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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 9:57pm On Jul 31, 2014
Oxone: Come join me cheesy

What kind of sauce is that on your cole slaw (salad)?
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 3:59pm On Jul 28, 2014
armyofone: I really love your garden. I want one but time.
My goal is to plant scent leaf, Ugwu and Nigeria spinach.

Did you plant into the ground? Share your planting idea.

If you give me your plate, i will eat only the stew and meat grin. The only time i eat ewedu is when my mom once in blue moon used it for Ogbono.



Ohh, ogbono is next on my list of soups to learn! Any tips and a plate of gbegiri and chicken stew may be coming your way wink?

We did plant it in the ground. Sometimes I plant in containers and sometimes in a small plot along my side fence where I get the most sunlight. I love backyard gardening, and have planted corn, tomatoes, peppers, peas, okra, cucumbers, melons, squash, zucchini, strawberries, blackberries, blueberries, lettuce, and carrots. If you plant in a container box or in a few planters on your back porch it is not time consuming (I.e. You don't have to do a lot of weeding or ground prep). My advice would be to start simple (2-3 easy to grow plants in a few containers or a 4x4 container box).
The good thing about the ewedu, efo tete and efo shoko that my husband planted is that it is very prolific. These bad boys grew like weeds, and we still have so much tete and shoko that I will be freezing it. It has also been very low maintenance. All we do is water, and about once every couple of weeks I'll go out and weed it. Now oko mi's style of planting is different than mine. He throws so many seeds out there and mixes them all up that I guess that's why we've had very few weeds, whereas I do neat and orderly rows with space between each plant. Whatever works, right! Anyway, try it. It's the best thing because you know you're getting food free of pesticides, it's the freshest you could ever get, and you're increasing your ability to provide for you and your family and be self-reliant in the event of food scarcity.

Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 3:46pm On Jul 28, 2014
Chillisauce: Food

Looks good! I remember the first time I ate tomato eggs and dudu...OMGosh! I didn't think a food combination could be so good! Is the last picture efo riro?

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 5:57am On Jul 27, 2014
Tonight's dinner for the hubby...he's growing ewedu (as well as tete, okra, and corn) in our backyard garden. Mumsy sent the seeds over for him. So here's me trying my best to make fresh ewedu, gbegiri (shelling the beans - - not fun for an OCD person like me; have to pick each and every single hull I find; needless to say it takes me forever which is why I love it when I find them already peeled), and chicken stew :-)

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 5:50am On Jul 27, 2014
touchmeder: Nice shot, yum yum.

Thanks :-)
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 8:31pm On Jul 26, 2014
Cinnamon cupcakes with caramel apple icing...made these last night for dessert at the behest of the kids...

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 12:09am On Jul 26, 2014
touchmeder: But the bread looks soggy tho undecided
It's really not though. After baking most of the coconut milk/cream thickens and is absorbed, and leaves a sticky glaze on the outside...not soggy at all.
Here's another pix that shows that it doesn't come out soggy...

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 6:03am On Jul 25, 2014
This is a sweet bread I learned from a Polynesian (Haiiwain) friend. It's called Pani Popo, and is a sweet roll with a coconut milk glaze. It's soooo good! I made the rolls from scratch this time (sometimes I buy frozen bread dough instead of laboring with homemade bread). The dough is the same kind you'd use for a sweet roll like cinnamon rolls (for those bakers in the house). The glaze is coconut milk, sugar, and regular milk. Even though it looks like it's swimming in milk, the milk mostly gets absorbed while baking, but leaves just enough sauce to drizzle over the roll when serving. Enjoy! smiley

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by SewaGRITS(f): 2:48pm On Jul 22, 2014
I love this board. It's taught me some great Nigerian recipes. Just to contribute my own instead of merely lurking. Made suya spiced chicken with suya spice my MIL sent from Naija, but really what made this dish the ish was smoking the chicken in my stovetop smoker that we got as a wedding present...hubby was still licking his lips in his sleep, lol.

