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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Neimar: 12:56pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Nawa for this kin girl Man wen go marry you go too suffer |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 12:58pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Neimar:No because I will never marry a man like you 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Mraphel: 12:59pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor:Yes if you're broke and doesn't have anything to contribute to the relationship pls "Be Single" 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
The one's with anger and rage so far are the men I'm talking about, redpill wannabes, they are all about looking for women to exchange roles with 4 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Neimar: 1:01pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor: Don't worry Men will have their share of your punny You will end up in shiloh |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:02pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Mraphel:I'm not broke and even if I'm broke that's the more reason I should never reason a broke partner,also my kind of man has to be way richer than me,I'm already a millionaire 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Neimar:Keep deceiving yourself, I will soon be a special guest in Shiloh with my husband 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
the said man u talking about probably has a side chick he is maintaining or a secret wife outside 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:04pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
lefulefu leave here lol 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:05pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
lefulefu:While the wife is at home butting her fingers because she made that mistake of I can take care of myself earlier 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Neimar: 1:06pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor: Probably begging for alms 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:08pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Neimar:You this small boy what do you know 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by ednut1(m): 1:08pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Husband scarce |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor:nothing wrong if the woman is indenpendent but the husband suppose dey responsible by assisting.this is his wife the mother of his kids not girlfriend.like i said before the man probably has sidechicks outside he is maintaining with his money.there are men like that. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
ednut1:I agree but the responsible ones na im scarce 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Neimar: 1:11pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
lefulefu:90percent of men are like that,they don't treat good women right, imagine leaving your responsibilities for your woman but spending heavily on side girlfriends 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:12pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Neimar:No be me go suffocate you.Oya run from here |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:14pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor:wich one come be 90 percent men? dats too much haba! u saying only 10 percent men are responsible? i know there are a number of married naija guys who are irresponsible but e no reach that 90 percent there many guys who are married and they take care of their families |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Neimar: 1:14pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Mraphel: 1:15pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor:You're a millionaire indeed then look for a billionaire to be spending on you. My advice for you, stop being greedy and selfish. Let your husband spend on the children before you cause their future matters than yours |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:16pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
lefulefu:You are not in Nigeria so you don't really know what's happening, these men have become something else 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:21pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor:i was once in naija nau .anyway if u happen to hook a nice guys i know all these ur talks go change instantly.u will dey bash naija guys will start praising naija guys dats the power of love 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
lefulefu:lol 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by BigDick70inch(m): 1:26pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
[s] Zzor:[/s] Trash!!!!!!!!!! If yo man ain't spending on u........then spend on yosef........or better still spend on him to show him how it's been done!!!!!!!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by toye440: 1:46pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
So sad. This is what happens when children are left alone to Facebook, Instagram, and Fake life celebrities. My heart grieves not because its a gibberish coming from a 23 yrs old lady clearly affected by ASUU strike as i doubt if u r a graduate. Marriages are crashing today because we are in a famine, a famine for wisdom. For the record spending on a lady doesn't mean he loves u, to some its an investment they hope to cash out by pounding the Pu.NaNi pavement. 9ice spent on his wife yet he cheated, FFK spent well on his wife yet she cheated with a naval officer. So dumping a man because he's not lousy financially like ur sugar daddies would, is not only lame but sick. I do hope u retrace ur steps back before u fall victim of a very naive and warped philosophy about marriage. Lets just assume u want to trend and on that u have succeeded, but pls quit dishing out advice on marriage for now cos its a very complex concept that even the married ones with over a decade of experience are still trying to comprehend. 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Tloc(m): 2:05pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
toye440: All these write-up to this shallow girl is like teaching a TODDLER nuclear physics. 3 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by toye440: 2:38pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Tloc:I've been moody all day, but this really cracked my ribs. 1 Like |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by DukeJoe17: 3:02pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
[s][/s] Zzor:[s][/s] |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:03pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor what kind of relationship do you want and how do you define the term relationship? (in relation to the guys and ladies as subject) A guy that doesn't spend on a lady... : Is it dates, movies, eatery or outings, those are not free. Isn't that considered spending? Guys do that, you know. If a guy didn't do any of that... : Truly, it doesn't sound like they are in a relationship thingy if he or they don't engage in such. You should know relationship isn't just one person, you know. Each have their part to play, depending on how they define their relationship. In marriage, financial responsibility is part of the man (husband) but, not limited to him alone. As for what you read in the family section, it's indeed sad. If your home is not happy, you shouldn't be proud of what the outside when the inside is crying. |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 3:11pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4:I do like your response, it's normal for a man to spend on his woman,buy things for her plus all you mentioned up there in your post.I don't know why modern men have become weird and doing their possible best to switch roles, its an act of irresponsibility. In marriage, a good woman knows when and where to assist her man but not necessarily imposing a compulsory major financial obligations on her, it's not good 2 Likes |
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:42pm On Dec 21, 2020 |
Zzor:Do what you like others to do for you. If you buy her things, does it make her sad, is it bad. No it doesn't. It shouldn't be out of pressure though. I don't know why modern men have become weird and doing their possible best to switch roles, its an act of irresponsibility.Many men hasn't switch roles, the location and situation of some made them so. If something doesn't favors one or is frustrated, he/she will likely want to share the burden. What is responsible for most of this, is finance. Finance is a strong pillar of a man's life, if it's weak, it would surely have an impact on him. Countless times, I see don't date broke girls, they are liability. If he doesn't have money, he's wasting your time and stuff like that. Even if you're not the richest, there is still room for happiness. No one is too broke to at least make another one happy. For now the major women on my budget are my sisters, when they're happy I'm happy. Money is good, spend it don't hide it but, spend wisely of course. I do spend on my guys and a few girls too (when there's extra or want to cool off). They do ask me why I don't have a GF and thinks something is wrong with me. In marriage, a good woman knows when and where to assist her man but not necessarily imposing a compulsory major financial obligations on her, it's not goodYou've said well, the Man leads and the woman follows. When the breadwinner (man) is down, the woman's potential would be in action and strengthened. One thing that matters too, is mutual understanding. 2 Likes |
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