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Family / Dealing With Libido Differences by romanusgab(m): 10:56pm On May 06, 2019
Libido mismatch is one of the most common problems seen in magazines and blogging websites. Finding someone who you are compatible with on an emotional and lifestyle level is hard enough. Sharing the same sex drive can often be overlooked – but it needn't be an irreparable problem.

People crave sex for different reasons: affection, validation of attractiveness and desirability, attention, distraction, stress relief or simply orgasm. None of these is right or wrong, and indeed, you may well want sex for one reason on a Monday night and quite another by Friday. However, understanding why you both want sex can help make libido mismatch easier to handle.

If your lover wants sex as stress relief, a massage may provide an alternative that suits you both. If it's about orgasm, there are plenty of ways to pleasure a man or woman that don't involve penetrative sex. Should affection be the objective, an evening cuddling up on the sofa may sate the needs; and if it's about validation, bring on the compliments.

It can be easy to feel unattractive if your partner doesn't want sex but it's more likely to be about them than you. Stress, depression, certain pharmaceuticals (both legal and illegal) and an unhealthy lifestyle are just a few of the reasons someone might go off sex. While it is possible that a partner has ceased to find you attractive, it's more likely they've got their own issues going on, and being empathetic and caring will be a lot more useful than getting needy or insecurity.

While the media portrays men as sex-hungry and women as resistant, in reality, men are just as likely to have times when they're not in the mood. Open communication and honest discussion will help make differences in libido easier to deal with. If there are deep-rooted issues, counselling may help.

Masturbation has been shown to increase people's sex drive so if you feel your desire waning and there are no other issues to contend with, simply indulging in more regular self-pleasure may help you kick-start your sex drive again.

Many people find they lose interest in sex as a relationship progresses, after the initial rush of lust has passed. However, there are lots of ways to bring the romance and spice back into your relationship – and the sooner you tackle the problem after it emerges, the sooner your sex life is likely to be back on track.

"Open communication and honest discussion will help make differences in libido easier to deal with." Check also www.authorityestore.com
Family / Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by romanusgab(m): 10:43pm On May 06, 2019
Make sure you are always available for her.

In case their is trace of third party in your Union

just close that gap.

You can go to www.authorityestore.com for more guide .
Family / Sex During Pregnancy by romanusgab(m): 10:33pm On May 06, 2019
Sex and pregnancy is often seen as a taboo subject – somewhat ironically given how pregnancy generally happens. However, there's no reason pregnancy need mean the end of your sex life. Here are some of the most common myths.

You can't have sex during pregnancy. Unless you have any health issues to contend with, you can have sex right up until the moment that your waters break (assuming you want to). However, do check with your doctor or midwife if you've had any bleeding, or if there are any physical conditions that might make it risky, such as a weak cervix. Better to be safe than sorry.
Having sex while pregnant can harm the baby: In a normal pregnancy, having sex will do no harm at all, even in missionary position. The mucus plug over your cervix teamed with your womb's muscles and the amniotic sac all serve to keep your baby safe. However, certain positions may feel more comfortable, and there's a chance that your racing heartbeat after orgasm might make the baby move around more than usual. If you suffer from bleeding, either of you has a Sexually Transmitted Infection (STI) or you have any medical cause for concern, do check with your doctor first.
Sex during pregnancy is painful: Assuming your pregnancy is healthy, sex during pregnancy shouldn't hurt. You may experience cramps after orgasm, or find certain positions uncomfortable. However, opting for positions that allow the woman to control the depth of penetration such as woman on top can help, as can avoiding deep penetration positions such as doggie style.
Being pregnant turns you off sex: Insecurity about your changing body, changing hormones or morning sickness (which doesn't just happen in the morning despite its name) may make you feel less inclined to have sex but that's by no means guaranteed. You could find yourself having the best sex of your life. Some women become hyper-aroused during pregnancy. Some find their body gets more sensitive, others find it becomes less sensitive and some find it changes over time. Listen to your body, don't put yourself under pressure and do what feels right.If you go off sex, you can pleasure your partner with your hands or mouth instead to help keep the intimate connection between you – and don't forget masturbation is an option for both of you too.
Pregnancy did note mean the end of your sex life."