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee Nag Alot And Im Tired Of Her by SewaGRITS(f): 10:50pm On Jan 01, 2014
OP,

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Food / Nigerian Engagement Cake by SewaGRITS(f): 4:50am On Jul 17, 2013
Hi all,
I have a question about the traditional Nigerian engagement cake. Why is it often shaped like a suitcase? What is the symbolism behind it. I plan on having one as the "Groom's cake", which is a typical Southern tradition- - think Steel Magnolias and the Red Velvet armadillo cake. I wanted to be able to give some background of the traditional engagement cakes I've seen at Nigerian weddings.
Culture / Re: What Is The Meaning Of This Proverb? by SewaGRITS(f): 6:26pm On Jul 08, 2013
@psucc, thanks :-)
That is similar to what I was thinking..."don't bite off more than you can chew" is the American version of that proverb.
Culture / What Is The Meaning Of This Proverb? by SewaGRITS(f): 5:56pm On Jul 08, 2013
A friend texted me to know the meaning of a proverb one of her friends posted on Facebook. The girl who posted it didn't even know...she just wanted to appear profound :-/ Anyway, can I get some help on this...
"If a man wants to grow a long tooth, he should have the lip to cover it."
I told her idk, but to me perhaps it may mean if you're going to do something you should have the means to handle it. Or don't bite off more than you can chew.
What do you think
Family / Re: D Price He Paid Cos Of His Unforgiven Heart by SewaGRITS(f): 4:11pm On Jun 26, 2013
Wish I could give an unlimited # of likes...very funny story!
Family / Re: American Based Families Only. by SewaGRITS(f): 4:36am On Jun 21, 2013
when you visit maybe your husband can use the opportunity to make it a business trip too and put out feelers for the market. I live in Georgia, although not in Atlanta. He may want to try smaller areas on the outskirts of Atlanta (I.e. Marietta, Henry County, Gwinnett, and even further south to Macon). Sometimes it's easier to get your foot in the door in a smaller city. Plus it's usually cheaper. And Nigerians are all over Georgia - - so networking shouldn't be hard. Also, if you do a feasibility study and find it may work, maybe you can look at getting a small business loan in the UK to expand your business in the US...besides you'd get way more money converting pound to dollar.
Family / Re: Post Pregnancy Stretch Marks by SewaGRITS(f): 2:00pm On Jun 17, 2013
You might try cocoa butter or coconut oil. It will help over time, but not completely fade them.

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Family / Re: Shhhhhh...i Am Pregnant by SewaGRITS(f): 1:27pm On Jun 17, 2013
The only thing you will find that Oyibo won't ask is whether you are pregnant...see trouble if you ask a woman if she is pregnant and she is not! There is a woman at my church who is five months along...so she is showing and I suspected she was pregnant but i wouldnt say anything until i got confirmation from someone. But once it is confirmed we'll ask a lot because its considered an exciting time for all to celebrate with the mom...and most mom to be's over here want to talk...they would feel neglected and it would be considered uncaringif you didn't. Now women who have a history of miscarrying might wait longer...sometimes into the 5th or 6th month (really until they can't hide it anymore).
As for anyone wanting to do harm to us or the baby...we don't really think about that. Why waste brain power worrying about them?! Greater is He that is in me...
Family / Re: Shhhhhh...i Am Pregnant by SewaGRITS(f): 11:50pm On Jun 15, 2013
I would share the news with all the world after the first trimester. I imagine creative ways to tell my in laws ...like sending a stuffed toy with a recording of the baby's heartbeat (there is a boutique that does that and it's soo cute), a framed picture of the 3D ultrasound, or any other cute thing I find on Pinterest. I'm not from "Afi-ri-ca" as someone put it and therefore don't hold with all the superstition. But my husband will say that we Oyibo talk to much, "it's not all that you see you should say" (in his Yoruba accent).
But my in laws were fairly secretive. We didn't know about one cousin giving birth till it was done. And another in law was alway evasive when I asked about the sex (just so I could start shopping and sending stuff over). To each his own but it was strange for me, but I learned to respect their privacy.

