LordKO:
Calm down your problem is a small one! Actually, you're of weak self sufficiency, thus the reason for your nonchalant attitude which he constantly complained about as stated - nonchalance is a psychological vice. Believe you me that the weak self sufficiency group you belong to is better than "esteemless" group and those that belongs to it.

But nothing stops you from migrating upwards to strong self sufficiency group, which will enable your relationship to become a bliss - so long as your man belonged to this same latter group. However, if he belong to the esteemless group, then, there's nothing you can do to achieve harmony with him in the long wrong - even after becoming servile towards him. For a certain he doesn't belong to the weak self sufficiency group, because he wouldn't have complained about your nonchalant attitude assuming that he does.

To migrate to the strong self sufficiency group you simply have to discard conceitedness and replace same with self-effacement. The very moment you become self-effacing, you'll automatically become affectionable, humble, meek, tolerant and contended and beneficent (so long as you have no trace of behavioral vice like greed) etc, at least towards him. However, wrong application of this formula will make you to become a doormat. . . Be warned.

herbie27:
When the gods of the land are angry, things like dis are inevitable.

Ngoziada592:




Because these same bloggers have carried the story that this guy has been beating her since. Everyone in the music industry knows it. By the way you won't believe this but you'll believe the rantings of a clearly deranged man who has blamed every single person around him for his failure except for himself. He even went after his Father, the guy obviously has victim mentally and paranoia. One of those people who think everyone is jazzing them instead of admitting that he's just lazy and that's why he's not sucesssful

Joavid:
and so? if she slept with the so called man?

are they not two consenting adults?

what if they were dating?

isn't it normal to have sex??

tellwisdom:
How did he afford internet if he can't pay for his school fees??

bolseas:
Hmmmm. WC- Water Cistern..... I have been calling WC, Water System all these years.....I still be learner o....hehehehe

Jexyme:
Girl be straightforward, when u were dating and he was broke u used to go and give other guys outside. He got to know and made his decisions.
He now has a real girlfriend out there. You are just here for him to get back at u while someone else has got the love. It's a life lesson dear move on.

Ekeke1:
The world is really coming to an end. We all ought to be very careful.

misspicy:
It is very obvious that Olamide is still pissed,he didn't even smile or hold Don Jazzy well,abeg who help them settle am?

that person is still a learner

nice one from the two boss though,they sure don't want to give enemies something to talk about,shame on Timaya,Dbanj,Wandecoal,BurnaBoy,Kcee

Haba wetin all this names you mention do you laa?? Them no give you collat??

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused