sexkillz:

LEAVE THE POOR DUDE ALONE! HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU! FACE YOUR CO WORKER SQUARELY AND ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HIM TO USE! THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR CHEATING!!!

The guilt from both sides is already killing me. i have been coping well the long distance until i started noticing sum distance. I was just frustrated and had it. I'm not saying what I did is right.

claremont:

This is another reason why long distance ONline relationships are a big[size=14pt] No-No![/size]

I can work with it, I guess.

190_@:

Ask your financee or boyfriend or husband if u did the wrong thing  

Of course i know it is wrong but what I'm asking here if it is wrong because he is my co worker.

ronkebp:

oH YES!!!! MY dear, oh yes!!!!! that kind of thing/fling is a no!!no!!!, but notwithstanding, sometimes you cannot escape from some attractions. Before you know it, you will start misbehaving to each other, and that might affect your job.

True

190_@:

It has happened again

YET another reason NEVER TO TOUCH A NIGERIAN WOMAN WITH A 1000METER ROD

ronkebp:

so? what do you wnat to know now?

I just want to know if i did the wrong thing being that he is my co worker

I talked about starting work and me having slept with my co worker. The problem here is I slept with him again. We do not want relationships but I seem to be enjoying his company. I am in a long distance relationship and some times he is so faraway or busy which makes me so lonely and to make matters worse, my co worker works right close to me. he said i should not feel awkward but in as much as i willingly slept with him, i'm also thinking if i have disgraced myself or so? please help advise me.

I recently started work but already having a lot of male admirers especially my colleague and after all the hints he kept giving me and me telling him to back off, I ended up sleeping with him and chilling even inside the office and outside.

my question for nairalanders is if i am doing something dangerous or what are the consequences of office romance since we chill outside the office or am i stupid for developing that kind of feelings for my co worker?

i am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and we promised to tell each other everything and anything that happens regardless. The problem here is i ended up sleeping with a co worker of mine and making out. I feel guilty but there is no way i am going to tell him this or do i just be honest about it and tell him?