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Politics / Re: Lagos Election: GRV Gets Court Order To Inspect BVAS, Electoral Materials (Pix) by sphinixs2: 9:35am On Mar 30, 2023
Omicronvaccine:
Lagos Election: GRV Gets Court Order To Inspect BVAS And Electoral Materials (Photo)

Labour Party's gubernatorial candidate in Lagos State, Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour has gotten a court order to inspect the BVAS and all electoral materials used in the Lagos State governorship election held on Saturday March 18, IGBERETV reports.

Taking to his Twitter handle, he shared a photo of the court order with the caption;



https://twitter.com/GRVlagos/status/1641125807199338503?t=6UiaB6poPvWR4Dp4zc0Jhg&s=19

I really don't see this exercise as productive, where voters suppression and intimidation is alleged, what would inspection of BVAS and electoral materials produce?
Politics / Re: Nigerians Will Yearn For Buhari When He Leaves Office, Says Garba Shehu by sphinixs2: 1:03pm On Mar 28, 2023
treesun:

https://www.channelstv.com/2023/03/27/nigerians-will-yearn-for-buhari-when-he-leaves-office-says-garba-shehu/

They should stop threatening us with such talks... Same thing president Jonathan said before leaving and the Nation was plunged into serious pain afterwards...
Politics / Re: Rivers: Labour Party Adopts PDP Guber Candidate, Fubara For March 11 Poll by sphinixs2: 1:29pm On Mar 07, 2023
fergie001:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72wVseJH5TU



SOURCE

In my opinion, LP should avoid any alliance that would taint its image and not ride on its nationwide acceptance to shoot itself in the foot!
Politics / Re: Osun Governor Ademola Adeleke's 100 Days In Office (Photos) by sphinixs2: 9:18am On Mar 06, 2023
Goodconcept78:
IGBO SHOULD LEARN TO RISE ABOVE HATE AND RESPECT THEIR HOSTS.

WE WILL PUT THEM IN THEIR PLACE THIS COMING SATURDAY

INGRATES

All these stories and warnings... What exactly does respect their host mean? They should stay indoors and not vote?.... I don't understand... Are the people being presented for elections non indigenes?
Politics / Re: FFK Slams Peter Obi For Claiming He Won The Presidential Election by sphinixs2: 6:40pm On Mar 02, 2023
Celebrities / Re: Eniola Badmus Shares Tinubu’s Swearing-in Fabric (photo) by sphinixs2: 1:51pm On Feb 27, 2023
nlfpmod:


https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/outrage-as-eniola-badmus-shares-tinubus-swearing-in-fabric/

Her weight loss has given her so much self confidence.... She is now very comfortable dragging attention to herself, regardless of the "kind" of attention. grin
Politics / Re: Please Call Tinubu To Order, Dele Momodu Tells President Buhari by sphinixs2: 1:10pm On Feb 26, 2023
Oluwolex2000:


https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/02/26/election-results-call-tinubu-to-order-dele-momodu-tells-buhari/amp/

If you say the President was intimidated to display who he voted for, how do you expect the President to call him to order
Politics / Re: Sit-At-Home From 23rd To 28th February 2023 Is Final, No Going Back - Simon Ekpa by sphinixs2: 8:26am On Feb 21, 2023
envoymedia:
Simon Ekpa, a disciple of Mazi Nnamdi Kanu has said that he did not recant the sit-at-home order of 23rd to 28th February, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote on his Twitter handle;



https://twitter.com/simon_ekpa/status/1627251773789417479?s=19

I still don't get how someone in a foreign country, earning his living under plush conditions would determine the everyday lives of others undecided Uncommon is common sense!

