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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Pearl05(f): 2:08pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Has he been drunk that he fell inside a ditch or lay on the street? If yes just arrange with a morgue attendant to keep him among dead people if such occurs again. Take him there in his drunken state and lay him among corpses by the time he wakes up he will be frightened and when he start shouting that he is not dead, the attandant should insist that he is dead and should rest in peace because he was picked the previous day on the road dead. The attendant should shut him up that " you his restless dead body allow me to rest no be me kill you na your too much drinking damaged your liver" at least let him stay with corpse for an hour after he has woken up and sober. It will will shake him up after the experience he won't look at alcohol again except if voodoo is involved. Never you let him know that you did it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by CHoccolaTE: 2:26pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
bukatyne: Hahahaha Mr man keep your pained prayers to yourself, and look elsewhere for attention stop bothering me this afternoon 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by frozen70(f): 2:39pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Report him to his doctor and any day he is sick doctor will tell him that he needs to test his organs, then he will tell him that his liver and kidney are affected by alcohol That alone will change his drinking habit Secondly, keep reminding him of the financial responsibilities at home and learn to start allowing the children to demand from him directly It may help him spend less in alcohol |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by amaham(m): 2:45pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:Auntie so you don't have a job? That's a more serious problem than his alcoholism. Since you can't be financially independent of him, that's why he bluffs your talk. Try get something doing fast madam before the drinking graduate to cheating 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by CHoccolaTE: 2:50pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
amaham: A woman should be financially independent of her husband but a man can depend on his wife for everyday cooking, childcare, market going, running the house, cleaning up even cleaning his piss from bedsheets sef..... but a wife should not expect financial support from her husband. Wickedness no go kill Nigerian men. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 2:57pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Have you considered for him to see a psychotherapist? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Gloriagee(f): 3:00pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 3:02pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
gaius01: Why turn to prayer alone when there is a body of knowledge, developed by exercising God given brains in the field of psychology? 6 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 3:05pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
bukatyne: I like this tough love. Quite useful for a situation like this and similar ones. Thanks. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Gmajor(m): 3:14pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
[s] lilmax:[/s] Please do not try this at home 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bukatyne(f): 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi: Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Zither(m): 3:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: you deliberately overlooked his primary concern for her which is for her to be financially independent of the man SO she can cater for herself and her children should something happen to the husband (not anyone's wish or intention). It is already a rainy day in her life and she is little prepared for it due to her financial constraints...but it is not too late to save...rain may get worse. This has nothing to do with gender role or duties in marital institutions. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bukatyne(f): 3:26pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Gloriagee(f): 3:32pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ok lemme know when you do. Hopefully by then you'll have also figured out why a wife has problems with her husband's drunkenness and lack of self control. bukatyne: 12 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 3:39pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi:Is better to turn to the giver of phycology than to the phycologist - the learner. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by angelfallz(m): 3:41pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: Exactly, gone are the days when, before you get married the families would investigate each other to know if there are any hidden things. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by lilmax(m): 3:41pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
dorin27: Humans are opportunists The more you tolerate a human, the more you will be taken for granted He is involved in drinking because he knows his wife will clean him up no matter what But if the wife starts cheating, neglecting him he'll be back to his senses The best he will do is kick her out Well, if she has her own money, she'll do just fine So yes, I was thinking straight when I typed those Once again, MY OPINION 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by angelfallz(m): 3:42pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax: So she should degrade herself to correct her husband? Smh 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 3:46pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
gaius01: anonimi: anonimi: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by lilmax(m): 3:55pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
angelfallz:her husband is already degrading himself by drinking We all know he sleeps with women too In this subject, she's not degrading herself Look at it this way Cheating: exploring Coming home late: enjoying herself Not cooking: doing better things with her time One thing I know here is, if the roles were reversed, her husband won't even think twice before moving with other women, or even kicking her out She in the marriage to enjoy herself, not to take care of a BIG BABY reading her situation alone irritates me 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 3:58pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi: You are missing it, don't mistake things. What your pix is referring to are people who perform religious rite but people who have a relationship with God are two different people entirely. I can go to church I don't want to, but because dad will rant I will just go, what am I doing? Performing religious rite. But going to church to have a cominioun, the KOINONIA, is not a religious rites it's a way of talking to the father, one on one. See I understand your ideology, and the worldly standard . most people practice Christian just because I can't join any religion. The fact is, to have a relationship with God is a conviction that has to be done by the holy spirit base on your willingness. If a person is convicted and has the relationship with God he won't be performing rite but a relationship with God which will be evident. The reason why most Christain don't receive is because they think performing religious rite will help them whenyl thier mind is not set up with God. Lastly praying is not a religious rite but a medium in which man communicate with God. 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Dayoebe(m): 3:59pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
bukatyne:Honestly, it works. He will get tired of it quickly. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by angelfallz(m): 4:06pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax: My God! smh 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 4:12pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
gaius01: Why go to church, mosque, shrine, mountain, beach or any specific place to talk one on one with the Omnipresent God/Father? Does that align with what Jesus Christ said in John 4 to the Samaritan woman at the well, or how He asked his followers to pray with the template of Our Lord’s Prayer? anonimi: anonimi: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 4:14pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Dayoebe: In how many people has it worked? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 4:24pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi: oh I get your direction. the only reason Christian go to church is to receive more knowledge about God and encourage our selves. 3 Likes
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 4:29pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi: Even Jesus worship in the temple, read the amp and NIV version Luck 4:16 Mark the word "AS HIS CUSTOM" so that means Jesus do go to church on a regular basis. 3 Likes
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 4:32pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
gaius01: Again, you don’t have to go to church to receive more knowledge about God, as presented by Jesus Christ, except you don’t have a Bible and/or cannot read. What you get in the church, any church, is the pastor’s one way of interpreting the words and works of Jesus Christ about God. No more no less. Do you know why Apostle Paul praised the Berean Christians for consistently cross checking the Bible to validate or invalidate what they were told in church? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 4:34pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
gaius01: You don’t know the difference between a discussion/meeting and worship/sermon? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 4:40pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi: This was the very reason why they were studying the scriptures.. Read 2 Timothy 2:15 1 Like
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 4:45pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
anonimi: Wait wait what are excetly are you insinuating? are you saying going to church to receive more knowledge about the word, gotten from the Bible is a crime due to what Jesus said you the Samaritan woman. John 4 that the day will come when they won't worship in Samaritan, but in the spirit and truth? what is your point all about? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by anonimi: 4:49pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
I won’t derail this thread anymore. So sorry to the OP. 1 Like |
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