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Education / Re: New Tuition Fees For Bayero University Causes Stair On Twitter by Softhands(m): 12:19am On Jun 22, 2023
LikeAking:
Welcome to reality..

We will end up telling our kids we used to pay 10 naira as uni fees in our days.

Same way our parents told us theirs..

Na so life be, every man need to make money.


Nothing will ever remain cheap forever..

Check the prices of cars, very soon only rich Nigerians will be able to buy card.

By the time our children get to uni, we wi be paying 500k to 1 million naira per semester.

Welcome to reality.

per session.
Politics / Re: Households Under Pressure As New Electricity Tariff Due July 1 by Softhands(m): 12:11am On Jun 20, 2023
Love800:
Ok. But i dont want to go into whatsapp. I just want to clarify something. Sorry am disturbing u.

Is the energy both solar nd inverter? Nd wat is the difference btw these two?

Why do i hear people always talking down on solar? They always say that there is no need using solar. Am not sure is abt the money sef. They can afford it but they say is not reliable. Why?
Too many many questions but I will be brief. Solar is reliable if you get it installed properly. I installed solar for customers that carry pumping machines and AC. With good maintenance, the batteries last upto 7years. If you add up what you would have paid for nepa for seven years you'd see that from the 3rd year, you are practically just using free electricity every single day.

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Politics / Re: Households Under Pressure As New Electricity Tariff Due July 1 by Softhands(m): 7:01pm On Jun 19, 2023
Love800:
U pump water too?

And do u use inverter
yes boss.. you pump when sun is high... Most times between 10 am and 12mid day... Check my signature for WhatsApp details

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Politics / Re: Households Under Pressure As New Electricity Tariff Due July 1 by Softhands(m): 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2023
eagleonearth:
how much
was not upto 1m when I did it but when way things are expensive now, It will be well over.

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Politics / Re: Households Under Pressure As New Electricity Tariff Due July 1 by Softhands(m): 4:44pm On Jun 19, 2023
PerfectStranger:

You saw the future my man. cool
not really, na because we no too dey get light like that.
Politics / Re: Households Under Pressure As New Electricity Tariff Due July 1 by Softhands(m): 4:42pm On Jun 19, 2023
Love800:
Does this solar power all the appliances in a home?
Yes sir... I currently use mine to power everythinin my house including my freezer (8am to 4pm daily).
Politics / Re: Households Under Pressure As New Electricity Tariff Due July 1 by Softhands(m): 1:38pm On Jun 19, 2023
PerfectStranger:

Condolences to the poor. They'r really suffocating
Lol... I don install solar tey tey... Thank God o

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Career / Re: Computer Repairs Or Panel Beating And Auto Body Works by Softhands(m): 1:35pm On Jun 19, 2023
rickyamos:
What skill is more lucrative in Nigeria between Autobody works and Computer repairs?
Just learn auto repairs... Specialize in Japanese cars. E.g Toyota, honda and Nissan. You should be sorted for life.
Business / Re: Naira Begins Recovery After Float, Closes At ₦‎664/$ At I&E Window by Softhands(m): 11:26am On Jun 15, 2023
KingKO22:
Pandora Obituary should go and withdraw his case against Asiwaju with immediate effect bcs the good news of Asiwaju achievement within short period of time is overwhelming even the international communities that Buhari has visited will start visiting our action Daddy soon




Action Daddy no be thank you Daddy

.😀🤣😂
Na the case be your headache 😜... No worry, Tinubu go lead, then Obi go take over. Las LA's everybody go dey alright.

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Food / Re: Chef Dammy Surpasses Hilda Baci’s 100-Hour Cook-a-Thon Record by Softhands(m): 12:55pm On Jun 13, 2023
Etranshub:
Enough space... The world is large enough and records are meant to be broken.
Another man go fncl your wife with this "the world is big enough" slogan.
Career / Re: How I Decided To Learn Handiwork At 45. by Softhands(m): 4:29pm On Jun 01, 2023
Sablexxxtoons:
I swear down right now i want to learn welding and metal forging..

There is no end to learning and that mindset in Nigeria that a graduate should not get his hands dirty is what leads to stealing..

Enjoy your new and useful knowledge sir... i think i will do the same sef although I would prefer a more formal metalwork training
Go to YabaTech
Politics / Re: Court Affirms Abure As LP Chairman, Restrains Apapa-Faction by Softhands(m): 8:28am On May 27, 2023
Corn247:
Igbo party.
In retrospect, APC is Huasa and Yoruba party?
Romance / Re: Am I wrong for Rejecting a UK Visa? by Softhands(m): 9:08pm On May 26, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
My mother is furious that I don't want to come over to the UK.
This month my younger sister left for UK and it's remaining me.
Documents and all papers are right and after couple family intervention I decided to go for interview.
I really didn't want to go to Uk
I love my life here in Nigeria tho things are hard.. it's still my home
I feel more connected to my father's land.
Going to abroad is not my plan. My mother thinks I'm possessed by spirit that want me to not succeed.
My uncles have pleaded with me to go and join my mum and sis in UK.