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Family / Re: Pls Watch This Movie Before You Divorce Your Wife - Fireproof by SewaGRITS(f): 1:35am On May 24, 2013
aadetoyin: Lovely movie. Its a must watch for couples. cheesy

There's also a naija movie that's about marriage 'MR n MRS'
This is probably my favorite Naija movie! Don't know about all of the low budget trash Nollywood puts out now. This was well produced, well filmed, funny as heck, and had a good message.
Family / Re: Pls Watch This Movie Before You Divorce Your Wife - Fireproof by SewaGRITS(f): 1:32am On May 24, 2013
I love, love this movie!! It's one of the first movies I introduced to DH during in the beginning of our courtship. Courageous was awesome too. I live in the area that these movies were filmed so it was neat to see some recognizable places smiley Also the stores around here sold the proclamation from Courageous for dad's on Father's Day. I know a lot of dads that did the ceremony with it. Favorite parts in the movie for me - - every time he did something crazy outside and the neighbor would be there giving him funny looks, also when he confronted the doctor, and at the end when he found out his mom had done the Love Dare for his dad...best line - - the one about the salt and pepper glued together...you can separate them but then both are harmed in the process. Great, great movies! Haven't seen the third yet.
Food / Re: Picture Of A Nairaland Addict Cooking Food For His Lovely Wife. by SewaGRITS(f): 11:38pm On May 10, 2013
Looks good and how wonderful for you to cook for your wife :-)

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Events / Re: Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 8:07pm On May 08, 2013
Thank you all for the congrats and well wishes :-) :-) I appreciate the suggestions too. I would love to have more info, so keep it coming. Thanks again! Much love :-)

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Events / Re: Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 8:02pm On May 08, 2013
biafranqueen: Buka Lounge caters
5475 Memorial Dr
Stone Mountain, GA 30083
(404) 292-2852

Also Toyin

495 Pat Mell Rd SW
Ste 105
Marietta, GA 30060
(404) 835-7702
These are the two I eat at when I attended trade shows in Atlanta both very good Congrats may this union last 4ever and a day

Thank you so much for the info and the well wishes :-)
Events / Re: Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 8:00pm On May 08, 2013
baby_mama:
Let me recommend a Chef to you
Chef Okon

http://nations-cafe.com/About.html

I attended a wedding in Georgia and he catered the food and it was the best food I had eaten in any Nigerian event
I am not related or affiliated with him in any way
I had to get his card in case someone ever asked or I needed to use him
His food is very very good,edikaikong soup,jollof,fried rice,stewed meat,moi moi ,suya etc
Very pleasant gentleman too
I know good food and this is one I can testify to

All the best in your upcoming wedding

Thank you so much...just what I was looking for. I appreciate!
Events / Re: Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 7:56pm On May 08, 2013
outrage: This one your just emphasizing on the yoruba.. Relax now, we are all nigerians.

No offense intended but from the few years that we have been together I know how important his Yoruba heritage is to him...plus there are differences in food and language.
Events / Re: Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 7:53pm On May 08, 2013
supaeagles: Congrats!!, Hope your fiance is not on NL and reading all the wonderful surprises you are planning for him...

Lol...I hope not too o... In case he does I do have a few other surprises up my sleeve too ;-) Thanks for the well wishes :-)

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Events / Re: Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 7:49pm On May 08, 2013
jidegirl12: I think you should move your thread to Events section.

How've you been? Long time. Congrats and best of luck. smiley Respect is the key to please a Yoruba man and his people and they'd love you forever , won't take a dime outta you wink take care.

Duly noted :-) Thanks jidegirl...I'm well, thanks for asking and thanks for the well wishes. He's a great guy and has a really kind heart. I'm looking forward to a lifetime and more :-)
Events / Planning A Cross Cultural Wedding Reception-ideas Needed by SewaGRITS(f): 2:54pm On May 08, 2013
Good morning,
I'm American and my guy is Yoruba. We're planning a wedding ceremony and reception this fall. I am seeking advice, ideas, suggestions on two things:
1) How to fuse traditions from both cultures at the reception to give guests from both cultures a peek at the other culture (Southern and Yoruba). This is what we have planned so far - - We plan on changing into traditional clothes at some point during the reception. We will play a mix of American and Nigerian music. And I'm surprising him with a Nigerian themed cake that I saw online where the couple is in Native dress and sitting on luggage or pillows. It will be the groom's cake. Also I would like to serve both Southern and Nigerian food. That brings me to my next request.
2) Any NLers living in Georgia or upper Florida (Tallahassee or Jacksonville) who can refer a good Nigerian (Yoruba) caterer?
I greatly appreciate your help!