What do you think ?
Family / Re: How My Wife Has Been Terrorizing Me Spiritually And The Effects On Us by romanusgab(m): 3:52pm On May 06, 2019
This kind of matter is of various version this days.

If this getting very difficult for you to manage

just talk to her parents, and pray always.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by romanusgab(m): 3:44pm On May 06, 2019
Okay , that is good. I want to believe these pictures

represents the true image of the household materials.

If otherwise just review it as soon as possible.
Family / Your Age May Determine Whether Is Good Or Bad For You by romanusgab(m): 3:20pm On May 06, 2019
I was engaged in a serious argument over the weekend about taking alcohol.

The discussion went like this ;

(1) The beneficial and harmful effects of drinking alcohol may be determined by the drinker’s age.


(2) That for younger people, alcohol is more harmful than beneficial, while for older people alcohol is more beneficial than harmful.

Please guys i need your urgent opinion on these subject matter.
Family / Re: My Wife Has To Be Drunk Before Making Love With Me –mortuary Attendant by romanusgab(m): 3:07pm On May 06, 2019
People are born today and people will also die today.
It is normal for man to die.
You should not be scared about people dying.
Anyway, as a couple just enjoy each other.
You do not to be drunk to achieve that.
Family / Save My Marriage Today by romanusgab(m): 2:48pm On May 06, 2019
I'm not going to lie about your marriage and tell you everything is going to be okay.
The bottom is dropping out of your world right now. Your marriage, everything you love and treasure, everything you have worked your life for, everything that's familiar to you... it's all on a knife-edge.
You can't eat... you can't sleep... you can't think straight...
Your health is in free fall due to the enormous stress you are under. Your whole life and future happiness, something that at one time seemed so certain, now hangs precariously in the balance, waiting for you to make the next move.
Your marriage is about to jump off a cliff... is it going to take you with it?
I have THREE things to share with you that will immediately disarm the threat of divorce and work on rebuilding and saving your marriage RIGHT NOW if you do them, but you have to listen carefully and do them without hesitation if you want to save your marriage. It's that important.

1. STOP what you are doing right now. The misguided methods and well-meaning ideas you have used up until now have not worked. That's why you are here and your marriage is teetering even closer towards divorce. What you have done may be pushing your spouse even further away, even into the arms (and the bed) of another person. It's time to rethink and relearn everything you ever thought about how to save your marriage and get your dream life back.
2. Break forever the chain of lies, the resentment, the doubt, and the never ending negative spiral of arguments that has catapulted you and your spouse from happily married to the gates of hell and the very real possibility of divorce. No matter how complicated or unique your marriage issues are, I have the key that will stop the arguing and negativity dead in its tracks, focus you and your spouse back on YOU AND YOUR MARRIAGE, and open your eyes to the love that still simmers beneath.
3. Turn your spouse around and make him/her LOVE you, CHERISH you, and DESIRE you again, so completely and powerfully that your marriage is the strongest it has ever been and is immune to the threat of breakup and divorce ever again.

It might sound impossible right now to visualize your renewed, loving marriage again...but I promise you, if you read through this page and do what it says, you'll be shocked at how quickly your marriage turns around for the better, how the communication with your spouse will go from awkward and angry to nurturing and positive, and how you will have the loving spouse and the strong, supportive marriage you have always dreamed about and deserve.
That mind-numbing, consuming pain that has taken over your entire body that is with you every moment of every day will become a distant memory, as you use and apply my life-changing skills and key psychological secrets to your marriage, and make sure that you never face these sickening feelings of loss and loneliness ever again.
I am going to reveal to you my life-changing methods for saving your marriage, but first I have a very important truth to share with you before carrying on...

