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*Communique of Afenifere General Assembly, 26 June 2018* The General Assembly of Afenifere met at the Akure home of the Leader, Chief R.F Fasoranti. today. After exhaustive deliberations on the state of the Nation ,the following communique was adopted: 1, Plateau Genocide and President Buhari's conflict of Interest :Meeting was devastated by the genocide that took place in Plateau State on Sunday in which over 200 deaths occurred by eyewitnesses accounts deaths but the police admitted 100.These wanton killings and official irresponsibility portrays Nigeria as a barbaric entity and we YORUBA PEOPLE are pained living in the same space with the bestial elements who kill innocent people in cruel manner.The images of little children killed mercilessly with open skulls make anyone with human blood flowing in his or her veins to shrink. We are further distressed that the response of President Buhari to the murder of hundreds of our citizens did not attract a word of sympathy or regret . It is very infuriating that the President's response and that of Miyetti Allah appeared to have been authored from the same laptop.The Chairman of North Central zone of Miyetti Allah ,Danladi Ciroma said the attacks were a retaliation for the loss of three hundred cows.Said he "These attacks are retaliatory ....Those who carried out the attacks must be on revenge mission ...Fulani herdsmen have lost over 300 cows in the last few weeks.....Since these cows were not found ,no one should expect peace in the areas." President Buhari who is also the Grand Patron of Miyetti Allah who described the Fulani herdsmen terror as "herdsmen/farmers" clashes "(a case of two fighting but dead bodies only on one side) also repeated the missing cows and even added another charge Miyetti Allah did not remember "According to information available to the Presidency about one hundred cattle had been rustled by a community in Plateau State,AND SOME HERDSMEN WEREa KILLED IN THE PROCESS.The state governor,Simon Lalong had had invited the aggrieved groups and pleaded against further action ...Less than forty eight hours later violence broke out (an euphemism for the word "retaliation" used by Miyetti Allah Chief . The President used the word "thugs" thrice to describe protesting residents while admitting that human life was becoming "increasingly cheap " under his watch without saying what he is doing to make it worthy or bring the herdsmen who have admitted killing people to book .He also repeated the blame game of "desperate people " causing instability and chaos" in furtherance of the vain attempt by the administration to divert attention from Fulani herdsmen responsible for the serial murders. Three months ago,we did say that the President is afflicted by conflict of interests as Grand Patron of Miyetti Allah and the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria .It is the affliction that has seen him now functioning as a Miiyetti Allah godfather at a time he should be presidential .We asked him and we are calling on him to make a choice between the two. It is pointless at this stage making any demand on this incorrigible administration .We ask our people to have special prayers for the souls of all those killed and for God to have mercy on Nigeria in all our mosques on Friday 29th June in our churches on Sunday 1st of July ,and for Him to see us through the last few months of this administration . Politically, Nigerians must now gird their loins and see the democratic uprooting of this administration as a task that must be done in 2019 so as to save the the country from utter destruction .There is no land where the blood of the innocent is being shed daily like Nigeria that can make progress in any area of human endeavor. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! 2, RESTRUCTURING IS A NATIONAL AGENDA At a time when the country as at the verge of collapse as a result of structural defects ,we noted that the President while receiving Urhobo leaders on Monday was still da missed the popular call for restructuring of the country when he said "Every group asking for restructuring has got their own agenda and I hope it can be accommodated by the constitution " We say without any reservation to Mr President that the call for restructuring is a selfless call borne out of the need to retrieve Nigeria from the brink of collapse and put It back on track .If the President talks about people with personal agenda on restructuring ,it. Can only be those who insert it in their manifestos to win elections and turn around to say they are getting different definitions of restructuring after they came to power . We insist that for the country to move forward and develop ,it has to be restructured into a proper federation . 3, NO PUBLIC FUNDED RANCHES IN YORUBALAND Meeting rejects the idea of public funded ranches which is an imperialist agenda of cresting Federal Cattle Territories across Nigeria .We insist that Cattle rearing is a private business and the Government has no business getting involved if there was no sinister .No inch of YORUBALAND will be available for such and no Governor should cede any land for such. Yinka Odumakin National Publicity Secretary Afenifere 35 Likes 5 Shares |
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HungerBAD: You are mad, hopeless Yoruba boy 1 Like |
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Most women bosses are control freak.... they enjoy controlling another woman's husband 14 Likes |
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Igbo have prostitutes in quantity, Edo have prostitutes in quality 5 Likes |
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if the single girls are slot, y should I marry them? 5 Likes |
