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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
purples25: But men love sexually and women love conditionally So it's kinda unrealistic to downplay the role of sex and money in a relationship |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 11:52pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: Even so, sex is not a guarantee that she will get the money. Guys can have sex and find their way out of giving her any money. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 11:55pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
purples25:Girls demand you send them money wen they are not even in the same country as you the man, Una upgrade faster than Men ahahah, One girl can ask for N50k fro 20 guys may 4 can drop same times same alert 4 ti mes, man can only back one girl at a time in one bed same room! girls sharp sha,, I only pity brothers wey never see the light |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 11:58pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE: If we want to see road, everyone has to tone down on their desires. That's the beginning of the language of a true relationship and love : SACRIFICE. Part of relationships is sacrifice for the right reasons. Not because he wants to have sex or because she needs to be spent on to be happy. Its hard but both parties need to agree for something sensible to happen. And that's what shows they are serious, because they are ready to take that road of working together. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 12:01am On Dec 13, 2020 |
purples25: It's makes sense on paper but that's not our societal reality |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 12:03am On Dec 13, 2020 |
erico2k2: The girl in question is not having a real relationship. Its people who are in real relationships and are worried about losing that we are talking about. Anyway, your words proved the main point again. Some girls will scam their way to get money without sex. Meaning, sex is not needed or a guarantee in a relationship. ..To get what you want as a woman or not get it. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 12:04am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE: Well there's the truth but it's easier said than done. Kudos to those who can do it though. I guess they're the ones who end up married. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by zed7: 12:52am On Dec 13, 2020 |
People want sex for different reasons. For me, it's a bond and an expression of love. I don't see how a lady who claims to love me cannot give me one of her most prized possessions- her body. The only exception is if she's a virgin, then we could both wait. You can't have given it to others and now chose not to give the man you currently claim to love. I don't smash and go, perhaps that's why I take sex seriously in a relationship. Sex is overrated though. If you are one who changes relationship like wrappers, then beware of sex, otherwise you will end up with a high body count which will leave you feeling used, empty and worthless, irrespective of whether you are male or female. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Alaganature(m): 1:14am On Dec 13, 2020 |
To me sex is important in a relationship... after spending my money on a lady what else do she have to offer in the relationship aside sex? So it's important oo |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 1:47am On Dec 13, 2020 |
purples25:nothingn is guaranteed as far as man is involved. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by segunotiti(m): 2:21am On Dec 13, 2020 |
For me it makes things easier, no responsibility, no guilt, no stress. Makes you see the actual person you see dating. When a man is not sexually active. it removes some unnecessary lady stress and insult while he values the character and personality of the person he is dating. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by ossai2(m): 2:28am On Dec 13, 2020 |
If you are not ready for sex in relationship don't go into it, because you have nothing to offer in that relationship. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Emyogalanya: 2:29am On Dec 13, 2020 |
You ladies should learn to stick to your brothers and family members for financial needs if not for anything at least it can guarantee you that your much desired "no-sex-till-marriage" 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Franklydes(m): 2:35am On Dec 13, 2020 |
illicit:Don't decieve yourself, sex doesn't create any bond except in marriage. You can as well argue with your keyboard |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Franklydes(m): 2:42am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:My opinion is that its cause of the way ladies behave and as such most guys don't want to loose his spending which is in some words immature. On the other hand if no trust it would make him want to Bleep you once on site because he believes once you not there you gonna Bleep someone else. other again is that most guys hangout with the wrong crew which have the worst ideas about relationships i mean what they know is sex. some as a guy watch the company you keep, |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by femmoy(m): 2:44am On Dec 13, 2020 |
foolish nairaland girls,it's now you are claiming holy holy relationship but you wouldn't be holy or spiritual when making demands your father's can't meet. I hate Naija girls mentality. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Waterlrd: 3:01am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nazgul:Hahahaha....... This only applies when a lady is dating well advanced men ( aged) No relationship of young people has ever progressed based material gift & or counceiling. I bought the idea of the guy that said " sex" create bond & it's true. You will begin to experience the true love of man or woman after sex. Anyways, if anyone can make relationship work without sex, well it's good but should know that such relationship is devoid of any excitement.The only few guys that may accept it may have other motive in such relationship ( may be they want to get a job or other things through the ladies parent.) To the op, yes, unless it's perternal/ merternal love, sex is a prove that there exist love for the lovers. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by galantjoe(m): 3:22am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Am disappointed by comments from people. Why people are so hypocritical. Sex is a key to a successful relationship when both of you fancied it. If sex is against your faith, kindly free that guy. Stop imposing your nonsense belief on innocent man, free him if you can't satisfy his sexual urge. I don't know why people are so dump to see that sex is one of metabolic processes our body need to sustain life functions. Do u want to turn him to masturbator? That would later affect you people sex life when you eventually marry Free him joor 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by bepositive11: 3:33am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shadeyinka: Great response!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by bepositive11: 3:37am On Dec 13, 2020 |