I was given UK visa last year, refused to join my sister that traveled this May

honestly I don't want to move to Uk.
I know how hard life can be in 9ja but i still love this country.
Mumsi says she is really dissapoinmented in me for staying back.
Did I do anything wrong?
Until you are ill or have an emergency where you don't have to make a down payment before they treat you, you won't know how foolish this your decision is.
Romance / Re: Young Man Cries A River After Being Dumped By Girlfriend (VIDEO) by Softhands(m): 5:40pm On May 26, 2023
This guy deserve beating
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Has Reached The Highest Ranks Of The Occult Brotherhood Like Tinubu by Softhands(m): 3:50am On May 10, 2023
swaggerjack:
Peter Obi Has Reached The Highest Ranks Of The Brotherhood Like Tinubu

This is a fight between brothers.
The Photoshop try sha...but if you talk too much I will expose the details of your photoshop

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Family / Re: My Dad Insists That My Fiancée Must Take Fertility Test Before Marriage by Softhands(m): 8:02pm On May 04, 2023
beekind:

Let me explain, he says he is not forcing her but if she does not take the fertility test he will not attend the wedding, and he is very likely to prohibit my mom from also attending the wedding and maybe other family members too.

That puts me in a very difficult spot, very difficult spot.
Perhaps you have had a history of stubborness in the past. ... Do the necessary tests. and own it. Tell her subtly and be gentle about it with her. She may even be eager to do the tests if you ask nicely.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russian Nuclear-Like Missile Hits Ukraine (Video) by Softhands(m): 8:09pm On May 01, 2023
Petalrose:
Wahala.. these Russians are not tired of this fighting
Putin Said the war has not really started.

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Romance / Re: Is It Proper To Ask A Girl You Want To Marry If She Committed Abortion Before? by Softhands(m): 12:24pm On Apr 17, 2023
Esortigress:
And you are so sure she's going to admit it if she's ever done abortion? You are a joker.
well that will be deceit in the future.
Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by Softhands(m): 8:19pm On Apr 10, 2023
poporinwa:
My brother you should understand that you guys were brought up from a different background. Don't tell the barber to give you the same haircut he gave Samuel because your face or head shape may not be like that of Samuel. The way it is working out in Adedeji house if applied in yours might be a disaster. Try and find out your own style,don't use Kalu Nwankwo or Okocha style. If your wife don't like cooking and you can cook nnaa cook,it doesn't make you less of what you are. If she does not respect you despite your age difference, take that way and don't use it to judge her but stylishly make realize that she does not respect you. Find that key to your family happiness and enjoy your family for life is too short to start this complain this early stage.
excuse for bad behaviour. Abeg what type of woman does not like to cook? She smoke weed abi Wetin?

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Family / Re: Frustrated With My Wife by Softhands(m): 8:17pm On Apr 10, 2023
tomi4life:
I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.

I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.

My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance

My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.

Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens.
[b]
Finance:
I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.


I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.


I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.

Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.


I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.

Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
Two days without se.x with my wife na wahala she don dey find(except on P). And no matter where she goes to even if na 12midnight she will come and cook that food and we go chop and still funk sef.

You have allowed too many rubbish to stand from the beginning and to be honest you may have no other option than divorce. Na only one life you get, don't waste it. Man up and do your self that favour.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Israel Launches Air Raids On Gaza, Lebanon (Pictures) by Softhands(m): 7:16pm On Apr 07, 2023
Persone:
Why do these attacks only happen during every Ramadan period?
Why did 34 rockets hit Israel from Lebanon this period. That should be the correct question.

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Health / Re: Bill To Prevent Medical Doctors From Getting Licence Till After 5 Years by Softhands(m): 1:25pm On Apr 07, 2023
LeoDeKing:

I'm actually sitting in front of a mirror and what I see is a happy face.

Do you know why the face is happy?

Because Nigerians actually escaped a bigot fighting a religious war.
I hope you know this is antisemitism you just displayed here. Stop this stupidity before it land you in big trouble.
Politics / Re: Election Results Of Obio-Akpor LGA In Rivers State: IREV -Vs- Official Results by Softhands(m): 1:51pm On Apr 04, 2023
DenreleDave:


Lo grin grin grin

Dey play....