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temigracie: ...Lwkmdfh ooo....temi, how are u doing. I like u and I stay in Ilorin. I wish to meet u. 08184156670 is my mobile. thanks |
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mstik: ya laffing? wos funny?temi, how are u doing. I like u and I stay in Ilorin. I wish to meet u. 08184156670 is my mobile. thanks |
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temigracie: ...awwww......am so so sorry, Mr Shinery....Am not on any social network for now except NL sha.....We can say whateva we have to say here, sir..... OK thanks for the reply. I have sent several e mail messages to u but u are yet to reply... my number is 08184156670. thanks. |
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hello temi grace , how are u. can I have ur bbm or whatsapp contact ? |
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temigracie: ...yes we knw guys too get dumped too...but which one is higher??. girls |
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women want a guy that will love them unconditionally , while they are very calculative when it comes to love matters . |
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girls are so selfish |
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temigracie: Krall,mynd ursef ooo......u wan me to e-bully u ni??...beta change am back...no b wetin i write b dat. hello dear, nice to know u stay in Ilorin. I stay in Ilorin too. |
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naija girls are the most guilty. some are fond of sex-ploiting men at every opportunity. |
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If you want to know how women really choose men, don't bother asking a woman. True, when it comes to relationships, women are in charge of the selection process because they control access to sexuality — they let men "in" — so you'd think they'd know exactly why and how they choose their partners. But the problem is, women lie. They lie to men; they lie to themselves (and they are perfectly capable of believing their own lies). If you ask any woman what she's looking for in a man, she'll come out with a long list of ennobling qualities: a sense of humor; a guy who's nice to her and treats her well; good values; a strong moral character, etc. Uh huh. Right. And she'll leave footprints all over Mr. Sense of Humor as she scrambles to be first in line when an arrogant, philandering, single doctor roars up in his Ferrari. woman, please Let's be honest — if women really chose men based on what they say they're looking for, then every nice, average guy out there would be besieged with females trying to go out with him. But nice, average guys generally stay home on the weekends with a date from the back room of the local video store. Many women lie. They are experts at self-deceit because if they ever admitted to themselves what they really want from men, then they'd be forced to acknowledge that they don't really want a "nice" guy. The most important reality a man can understand about female behavior is this: never pay attention to what a woman says — watch what she actually does . truth is in her actions And what does she actually do? When it comes to choosing men, she heads straight for the cash. What women want most from men — and therefore the criterion most significant to them in selecting a mate — is money. For the majority of women, dating and marriage are businesses. Women marry up, not down. A man will marry a woman who scrubs the floor at a slaughterhouse if she's nice and pretty enough — but if she's nice and she's pretty and she's working at the slaughterhouse, you can rest assured she's there because she's got her eye on the owner of the company. When a woman says all the good ones are taken, she means all the ones with money. The man who changes her oil or checks her groceries might very well be a great guy capable of loving her dearly, but she wouldn't even consider him as a potential suitor because he doesn't have enough earning power. Some women are blatant about their mercenary choices, openly choosing men with substantial material assets that they can sex-ploit . But most are subconscious hypocrites, screening out less successful men without admitting it to themselves. They publicly announce that all they want is a nice guy, but privately disregard any men who don't meet their elevated standards for money, success, and status. There's proof that all they want is money In one breath they proclaim, "I don't care how much money a man makes. I can make my own money," and in the next, "But whoever I date has to have a status (read: money) job." All other men without this "status job," no matter how nice, intelligent or funny, will be ignored. The flagrant hypocrisy is brushed under the carpet. The only reason a woman will choose a man without money is if he's on the fast track to a high-earning career — she views this as an investment of her time and a payment plan for the use of her female goods. Clinical studies, conducted by Robert Trivers et al., show that women value financial prospects about twice as highly as men do, having higher standards regarding financial prospects at all stages of a relationship. In fact, in any given year, American men who marry generally earn 50% more money than men of the same age who do not marry. woman want status Women place a high value on a good education, the assurance of a promising career, and ambition, all of which indicate potential for making money. The socioeconomic status of males has a decisive influence on female sexual response at all levels of intimacy, even offsetting male unattractiveness. In one study, college women were shown photographs of handsome and homely men in three different attires: Blazer, shirt, designer tie, and Rolex watch (these men were described as doctors) Plain white shirt (these men were described