Well I must say this post captured my attention so much that after along time of not commenting on NL I felt I had 2 say something....
(1) In as much as I agree with 60% of the comment posted so far. . I think ur first step to getting Ur husband on dis is to learn Esan language Urself...(Either through him or somewhere else)...
(2) I think on the other hand I will advise U don't push it,,(we men could be funny on tivial issues sometimes) I will rather U don't allow de issue disturb ur marriage becos Ur husband likes it or not nature will take its course and as others have said the child will learn de languages around....
3) Finally I thing its will be added advantage even for his future carrier becos from experience I have been to two Global and international organizations in Nigeria where @list two or more local languages were major basis..... This are issues U nid to seat an discuss with U husband.....

!!!!!!If symtom continue after six month contact ur councelor pls !!!

Is this suppose 2 be an issue for debate,have U asked Urself why are dere so many mosque in every big mans house, every junction or roadside or U are just basing Ur question on where U are residing...Let us not give reasons 2 why ppl will talk rubishly about our religion be it muslim or christian.....think positive !!!

If U ask me na who I go ask de mater wey U see so e dey for Ur hand na U go answer de question.

Why de question we have reasons 4 going jst as de constitutions give freedom of association so does the bible mandate xtians not 2 forsake the gathering of Gods people...it also said"@ de end falls prophet will come".

I thought de BH said dey were going on break till after fasting now who is 2 blame for dis one...ahuzubilai

U gat my support and my vote only if de PDP virus does not infect U b4 den.

Who can't claim responsibility even when it is not them they will claim, cowards I think the Fulani's are responsible for the massacre...let No bokoHaram talk rubbish here...Local Champions..

Just de cry of another frustrated politician,,,don't worry just try again by 2015 which am sure U will not get....

Mr,Honorable Mark sir,are U talking about Ur first term,Second Term or Third Term as senate president or are assuming exposing them,,,hhhhmm hhhhmmm may in Ur grave People Deceiving People.....sccheewww

Rather unfortunate the responses to this tread a "Yoruba saying" warned that "a newly married 2nd wife should not be too comfortable with her husband becos the cain that was used to beat and send out the 1st wife is still kept hidden by de husband" the Fulannis have remain a problem almost everywhere they are settled however what makes U think U cannot be a victim to them...the way Nigeria is going in terms of violence does not exempt any tribe,religion or religion....All we can do it to join hands to fite dis increasing weave that is not giving our children any hope in anyway...God Save Nija...

In as much as this is a good idea I think reveling Ur plans to the public may also give the BokoHaram an opportunity to high jack the plan. And looking at the situation we find our self in this country it will be hard for any church or person to accept such a gesture considering the fact that it has to do with security..anyway I wish U goodluck.

Nonsense !!! Another waste eminent,was the winning for the super eagles of Nigeria or a local club in Niaja,has he established some sort of empowerment programme for the jobless Nigerian Youth ?? Or has he thot of helping the many competent footballers wishing to be like him?? Yet He deserves an honor from our national assembly..it only shows the level of our stupidity when there so many Nigerians doing the Nation proud through their handiwork.. "We can't continue like this"

Two thing are involved: it is either this guyz are under the influence of Fura-da-nunu or the Carmel milk the are offering nonsense.

The single reasons are the initial understanding falls apart and the woman that shows U a lot of respect now turns around simply becos sometimes U have to help one or two persons in her family or Ur family or becos she always want U around her even wen U are in de office. Or the so many suspicion between the 2 of them.

In as much as I agree with El-rufai I must say He is one of those frustrated politicians who when in power impacted little or nothing and suffering to the people but because they out of the system now they speak as if they are saints.

Committees are set up on everything and they get paid at the expense of what ever they are working on yet no result and when the results come the govt sweeps the outcome under the carpet...who knows very soon there will be a committee on the Quantity of food consumed by Nigerians.(Anyway its jst another way of engaging jobless people and paying some the money they don't deserve).

