Please my people someone who has the knowledge of nkwobi should give me some hint on how to prepare it, thank you in advance

Chuck Ba$$:

Nonsense!!!

If she is not ready to do her job as a housewife and sit down in one place but demand for allowances, whats the divorce court for? I cant be scammed by one woman whose sole duty in life is to become a domesticated being and look after a house. Whats so hard there? Does she go out there to hustle to make ends meet for the family or does she think money grows on trees?

Abeg i dont have time for all this crazy feminine independence liberation crap. If she has a brain, she ought to be working to provide for the family but if she intends to be a dense lazy slob, then she should be contented in being a domesticated animal and live with it.

And if any man wants to take her away from me, he can be my guest. Its just like replacing one house maid with another. A very smooth transition!

I will be glad to transfer all her headaches to him!

well , no need of talking toomuch cos i see u r still a bachelor, u have no experience atall about marriage and commitment. i believe u will know better when u grow older and get involved. no offence meant.

Chuck Ba$$:

What Allowance? The man does the following for you:

1. Pays the rent

2. Pays the bills

3. Pay for the maintainance of everything from water to light to plumbing etc

4. Provides for your comfort i.e cable, internet, phones etc

5. Provides for the school fees of the kids

6. Provides for the food you eat

7. Provide for all the necessities and luxuries in the house and for you

Now you still want to demand for allowance when its your duty to:

1. Breast feed and take care of the kids

2. Do the dishes, chores, wash his clothes and Iron

3. Cook sporadically

4. Have sex with him

Now why should he pay for these things when he is obviously doing more than 100% to make the family stable but you want allowance because he sleeps with you or because you clean the house. . . pssff! (As if its not your natural duty from birth to do all that)

The man can do without the house wife. He can always get a cleaner, cook and nanny to do all her jobs and can always find a girl in a club to sleep with and pay. I will rather pay an escort to sleep with me than give my wife a dime or allowance for sleeping with me. The moment she asks for an allowance, then there is no difference between her and a common red light prostitute! Which in my own opinion are one and the same set of people only that one is wearing a wedding ring under lock and key and the other is busy at allen avenue!

na waoo, some men are really mean, if u dont take care of ur wife, then some abled men will do that for u. all those things u listed doesnt hold water atall, its ur duty as a man to provide for ur family , and also to meet the needs of ur wife. chekina

what of in the case ,where the temporaly housewife, who is nursing their baby just "Request " the husband should give her little money to sort herself out, and the husband demands to know everything the wife wants to buy , asking her what do u need the money for, am the onlyone earning some money in this house, go and get a job, forgetting she is nursing their baby. what should she do?

in Europe benefits are paid to kids,what of in the case whereby the husband collects all these benefits which the nursingmother is supposed to use in supporting herself, claiming he is using it to settle some debts. leaving the wife with nothing, infact making life miserable to her. maybe someone comes her way who is ready to meet her pressing needs. what should she do?

Her name is Onome,she lives in itire area of surulere as in ijesha.we were best friend before i travelled out and we lost contact,she is boyish in nature;plays football,and attends "TREM"
at ijesha expressway. pls anyone that knows her should inform her that her goodfriend "CHIOMA" is searching for her .

thank you so much Toyosi and Ify ,you know in this part of the world one is the doctors don't understand English and i found it difficult making them understand what i mean in their language, although i know most of the docs. here might understand but they are not close to where i reside. i appreciate you guys so much.
stay blessed

pls what is the cause and how can one stop the pain or hook one get when in late pregnancy, when sleeping u try to turn by streching ur body ,u will feel some hooks in ur arteries and it is really painful,what can stop it pls my people.

[b]Shapey, my dear, i followed your story all through,and it really brought tear on my cheeks, it is very sad with all these in-laws stuffs, i just want you to bear in mind that God is your strength, just hold on him as your protector and comforter, he will never disappoint you, pls forgive your husband and you guys should really come together and renew your love once again to each other. your mother is a strong and brave woman not all mothers can do this.but don't allow her get too much involved in your family affairs, she is your darling mother who gave birth and breatfed you, i believe she will never try to mislead you,but be cautious and be prayerful aswell. God is with you and your husband,pls try and call him ,cos he is feeling thesame way you do.
may the peace of God reign in your home in jesus name Amen.[color=#000099][/color]

titosantin:

sincerely you are at fault.If u are good enough in bed your husband no go they pursue small, small, girls for town.so go for sexual healing.when u sabi do the thing.your husband no go out again.

you can't just say that not knowing fully well the type of man she has,if it is the type that cannever be satisfied no matter what he get at home,so don#t judge her based on that alone.