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Politics / Re: Naira Redesign: El-Rufai Reveals What Buhari Originally Approved For CBN by sphinixs2: 7:51am On Feb 20, 2023
valentineuwakwe:

Source: https://dailypost.ng/2023/02/20/naira-redesign-el-rufai-reveals-what-buhari-originally-approved-for-cbn/

But a cash swap would undermine the cashless policy the Cbn and FG has being singing about won't it?
Family / Re: Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother- Nigerian Man by sphinixs2: 2:15pm On Jan 19, 2023
benjackugo:
Father Of A New Baby Should Be Given Monetary Gift, Not The Mother - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Seye Dele, has said that people visiting couples who welcomed babies should give money to the fathers instead of the mothers, IGBERETV reports.



https://twitter.com/seyedele/status/1615655626994065408?s=19

I think this guy needs to spend time in the labour room to have a rethink.

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Education / Re: Little Girl Wore Eye Lashes, Artificial Nails To Her Graduation (Video) by sphinixs2: 8:21am On Dec 10, 2022
Blessedmercy8:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FEsfAe7gKSE

Mummies in the house, can you do this to your baby girl?

Now, here we are talking about moral upbringing and a mother dressed a little girl like this for her graduation party. What message is she trying to pass across? Before age ten, this girl will be exposed to more adult lifestyle too big for her age. Na WA o...

They forgot to mention her knotless braids... Smh definition of child abuse should cover this rubbish act of the mother.
Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Step-Daughter. Please Help by sphinixs2: 12:26pm On Nov 30, 2022
Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?





I think you are on the right track... Especially as nothing can be traced as the root of her sudden change to your daughter. No one knows, she just might wake up one day to turn against your other children not from her. It's best to let peace reign. Women can be terrible!
Politics / Re: Fela Kuti's Family Reacts As APC Uses Fela's Songs For Their Campaign by sphinixs2: 7:00am On Nov 29, 2022
I have always wondered how we all fell for that Donald Duke's pic being Tinubu's... That pic was too clean! It means we are not into details wink
Family / Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by sphinixs2: 8:46am On Nov 27, 2022
PeaceJoyLove:


Stop advising rubbish. Which South Africa shoild she start. She comes down....do a DNA test and thats it.

You go just dey make comments on matters you dont know. A beg....dont give any suggestions when you are ignorant of it. Lef peoppe who can help talk. Imagine..he is tslking of birth certificate. Lol.

She comes, do a DNA test...and enforce it here. First, take the child out of their custody, find him a good school. If they allow her take her out immediately...fine...if not...the child sgargs a good school here. And the next is to deal with the people. Yes, so they can not come out again. They will pay for every dollar they have recieved. Yes, i will make them sell their properties to pay and the balance...they will pay by going to jail. I wont mind spending to destroy them. Who dem be?

A beg, no dey advise what you know nothing about.

We learn everyday... I can be enlightened by you... Please tell how a DNA test can be enforced... Your knowledge can erase my legal knowledge of more than 10 years... Please teach me.

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Family / Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by sphinixs2: 7:39am On Nov 27, 2022
Odward:
Forget about the child and conceive a new one naundecided

wink I believe REPTILES do this.. Not mammals.

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Family / Re: Late Husband's Family Withholding Her Aunt's Child by sphinixs2: 7:33am On Nov 27, 2022
Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

She needs to put the law in motion in South Africa. Let there be a judgment stating the boy is hers, attach the birth certificate. She would bring the South African judgment to Nigeria which would be registered as a foreign judgment here to be adopted by a Nigerian Court as its own judgment- this registration should be done in the state where the child is being held by the Inlaws. The Nigerian Court having adopted the foreign judgment can commence enforcement which would involve the court baliff and the police. I see the in laws holding the child as a means of extortion... They can't keep a child away from his mother most especially as he is still a minor. I hope this helps.

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Agriculture / Re: See Photos Of The Deadly Pig Killed By Hunters In Ago-iwoye, Ogun State by sphinixs2: 9:09am On Nov 26, 2022
ALAYORMII:
“We have been killing wild animals, we have never killed this kind of pig before. It has the capability of killing even a human being if it first sights him or her” the hunters reported.

Report got to us that this wild pig was not the game aimed but eventually it happens to be the biggest catch of today.

