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Re: Married But Feels Single. by penjm: 10:07am On Oct 29, 2020
Foolish talk.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by jaxxy(m): 10:08am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?


Why did he marry sm1 he doesn’t love and even have 4 kids with her?? Can sm1 have continuous sex and living in with sm1 they don’t love??

Was he forced at gun point to marry and impregnate her? Why didn’t he look for somebody else? Did she jazz him? Or he was just an emotional idiot or wreck?

Why on earth did he marry her? Then I will give u the right solution to the problem.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Mineisgrace(f): 10:08am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?
after having 4 kids?

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Nobody: 10:10am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?
Friend or you? We are tired of this lie

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Goodzinny: 10:17am On Oct 29, 2020
Let him go and sit down. Now that he has finished the poor woman by making her have 4 children under 5years, he does not have feelings again. He is now admiring those Secondary school kids. Let him drink sniper. Idiot!

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 10:23am On Oct 29, 2020
Ahmed0336:
he feels nothing and they're blessed with children?

how comes him pen!s dey erect
Wetin consign penis with feeling?

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by SweetCunt97(f): 10:24am On Oct 29, 2020
Kelvin30286063:
He feels nothing yet he got her pregnant 4 times! Sorry to say but your friend is crazy.
So if you feel nothing for someone, the way you will show it is by bleeping her and making her give you 4 babies. Your friend should just say he is tired of bleeping a woman with 4 kids.

On a different note, here is an advice to ladies out there, if you know you want to have more than 2 kids, make sure you have C-section in all. Having many babies through your V will render it useless for the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Especially when you have 4 babies in 4 years like our dear op's friend
The V goes back to normal when taken care of. Only a wicked fellow will advise C Section.
Re: Married But Feels Single. by emkz: 10:32am On Oct 29, 2020
If it is a problem bothering your friend, why can't he complain by himself?

What is your business in his marriage or are you his gay partner or you are a part-time servicer of his wife??
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 29, 2020
anochuko01:
Nigerian couples are always fighting but never stop producing babies grin grin
It's indeed a wonder.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Nobody: 10:36am On Oct 29, 2020
Kelvin30286063:
He feels nothing yet he got her pregnant 4 times! Sorry to say but your friend is crazy.
So if you feel nothing for someone, the way you will show it is by bleeping her and making her give you 4 babies. Your friend should just say he is tired of bleeping a woman with 4 kids.

On a different note, here is an advice to ladies out there, if you know you want to have more than 2 kids, make sure you have C-section in all. Having many babies through your V will render it useless for the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Especially when you have 4 babies in 4 years like our dear op's friend
What do you mean by that? You are just being insensitive.
Re: Married But Feels Single. by TemmyDayo50(m): 10:38am On Oct 29, 2020
anochuko01:
Nigerian couples are always fighting but never stop producing babies grin grin

Konji na bastarrd grin
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Queenserah26(f): 10:38am On Oct 29, 2020
My thought exactly grin

Ahmed0336:
he feels nothing and they're blessed with children?

how comes him pen!s dey erect

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Queenserah26(f): 10:40am On Oct 29, 2020
Amen grin

J111333:
Your friend is looking for an excuse to cheat and you're not helping out because if you are, you won't be here with this silly question.

His penis has been very active on his wife since 2015 and it should remain so or else, na thunder go fire am. angry

Re: Married But Feels Single. by alfredfrddy(m): 10:47am On Oct 29, 2020
bdchange:
Married with four children in space of 5 years You African men will never change. That it even happened in this generation is pathetic and unreasonable. I don't even understand the loneliness he is yarning about. Better warn him not to cheat rather focus on his wife and children by first going for family planning. I hope they can give those children a better life. You can see what hoodlums are doing to the communities currently as a result of poor upbringing from useless parents.
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Kelvin30286063(m): 10:52am On Oct 29, 2020
englois:



Abi now! Sebi nah because of sex man dey marry woman. She should perform CS abi. Endure the pain, risk her life, all because she wants to keep the 'V' useful for her husband.
You need reorientation. Guess you are not even married! Keep your silly advice to yourself

I'm more married than you. But you all hate the truth.
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Kelvin30286063(m): 10:54am On Oct 29, 2020
SweetCunt97:
The V goes back to normal when taken care of. Only a wicked fellow will advise C Section.