NE none
NW maybe kaduna
Go and Check the Irev... no need to argue with you.
Politics / Re: Lai Mohammed Accuses Peter Obi Of Treason by Softhands(m): 1:48pm On Apr 04, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Nothing will happen, Nnamdi Kanu was arrested and nothing happened, or is Peter obi now rated over Kanu? All barks no bite.
well Nigeria is in a sensitive state... state actors are really careful with oppositions. f the Obidients movement was more of a regional movement, trust me the DSS would have arrested Obi... If you arrest Obi now, you risk a June 12 repeat.
Politics / Re: Lai Mohammed Accuses Peter Obi Of Treason by Softhands(m): 12:27pm On Apr 04, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Long overdue , in a saner clime he will be behind bars.
Arrest Peter Obi and the full Nigeria will shut down with protests unending... even dss isbeing careful with him and others.
Career / Re: Can You Work In A Place Where You Submit Your Phone Everyday? by Softhands(m): 7:43pm On Apr 01, 2023
booksbo0k:
On top how much? undecided Unless you want to be paying me 10M+ a month, I can't try it. That is modern day slavery...
10m monthly? Where u wan see that kind job?

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Politics / Re: Labour Party Changes Imo State Gubernatorial Form To ₦‎15 Million by Softhands(m): 2:49pm On Mar 28, 2023
ganisucks:
What matters most is not that a man makes a mistake, rather it is that a man accepts responsibility, when he makes a mistake.

This is something that Festus Keyamo will never know. He rushed to blab, and now LP has disgraced him.

Left to me, I think the N15 million is still a bit steep. N5million is appropriate to me, so that women and youths can also via for the ticket.

Financial rascality must be removed from Nigerian politics. That's the only way forward.
15m is okay... It will reduce mad people from the obtaining the form too.

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Politics / Re: After Telling Obi To Go To Court, See What Tinubu's Aide Said About The Petition by Softhands(m): 4:02am On Mar 22, 2023
N3TRAL:
Obi bringing drug case, certificate and whatnot.

His petition is dead on arrival.
when a whole UNited states has to come to testify in court... Nobody will tell the supreme court's justices not to sit-up... Thank God some judges are already on the US watch list... The remaining go dey fear their head now not to judge rubbish.

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Politics / Re: Non Indigenes Of Lagos Vows To Boycott LIRS by Softhands(m): 12:23pm On Mar 21, 2023
TheNiceGuy:
You'll have to leave Lagos State if you don't want to ..

You can't be staying in Lagos, enjoy the amenities, business atmosphere and say you won't pay tax.
You will also stop receiving allocation from Niger Delta oil... You think say na only you crase dey him blood abi?
Politics / Re: The Hatred For Me Is Too Much, Desmond Elliot Cries Out by Softhands(m): 10:50am On Mar 10, 2023
God1000:
This guy is a big disappointment

I used to like him because of his wonderful movies back then but he metamorphosed into something else the moment he joined politics
That is who he always was... Na money never just dey that time.

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Politics / Re: List Of 10 States Tinubu Didn't Get 25% But Was Given Higher Than His Real % by Softhands(m): 5:09pm On Mar 06, 2023
Moh247:
It's about time DSS start prosecuting people using social media to spread falsehood capable of breaching peace
you will be first
Politics / Re: "Peter Obi Won 19 States, FCT In iREV Portal Collation" - Obidients by Softhands(m): 10:36am On Mar 06, 2023
FreeStuffsNG:
Rara, he won 36 states ni. Awon alawada and irev robbers. smh.

If you like see EluuuPiii or KOWA as the winner in all the 36 states and FCT on the INEC server, Mahmood Yakubu will stick ONLY to the hardcopies of all result signed by all the agents and verified by the observers and security there when the result was collated.

INEC knew politicians and the lp mob will play their silly games and hack the soft copies but it can guide and protect the physical hardcoppies.

The format of this intended fraud was tried by Dino when he kept calling a dubious number from his phone he claimed to have gotten from 'INEC server' whereas the real hardcopy of the result sheet with all signatures and names of all agents including that of PDP was right in front of INEC Chairman who called out the real number. The INEC Chairman stopped at just calling Dino a fraud. These lp mobs are being fraudulent like Dino. They should swear on oath that these 'results' are authentic so in the event they are fished out, we can prosecute them for perjury.

If you want to disgrace yourself and waste your time, take these nonsense hacked online things flying around to court and INEC will place the real document before the judge.

congrats to my President-Elect Asiwaju Bola Tinubu.
check my signature for free stuffs!
don't sweat in your pants, LP is already in court.

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