Credit: Afrobadoo

They killed Pumba... Oh Timon embarassed

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi, Jesus Or Judas: What Lies Ahead For Labour Party By Abasifreke Odion by sphinixs2: 1:50pm On Nov 22, 2022
Crime / Re: 18-Year-Old Follows Her Mother's Advice, Kills Her New Born Baby by sphinixs2: 8:10am On Nov 12, 2022
Crime / Re: DSS Official, Tutu Jumps Into Lagos Lagoon After Heated Arguments With Fiance by sphinixs2: 3:55pm On Nov 11, 2022
Family / Re: The Cousin My Mum Brought To My House Has Destroyed My Son by sphinixs2: 5:54pm On Nov 08, 2022
loliapoopy2013:


Am confused and don't know what to do. As am typing this message, am crying and devastated, my heart is broken into bits.

I have 2 sons, aged between 10 and 14. I have refused to live with any maid up till this time, fearing they might be abused.
Am into confectionaries, so despite my stressful business, I manage my boys as my husband works offshore.

A month ago, my mum brought a 19-years-old cousin who looks like a 14-year-old boy to assist me in kneading dough. I panicked because my husband has warned me never to bring any relatives to his house. But because he is a boy and my relative, and was very industrious, I never thought of anything evil, I let him stay.

Yesterday was my birthday, I didn't want to celebrate, but my friend brought me a cake which motivated me to go to the market to get goat meat for pepper soup.

According to my friend, immediately after I left the house, my 10year old son went to take his bath, and that's when my cousin followed. Not liking their movement, she went and peeped, and behold, she saw my cousin having anal sex with my 10-year-old son���. She started banging on the door and they immediately started taking their bath, pretending as if nothing happened.

My friend told me as I got back. I confronted my son about why did he not tell me. He said my cousin cut himself, drew out blood from his body, and warned him that if he tells anyone, he will die, fearing for his life, he refused to tell me. I asked him, why he didn't tell his elder brother, and he said his elder brother is always playing ball downstairs. I then ask him how many times have they done it, and he said almost 10 times. That at first he enjoyed it but he is beginning to feel pain and doesn't know how to end it. I ask my son to bend over, people! my son's anus is wide opened and filled with injury, ������

Please house, what do I do? These are my fears:

1. My son has been introduced to gay sex life by my evil cousin.
2. How can I help ( counsel) my son and rehabilitate him?
3. I might lose my marriage because my husband warned me to protect his kids from relatives.

I need advice from you guys please����������. Please, no insults. I will not purposely put my son in harm's way����.

It is worrisome that society turns a blind eye to molestation of the boy child and shield the girls more. Sexual molestation swing both ways and mothers should be vigilant. What has been done to your 10 year old is painful. I pray for God's guidance during this time... It is important that the perp be thrown out of your house and your son taken for counselling (including your other son). There is no point hiding this from your husband, you need to handle this together... My opinion.

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Politics / Re: Aspiring PDP Lawmaker In Edo Risks Jail Term by sphinixs2: 1:05pm On Oct 29, 2022
Isokiscool:
Mumu talk..Next news pls
#smh
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 2-Month-Old Baby In Imo, Breaks His Arm Leading To Amputation by sphinixs2: 6:16am On Oct 25, 2022

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Politics / Re: Aspiring PDP Lawmaker In Edo Risks Jail Term by sphinixs2: 1:18pm On Oct 23, 2022
Impunity should not be condoned. It speaks of rascality for a politician to brazenly flout a court order... Makes me wonder the fate of this nation. If someone like this is in a higher position, what would the masses do? He is an aspirant... Not yet elected!
Family / Re: I Hope My Decision Is Not Bad? by sphinixs2: 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2022
Survivor2020:
My 17 years old brought shame to me last year she got pregnant, I have disowned her and sent her packing. She is staying with her boyfriend in his family home.

She gave birth 5 months ago she has been sick ever since she had the baby and the boyfriend doesn't have any money to take care of her. Plus the living condition is not suitable for her in her condition.

