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My Husband Travelled To Lagos 3 Weeks After Our Wedding And Never Returned / Help My Husband Lacks Self Control / "I Travelled For 1 Week & My Husband Turned My Kitchen To This" - Woman (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by SunTzu123(m): 10:15pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
I recently read a story on social media about how an alcoholic was "delivered" from the addiction; arrange with a mortuary attendant near you. Next time he drinks, carry him to the mortuary. Thank me later. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by rapheal5(m): 10:16pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
[color=#000099][/color] Go to the nearest cemetery pay them some money to come pick him at night next time he get drunk and tell the cemetery workers to lay him down with the dead bodies and instruct them not to let him come home till the next morning even if he claim to be a living person they should scare him more that he's dead that they don't mind killing him for the second time.....He dare not drink to stupor again.. virtuouswoman77: |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by BestNaija(m): 10:16pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Washing your dirty linen outside in public abi? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by andyanders: 10:17pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:Well said and on point. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Omoolami100: 10:19pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:There's a drug. I can't remember the name, but if you get him to take it, he'll react badly to alcohol whenever he takes it. No fatal reaction, just throwing up and stuff like that. So after some days/weeks of this treatment, the urge to take alcohol would have reduced drastically. Talk to pharmacist about it as I do not advocate for self medication. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by AfroKnight: 10:19pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax: Bro you should put “Just Kidding” after this your advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Xbee007(m): 10:19pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:Dude needs serious help. I seriously don't get why the mods continue to allow him spam threads. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by nosike3(m): 10:20pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
He needs psychological help.. If he is in Lagos,I can help.. Synapse service mangolia at Lagos help substance abusers |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by BoboNogoDie: 10:20pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:First reasonable copied post... on Nairaland Keep it up |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by ehix89(m): 10:20pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Did he just cultivate the habit of drinking or he has always been a drunk? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by useurkidney3121: 10:22pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:Read carefully. This will work for u 1 Like
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by mimimiles93: 10:22pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:Was this how you met him? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by BoboNogoDie: 10:23pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Shut up!
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:What did I just read? Mbanu, Ishilove account haff been hacked. No, this can't be her. 3 Likes
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Xbee007(m): 10:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
cococandy:How does alcoholism and hypertension correlate? I don't get it? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by kbright2(m): 10:26pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:This might work for you too, a story I read that stopped a long time alcoholic addict of a lady hubby. It goes thus: She just planned it with a mortuary attendant, took her hubby there after he had passed out after excessive intake of alcohol as usual. He slept there over night n after he woke up amidst the dead, he was beaten up by the attendant stating is a dead that woke up that he must return to his death world. The next day, his wife was called to come pretending they never met that he was mistakenly brought there as a dead person. He stopped alcohol ever since then. Prayer is the best to end this sister |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by UndauntedYOCA(f): 10:28pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
UDUJ:Contribute to the point that he pees on the bed? Haba! Il boit comme un trou! 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Ishilove: 10:29pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
J111333:Christianity is not synonymous with 'senselessness'. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Chris2863(m): 10:29pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89:She needs a practical solution Oga, she didn't tell you that she doesn't pray. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by nedekid: 10:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:The state of the economy has turned many to alcoholics. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Pipefitter: 10:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: [b]I'm sorry you find yourself in such situation, when he is sober ask him for a time you two could talk, let him chose a comfortable time, start the meeting with prayer and your kids, then afterwards ask the kids to leave, then speak to his soul not just his ears, ask him if that is the legacy he wants to leave for the kids, discuss with him the health implications of being a drink which includes liver damage and the rest, plead with him not to bring disgrace to your family or be a source of mockery to you amongst your friends or his friends. Try to make him see reasons, people break free from addiction when they make an effort, he needs to genuinely see reasons why he should change for the better, also make it a habit to pray together as a family in the morning before he leaves and at night, above all pray for him in secret too, there is nothing impossible before God, if you do all these and he doesn't change consider a divorce because you deserve to be happy too, maybe that will make him come to his senses (this should be your last option though [/b] |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 10:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Oboy, be practical for once, stop all these nonsense. I put it to you that your type are the major p. We have as a nation. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by maasoap(m): 10:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: You missed one thing: what op can do about her situation. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Longman180(m): 10:31pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by omoharry(f): 10:31pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:I think you must have seen the sign but you decided to over look it, thinking it's a one off stuff .If you dated for nine months and in close proximity to each other ,there is no way this side of his habit would have slipped past your fingers without you knowing it. Does that means you didn't socialize with him & by any chance ever close to his friends and their girlfriends? This is becos, there is no way you will date a guy and hang around his friends & not notice them talk about one or two of his habit. There was definately no background checks on the man you married . I missed our parents per-marital method of always investigating thier children would be spouse before giving their consent in marriage .It helps a lot. You & your your husband should go to a professional for counseling, if you can afford it .There is something eating at him for him to always show up drunk . I hope this is not an habit that he is addicted to? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by professore(m): 10:32pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:well said. You made very reasonable contribution. Zzor says cool things like this... |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by tellwisdom: 10:32pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Wear him pampers to save your bed |
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