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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Onyi22(f): 6:35am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Good question |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Caseywilliams(m): 6:37am On Dec 13, 2020 |
erico2k2:nawa ooh so is the puna/john Thomas that is holding them back ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Aguilar(m): 6:40am On Dec 13, 2020 |
not all men o |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by yenereal(m): 6:56am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nazgul: You are right here. It's been long I read good comments on NL. Your response to this is apt. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 6:57am On Dec 13, 2020 |
wirinet: Men love it if their wives love sex. Sex is only pure and undiluted in marriage anything outside that is just diminishing the woman's worth or value especially in terms of marriage. Nooo African societies want to raise good families by ensuring most women are virgins b4 getting married. Then u can enjoy sex with ur husband African societies don't promote hoes and whoredom for women. We are not like the foolish western society whom have made women and marriage worthless. Hoes and whores don't raise good children and they don't keep a good home |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 6:59am On Dec 13, 2020 |
purples25: I kinda doubt But they might be the ones who stay married till death do them apart |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by kosiebe(m): 7:10am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:Bottle beer for you |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 7:10am On Dec 13, 2020 |
fati2001:if u like change am to virgin mary with 5 dozen kids |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by kosiebe(m): 7:13am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:You get time they answer that person |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 7:14am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shaksman96: en com concern you... WAHALA TIE GELE.. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Erotix: 7:18am On Dec 13, 2020 |
larryking540: They will have to look for guys that prefer blow jobs and get into relationship with them. “Two cannot walk, except they agree “ |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 7:19am On Dec 13, 2020 |
purples25:virgin wey no get anything to offer b4 the marriage dem go bleep am, stay ur fada house till u ready for courtship wey wedding go sup within a year. this is 21st century, no time |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 7:26am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE:You are persisting with your arguing senselessly again. You are the that made a blanket statement that women don't enjoy sex, I debunked it, by pointing it that they pretent because men feels women that shows they enjoy sex are seen as whores, now you are going of the tangent once again by saying women enjoy sex only inside marriage. Really? You just make up crazy assertions with so much confidence.
African societies that promotes polygamy and female genital mutilation is foolish? The same western society that gave you your religion, culture, system of governance and economy is foolish? You are obviously delusional.
I don't know about good homes, but hoes and whores raise good children as any Christian or pastor. Most wayward children are children of christians and pastors. You have a conditions known as whorephobia or hoephobia. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 7:30am On Dec 13, 2020 |
fati2001:Concern me ke! nibo.....wahala 4 who e concern. neman tsokana |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 7:33am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shaksman96: then why the mentioned in first place... if en no concern you?... go find trouble for another side. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 7:35am On Dec 13, 2020 |
wirinet: Sex is meant to b enjoyed only in marriage for the woman. Polygamy is our culture, but it is outlawed in the west and yet men in the west still have plenty baby mamas whom they may never marry. I m not using religion, but I'm using biology, science and my traditional beliefs. How do u want to raise good children under a single parent system?? It's the worst way,especially single mothers, to raise children. Western culture that has promoted divorce rape through ur fem centric family court laws We Africans hate divorce and value marriage, our women and children HOES AND WHORES DON'T KNOW HOW TO KEEP A GOOD HOME TALKLESS OF RAISING GOOD CHILDREN |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:37am On Dec 13, 2020 |
NoToPile:If only they will listen. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shadeyinka(m): 7:37am On Dec 13, 2020 |
wirinet:I only answered her question of "Why do ALL men...?". I have only said that it is NOT all men! My choosing not to have sex is based on my religious values. If not for that, I would certainly had attempted to have sex with her. wirinet:Sex is overrated when it comes to relationships. My 2.5 years wait and sexless relationship resulted in marriage: meaning that your claim is too general. However in marriage it is like tn engine oil that lubricates other areas of the relationship. Sexless marriage relationships are usually a symptom of deeper fundamental problems. Why do you think some men commit adultery? Is it because sex isn't enough? wirinet:Any one sided relationship is likely not going to be stable. What do I want in a relationship? Sex or Her as a person? wirinet:Like I have said, I have only stated that there are exceptions to the fact that ALL men want a sex filled relationship with a lady before marrying her. For some of us, our relationship with God is more important than pleasures. wirinet:Sexless marriage relationships where both parties are healthy is just a symptom of deeper problems. Character is more important to the success of marriage than sexual excellence. Virginity is NOT a guarantee for having a good marriage: the character is! However, there are some TRUST related issues that sexual purity before marriage solves. wirinet:Most men are strongly driven by their SEXUALITY and if not for the reason of religion, there is really no other reason to prohibit a man having sex with any woman. The truth of the matter is that Ladies stand to GAIN or LOSE with whoever they have sex with: the men lose nothing except spiritually! 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by kolas88(m): 7:42am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Liers and pretenders everywhere.as if 98 percent of them are not having sex in their relationships. That's why Nigeria is as it is today. Nobody wants to say the truth. Sign of last hour 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by felixawe(m): 7:42am On Dec 13, 2020 |