I have always said many tactics have been devised to divert the minds of Nigerian's from BokoHaram seriously speaking they are beginning to cause the planned diversion and division among Us. Dat is we all joined in the blame game like Jonathan blaming Buari and Buari blaming Jonathan as being sponsor of BokoHaram. We must set aside our difference to fight this BokoHaram shit or else we will blaame our self till we harm each other.

Well dis is our own way of Transformation atlist there is something we are known for...those lawyers should go an collect their share and keep quiet we have all learnt that wen U get dere chop Ur own or U become a laughing stock...my people say "Oruko Omo ni romo" but in dis case jonathan is a course and a gas let out of our anus we have to endure de smell or ....

Well I buy this initiative very creative at list its better than going to borrow a friends car or hiring always try something different....

Instead of them to think of how to reduce the huge amount been collected and spent by politician and their offices they feel creating more Unemployment will solve th issue why won't they think of merging most of this agencies. I thing the Nigerian economy should be more privately driven as part of ways of getting this country moving..

I think its best to let her be..its high time guyz realize that it is one of the best way to command respect and maintain Ur prestige b4 a woman...and besides nobe every food U must chop....leave am abii.

Nothing much to say here than to caution all; remember the Bible said in the last days fauls prophet will come among You and I think before U all say what U are not suppose to this thread and Pastor Chris has succeeded in causing confusion among everybody here....even to the extent of leading others astray. Let Ur believe be to U and let God open Ur eyes of Understanding... Shikenan

The seat tight spirit never leaves the African man,,,this man said he was not going to seek a second term but here he is even before the end of the 1st year of his for years he is talking of 2015..the money wasted on voting him has run the country while major issues are on ground to handle he is talking of next term....ok me I keep my hands cross God keep us alive till then. Hhmmm

I dey laugh haaa... This guyz are broke an they needed to extort somebody,,,,so if his wife were not involved in this the House will not summon the company...Hmmm please I took a pix last week and I didn't pose well I need the house to help me summon the cameraman....Seriously serious...worbish

This is blasphemy and I only wish u will come to realize this before its too late. U say a God does not exist but U exist have U wondered how. U say there is no God but each day is lightened by the Sun and the night by the stars. I will not engage U in any religious aguement or try to convince U but I will want U to try Ur new so called freedom for a year and see de difference.

What a pathetic story hard to believe but very realistic, if U monitor foreign news U'll be aware of rebels keeping their victims for 4-10 years; this is just a similar case considering how remote some villages/communities could be. For those who don't belief just take a tour of some remote areas outside where U are used to then U'll see. And If U monitor the dailies U will see the story of a headless human body in Abuja yesterday.. Enough to tell Us the level of rituals Big men do to keep alife...GOD just keep Us all that we don't fall such victim.

Baba has really done a lot in putting this Niaja as its, well it is a humble bow out as it sounds I still dey laugh...'if Baba wey dey fite for 3rd term come say him dey bow out den I dey laugh' I wish U well in Ur future endeavor...

Dis man Marradona should not be trusted in anyway,he could be swift in his words jst as he could be swift in his actions....now its a game of trying to say PDP has not perform and now thank U Tinubu for creating an Opposition, wen the opposition itself is one dat will spend more dan 200million extravagantly on birthday. An opposition party dat has dia Tinubu as a leader an would fear him and take only decisions dat would favour him.....keeping de country desame like de PDP thieves....scheeeewwww

Dis people eat their words dey should be watched,why are dey crying fowl wen dey have not received de heat where were dey wen de Boko boyz were misbehaving now dey are crying wen dere was no need. Wen dey were in power wat did dey contribute to de development of de region rather dan killing de Kaduna Textil,Agaokuta mills,ground nut pyramid and other industry in de north. Now dey as frustrated politicians cry fowl jst wen de game has jst begin....don't mind dem ohh dey are all BokoHaram Sponsors...

Nope because U don't know her health status and nothing U do will satisfy her..sexually,financially or romantically.. (She don see life).