Your Spouse Is Lying To You About The Real Reasons They Want A Divorce
Chances are they don't want to tell you what their real reasons are... for fear of hurting you, for fear of making them look bad, or they might not even fully know or understand the real reasons themselves.
If you want to discover the truth and cut through the lies and ultimately save your marriage, there are several things you are going to have to learn and apply before you are able to make that happen.
If you're like the thousands of couples I've helped over the years, you'll have heard or used a few of the following reasons for ending a marriage:

"I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore..."
"We've grown apart."
"You've changed."
"You're not exciting or fun anymore."
"I've met someone else and I think I love them..."
"I hate you!"
"I'm sick of your nagging!"
"I don't want to be married anymore and there's nothing you can say that will make me change my mind."
Any of these sound familiar?
I know that when your marriage is teetering on a cliff edge it can feel like you are the only one in the world this is happening to, and feel completely devastated at hearing one of these lies, but let me tell you that you are not the only one who has heard these excuses and none of these have to spell the end of your marriage if you don't want it to.
It's about cutting through these lies, digging deep, and exposing the real reasons your marriage is in trouble, tackling the core of your crisis rather than going over the same old ground and having the same old arguments again and again... learning nothing and getting no further ahead!
The difference between a marriage that ends in divorce and one that fights back and survives is using and developing the right techniques and strategies that your marriage needs... at the optimum right time. It's about understanding and reconnecting with your core self and the crucial role you play in saving your marriage, even if you are the only one that wants to save it, the values you want to bring to your marriage, what to say, how to say it, and when, and developing this into a formula for success!
My Save My Marriage Today system will strip back the lies you have been told and teach you fundamental values, communication, and relationship skills that will not only bring your marriage back from the brink of divorce, but will give you a solid foundation from which to build an even better marriage and future that will GUARANTEE you will never face the searing, body-numbing pain of a marriage crisis or breakup ever again.
I have seen the most toxic and damaged marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair turned around and saved, becoming stable, intimate, loving unions, stronger than ever. Heaps of people have bounced back from a huge range of nightmare issues, such as:
lingering and poisonous unresolved conflicts
extra-marital affairs
emotional detachment and a lack of physical intimacy
excessive fighting and negative thinking
ineffective communication or long bouts of stony silence
busy schedules overtaking quality couples time
a suspicious, untrusting, or suffocating partner
children and family issues
trial separations
and many more complex and difficult situations
I've helped over 1000 couples disarm and stop divorces from happening to them, and I am telling you I can deliver the same great results for YOU and YOUR MARRIAGE... even if you are the only one that wants to save it!
Keep reading and I will tell you how to resolve your marriage problems and gain the intimate and supportive relationship you always dreamed of

