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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:17am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shaksman96: It's taking over but as men u need to uphold to our tradition and traditional values especially wen it comes to sex and marriage Make una no marry hoe and whores all because western culture ti take over oo |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by friendl: 8:23am On Dec 13, 2020 |
If you are not ready for sex , don't be in a relationship ,....but seriously women enjoy sex more |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 8:23am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Ihatebuhariwith:no mind them, set awon awon omo......them no know sey spending on ur gf is not wise, is called wasteful spending and God is not happy with it. is unGodly in any way u view, shebi them claim holy ni, yoruba proverb sey peageon no go eat, drink, dine with im owner make the day wex dem go kill am make e run. laye e no go sup. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Kokaine(m): 8:32am On Dec 13, 2020 |
CalliDora1:I agree that sex doesn't keep a man. The fact is that if I can have sex with a girl before marriage. The tendencies are low that I will settle with her. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 8:35am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE:we go try dey uphold am, na by grace man no go fall into the hands of lovepeddlers, if no be because of giving ur pikin full parental care who 4 reason marriage matter. procreation go sup without marriage, as for societal pressure, na their own wahala be that. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 8:37am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE: Perhaps, who knows. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by kazyhm(m): 8:40am On Dec 13, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy: Sex will not keep the man. 100% correct However does financial commitment keep the lady ? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:42am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shaksman96: Exactly family structure na the best to raise and train up a child or children. It's not about societal pressure Sex is a choice that has causes and consequences Unless u no wan give birth sha |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:44am On Dec 13, 2020 |
kazyhm: Ladies love conditionally If he gives her commitment, attention and resources then she will submit to him naturally That's how women become loyal to their men Conditions are: she's a virgin and the man is planning to wife her 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 8:45am On Dec 13, 2020 |
purples25: I know from research and experience |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 8:50am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Sysdatek:the most painful part is that most of them girls claiming no sex have tasted it before and might still succumb in the future |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by EmmyBiggy(m): 8:59am On Dec 13, 2020 |
If she is still a virgin she should not indulge in premarital sex she should let the guy know she's a virgin and if he insist he should marry her first otherwise flee |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by kazyhm(m): 9:01am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE: You gave a condition for conditions....? Natural submission is an old school normal situation in a relationship.......this is a woke regime. You wouldn't want to be at disadvantage while you provide 100% commitment, attention and resources......it doesn't work that way anymore....... |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 9:09am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE: Hmm. Kudos. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by chocboi78(m): 9:10am On Dec 13, 2020 |
World capital of hypocrisy ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by softguy1: 9:12am On Dec 13, 2020 |
zedman1: wooow! this your story seem familiar to mine, this babe just ran because I refuse to have sex with her even when she tried her possible best then........ I was thinking that was the best way to show my love for her, because I truly loves her so much...... funny enough this babe nah pastor pikin and a very decent girl ooo... the babe letter go do another bad Guy wey go dey give her front and back with a quick corner Loolzz 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Josywhyte: 9:13am On Dec 13, 2020 |
very very important |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by openmine(m): 9:20am On Dec 13, 2020 |
wirinet:Exactly! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 9:23am On Dec 13, 2020 |
EmmyBiggy:simple as ABC, nobody is hurt, nobody is feeling used by the other party. there will be less NL rant like she chop my money run, he used me run. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 9:30am On Dec 13, 2020 |
softguy1:na u dull ya self, if she say no, respect her no and flee but if she want am no dull the matter, give her hot hot. other ways dey to prove and show ur love |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ivye(f): 9:32am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Personally, why should I abstain? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 9:32am On Dec 13, 2020 |
DEMZEE:Why only for the woman? Are you the one to determine how women enjoy sex? Many women are not even interested in marriage and are self sufficient and don't need any man to be materially, emotionally and spiritually complete. That's hypothetical and not the law. Not all married men have baby mamas. And men is polygamous marriages also gave side chicks and baby mamas. How do you rationalise polygamy with your views on virginity, sexual fidelity and family values?
There are examples of millions and millions of good successful children raised by single mothers. Western culture promoted rape? You must be smoking your bible instead of reading it. It's African culture that promotes rape. Women that are raped in Africa are often stigmatised and scared for life, while the male perpetrators are left to go scot free and sometimes celebrated. How many rapists have been convicted in Africa? Western culture promote divorce to make the man sit up. A woman does not have to endure neglect and abuse because of some misogynistic religious doctrine. If she woman is not happy in her marriage, divorce is an option. False. We African men want to have our cake and eat it. We want to keep our women who we met and marry as virgins at very young age at home, sealed and wrapped for our pleasure and convenience, while we go conquering other territories (bodies). Just more Hoephobia (fear of hoes), Social where is all this your hoephobia rants going? You want to enact sharia like laws banning whoring or hoeing? You want to enforce the stoning to death of hoes, whores and adulteress? What punishment do you propose for single girls who are not virgins? 2 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by TheRedpillguy: 9:39am On Dec 13, 2020 |
kazyhm: Start your own thread. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Cousin9999: 9:43am On Dec 13, 2020 |
You need to date like-minded men who don't believe in premarital s**. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by imagrg(m): 9:45am On Dec 13, 2020 |
You must check the acidity and porosity of her 'abuna' and peruse the peripheral and determine its depth to verify her 'experience' or innocence before having her for keeps if you want a lasting marriage otherwise this may happen to you too..... Someone in my church married in August this year and divorced his wife last month. When asked the reason, he said the wife was very religious and opted for sex after marriage. That she even claimed to be a virgin. After marriage, the man tried to penetrate her and discovered that she was not only a 'borehole' but that the water that gushed out of the industrial hole smelt like rotten egg. That because of the money he spent on the wedding ceremony, he had to keep up with the situation for a few months before returning the 'damaged' product to the producers of the 'fake' product. Next time, which verse of the Bible will you quote to convince the young man not to 'test drive' before 'buying'? I've even told my son that the woman he would bring home for marriage must be at least 3 months pregnant for him before I would allow the union because many girls on the streets these days have done damage to their wombs. A couple close to my house have been married for twelve years now and childless. We should stop deceiving ourselves. Marriage is till death do you part. So, don't lose your head in making your choice. Shine your eyes or regret your decision later. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Rapture4real(m): 9:54am On Dec 13, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Whenever I read sensible comment like this on nairaland, I dont wish to continue reading other comments to avoid reading senseless ones. God bless you my Sister.We must fear God and not glorify what can unleash His wrath on us.Rom.1:18-32 |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 9:58am On Dec 13, 2020 |
imagrg: Thump up. My former neighbour has gone 15 years of marriage without any baby. In fact I know many people of over 10 years marriage without any issue. The couples go from hospital to pastor to babalawo spending hundreds of thousands of naira looking for just one child. My wife's friend went all the way to America after 8 years of marriage without no child and all efforts failed in Nigeria. Imagine the amount of money they have wasted. I don't blame parents that insists their son's fiancee must be pregnant before blessing the marriage. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 9:58am On Dec 13, 2020 |
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:59am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Rapture4real: Amen. Thank you Sir. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 10:00am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Rapture4real:Bone that side. Not everyone follows your God or denomination of your own God. If your want to continue reading comments that align with your own, go to the religious section. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 10:03am On Dec 13, 2020 |
shaksman96:Ladies of nowadays are something else. Naso one say make I give am 15k for just Xmas hair... |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Deepthoughts: 10:03am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:now if I may ask,apart From sex what else really does a man benefits from a lady in a relationship that the man can not get elsewhere without harming the relationship?the answer to your question is imbedded in the sincere answer to this question. |
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