technuel:
As it stands now, I am on the verge of quiting a six months old relationship because of the following reasons;

The Girl I am dating shares pictures of her ex on her Whatsapp Status. I wasn't cool about it. I can't even actually fathom what is going on in her head and her motive towards that. She did it the first time, I warned her, she did it the second time I warned her, she did it the third time and now the fourth time. I am already fade up.

Since she has made up her mind to disrespect me by puting up her ex pictures on her Status. I have decided to call it a quit. I was even planning of paying her bride price by December. But from what I am seeing, it won't be possible.

Please I need your advice

the ex go still dey knack am

Cheat

PastorFire:
So yesterday, i surprised my mum and placed 20k on her hand. She asked, for who? I replied, Mummy i dash u.
I did this in her market place to make her a proud mother. Indeed, the look on her face says it all.
She sent a text today praying for me. This is worth more a thousand times the money any child can give his parents. I thank God for his provision.
My dad is next. Like i said, i always make it a surprise.

nice one. B like say u rarely give her

Cazzim:
fear girls oo,I was at home with my cousin brother girlfriend phone when zenith Bank sent her message that am at home start coming... I pretend as if I didn't know what is happening,am still schock,and my cousin brother wants to married this girl and he has really invested on her, I don't know if I should tell him or not. he really loves and trust the girl

please tell him

Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

you have to clear her. Make you always explain to her that’s why.

Lexusgs430:


Whatever anyone signed would be discarded by the courts...... So don't bother......

Sharing of assets, in terms of separation..... Starts at 50/50 ......

Regarding the children, a judge would decide what is fair, considering the interest of the children.........

Don't bother.......

I think a prenup would fix the asset thing. Anything u have bfor her is urs

Datboredberri:
And this is who so many Nigerian men are carriers of STDs...

even regular ladies na dem carry d std pass. What’s the difference between an olosho and a girl who has a body count of above 5 in d name of relationship

Datboredberri:
And this is who so many Nigerian men are carriers of STDs...

that same education gave us condom. and don’t come with that bullcrap dat it’s not 100% because so long it doesn’t break, it is. Just say it’s wrong morally but dnt bring education here

BadRadio:
I see no reason why an educated person will patronise a hooker... it doesn't make sense.

���prick get education? I wonder how some of una dey reason

Lexkenny99:
She's even giving me a time frame to take her bck else she'll kill herself. I don't want somebody's daura to die because of me. H've been reminiscing abt this thing. She's been sending me voice notes of her crying bitterly. I'm just confused o. This one pass me. Men and shawty's, abeg make una chook mouth 4 dis matter. E wan choke me. I can't even tell my current babe. She's threatening to kill herself

block am, if she kill herself, moth concern u

Ezendimmuo:
I feel like hurting my ex
I wanna hurt her so bad
I wanna hurt her for everything she made me go through while we were together...
She's older than me by a year...
She's 26 and I am 25..
She's in her final year...
I noticed she found it difficult talking about how many people she has been with...
I noticed she was always on calls even when I was present demanding things from guys..even when I gave her everything I had
I had to go through her phone..
She was flirting with other guys... denying she had a boyfriend...
I also there was this married guy she was always going to see then...
Whenever I objected...
She'd turn it into a huge fight..
I'd just have to finally let her go see him...
I found out that she has been fucking him and even had an abortion for him 3 times(according to the chat she had with the guy)
This is someone that refuses my own advances because she is either tired or has headache o..
I went through her browser and also saw she has been researching about abortions as well
She was complaining about serious stomach pain saying it's ulcer..it all started making sense
When I confronted her..
She wasn't sorry...
She was angry I went through her phone...
The next morning....
She came and apologized..
I stupidly accepted her back...
There is a particular guy I always see around her in her lodge..
I became suspicious and confided in people I trust in her lodge...
One told me she was always sleeping over in the guys room..
The other stupid person I told when to tell her about it and she got angry??
Do you blame me??
She came into my life and made me insecure...
I was having high bp anytime she doesn't pick her calls (most times, she will tell me she was with "a friend"
I just had to end it all...
For my mental health..
I still love her... that's the annoying part...
I stalk her status...
Today...she posted a picture with a tag "I need a hug"...
That's how cheap she can get...
I hate her for making me love her!!!!
I know I'll get over her soon sha

Guys..
Don't ever let any lady take you for granted...
You are the prize!!

