Your girl's reason is very ok, dat shows dat she loves you-trust me! But,make sure you occupy her torts evryday by keeping in touch. If U̶̲̥̅̊ are scared then put a ring on dat finger ml I bet you she won't take it off! Turn on ur xtra caring mode now cos d competition will be on whether she gives any guy attention or not!

You truly love her and what you are thinking of is how to disflower her?? Are you ready for marriage? If not why shld s*x be on ur mind? Just wondering if true love & having s*x means same thing to you. Besides, is this what she wants or what you want?

I grew up wit my stepdad & my mum, so I want to tell you "DON'T GIVE HIM UR CHILD". He doesn't have wat it takes to be a father & won't suddenly develop it. Ur child will have all the love she needs & will be contented when you tell her the truth abt her father when the time is right. You suffered for the child, if U̶̲̥̅̊ were not good enough to be his wife then, am sure U̶̲̥̅̊ & ur child are way too good for him now! Be wise so U̶̲̥̅̊ won't regret it. Once bitten twice shy!!

Not all those who call him Lord will enter the kingdom. So, its not evry1 dat hears the voice of God concerning marriage. But don't limit God cos He alone can do & over do!

@ Ronkebp, I hav neva asked him for money. Infact it might interest U̶̲̥̅̊ to knw that he once had access to my bank acct. Dat me, those things don't bother me! Is it Gifts, it doesn't need an occasion. He also buys me some of my most cherished gifts. If I don't love him, I won't be here for advice. Infact, I feel maybe I hav shown to much love,I don't want to be taken for granted. But the heart doesn't have a thinking cap,so dat why I needed U̶̲̥̅̊ guys. Tanks a million buddies!!

Thanks everyone & for those wondering am sooo far from perfect. Hav been wit him & he hasn't posted post on my wall & dats nt wat I was asking for, I was only teasing & jokingly abt him not putting comment on FB abt me when he does dat for other girls, then he took it serious & then mentioned the money.am a woman, sometimes I need to feel the love from my bf aleast since I can't cheat. As for my sacrifice, if its money I have spent it,I don't even want to remember. Thing is shld wat U̶̲̥̅̊ spend for ur bf/gf be a topic when U̶̲̥̅̊ have a misunderstanding? I may sound needy but am mostly busy & need some little loving to relax.

Tanks evryone. Ur response mean a lot to me. He's one of the nicest pple but can't stand that trait of his, can cope with any other tin but not this. I tort it was gone but, tanks

HighChief, tanks. @190 if I hav to list wat I hav done for him it will be endless. Infact his mother calls me to thank me for evrytin I am to her son. I am not a proud person infact I chose to do & forget. Am a lady who has NEVER cheated. I was receiving nice complements frm other guys & I felt my bf' complement will be better to my ears only for him to use money as a reference, its totally heart breaking!

Thanks Nolmadman. The thing is he has begged me to wait for him to marry me dat is when he becomes financially stronger, which is next year but with him not calling after an argument, I do love him, just wish there was another way out. Thanks anyway!

I have been dating my bf for 3yrs now. He has always been the type of person who like pple to appreciate things he does for them. Sometimes when we have a fight he always list the things he has done for me & calls me an ingrate. I told him I didn't like dat trait in him & for some time he stopped. This past vals he sent me money cos he wasn't in town. We had an argument last week & he mentioned the money! Am a giver who doesn't look back & want you to continually tank me, so I was so angry I stopped calling him & he hasn't called me since then. Pls I have sacrificed a lot for this relationship. If he loves me he would have called by now. The argument was that he doesn't compliment me enough esp on facebook,but he complement pix of other girls. He said that the money he sent me for val shld be enough complement. Do I call him or just heal my heart & move on?

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