Thank you sheryl. I appreciate that. It means a lot to me.

October 29. _{Gives you time to prepare my presents}

Sure when you turn 20something holla at me

@DIME
Why do you have to be extra, i didn't ask you to reply to it i only wanted you to see wat dat dimwit was getting at thats all. call me!

@jay really is not about meeting a cute guy and drooling all over him. I said if he has a nice personality and he looks good and i like his behaviour towards me if i want him i would go for it. And as for seeing Jim ike sweety i have met with better celebrities i even work for them sometimes when they have concerts down here in toronto namely(nelly, little x, mellissa ford, fat joe, fabolous,game, Chris brown, 112 e.t.c) and sweety, if my beauty don't attract them my nice black ass does, but like i say i don't give myself to them because i see them on b.e.t television. My point is stop feeling like u are smart and your are related to George bush. because i think anyone with ambition make's an effort to get what they really want. am not saying drool all over a man but some times pretenders does the worst, and it seems to me you act like u are laid back which you are not. (SO STOP FORMING) IT'S NOT CUTE. YOUR DAD AIN'T OBANSANJO.

@jay

It's not about cuteness or the guy being fine, Like i said it is about me liking the guy and his personalities, people like u suffer in silence, when you could do something about it. Sweety i am a pleasant looking girl, i don't need to run after a man to get is attention but i can assure u if i see what i like i will go for it. Because i have a high SELF ESTEEM!

shevchenko:

she wasnt being hard on me.she isn't just aware that ladies these days are the toasters and i maintain i don't see anything wrong with that.She has the typical nigerian mentality(no offence meant).My grouse is that the ladies are after me because of my facial appearance and physique.Many of them will do anything just to go out with me on a date.I repeat i am not flaunting.I thank God for one thing though .i am not a playa

Listen no one is saying u don't measure up, but u have to understand that some people don't feel comfortable with people speaking/writing/walking or doing anything confidently. I am proud to say i have a sexy goodlooking brother that is very outgoing and very easy to get along with. He has dimples and to top it off he has bowlegs(nice ones) big eye balls, i could go on and on. But my point is that he knows he looks good, so when my friends comes around he runs cause he know they will be all over him which makes him feel uncomfortable. so @ jaybaby understand where he is coming from. And as for the mentality, u need to get over the fact that a lot of people like the oldfashioned way which is to wait for the guy to come to them. So understand her point pls cause she has a good one. Sometimes!!

@topic

I hope you don't get discouraged i don't blame jaybaby for being too hard on you, but though she is over doing it she is right.@jaybaby point taken. He admit he came about it wrong. so forgive him and move on. And @ topic for the record, it is better when the guy do the asking eventhough that won't stop me from asking out watever guy i like if the guy is too slow at things

@blackmamba

Wat do you mean? are you tryin to say am asking for too much.

what do you have to offer.

@boladanas

I don't like being dictated to and if you remember i usually say to them to be themselves first but they insist that they want to know.

Living over here is very reasonable, so as long as you are very hardworking and very independent. And even so there are government help, the system is set up really nice and helpful. it can be difficult but as long as you are strong and very positive you would enjoy living here.

Actually toronto is a muticultural environment. Very welcoming and fun. U should come for a visit.

He over does it toooooooo much. he is veeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrry EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXTRA

yes it is very nice actually, but i like traveling and i haven't been to england yet. i will make it my next stop if am travelling this year though. where in the uk are you?

It is very easy for a man to get hurt by a woman, i mean once a man likes a girl he really likes a girl. But here is the thing though since most guys have a hard time forgivin a woman, they tend to take it out on other ladies. which results in them giving any ladies that makes a mistake or some mistakes bad names. And thats wrong and childish. In this generation that we are we need to realize that there are so many women than their are men. And everybody is set to get hurt at one point in time. Nobody needs to tell me how i feel about my man that had done me worng except for me because i know the reason why i like him, and the reason why if i decide to styll be with him, it really must be a geniune reason. So @ topic my point is you have many options out there because there are way too much woman who know how to appreciate a man, and at the same time u know the reason why u are styll considering to stay with her. U just gotta think.

I have never been slapped before or promised to be slapped unless it was a joke. But usually i believe it is the way u a lady present herself. Most women that have been slapped by anybody other than a family usually begged to be slapped. So much can be done to avoid slaps. when u know that the argument is getting out of hand walk away or quitely tell the person that u will make ur point wen the person is calm or just keep quite because i definetly know that silence is the best answer for a fool.

yes am a female. and am fine thanks i live in toronto happy new year by the way

If you are trying to be cocky, u need to stop! and if not you can just behave your self and try to keep yourslef busy. it has always helped for me when i find out that i need to be good, i find something i like doing to keep me busy till that phase worned out. so u should try that.

am new too, how u doing?

I need you guys insight on this please

When i meet a guy that show interest in me, they ask me what i want in a guy, at first i say it really doesn't matter because i don't want them trying to be what they are not, but they insist, so i tell them what i want.

1. I would like my man to be my new best friend
2. I would like my man to take over the role of taking care of me
3. I don't like to share my man
4. Since i like attention, he needs to be there to give it to me.

Now mind you i am not a stupid controlling girl that doesn't know when to call it quits, or when to give him space to breath, i just feel like if am getting intimate with a man, he needs to be my what i need, he needs to understand me.

And in return he would never ever regret meeting me!

So am i asking for too much?