I feel your pain bro. I have been there. I haven’t healed completely but I am getting there. You will b fine

Nigeriafirstlad:
Many thanks for the advice big bro, but your sister will still go back to eat her vomit.
Sex at that age is evil. All her thought is going to be how the guy stroke her and she won't be bold enough to look for a replacement quickly.

The best way to avoid sex is not to have it but ones u don enter as a lady u r gone.
Her body is going to be vibrating whenever she think about the experience, and her young boyfriend is still at his prime and energetic.

Just do ur best BigBro and leave the rest to her instinct.

sex at 19 is evil? Lol

EmiDon11:
Member's in the house.,
I am bout to take a blood oath with my girlfriend but i am afraid, what if we cant marry?
How can it be broken?
Can the two partners(me and my girlfriend, if the two of us agree) break it?
Pls i don't want insult .,
I only need matured answers

I sure say u don already take am. Oga u guys r for life

Iamyemmie:
Hi everyone,so me and my bf have been dating for 2years + now,no issues
He’s in the states and I am in Nigeria
The problem started when I started talking about marriage cos I want to settle down
Now he told me he feels I want to use him to travel abroad,that statement really pissed me off because at the beginning of the relationship he was the one that wanted to marry like 3months after we started but I told him I wasn’t ready and I didn’t know him enough
So which one is I want to use him to travel now??
I feel like maybe because I keep talking about the marriage stuff,that’s why he thinks it’s because of traveling

I’m thinking it’s only break up that can solve the issue
Cos if it comes from me,then that’s a clear message I’m not dating for abroad
Or how do I solve this issue??


Ps he has been U.S citizen from the beginning of our relationship
Just didn’t accept cos he might be a serial killer or woman beater or something,I didn’t know him well enough

swear that you have been faithful all those years. Abeg anty, move on

revaultng:
please kindly recommend something for my boyfriend. He's 26 and he can't keep an erection.

It get hard but when he's about to put in it, it gets soft. Other times, once we change position, say Missionary to Doggy, he gets soft.

Also, he comes really fast, like 10-20 secs if he succeeds atall in penetrating.

does he masturbate?

ojun50:
See oh, give her another chance
Both of you should visit the hospital and treat yr self.

Try and rebuild yr relationship with her.

how can you rebuild when she can’t own up to it? Did d sti just fly?

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

bro, she cheated. No think am twice. Assuming she own up to it, I for say mke u forgive but like this so, dump her. U cnt take rubbish bcus she stood by you

Shugavee:
This will give Apc a greater chance of winning , tinubu is playing politics by taking the risk on our naivety and emotion, southerners making stupid decisions by scattering our votes in the south, while uniting the votes from the north. Atiku is not a saint but we also need to vote strategically or we will have to endure this Islamization coming up. Atiku is definitely going to have northern votes in mass but we all know majority of the south west won’t be voting for Peter obi.. Apc are banking on us being emotional with our votes. We want unity and peace! Try to understand this!

anty, vote your candidate

Scamupdates:
I helped a mad man with 1k last night . he called me back and told me not to go where am planning to go, with the date i fixed (in yoruba). yes he his mad but how did he know what am planning to do with the day i fixed for it. not the religion type doe . .if i fail to show up at that day, trust me am going to losse almost what i cant get in 6 month.

oga, go where u wan go

hatedisplace:

Why did the man not help his mum?
That's a good sign to the girl to walk away from that relationship. The mother-in-law is a bad woman. And the so called son is a sissy.

ok

Mayemavins:
After we failed to struck a deal , and her sister persist defamation of my names, I was even reported to my mom that I'm threatening their daughter, I went back to the police station,strike a deal with the DPO and she was arrested this morning, we have been there at station all since, I already prepared all my evidence of pregnancy and the abortion, all thanks to nairalanders ideas, She has been locked up in cell, and I was told I will be responsible for her feeding till she will be charged to court on Thursday!!! Well, I can say my long hands and romance with the police save me cos they almost twist the case, but I laugh last
Elizabeth I love you, let's meet in court on Thursday
NB: I was even surprised she was a nairalanders and she saw all my former thread

i have a question. Do you want her to go to jail?

yomi961:
Atiku Abubakar the Turaki Adamawa...A core Nationalist, a wazobia Man with inroads in every sphere of this Country,A business tycoon with thousands in his pay roll, having employed so many Nigerians in his company is a man for the job.A man in charge with workable blue print to remodel Nigeria into a nation we all will be proud of...Man way sabi road....2023 next president loading...

suffer no dey tire u

UyaiIncomparabl:


You aren't serious. Why must the house be swept when I am around? It's rude, simple! A guest for that matter!

if you dad is lifting something heavy in my presence, would I sit there and ignore him?