@poster, well i can really say anything to you, u know the type of man you have just have patience and talk with him about your feeling and more on this ,he might change.
goodluck

SwtNsoFLyy:


well, my ex husband thought it was fun and games with his 'boys' until I had his a$$ escorted out of my house, and filed for a divorce. I tried 'talking', and forgiving tho that didn't stop him from running around with women. I didn't make a move until I got CONFIRMATION from God. I was depressed all the tyme, cooking, cleaning, taking care of the child, AND WORKING longer hours than he did. I prayed and asked God to show me what I need to do, and to give me strenth to leave,

Years later, we talked as 'friends'. He said, its not that the women were "better", but he was immature, and 'variety was the spice of his life" at that time. He said he would never marrry again, because he can never find a woman to meet up to my standards. so after I put it in God's hands, he is the one who suffered, not I.

Life is too precious to waste it on a cheater with so many diseases out there. There are some God fearing men in this world, that will love and respect you, but you must really consult God with a pure heart, your fears & tears, and expect a blessing from it. I can't tell u to leave, because God might whip him spiritually, then again, don't be fooled by a hipocrite. Use that inner voice that some people call " intuition", but better known as the Holy Spirit as your guide,

best wishes, and know that while he thinks hes out there 'getting' his, by the tyme God finishes with him, he's really going to GET HIS.
In the meantyme, u better believe that he's playing mind games, and out there like a single man with no sexual boundaries with temptation. A weak man with no conviction couldn't roll with me,

love & light,

thanks dear, i have been praying for him and believing my God will arrest him, all is in the hands of the Almighty, i hope he changes, all i can#t say now is how to face him when hes back,should i pretend that all is well,or should i confront him on it,?i just don#t know

SwtNsoFLyy:


what was your response to that?

One thing I can't STAND worse than lyers, is a man who plays also mind games. The way he responded to you was a psychological game he is using to divert his wrong into a 'right'. thus confusing the hell out of you,, IF! you allow it. First of all, i agree with the idea of protection, with a single man, but when a husband carries around condoms it is an indication of a married cheater who is still out there getting his,

I personally can't tolerate a cheating husband , yea, some guys may say, there is no proof he cheated asides finding the condoms, but that alone raises suspiscion. I agree with sitting down, and talking about it. From my experience, talking about it,, my x husband, seemes so genuine, when he said he wouldnt do it again, so im not against forgiving. What I am against, is repetition, over and over and over and OVER again. plus some.

love & light,

well my dear, i was just dumbfounded ,i don't know if i should talk or not,i was just confused, so what do i do when he is back?

sorry for typing errors, he said he needs it so as to protect himself incase of anything, but i thought we are married and we are supposed to remain faithful to eachother,so is this not like a slap on the face.

ur husband is travelling ,and u r packing his clothes and u discovered a sachet of condoms and when u asked him he was like is it not good to be protective incaes of anything. tell me the ladys it were u will u stll trust him, and how will u feel,and u guys can u do such to your wife u said u truely love even if she is ur girl ,pls i need replys

and please how can i post this tread on general post pls

sometimes is not always a good idea,cos i remembered when a friend of my husband told him certain things concerning his wife ,how she hid their marriage certificate,how she came to look at the type of car her husband came with on their TM day, u know some nasty things, later my husband was used to settle their dispute, cos when my hubby was asking the woman why she did all those things she denied all and later the husband called and telling my hubby why are you pitying her u shuld have done this or that. u see keep off on matters concerning married couple when it comes to gossip and ash her.

i represent Ajao Estate High School, Anthony Village Lagos.

pls who attended my school during this year 1995 --till 2001,as in you actually passed out in 2001 ,lets talk about school days jare.
Anthony Village student,

i pray that God will bless and protect me and my household, favour my husband in his place of work, lead us in the path of rigteousness ,bless and grant all the heart desires of all nairalanders.make my father win this election and my siblings gain their admissions, take away every form of sickness and diseases bless nigeria in jesus name. Amen

pls where is cut-ass and dablessed what can u say to this?

i love taking pix right from childhood and even now am married with children ,i  still continue even with my kids,cos it reminds me of how iwas and am. i love watching my old and new pixs cos i derive some joy doing that.it only depends on individuall.

A friend of mine has a party to organise and want to know how to prepare salads like coolslaw with the ingredients to be used step by step please help with your answers as he has just two days to the party.