Why Do I Care About Helping You So Much?
You might think that nobody on earth can know what it's like to be you right now... But trust me, I do.
My best friend Juan thought her entire world had ended when her husband came home one night and asked for a divorce, telling her that it was over and nothing could make him change his mind.
She stared in shock, she cried, she asked for an explanation, but no answer she got really made sense.
Apparently her husband Adam had been unhappy for a while. Doing long hours at work, always coming home tired, he was sick of the monotony of his life and felt constrained by the expectations of his wife and family.
Juan was devastated. She had been married 14 years, had raised two children, and thought things were okay. Sure, things had been difficult in the early years with two small children, limited income, and a mortgage to pay, but they had got through it. Jane had got a part-time job in the last few years which helped with the bills, the children were getting less and less dependent, and Jane was looking forward to the next few years and what it would bring.
There were the occasional arguments over how much time Adam spent at work and how much he helped around the house. Juan was always tired with the kids and cleaning up after them every night, but she thought all couples had moments like this and she never gave it much more thought. They didn't have much time for each other but that was often the case with being a parent.
But nothing prepared her for the bombshell Adam dropped on her.
That conversation turned her whole world upside down. Everything was a blur after that.
Teary... foggy... and numb.
The next few days were hell. Every waking moment was consumed with sickening fear of what was going to happen next. She had never felt this low, never felt so REJECTED, UNLOVED, and ALONE.
Was she going to lose the house?
Where would she live?
How would she have enough money to support herself?
How would she tell her elderly parents? She knew it would just about destroy them.
How would she tell the children?
How would she endure the humiliation, the stares and the gossip from the other parents at school, her friends?
It would be a lie to say Juan did not contemplate suicide in those first few weeks. She could not sleep, she could not eat, when she did try to eat she wanted to be sick. Her skin was terrible, her complexion drawn. She was a real mess. Her heart was broken and she felt utterly defeated.
She wanted it to end.
She reached out to me amid a teary phone call, telling me she didn't have the strength to carry on with this. I took her under my wing and started from the beginning, sharing with her and teaching her everything I knew about how to save a marriage.
Slowly but surely, Juan got better. She got stronger. She got some of her old spark back. She started to think clearly and avoided her first instinct to beg, blame, or be a victim. Using my guidance and advice, she learned all the essential steps on how to save her marriage. She could have turned away and let this defeat her... but she didn't.
Juan did not want to give up and be another divorce statistic, no matter how hopeless it seemed at the beginning. She owed herself and her children better.
She applied the steps and strategies I gave her and started to win back her husband by doing things that at first seemed counter-intuitive. Step by step, day by day, there was a small breakthrough. She learned so much about herself and the tangible things she could do in those first few weeks, even when her husband was unresponsive. It was a total flip in the way she would have approached it, but it worked.
Slowly but surely Juan started using my techniques to let go of the anger and frustration and started communicating in a way she never had before. Bit by bit, the barriers were broken down and they started to talk, really talk, and the floodgates opened. No more fear, no more lies, no more unspoken expectations. Unbeknown to both of them, they were able to find a way forward and reconnect, and their marriage is now better than ever before!
Juan and her husband showed up at a party of mine recently and I could not believe the difference... in just a few months from that devastating conversation, here they were totally loved up, hand in hand, laughing and smiling at each other, staring at each other with renewed energy and love... like a honeymoon couple!
To look at them you would never believe they had been at the gates of hell only a few short months ago... but the results speak for themselves!
Encouraged by their success I started writing down some of what I knew, refining it, researching and testing it, and developing it into a winning formula that would help more couples avoid the agony of divorce. It was this formula that formed the foundation of "Save My Marriage Today."
Today I've helped over 6000 couples save their marriage and achieve astonishing success as they build a better future together, crazy in love like a honeymoon couple and having the skills to make sure they are never in crisis mode ever again.
I know it sounds CRAZY... but I know I can make the same great result happen for you... all that remains is for you to want your dream marriage back as bad as I want to help you achieve it!
It's time you committed to making sure that your marriage is next by visit www.authorityestore.com
Health / Looking For A Permanent Remedy For Bow Legs - Without The Need For Surgery? by romanusgab(m): 5:57pm On May 05, 2019
Read on to discover exactly what you need to do to fix your bow legs once and for all, and enjoy perfectly straight and attractive legs for the rest of your life!

Dear Friend,
• Do you suffer from bow legs or knock knees?
• Are you self-conscious about your malformed legs?
• Has the condition been affecting your confidence and self-esteem?
• Are you fed up of being embarrassed by your legs, and just want to be the same as everyone else?
• Have you always wondered if there was something you could do to straighten your bow legs or knock knees, which didn't involve taking on the risks and expense of surgery?
• Are you worried that by not doing anything about your condition now might lead to joint-related problems, like arthritis, in the future?
If you answered “YES” to any of those questions, then you're in exactly the right place...

“Because There Is A Solution!”

And it will finally allow you to...
• Get the perfectly straight, attractive and shapely legs you've always wanted.
• Feel happy and proud of your legs for the first time in your life.
• Improve your walk and posture.
• Boost your confidence and self-esteem.
• Do the things you've always wanted to do, like running around on the beach in shorts, without having to worry about what people are thinking.
• Wear the kind of clothes you've always wanted to wear - but never could!
• Receive the RIGHT kind of attention from the opposite sex (now they'll be staring at your legs for all the right reasons!)
• Straighten and tone your legs at the same time (Yes, this really is possible. You'll have toned, lean thighs and a firm bum in no time!)
• Prevent the development of joint-related conditions like arthritis, which can often afflict people with leg curvatures.
• And say goodbye to crooked, bow legs FOREVER!
“How To Tell If You Have Bow Legs...”

