olabowale,you don't have to kick the man in the groin while he's down.
You're chastizing him for admitting that he impregnated his girl before marriage  and said he should have kept that to himself rather than pour out his heart and get the load off his shoulder.

@ poster,I'm not a Muslim but I think I can say a few words of comfort.
The ideal thing is to marry before getting her in the family way but I commend you for not asking her to do an abortion which is usually the "easy way out" for cowards and people like Olabowale will never know.
I respect and commend you for being a man.

I empathize with your financial situation which seems to be the bigger issue for you here since you have a a fiancee (soon to be wife I hope) and a baby on the way.
Tough situation!
Do your family members know your girl is pregnant?
Does the girl's parents know?
They (your folks and hers) may be able to help in providing you with an apartment of your own and speed up the marriage process.
No woman will like her daughter to have a baby in her birth home.
It is a shameful thing in our culture.
Is the girl employed?

This is obviously a tough time for you and the worst thing you can do is wear this stress on your sleeves because it'll affect everything you do including your work and being in sales you need to be upbeat or you'll repel your customers.
Don't give up.
If you've tried all else, try Jesus.

He says.

Matt 11:28 Come to me, all who are tired from carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest.

That's an interesting article and points out something we already know.
In the med school here in my city majority of the few black students are either Yoruba or Igbo
children of Immigrants.
That makes me proud of my people

John Thomas ke?
ROFL
next man go be D'ick Harry

you may also get banned for posting on the Islamic section.
They move your thread there in order to kill the thread.
Oldest trick in the books

carmelily:

My hair is natural. i cut my permed hair and grew it from scratch. and i just LUUURV my kinky hair. trouble is i can't find the right products to soften my hair. i'D also like hairstyle ideas for natural hair. somebody, help

There's a product my mama used on her hair a few years ago and it was so good and kept her natural hair soft and  easy to comb.

what is the name oooo
ehhhhhhhhhhhh
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
chei what is it called again ooooooooo
I'll call her and find out later
she got it here in the USA

Life can be so unfair.
I have a friend here in the states, married for 10 years and no child and someone just abandons a baby.
Thank God she didn't throw the helpless child in the bushes or down a pit latrine like some others do.

where was he as a young man?
how can he start swallowing drugs for sale now when he's about to lose control of his bowels?
people sef
and the other Italian based ashewo even stuffed  some of her cocaine in her private part and anus.
I guess a retired ashewo has a right to use her tolotolo as a means of transport part time.
I guess she'll add her special aroma to the cocaine snorters

By MATTHEW DIKE
Monday, September 1, 2008

A heartless woman has abandoned a new born baby in a Lagos market after buying N800 T-shirt. The strange woman was said to have clutched a baby to a boutique at Suru-Alaba Market at the weekend. After paying Ahamefule Uwadileke N800 for the shirt, the woman begged him to look after the baby while she finds where to urinate.

The shop-attendant accepted the baby from her not knowing she had a different mission to accomplish.
It soon dawned on him that the woman had played a fast trick on him as he waited in vain for her arrival.
Uwadileke said that his elder brother, Okechukwu and himself had waited for several hours for the woman to come back and carry the baby boy. She had disappeared.

They carried the baby to Layeni Police Station, Ajegunle, where the Divisional Police Officer, Mr. L.F. Williams ordered that the baby be kept at Tolu Medical Centre, Ojo Road Ajegunle, a source said.
According to the same source, Williams said nurses in the hospital would be in a better position to look after the baby.

Uwadileke and Okechukwu on their own volition have deposited N3,000 out of the N5,000 demanded by the hospital as deposit.
They went further to buy baby food, pampers, feeders, etc for the baby, the source disclosed.
Uwadileke, described the woman as slim, tall and dark in complexion.
He also advised, “the suspect should know it is a sin against humanity to throw away a child, babies are sacred. The woman has sinned; she has committed a great sin, in the sight of God. May God forgive her,” Uwadileke said.
http://sunnewsonline.com/webpages/ne, 9-2008-009.htm

bawomolo:

japan has no nuclear weapons has it been attacked is south korea weak. how far did libya's nuclear program before it ended up as a waste of anyone. signing with just anyone is a bad idea

you're talking to an aboki who reasons with his buttocks like the rest of them.
I still say they should get the nuclear abunna and mount in in Bauchi and Kano.
That may be God's way of finally eliminating them with dirty nuclear emissions from Iran
He does work in mysterious ways

yes he's 17,is that the kind of husband you'll want for your daughter?@siskill
he's immature,he's 17
he impregnated her,yes,he should take care of his baby.
They don't have to get married,do they?
that'll be 2 wrongs

welcome to the land of "impartial moderators"
no one needs to wait for a book to know about the child bride.
just google Mohammed and his child bride and you'll read authentic hadiths from the mouth of the same bride who tells us how old she was and how allah's prophet got his best revelations while they were under the sheets.
Thank God for the www

the book is only been postponed

Hannibal:

Thats a TURN-OFF o.
Don't mind me, i watch too much 24 to know an explosion is imminent after hearing such.

No be explosion una want again?

today na today
breeze never blow and we don already see fowl nyash

Yes she is , if you want Obama in the white house ultimately.
First we've heard of her teenage daughter carrying belle now we hear she was once with a separatist party in Alaska.
This campaign just got started.

Officials of the Alaskan Independence Party say that Palin was once so independent, she was once a member of their party, which, since the 1970s, has been pushing for a legal vote for Alaskans to decide whether or not residents of the 49th state can secede from the United States.