I have forgiven her and I want to take her back home so I can take her to the hospital for treatment but I don't want her to come with her baby. Please note there is only me and my 7 years old son at home. I work and my son goes to school till 5pm.

I don't have time to babysit the baby.
I want the father to take care of his child while I take care of mine.
I hope my decision is not bad?

Some decisions have a way of coming back to haunt us later in life. Bear in mind that the baby is not only the father's child but also your grandchild!
Romance / Re: My Babe Is Too Clingy by sphinixs2: 4:30pm On Jul 22, 2022
Brightw278:
Who else is having issues with a clingy girl. I have been in a relationship with my girl for sometime, everything has been going on fine a good girl and all you can desire in a lady.

The issue here is she is so clingy, I mean it’s good to be clingy but I think this one is extreme. The nature of my job make me leave house very early and come back late at night. Before I wake up she is calling me, at work she is calling, when I’m back she would have given me 10 missed calls.

We talk everyday, but sometimes a man just want sometime to himself, and if I miss just a call I will have to Dey/dx the reason for missing that call, not to talk of the explanations. Every missed calls is always a potential cheating scenario to her. She monitors my movement as Bleep, I have to tell her where I’m going, when I’m coming, even if I’m going to the rest room and I did not tell her she flare up.

I don’t think of settling with anybody else as this is only her flaw but how do I reduce this, it’s affecting me a lot, if I’m out with freinds she wants to know them, can’t even speak to femal colleagues at work anymore. How do I go about this m, she is a sweet person.

For the records I have never cheated on her before, she checks my phone from time to time too any chat with a female colleague and she is already suspecting me not until I open up the chats for her to read the contents and see we have nothing together. How do you all handle clingy girls it should not look like I’m overreacting

In my opinion you are not overreacting... Mind you, the signs are there urging you to RUN! Such insecurity she exhibits will not get better, bear in mind that years from now after marriage and child bearing, low self esteem might come in due to change in her physique, she would probably get more clingy, possessive and suspicious. In my opinion!

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Politics / Re: David Hundeyin Lied That He’s A Homosexual To Get Asylum - Bashir El-Rufai by sphinixs2: 4:40pm On Jul 04, 2022
Peacemaker5128:


https://twitter.com/BashirElRufai/status/1543910269088415745

Contradiction! If he lied about being homosexual then he need not bend for oyibos na. It is what it is.
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye: Atiku Married Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba, Vote For Him by sphinixs2: 9:39am On Jul 02, 2022
damilola4162:
[url=
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sLM0EnxJQz8][/url]



Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/7/he-has-married-hausa-igbo-yoruba-he-is-a-pan-nigerian-dino-melaye-speaks-on-why-nigerians-should-vote-for-atiku-says-its-not-yet-time-for-peter-obi-to-be-president-video-2.html

I don't understand how someone can open his mouth to spill some things... I wonder the reasoning behind certain utterances. I keep asking myself, was the brain functional at these times? It would do us a lot of good if there was a way to sanction mediocre in the social media space embarassed embarassed
Crime / Re: Zimbabwean Makeup Artist Killed Her Husband And Hung His Body On A Tree by sphinixs2: 2:07pm On Jun 26, 2022
Politics / Re: MC Oluomo: Certificate Or No Certificate, Tinubu Is Nigeria’s Next President by sphinixs2: 6:39am On Jun 26, 2022
TheDemola:


https://dailytrust.com/certificate-or-no-certificate-tinubu-is-nigerias-next-president-mc-oluomo



https://twitter.com/McOluomoo/status/1540682400950132738?t=srKp63D65uB9XHF_4Z1ZuQ&s=19

He asks who certificate help? Why enrol his children in foreign universities? He should have allowed them tow his footsteps in the parks of lagos state as certificate no dey help angry

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Romance / Re: Man Rewards His Girlfriend With Dollars For Not Checking His Phone For A Week by sphinixs2: 6:08pm On Jun 20, 2022
3verblazing:
1dollar bills? This guy is very rich o shocked grin cheesy grin

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