From a very early age, my step brother suffered from bow legs, and it was a condition that affected his life hugely - in a very negative way.

I will never forget the first time that I noticed his legs.

And it was horrible.

As the years rolled by, he became incredibly self-conscious.

His confidence and self-esteem sank lower and lower, because he thought there was something wrong with him. He became withdrawn, and tried everything he could to avoid swimming lessons, or any kind of situation where his legs would be on show - and he got into lots of trouble with his teachers because of it.

Desperate to fix his bow legs and just be normal like everyone else, He pleaded with his parents to take him to a Doctor, to see if there was anything that could be done.

Unfortunately, the Doctor said there was nothing he could do - and that he will just have to deal with it.

He did, to a certain extent, and got on with his life.
But his teens and early adult years were dominated by a feeling of embarrassment and shame, and a desire to ‘cover up', because he absolutely hated his legs.
And unlike all of his friends, He never wore short skirts or shorts.
“But then on One Beautiful Spring Day, Everything Changed!”
After injuring his back in a horse riding accident, He visited a physiotherapist, who took one look at him, and said, “I know exactly what you need to do to fix that!”

He was not talking about his back problem.

He was talking about his legs!

He went onto to explain that while at a conference, he had met an Orthopaedic Surgeon who had taken on a test group of 34 subjects, 21 with bow legs, and 13 with knock knees.

And the results she achieved for her patients had been incredible.

Apparently the surgeon had already seen the complications and long-term damage that surgery had caused many of her patients with these two conditions, and she didn't want to rely on it anymore.

“Surgery was an absolute last resort”, she thought.

“There had to be a better way”.

And there was.

So she set out on the search for a safer alternative.

And after years of research, working with a variety of patients, she developed a system that could be used to safely and PERMANENTLY straighten bow legs and knock knees.




So how did He get hold of this system?

Well, his physiotherapist contacted the surgeon , who was then kind enough to send me a copy of all of her research, including the specific system that she'd developed.

Excited that there might be a solution for his bow legs after all, He followed the surgeon system religiously.

And He was able to straighten his bow legs for good!

He simply couldn't believe what was happening...

A set of surprisingly simple exercises had transformed his life, and given him the straight, shapely and beautiful legs he always wanted, but never thought were possible.

And because He do not want you to go through the same pain, embarrassment and loss of confidence that he went through, he decided to collate all of the information and exercises into one easy-to-follow program, and make everything he have discovered available to you.
INTRODUCING...

www.authrityestore.com

visit health category and find the amazing result, pay attention to other categories also.

Health / Re: Waist trainers and other body shapers at giveaway prices by romanusgab(m): 4:53pm On May 05, 2019
Loosing excess fat what an average lady and men needs.

But you can lose excess fat naturally ; visit the health category of

www.authorityestore.com
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by romanusgab(m): 4:41pm On May 05, 2019
Being pregnant is a very joyous experience. From week one to term ( 40 weeks ) it is very amazing to see the activities of the unborn baby. We give thanks to God Almighty because the whole thing is mysterious.
I was attending to one pregnant mother in ultrasound and showing her the baby she was very happy . I explained to her that is how each and everyone of us was once in our life. When i showed her the gender of the baby her joy was so pronounced, she confessed that is exactly the gender she is looking for. I thanked God for her.

