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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Burgerlomo: 9:43pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Because of the too many farm tool out there that ain't loyal. 2 Likes
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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Givaxy: 9:43pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:Contact me on WhatsApp Zero nine zero three zero zero eight three one four seven |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by chrismorg00101(m): 9:44pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
i really don't understand this thread because every Saturday event centres are choked with weddings. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mezico96(m): 9:50pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:I kaka-kant kum ed kee mysef ![]() |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Vickym1(f): 9:52pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by badonkadonk: 9:55pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Warripikine: It's both |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Warripikine: 9:56pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
badonkadonk:ok sire |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by cococandy(f): 9:57pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Another day another lamentation thread by an NL dood 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ComeToJesus: 9:57pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
In Psychology, B=F(S). Behaviour is a function of situational factors. The economic situation is a huge factor. The financial state of many young men in Nigeria is terribly appalling. Nothing more! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by badonkadonk: 10:02pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: So not true |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by nkemjacob2(m): 10:03pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Though money is inclusive. But ladies are making search difficult for guys . 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by vickydevoka(m): 10:05pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
pocohantas: pocochant my person. your confident is out of the world |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by beyondPen(m): 10:08pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Liposure: True talk! But there are still wife materials out there. Except the op can't spot them. Once men are ready for marriage you will have them go through series of screening to find your wifey. Don't have the notion of " No better woman out there ", Guys they are out there. Work on yourself intellectually and financially you will no they exist. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by overseasnbeyond: 10:09pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
The ultimate is to be in charge of your home financially. vickydevoka: 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Givaxy: 10:11pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Vickym1:Your future husband is waiting for you on WhatsApp 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by SolarEdge: 10:18pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Great thread |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by od501: 10:18pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: It hurts, the truth really hurts. But you have to except it nevertheless. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by franchasng: 10:19pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Warripikine:The number 1 reason many guys (in Nigeria) are kind of marrying late or losing interest in getting married unlike before is financial difficulty due to mass graduate and non-graduate unemployment and underemployment. Followed by: - civilisation; which has made life all about seeking for fun and perfection in the opposite sex, which leaves many guys feeling lonely and unlucky because they are searching for what does not exist lol. - feminism; this is supposed to be an advantage, but in Nigeria, its creating a conflict between the Nigerian culture and the western culture - which way to go......the ladies want feminism when they need favor and don't want feminism when family/financial responsibilities come, this has created a serious conflict between the opposite sex in Nigeria. - Social Media and Internet Technology - this ought to be an advantage but it has made people, especially the females to develop unrealistic expectations of who a supposed or qualified partner/spouse should be like and what he should worth materially, causing many ladies to look down and turn down guys within their league while daydreaming to click guys above their league via the internet, and this leads to delay and having unrealistic expectations. The downside of this is that it has discouraged many guys from settling down as they struggle to become that man most ladies have unrealistically set their greedy-materialistic eyes on.....causing the men to marry late or even shun it completely 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by drLammy(m): 10:19pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Because the modern woman is now the man |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by berrystunn(m): 10:19pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
BadRadio: Go and hide |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by monex(m): 10:22pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Marriage, in today's world, does not hold the appeal it used to. Religion and our old conservative tradition is what still hold that institution and this will likely change in the coming years. People still marry and quite a lot but the drive appeal and interest is diminished. The need for kids though has not quite diminished at the same rate as marriage so you see a lot of people marry for the sake of kids and when kids are already there, they don't bother getting married anymore. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by bukatyne(f): 10:23pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Marriage ceremony happens every weekend. If they are the best fit is another discussion. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by pocohantas(f): 10:26pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
cococandy: I don’t know why they are the ones always crying about lacking interest. Whereas na them monitor single ladies and divorcees pass. Feels like a heavy notice-me-syndrome. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by badonkadonk: 10:29pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
FrankAkowe: Oil dey your head.. since my journey into settling my home, no woman has helped me in the journey. All the girls I invited to come see my empty kitchen and tell me what what I need to put to make dem feel at home, they all refused to come. 9months down the line and I am glad at the progress I am making and have made in my apartment (inclusive of the kitchen I invited them to). A woman will taunt you for the slightest of things, 1 taunted me that at the time, I didn't have TV in my room, talkless Dstv.. Another said before I borrow money from her I must date her.. My advise to all men out there, don't let any woman pressure you into doing what your power cannot carry. Hold your God tight, He never fails.. 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by pacespot(m): 10:29pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Why are women too materialistic these days? You can decipher the reason from that question 1 Like |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Warripikine:D Bad Economy Is Not Helping Matters. |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by izubext007: 10:34pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
warripikin , u knw say girls in this our generation most of them nal bitch , even your sister you know |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
It has always been the society. When a drop of a yellow liquid enters a glass of water,either the taste changes or the color of the water. Same thing happened to people. We all have been influenced by what morally wrong people had to say. So much that no one cares about their well being anymore. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Ilekokonit: 10:38pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Warripikine: Smart single men are learning from the bad experience that a lot of older men have been through in the name of marriage and they don't want to end up losing all like these older men did. Moreover, a Nigerian woman's love does not last past the time she has 2 kids for you after which she loses interest in the man and the man might as well be a bachelor again. Having a wife or girlfriend is a zero sum game for the man. Sooner or later he will see that he has lost so much financially and in other ways especially in the lack of LASTING peace of mind a Nigerian woman causes in the mans life. The burden of proof is now on the few good Nigerian women (if any still exist) to prove to a man they are dating that they are a permanently good woman. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
ThatFairGuy:smh, learn to mind your business sometimes,it's gives you high sperm count ![]() |
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Feb 22, 2021 |
Nobody dey lose interest na means of livelihood no dey or e no do. |
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