as teachers) Uniform of a Burger King employee. The women viewed the photographs with their descriptions and stated their willingness to engage in relationships with the men. The study found that the women were significantly more willing to engage in relationships with high status/ homely males than with either the medium or low status, handsome males. So money — or the assurance of money in the future — is the single most significant criterion in how women choose men. The blame for this phenomenon lies in our society — a society which promotes female arrogance and the manipulation of men; a society which panders to females across the board. In a day and age when women are screaming about equal rights, can there be any excuse for the hypocrisy of female mercenary behavior? When women earn as much — or more — than men, why should guys be forced to hand over their hard-earned cash to women? And why should men allow themselves to be chosen primarily on their ability to earn? men love sex The reason is simple: because men want sex, they let women get away with this — giving free rein to female sex- ploitation . Men are brought up by their mothers to cater to women, to bring them flowers, to hold open doors, to act as chauffeurs — and to pay for access to sex. Most women will not allow access to that sex unless the man has first shelled out quite of bit of money for drinks, dinners, entertainment, etc. A woman expects a free ride just because she is biologically female; she expects men to pay for sex. She will vehemently deny this. But she chooses men in the first place precisely because of their ability to pay. This is wrong. Dating should be about partnership , not a LovePeddler/john relationship. It should be about two people getting together because they like each other and enjoy each other's company, not because a man is paying for a woman's time. Women need to learn to respect men, not use them and ruthlessly sex-ploit them. But if male-female relationships are going to change for the better, it's entirely up to us to enforce the change. If we stop paying for women, then women will be forced to choose us for qualities other than the size of our wallets. Resource: http://psychology.unn.ac.ukz 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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Let me first make things clear here, I’m not a woman hater, and I don’t hold anything against women generally, in fact I love women more than I love men and that is me for you. However, I’m writing this base on my experience with women as well as related stories, and other blogs I have read online that are somehow related to the issues of money, humour and good looks preference for women when you want to know which of them do they want first in a man. Have you ever ask any woman, lady or hot chick; what kind of man will she want in a relationship or what does she looks for in a man before even agreeing to date and marry him? I can tell you, 98% of women will NEVER mention money in their top three things they want in any man. But why? What most of them will tell you is that, I want a man who’s good looking, I want a man who is funny (that’s humour), I want a man who is honest, loyal, including morality and decency. You will not hear them mention, I want a man who has money or who is wealthy, if you try to mention thing like that for her, she will tells you money can’t buy her love, I quite agree but ![]() ![]() For every rich man who uses his wealth to attract young women, there is a gold digger looking for a man to keep her. For every woman who places more value on things like morality, honesty, loyalty and decency than they do wealth, there is a man who will never be given the chance to show her he exists because he doesn’t earn enough for her to give him a second look. In my humble experiences, these are very true, real life experiences not from what I read anywhere or hear people say, women seem to take an interest in me because if you’re looking for a good looking young man, there you will surely find me full with good sense of humour, however as soon as they find out that I got no job, still leaving with my parent that has everything all good parent should have. Since I’m not doing any kind of work that you will expect more money to be found in my pocket, though not poor but I’m broke, once these women that show interest realize that I’m broke, they disappear like a puff of smoke in a gale force wind! I just wonder why any of them never bother to know why I’m broke but good looking. [Read; What do women want in relationship] It is all lie, if you don’t have money; just forget about women, your humour and your good looks will only draw attention with no intention . I took a step further, and work myself into the heart of some of the ladies (not with any bad intention or to hurt any of them though), I tried to find out why do women generally will not want to tell anyone that, they want man that has money first and every other thing like handsomeness, humour, and other wonderful attribute a woman will want in a man. Surprisingly, all the ladies’ answers were pointing to the same fact. Here is the summary of what they all said in a sentence; “Why is it that when we look for a man who can give us ‘ this lifestyle’ we are stigmatized as being money hungry or gold digger?” It is now I understand where they are all coming from; they need to protect their image so that their integrity will not be questionable. Good sense right! I will love to hear from you especially if you’re women and if you’re men or guys or whatever you think you are, I will also love to hear your input about this subject matter. Please comment below. source : http://iloverelationship.com/money-before-humour-and-good-looking-men/ 1 Like |
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