What goes back to normal? It only goes back to normal after the second child. Anything after 2 babies, your V loses elasticity
Re: Married But Feels Single. by englois: 10:56am On Oct 29, 2020
Kelvin30286063:


I'm more married than you. But you all hate the truth.

Every Mallam to his kettle. Nah you Sabi. Mr very married
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Kelvin30286063(m): 10:58am On Oct 29, 2020
englois:


Every Mallam to his kettle. Nah you Sabi. Mr very married
Your headache. No time for nonentities
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:03am On Oct 29, 2020
The man's cassava loves the woman's kpekus but the man himself doesn't live the woman. In 5 years they have produced 4 kids. I suspect the man.
Re: Married But Feels Single. by whitecake: 11:07am On Oct 29, 2020
sex doesn't mean love
marriage doesn't mean love
love like hot soup can cool off if not preserved with heat.
this is the case for so many marriages.
you could love someone today and it dies tomorrow. the lady falls in love with her kids, the man feels left out and empty.

it happens everytime even in relationships. partners should seek good help from professionals on how to keep it burning.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by authority2006(m): 11:12am On Oct 29, 2020
gabicon:


It takes time to build and nurture a relationship, having 4 children in a space of 5 years is enough to strain a nurturing relationship. The couple are having less sex and less time together, the children have become the center of their lives. The relationship can still be salvaged by creating time for themselves.

I like your perspective unlike others who were just commenting
Re: Married But Feels Single. by portplus: 11:17am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

His feeling is normal...with 4 Children...his wife is over burdened with taking care of the kids...even with additional hands to help it's still not easy.

Arrival of children in a marriage comes with its challenges part which is stress, dearth of romance and spousal abandonment.

My suggestions:

1. Stop giving birth forthwith

2. Help with taking of the kids...bathing etc....this will lessen the burden on his wife and then she can have time for him.

3. Work on rejuvenating romance again.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by barajo1(m): 11:18am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?
4 children in 5 years? Your friend needs to be arrested. And if na you, claiming its your friend. U are under Arrest!

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by uuzba(m): 11:22am On Oct 29, 2020
barajo1:
4 children in 5 years? Your friend needs to be arrested. And if na you, claiming its your friend. U are under Arrest!
Don't mind the idiot
Is the marriage his marriage?
The friend didn't complain, na him carry the complaint for head like gele...
Nonsense.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Carlylepneuma: 11:23am On Oct 29, 2020
Obierika:
The earlier we re-embrace polygamy in Africa the better for us.

This type of situation will not arise if the man has more than one wife because he will be eating a different 'soup' everyday grin
obviously polygamy is and has always been the answer to most this problems. Bt this cheats will tell u that i cant be polygamous one woman is enough for me and wen she provoke him? then off he goes to his side bitch Who is the fool
Re: Married But Feels Single. by CaptMarvel(m): 11:26am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?
he's a fùcking perverted liar! He feels nothing but got erection to father four children! Rabbish! The last time I had no feeling for someone she was almost sitting on my lap and her boobs to my eyes yet no single blood flow to erect my thing! Your guy should forget that thing and work out love into it. when he's making love to her he should be saying sweet things to her lolz love will come by force! Lolz grin

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by salvation77177: 11:28am On Oct 29, 2020
So, there have no feeling for one another but yet only after 4years plus, they are having four children already. Nosense.
Please, if your story is actually true, tell them to be careful and plan how to take good care of the kids they have given birth to.
Re: Married But Feels Single. by Cutiekatty: 11:30am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

Your guy dey screw one small girl outside.
Them force am marry her or him dey drunk for 5years. But wait oh 5 years 4Kids u nor love her? What if you come love her na every 3 months she go dey born. The fact is your friend is an idiot looking for a way out.

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Gloriagee(f): 11:34am On Oct 29, 2020
Your friend

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Re: Married But Feels Single. by Starhearts: 11:38am On Oct 29, 2020
ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

Mind ur buzz
Y ur friend too like sex?
Imagine married 2015 nd he get 4 pikin
Now u gonna talk say naa TINUBU be ur problem

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