UyaiIncomparabl:


It beats my imagination because these men will never meet half the standards they set for women. And I am not capping! They want virgins, but ain't virgins. They want a woman who can cook, clean, be a mistress in the bedroom and also a top-performing manager at work like Alakija.

They can't meet half of what they set.

would you settle for a broke man?

tayo200:
Good day nairalanders, I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago after we have dated for 3 years. It's been 3 months we last talked, either chat or call. No form of contact. I broke up with her due to the fact that she doesn't value me as her boyfriend. It's really disturbing and she doesn't want to change.
During these 3 months, I've had 2 girlfriends,which I think can replace her but to be honest, it's not easy getting into a new relationship these days o.. all these girls are widyling.. one started asking for money the 3rd days she said yes..haaaa...one will be uploading different guys on her WhatsApp, calling them bestie..yeeee...talo ni bestie ofo? Me sef know wetin I dey do when I be bestie nah..lol...I'm a student of Shola on Twitter, of you know what I mean.
In short,in comparison, my ex is better. Her own devil is better. And another thing is,to start from "what's your favorite food" is not easy o..
I'm thinking of going back to my ex. I've learnt through one of our mutual friends that she's not in any relationship too. Which still gives me the opportunity. To be honest, I'm really considering it, although I've not done it. Love is a feeling. If we start again, surely,the love will be back.
I need first hand advice from people that have experienced this - going back to their ex. Is it a nice move? Would things get better or worse?
I know most people would say it's not a nice move(I would say that too) but I need people with experience to give the advice.
Thank you. I'll be checking the comments section.

Cc: lalasticlala Kindly push to FP. It's a matter of life and death.. lol...

forwar ever bro.

Geminita1:
Why your mama no go fine but you wan marry fine girl? Your mama get fine face? She get flat tummy? She get hips and soft skin? Her voice cute? Her hair long? She neat? Her breast still stand? Her legs nko?


But you wan make your girl correct from top to bottom? You wan the finest face, the biggest backside, the best curve?

You want aje when your mama na Iya Tafika with two left legs and zero waste line

Abeg make everybody no demand pass wetin their parents be. Abi I lie?

Thank God say my papa hold, fine girls like us na confam oyoyo dey pursue us.

I repeat if your mama no fine, you no get right to any standard, go find your type.

If I vex you, abeg rest!

their dad no get
Money but dem dey find reach guy

Officialgarri:
Some of us are campaigning for Peter Obi in public and all social media platform but deep down, we know our candidate is Tinubu.

We are not doing this because we are scared of openly supporting Tinubu, afterall, what do we core Buhari supporters have to fear after sticking with Baba for 8 years and we didn't die.

What we are doing isn't betrayal of Obi, we are simply playing PlayStation 2 game. We are giving our opponent one goal ahead when we are sure we will still win.

We will give Obi all the support he needs but he won't even come second

but I have a question. Do you enjoy suffer?

reciprocal:
pls what was the condition?

it just stopped on its own ooo

IntelChief:
Am a university student and currently at home due to the ongoing ASUU strike, and had been unable to secure a job. (Many employers are uninterested in part-time workers).

My babe's birthday is coming up next month and she had been pressuring me to sponsor her birthday. I told her earlier this month when she brought the issue up that am currently broke and cant sponsor her birthday; but I promised to give her a special treatment when school resumes as a way making up.

To my greatest surprise, she brought thesame issue up again yesterday like we've not discussed it before. Though I became very angry, but I spoke to her calmly, reminding her our previous agreement and how she is currently making me feel 'impotent' by giving me a cross she knows I can't carry.

Only for her to get angry and said HER LOVE LANGUAGE IS DEMANDING MONEY. And if she doesn't get it, she doesn't feel loved. I've been seriously down since yesterday.

prepare your mind. She’s chatting with someone else that will give her

360degreess:
Don't do it because if you do, someone will do it to your future wife.. But with this your Monica I expected you to have done it long ago.

like if u don’t do it, someone won’t still sleep with your wife

DispatcherLagos:

Madam this is a Man's world...you can ask Ned what I mean, or the 19yr old that married two wives same time. Man can choose to marry at will even if he's 99 years. Respect to Yul.
By the way, my father's house is my house....my father can go to his own father's house if he is not comfortable with it

this one no serious . Mke una ignore ds guy