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Food / Re: Looking For A Caterer by SewaGRITS(f): 2:18pm On May 08, 2013
Otunbaworldwide: I know good one here in nigeria that u can sponsor her down there with u. She is very good. 08063228187.

I appreciate that but I need someone already based in Georgia or upper Florida. Thanks for your response though smiley
Food / Looking For A Caterer by SewaGRITS(f): 2:50am On May 08, 2013
I know it may be a long shot but does ANY one know of a Nigerian (Yoruba) caterer in Georgia (south of Macon, not even close to Atlanta) or in Jacksonville or Tallahassee, Fl
Family / Re: A Very Interesting Story! by SewaGRITS(f): 3:57pm On Dec 04, 2012
Nice one! The grass ain't always greener on the other side. It's green where you water it!

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Travel / Re: Common Misconception Of America By Nigerians by SewaGRITS(f): 3:04pm On Dec 04, 2012
Das sparrow, you've presented the most realistic picture of this country yet. I'm an American, and I haven't yet been to Naija so I can't say much about what life is like there other then to base it on what I read in the news or what my family there is experiencing. There life is better than mine in some respects and worse in others.
Housing - my sister in law just built there home. It's theirs free and clear. It's comparable to mine in size (maybe a little bigger); while I will be paying a mortgage for 30 years and hoping to have equity and value plus to not be in a situations where I can't pay for a home.
Education- is probably better here; from what I've observed your private schools are comparable to our public schools (I.e suburban schools, not inner city ones); so you'd get a better education for free depending on where you live.
Medical care is better here as well as everyday services (I.e electricity et al)
Food - from my husband's complaints food is definitely more expensive here although we may have a broader selection. Milk is $3.70 for a gallon. Garri (just had to include the price of Garri,lol) is $4.99 for 3lb bag, mangos are $1 each, yams are the size of my hand and sell for nearly $1 each, chicken breast $2/lb, beef $3/lb, gas $3.40/gallon (not food but still relevant)
So there's pros and cons. We have friends in Naija working in comparable professions as ours that have plenty of disposable income, less bills, and live wealthy lives just because what they earn goes farther than what we earn (and we are both very educated and work white collar professions). Now they may own their homes free and clear, but we don't have to surround our home with barbed wire and an 8ft wall...so a sense of security and peace of mind goes far.

So trust that in Yankee the roads are not lined with gold...just yellow paint. You won't be picking up money off the ground when you step off the plane, and people will look at you as an "African" because they think of Africa as one big country of starving, big bellies children. For those saying racism isn't an issue, they don't realize how subtle it is. When you come here from "Africa" your credentials, work experience, and education are viewed suspiciously and taken for naught. This is what I've observed and everyone's experiences will be different. Just be realistic and prepared before coming.

dasparrow:

This is the problem I have with many Nigerians abroad. Just because things are cheap in your city and you are doing well does not mean it is the same all over America and with everyone. I have lived in America for over 13 years, went to college here and everything. America used to be good back in the late nineties but everything has changed now. There are indeed no jobs for the most part except maybe in the medical field. Most jobs - especially manufacturing, IT and customer service - are being shipped abroad to China, Malaysia, Philippines and the likes.

So my point is, things are hard in America now. Even those born and bred in America are finding it difficult to find a decent paying job much less someone who came directly from Nigeria with a thick Nigerian accent, an African name which most Americans are often times unwilling to try to pronounce and so on. As a christian, I believe in telling Nigerians in Nigeria the truth so that if they do choose to come to the USA, they will have realistic expectations.

Many Nigerians in America don't want to tell the truth because they want to come back to Nigeria and boast. What most Nigerians in Nigeria don't know is that many residents in America are neck deep in debt. Their mates in Nigeria are building their homes in Nigeria and elsewhere with raw cash while those with homes in America for the most part are drowning in mortgage debt. If they cannot keep up with their monthly mortgage payments, the house goes into foreclosure irrespective of how much one has already paid towards the house.

All that glitters is indeed not gold.

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