Let her be, she wears the shoes and she knows exactly where it pinches, mourning for a year as some of you have said wouldn't bring her husband back, is nice she goes out and forget the stress of thinking and being lonely at home.

i have never had a bad kiss before.

[b]I light a candle for my Aunt, aunti mado who died on january 3rd 2001, i miss her so deeply i use to think if she was alive we would speak french together, she missed seeing my son,i light a candle for Auntie Rita who died while i was just three years, i never really knew her but i miss her so much and i feel for my mother cos she says alot of good things about her, and she even cited some circumstances that if they did not happened she would have been alife today.I light a candle for uncle Bernard who died in 1995,i light a candle for his wife who died also in 2000, i light a candle for uncle mattias who died on the eve of the memorial service of aunt mado (january 2nd 2002), i light a candle for my great grandfather, whom i spend sometime before he passed on, i light a very big candle to my sweet loving grandmother who died on march 21st 2002, i did not cry at the time she died but i later realised something is missing in my life, her sweet and gentle talks the way we use to play with her, grand ma i miss you so badly and i pray where ever u are , continue to look after us. A candle also for my 6yres niece who travelled to the other world on may 1st 2008, i miss her so badly and i feel terrible for my sister cos she was so close to her daughter, i remember the times she use to play with my son when i gave birth. A big candle to my foster father mr joe who died in october 2002 i miss him so badly.My list is endless, i light a candle for all the departed members of my family especially Hycintha, Lem , stella Blessing, Carol not forgetting my friend Lilian who died in december 2002,Lilian if only u were open enough u wouldn't have died, till today your death worries most of us ur friends. we still talk about it like it happened yesterday. Candles to all those who died in the kenya Airways,(105 passengers) its a pity one leaves his/home to go somewhere but ended up never coming back. Death is an uninvited guest but it keeps coming what can one do.[/b]

its not advisable to do that, have u asked your wife to know if she is cool with the idea?

anywhere and every where plz stop generalising there are always exceptions.

Please go home and meet your husband so u both can raise up your children, you could still relocate to another countryin europe if u so desire to stay out.

I have to be able to take care of a home, look after my husband and kids, dress responsibly that is what makes me a woman.

Halleluiaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa God is great we give him all the glory

life_style be serious for once, how can u steal it. you brought up a good topic but ur answer is not pleasing.

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abujabooks this is cool thanks for taking time to pour me all this stuff, i will try it. please can we chat in google talk i can see ur email here.

Amen Loisamy.

Thanks plappville, for your contribution, as regards ur question i do go to work that is why i get up as early as 5.30 sometimes 5am to cook before going to work, i wake up before him and when he wakes up he will hardly touch the bed. About the second round stuff he use to even go like three times when we were dating but now he seems too tired, meanwhile i do all the house work, cooking, washing of his clothes, etc inshort everything, so i don't understand why he gets so tired in that area.

weebee, i like your experience. You really got a point there, God should answer the prayers of those seeking for the fruit of the womb. It feels so good to have your own child in your arms to hear him call u mama.

hello lady, getting out of the marriage is not the right choice as far as im concern, just stay and talk things out with him, and pray hard he will change some day.