Mario Vasquez--- Gallery
this song's been playing in my mind all trhough the weekend

I hate my job!!! But it wasn't always like this over time my job description has changed and now i hate coming in every morning, Why am i still here? Money of course definitely not job satisfaction. Also do you know how competitive the job market is at the moment? I just i have to hold don to what i have until i get a job that would give me job satisfaction and i don’t mind doing this with a pay cut.

Johnny, from experience i know what it is to be a widow, what she is going through now is one of the stages of grief we go through after oosing your husband. there is the initial shock, when you just carry on like nothing life changing has really happened, at that time you want the changes in your life to be very minimal. She is just clinging to you to fill that void in her life, she doesn’t want to acknowledge it by fully mourning her late husband, for her it is better to just skip that part because it is too painful. What i have learnt is that you cant avoid the process. If you get fooled by her cool exterior and succumb to her today and date her so soon after her husband death you will be saddled with an emotionally unstable woman in the next few months when the initial shock begins to wear off, Truth is we cannot skip the mourning process no matter how hard we try. My advise for you is to give her time to mourn, let her know she needs to mourn her husband but don’t keep away completely she would need a shoulder to cry on and guide her during the next few months, but she is definitely not ready for relationship.

Girl, women are naturally very intuitive so if your mind is giving signals, my dear run,  stay away, stop listening, STOP! Move on.

I light a candle for the love of my life my darling husband, who passed away on the 17th of January 2001, The kids are growing so fast i give thanks to the loard . We miss you everyday.

Your posts just confirmed my fears that i will have a hard time finding a man who will marry me against all odds in this country, i was widowed a while ago , i am now 35 and people keep asking why i havent remarried. First of all it is not in my hands, i havent met the " right" man yet. But apart from this i have been a bit weary of dating again, you meet a man and the minute he finds out that you are a widow with 2 kids he takes to his heels, even when they do hang on, i discover that thay just want to take advantage of your vulnerability. Now i know that the ones who truly love you wll not take the plunge becuase of societal values, like someone said love is not enough, Does that mean i should accept the fact that i ll never remarry a man from this country? So whats a lonely widow to do,

I learnt that the month of June is the month to take time and restrategise for the rest of the year,  it is a time to take a look at what we have done in the first half of the year and make the necessery adjustments to make the second half better. It is not about just finishing the year but finishing the year well,  working towards being the people that God wants us to be. Half time is usualy a time to replan, refuel and rebuild,  Take time to pray more and seek the face of God concerning the rest of the year,