responsible

1StopRudeness:


What has rape got to do with spreading legs up and down..??

StacyO:


Your last sentence though.
Do you know that men and women are wired differently when it comes to sex?? Now do you know that ladies doing that will increase gender based violence??

You guys are just trying to deviate from the question. Only one person here actually gave me an honest answer, which I believe shouldn't be so. Considering the fact that any thread that concerns ladies on this forum,you guys won't waste time before disgracing your ladies.

KidDarkness:
It goes for both genders too

StacyO:


You don't jump into people's discussions unless you're told to.
You can read the last sentence in his write up if you still want to get enlightened on why I put rape anyway.

fati2001:

men are worst... imagine someone said he can't wife a virgin.

1StopRudeness:


You are rude.... this is a public forum... u posted a thread.... you responded to my comment...yet u are saying I shouldn’t jump into you discussion unless u tell me to.... are u bipolar or u are just trying to be condescending...??

KidDarkness:

There's nothing wrong getting married to a virgin. Better if both parties are virgins, cus they will learn and grow sexually together.

1StopRudeness:


What?? Increase in geneder based violence becos women refuse to have random indiscriminate sex when men ask?? Was that how it was in the olden days??

It is even now that women are sexually liberal having sex like it’s water that the violence is higher...

Btw....what question did u ask??

StacyO:



mmmmmm
You're becoming emotional.

StacyO:



Olden days??
Exactly why 21st century was stated in the write up dear.

Mind you, I didn't write girls should start opening their legs anyhow.
Though the problem lies with both gender,I strongly believe men are the MAIN issue here.

StacyO:


Your fellow men won't agree with you on this.

KidDarkness:

There's nothing wrong getting married to a virgin. Better if both parties are virgins, cus they will learn and grow sexually together.

Julianah21:
The did as been done for some in this generation but we can help build the next generation

Powerfly:
What baffles me this days is when a man is looking for a Godfearing lady to commit fornication with.

Powerfly:
What baffles me this days is when a man is looking for a Godfearing lady to commit fornication with.