rosita112: Recently, I noticed my 4yr old Son saying the word SHAME to his yonger brother who is 18mths for peeing. My toddler is being potty trainned at the moment.

I was totally shocked and explaind to Him that there is nothing shameful for his brother peeing on himself that its only a potty accident and that sometimes other kids do the same too. I asked him were he learnt that and he told me his teaher in class asked everyone to say shame to a particular GIRL IN HIS CLASS AFTER SHE had a potty accident(probably peed or pooed on herself in class)

I find this rather disturbing and want to have a talk with the school authorities as this is a Church owned private school. I expect better from them. what are they instilling into the Children? Its never ok to shame a child for peeing on him or herself it may cause the child to have low self esteem and it may also encourage bullying.

I am thinking of changing his school at the moment but maybe next term.

Please what are other parents veiw on this issue?

Siena: It's wrong. Accidents will happen with toddlers, young children and sometimes teenagers, for a myriad of reasons.

Getting children to shame others, regardless of what they've done is totally unacceptable. It can affect the child both physically and mentally. Such a child can become secretive, socially withdrawn and reclusive, feeling that what they've done is unnatural, and something to be ashamed of.

I would certainly have words with that "teacher"!

cap28: most nigerians do not marry people who they have anything in common with, the majority of nigerian men go for women based on how docile they are as they are terrified of women who stand up for themselves and refuse to be treated like crap. this one probably married his wife using the same criteria only to wake up 3 years later and realise that he might as well be living with a maid. Your wife should be your best friend and lover rolled into one so that when the romance starts to wear off you still have a great friend who you have similar things in common with to enjoy your life with. all i can say is that he has made his bed therefore he will have to lie in it, of course that means that he will spend the rest of the marriage cheating on the poor woman and make her life extremely miserable. the divorce laws in nigeria need to be amended so that a man is forced to provide for an ex wife, i think that will reduce the number of dead end marriages that occur in nigeria because if a man knows that if his wife leaves him and he still has to provide for her and any children they have after the marriage has ended he will look well before embarking on a marriage with a woman he isnt sure of.

dabriggs: Funny, but let me tell you, a ring will not stop a man or woman cheating!Its a thing of preference.
Yes its like a bill board which reads boldly "Hey Married Person Comming Through"! But they are no guarante of fidelity or that another person won't desire you.
In case some of you singles haven't noticed, the ring has nothing to do with a guys swag.He will wear his ring and his body language and swag will make you say "Bleep the ring, I like this guy"!
Infact some guy once said "Briggs I dey wear this ring because first e dey command respect and secondly e dey help me sieve out babes. Because any babe wey see my ring and still put head must really one get down with me!So e dey stop me from wasting my time with unserious babes!"
So there you have it. There are ladies who die for married guys. If you don't, that is your business.
My take?if you like your ring put it on. If you find it uncomfortable, don't!
In nigeria and almost generally, women are proud to be married. They even fast and pray and go to night vigils about it. For a guy, its really not that of a big deal. Ring or No ring, a cheating partner will cheat!!!Even if the ring is as big as an elephants head.
However I know most guys would frown at their wives if they don't put on their rings. What is good for the goose isn't anything cool for the gander o!

kingboy:

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You can call this one too prince on07028028000 not sure he still has property in ogba but no crime in trying.PLEASE leave the family house,

THANKS OH, I APPRECIATE IT, ARE U TELLING ME? I JUST CAN'T WAIT TO GET OUT. STAYING WITH INLAWS NO BE AM AT ALL EVEN THE BEST ONES