It's necessary. Otherwise both parties agreed. For me no sex no money.... Money back for ground ���� 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tabtabtab: 7:51am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Is SALT necessary in a soup/sauce/stew? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 7:52am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE:unfortunately our morally conscious african society is being eroded by crude western ideas and cultures we copied from the media because we think it is modern and progressive. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:54am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Misslilbootay: Whether you'll keep your decision to get married before engaging in further sexual relationship will depend on your understanding of the reasons for that decision. If you don't have understanding of it, you'll soon cave in to the pressure. It's clear that your man has no such understanding, that's why he's calling it manipulation. So, please sit down with the scriptures and find the reasons for that instructions. Let it not be somebody's opinion is what you're following. Be convinced about it. God asked the believers to keep their chastity till the wedding night at least. You don't begin to steal what's going to be yours at the end of the day. Sex is good but allowed only within the boundary of marriage or else the whole world will be full of bastards, not knowing who's pregnancy a woman is carrying after sleeping around. God isn't interested in fathering bastards. So, God gave boundaries. If sex is what will prove to that guy you love him, you're about to enter one chance bus. There are other ladies that will give him better sex than you, so don't fall for it. For most men, due to our libido, sex is a great appeal to us. But undefined sex will soon tire the guy. Sex is like an icings on a cake. What you bake and eat is the cake, icing is only to make it sweeter. Marriage is the cake, sex is the icing. You can have marriage without sex, but the beauty of a cake that has icing is that, with little of it you're excited. Without icing however, you can finish a whole baked cake before you know it. The result of that is that you may soon get bored. At the same time, you can't be eating the icing alone, you'll soon have running stomach if not pile/diabetes, because icing is nothing but sugar. Having given you all these analogies, you should know what to do. Let the guy go and you avoid the future agony awaiting you. Let me also warn you that when you eventually get married, satisfy your husband with sex, not just in quantity but quality. Sex isn't just skin to skin, it involves more than just intercourse, so go learn how to make sweet sex happen. Most ladies feel men don't know anything, just open your legs and let him pour it in there. He'll soon begin to look for different places to pour it into. But quality sex will make your man stayed glued to you. Same goes for men too. Give your wife quality sex, and it will be forever together. Quality sex is scarce. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 7:54am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nuttella:if only they will start billing their fathers, brothers, and close relatives and stop making demands like ASUU, demands and favours their fathers can't meet. that way their body will be safe and guys will look elsewhere. leave guys to help whoever they want to out of generousity without asking 4 sumtin in return not in the name of gf/bf stuff. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by TheSERAPH: 7:56am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nuttella: This shouldn't be coming from you. You are guilty of this but May God have mercy on you.Romans 7:15 |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ejiod(m): 8:00am On Dec 13, 2020 |
One of the reasons I really don’t like associating myself as Nigerian is the height of insincerity and being fake. Just look at what Religion has done to this country. Religion here in Africa is like prison. Truth be told we all want sex and that’s a fact. Paint it anyhow it’s just the plain truth. Some would prefer blowJ and HandJ and still say it’s not sex.. smh. How will you be in a relationship and say sex is a sin when you lie and commit other form of sin, to me that’s just blatant pretense. As par me concerned sex should never be a rule or bargain for any relationship. In this life everyone should be happy not being in a cage. That’s how this cage brought boko haram and recent kidnappings 2 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 8:01am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nazgul:Guy wat happen? Because is not necessary that's why u wrote all these epistle? Oversabi 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:03am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Liposure: Ahbi That's why we need to uphold our traditions and traditional values especially wen it comes to sex and marriage. We can't b like the west that has revolutionize sex for women, that is why marriage is worthless over there SMH!! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 8:06am On Dec 13, 2020 |
femmoy:awon Omo deedeereen 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 8:10am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE:there little we can do 2 change that, the western culture is already taking over |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 8:12am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Erotix:and that will be their undoing. One day they will succumb to the main sex |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 13, 2020 |
they want relationship without sex the same relationship they will expect you to get them iphones and put them on a salary yea, they can keep searching, still lots of simps out there, but men are wiser now ![]() like the person earlier said, no sex, no financial commitment, that way its even.. they claim no sex but go around behind you sleeping with guys |
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