I've noticed a lot of comments talking about how men want sex in exchange for the financial favours they're giving women in the relationship. The truth is, when a man truly loves a woman, he would give without any expectations. Although he would not want to be taken advantage of, the satisfaction he gets from giving the woman things and making her happy will be more than enough. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Meme16(m): 4:20am On Dec 13, 2020 |
First, irrespective of popular opinion, not all men go into a relationship for sex, there are great men out there who never defiled themselves but waited for marriage before sex, probably you have not met them. sex before marriage is SIN and I don't care how anyone try to justify the act, what matters for me is what God says, which is well written in the holy book. Besides, who told you sex can keep a man? If that's the case, why do most men that get this sex from their so called girlfriend cheat with another lady, even some married men. So you see, it's not just about the sex but something more. For me, it's one's value system, self control and fear of God that would make a man commit to a relationship and not sex. If you like cohabitate and give him enough sex, a man that will leave you will still leave. I might be wrong but I feel is ladies who can only offer sex and have no intellectual capacity to make life better for themselves feel threatened when a guy use sex as a bargaining power in a relationship, probably because of the money and material gifts they get from guys. However, Many ladies out there with self worth can make their own money not waiting for any ancestor to blackmail them with sex to keep a relationship, even if they give in for sex they do that out of their own volition not that they were blackmailed, Though I'm � percent against sex before marriage. My dear ladies, build, train and help yourself to make it on ur own as you can have options and also attract great men to yourself. Shalom!! 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 5:27am On Dec 13, 2020 |
erico2k2: Exactly. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DeMoneyGenius: 5:31am On Dec 13, 2020 |
The rules are simple. Don't take if you don't wanna give. That's the meaning of life. Say no to premarital sex. Say NO to premarital EXTORTION. If you go into a relationship with a guy and you define the terms at the beginning, stick by those terms. Keep in mind that no one, I repeat, no human being wants to play a lose game. A man is giving you money, expensive gifts. You keep collecting and demanding for more. When he eventually asks for sex, you cry foul. Ok... Take note that you can not eat your cake and have it. Ladies should learn to humbly and sincerely reject bogus gifts from guys they are dating. Don't turn someone to an ATM except you are ready to become an AFM. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by King44(m): 5:39am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nairalanders and sex matter be like ant and sugar... See as thread long.... This op sef your lie too much.... You guys should repent before we enter 2021 |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 5:55am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE: They actually do, but it make the male folks feel uncomfortable to see women show they enjoy sex. That's why they have to pretend and deceive. 99% of women lie about their sexual exploits and experience. Ever wonder why most African societies cut of a girls clitoris at birth? The society can't stand the thought of women enjoying sex. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 6:00am On Dec 13, 2020 |
bepositive11: What of where a woman truly loves a man without expectations? What can a woman give to show a man that she truly the man without expectations? 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Dbeautifulme(f): 6:11am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Romanoff: Gbamsolutely!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Dbeautifulme(f): 6:12am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Sex thread and nairalanders though
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by phenylalanine(m): 6:17am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:Your experience could help her and will also answer the question, so just share with her that part you left for another day |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 6:20am On Dec 13, 2020 |
erico2k2:I don edit am to 12... |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by NoToPile: 6:22am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nuttella: This table you are shaking ehn Sex before marriage is one thing that is frowned at in Christianity, Islam and even traditionally/culturally. That's the only thing the 3 seem to agree on. E get why ooo. I am a Christian and I will always say it having sex before marriage is not worth it both male and female. Even if you have been having sex before you can still change, decide to stop and hold on till you get married. Show me a man/woman that can delay gratification for an appointed time,that is someone with a high level of self control and endurance. Beside Sex has never and can never keep a man lailai so for my sisters what exactly is the point, I am talking as a married woman. And then the spiritual side, sexual immorality has opened people to a whole lot of problems, but they will say na lie, If only God can open their eyes. Our bodies are the temple of the living God- some people no dey open bible reach that side Lemme read down more I know you will be quoted a lot 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by NoToPile: 6:28am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shadeyinka: Good submission sir. 1 Like |
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