And while McCain's motto -- as seen in a new TV ad -- is "Country First," the AIP's motto is the exact opposite -- "Alaska First -- Alaska Always."

Lynette Clark, the chairman of the AIP, tells ABC News that Palin and her husband Todd were members in 1994, even attending the 1994 statewide convention in Wasilla. Clark was AIP secretary at the time.

http://blogs.abcnews.com/politicalpunch/2008/09/members-of-frin.html

bawomolo:

i doubt she has a choice other than marrying the sperm donor. it's hard to be a proponent of family values and abstinence if it's lacking in your own household. kind of hilarious like[b] privates cheney [/b] and alan keyes having gay daughters.

privates cheney?
ROFL
this filter is so stupid sometimes changing D^ick cheney to privates Cheney

mohawkchic:

"Rub lemon slices on your armpits. Use alum powder instead of deodorants. After a shower rub some baking soda on your armpits. Apply vitamin E oil on your armpits. Wash your armpits with coconut oil. Make a paste using 1 tsp of lime juice, 1 tsp of cucumber juice and a pinch of turmeric powder. Apply it on your armpits and rinse after 20 minutes."

"Some of the causes of dark underarms are as follows Friction due to tight blouses and tops that brush against the skin, Excessive sweating, Infections due to improper washing of underarms, Shaving, Dead skin buildup, Chemicals, alcohol and strong fragrance in deodorants."


http://www.natural-homeremedies.org/homeremedies-dark-underarms.htm

Please no one should try all these concoctions before they set their armpits on fire.
dark skinned people have darker pits,
The same way the scrotum is usually the darkest area in a black man.

KarmaMod:

If one of Obama's daughters were pregnant and unmarried, this would be issue Numero Uno. I must admit Obama is playing it smart by staying out of this, though.

Palin opposes sex education for teens. Perhaps if her doofus daughter knew what condoms are and what sex was about, or if she wasn't made to feel guilty about it, she wouldn't have gotten knocked up at such a tender age. Rates of teenage pregnancy has always been higher among right-wing, "Bible thumping" parts of this country (the irony). It's a serious problem for those who don't have lots of money and power. How ludicrous to praise this woman for her daughter's misfortune when there never was any chance that her bastard grandchild would go hungry or lack medical care.

I pray they don't coerce the poor girl into marrying her "impregnator" just because she's been put in a family way.
That's not the solution.
She made a mistake
we are all 'entitled ' to at least one major mistake or error in judgement

tpia:

No as an expression of pleasure ke? That one na mainly mills and boon harlequin romance oh.

Na yes yes yes them dey scream.

stay there.
Must we all say the same thing?
I bet you there are no screamers and halleluia screamers
and some who say allahu akhbar!

Then if he refuses she should go all ghetto and add
Go off now ,one
climb down ,two
I say withdraw this moment, three

like someone rightly said some people may so no as just an expression of pleasure,some may shout fire.it doesn't mean we need to call the firemen.

I propose that the woman should say," Please go down right now or this is regarded as rape " in an angry voice.
No may not be enough once you allowed him to go in

You single gals have to be careful o
some people may have dvd's stored up ready to pull it out.
It may even end up on the internet
this is a scary time to be doing the do

Hannibal you're not serious.
You tape your escapades?

I like both skirts and pants.
I hate dresses and gowns.
don't even have any

jtkunle:

I watched the video on the site, he seems happy and from what I can tell, he chose to be a bus driver, what I see is a hard working man.

That's correct but far from the image an average American would have of a so called king.
If I were him,I'll keep the king part secret and just ferry my passengers to their destinations like any other bus driver.

Uche2nna:

what's with the sad face
na true I talk

onyinye2:

AHHH!!! You know you aint right!
Awww marriage ko. . . . i've got time before i think of that.

Please take your time and choose wisely
not everyone that comes to your dad with a bottle of schnapps is marriage material

onyinye2:

LMAO!!! Oka im nauseous now. . . .

I'm teaching you the tricks to keeping a man fulfilled.
They'll soon start coming for your hand in marriage
Sex is not the same thing to us as it is for men.
A woman usually has to be romanced and have some affection for the man to do it but a man can just jump in even with a toothless monkey and do it just because he needs to offload.

KarmaMod:

sucked finished? Lmfao AJ don spoil you finish

LOL

That's why I tell women not to withold sex from their men.
There's lovemaking and there's sex.
2 different things,
When you're mad at him and he stll wants it,give him sex and call it a day

KarmaMod:

Lmao he's not supposed to leave loaded

exactly, he should leave home sucked dry with nothing to offer any other person

tpia:

sweetie, its good to stand by your man, but the bottom line here is better make sure your guy is totally satisfied and well fed before he leaves home each day.

Na so them go dey nack tori say na woman dey pursue them.  Isnt it these same guys who are genetically programmed to consciously or subconsciously check out attractive females?

abeg keep your figure and also keep the man happy oh.

I gat that part covered.
That man never leaves home fully loaded.
all these heifers all around town looking for man to snatch
I hold my own well well
If he ever cheats (God forbid) it's not because I don't do my wifely duties.
anytime he knocks, he knows the door is open.

idupaul:

In raw nature there aint nothing like rape, sex must be earned either by trickery, love or force, they are all just means to getting laid. Reference: has any one seen tasmanian devils mate?

na lie
try it and you'll be put away for a very long time