If you are finding it difficult getting pregnant,or having miscarriage or any other Medical complications; please get to us at Modern Medical Diagnostic Services. No 40 Airways Street, opposite Itire/Ikate LCDA Surulere - Lagos. You can call/whatsapp ; 08034560727
Health / The "Hidden Survival Muscle" In Your Body Missed By Modern Physicians. by romanusgab(m): 3:52pm On May 05, 2019
Dear Friend,

You train hard, you eat well…it should be enough to keep you in good health and physically and emotionally strong.
Yet, there is a danger lurking in our bodies that's not only hidden from us… but which even doctors are failing to identify.
It affects nearly everybody, no matter how active or sedentary you are, or how old or young you are.
This problem affects not only our body but our whole well-being.
And when I tell you what it is, you'll be shocked…

… because it's tight hip flexors.
You see, our hip flexors are the engine through which our body moves. They control balance, our ability to sit, stand, twist, reach, bend, walk and step.
Everything goes through the hips.
And when our hip flexors tighten it causes a lot of problems in ordinarily healthy and active people, like us.
In a moment, I'll reveal to you the 10 Key Moves you need to loosen your hip flexors and unlock the hidden power in your body.
But first, let me explain just how deep-rooted the problem is.

THE SHOCKING WAYS
THAT TIGHT HIPS
ARE HOLDING YOU BACK…
THAT YOU WON’T BELIEVE

Here's the truth: Most people don’t realize the cause of their problems is tight hip flexors.
The impact the hips had on the whole body never occurred to me until I saw the effect of tight hip flexors had on the health and well-being of my step sister after she gave birth.
It was only then that I truly understood the magnitude of the problem.
We are not just talking about a bit of soreness; tight hip flexors are the root cause of problems such as:
• Nagging joint pains in your legs, lower back or hips
• Walking with discomfort
• Hips locking up
• Bad posture
• Trouble sleeping
• Sluggishness in day to day life
• High Anxiety
• Digestive problems
• Compromised Immune System
• Circulatory issues
• Loss of sexual performance
• Lack of Explosiveness in the gym or sports

If any of these sound familiar to you, don't worry because you're not alone.
Tight hip flexors affect nearly everybody, but few realize the impact on your whole body.
Again, everything flows through the hips.
Think of the hips as a barometer. The health and flexibility of your hip muscles are an indicator of the strength and health of our whole body.
AND AT THE VERY HEART OF THIS IS THE "HIDDEN" MOST POWERFUL SURVIVAL MUSCLE. WHEN THIS MUSCLE IS HEALTHY, WE ARE HEALTHY.

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Your hips are the bridge between your upper body and lower body. They are at the center of your body's movement.
Sitting within the well of your hip and lower spine is the psoas major muscle, one of the two muscles that makes up the iliopsoas.
It’s often called the "mighty" psoas (pronounced so-az) for the many important functions it plays in the movement of your body.
The psoas is the only muscle in the human body connecting the upper body to the lower body.
The muscle attaches to the vertebrae of the lower spine, moves through the pelvis and connects to a tendon at the top of the femur. It also attaches to the diaphragm, so it’s connected to your breathing, and upon it sits all the major organs.
A functioning psoas muscle creates a neutral pelvic alignment, stabilizes the hips, supports the lower spine and abdomen, supports the organs in the pelvic and abdominal cavity and gives you greater mobility and core strength.

When it functions well, it has the power to…
• … help you achieve peak performance day after day after day.
• … rapidly drop ugly body fat that stubbornly clings to your body.
• … train harder, heavier and gain strength faster than you thought possible.
• … hit your peak of sexual health.
• … flood your mind and body with renewed energy and vigor.
Put simply, this muscle is the core of activity in your body. So, when it is out of balance or if the psoas tightens, there are serious consequences which flow throughout the body.

........... just visit www.authorityestore.com locate the health category and every other categories is of great help and value to you. See you there and follow us again tomorrow .
Career / I Want To Tell You About A Concept I Considered So Important. by romanusgab(m): 10:53pm On May 04, 2019
Helow friend , I have just few words for you. For a quite while I have being on this forum I got a lot of calls and mails from people emphasizing how my works has helped them make much fortune for themselves, transform their life, saved their health ( and in some cases literally saved their life ) kept their marriages intact and in various other Improved their lives immensely. Check out the great works at www.AuthorityEstore.com .

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