seunmsg:
I thought only South west and northern Muslims are in Sudan studying courses related to how to Islamize Nigeria. At what point did Igbos also get to Sudan? Are they there to study how to Islamize Nigeria or what?

Btw, is Abike Dabiri the minister of foreign affairs or Geoffrey Onyeama?

You're a stvvpid being. When will all this ethnic nonsense and stvvpid people like you will stop this? U enjoyed it during the elections now you're taking it to war/conflict time. Must you be stvvpid all the time? You will never leave your enclave to other places to see what Nigeria is rather u stay put in ur village with a cheap phone spewing rubbish everywhere.

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

Oga, end that marriage and find another woman or better, stay with ur daughter n mother n shag the stupid women around when u need a hole to connect to. Send that woman away cos love should never cause u pains. If it does, then it isn't love

Herdsmen:
That reply is the bomb.. bomb reality

If Una want make Una follow noise ..
Make dem decieve Una enter minorities..

Old Eastern Nigeria for develop pass as e be today.. forget propaganda

But dem run them based on propaganda and lies .. with all their resources .. visit their villages not capital

You wey dem form middle belt ..As e be like this Benue kaduna south , Niger , nassarawa, Jos .. Una no get resources but land minerals wey dem Dey control.. e come be Una like this na?

Una middle belt go the struggle with Guinea or Congo for development .. na jump and pass e go be .. with nobody to send how Una ..


Wisdom is profitable .. Walahi.. gaskia


Modified:

For those on my mention talking trash …middle belt has the majority of minorities . With different culture and languages ..
Southern kaduna alone .. has 51 different tribes and languages ..
And you think they all agree on things

Travel and experience Nigeria .. no be to stay in your south and be dreaming.. hallucinating on others ..

Do you know how many languages and tribes .. in Beune , Niger , pleatue ?
Una go come online the talk trash.. and believe uNa Dey make sense

Have the east with one tribe .. been able to break from Nigeria ?

The Yoruba people with one tribe .. have thr succeed with regionalism?


Yet Una the want people with different cultures , languages … no ancestral connections to settle together as one


History must be brought back to schools and I believe asiwaju will bring it back

Kids have taken over …

They hate traveling and will jump on anything their small brains tell them

You're pained. It is time to go and never to look back again.

TheGreenHouse:
Igbo wise up, start transferring your investments to the SE.

It happened in 1966, neither the SW, SS nor North was safe for igbo, except SE.

Igbo go back and build home.

I'm not Igbo but I totally agree with your submission.

Do you all think where we are head is the right path?

How do you profile a race without consuming self in the long run?
A man wearing a Jean and a shirt is seen as a Christian or a Southerner while a man wearing Caftan/Buba/Tazarche is seen as a Muslim or northerner.
How then is one saved from both sides when a Muslim wears a Jean and a shirt but mistakenly been labeled a Christian and likewise a Christian wearing a caftan and been labeled a Muslim.
The things we do for politician and in the name of politics will consume us all as it was seen happening in Lagos where a man and his wife were labeled Igbos but were Yorubas. A young man being beaten beacuase he was thought to be Igbo and an APC card carrying member showed his membership card and yet collected from the people whom have allowed themselves to used by these politicians.
This occurrences have happened countless of times in the north, today it is in Southern part of Nigeria.
How so soon have we forgotten the genocide in Rwanda, the Xenophobic attacks in South Africa? Today, we are the ones labeling others. I hope and pray that we become conscious of our today's actions because there's no going back from what and how your neighbour sees you henceforth.

We have all refused to learn but will surely learn the hard way...
Always remember to use Kaduna state as an optical lens to see the bigger picture of what is to come to you in Nigeria.

I leave you all in peace.

Shalommy:
Good job. Bandits should kill them all. Chaii

Your father and the whole of your generations. Stupid embicile. How dare you talk about my people in such a manner. May God purnush your entire generation that they will never know peace. Evil mind. Idiot.

I course your generation from today. It shall not be well with them all as your mind is so filled with evil thoughts. You will not know peace, it will be very far from you and your entire generation.

LeoDeKing:
The school doesn't want your labour to be in vain. You should be thanking the school instead of making useless noise.

You're a stupid tard. Spewing rubbish daily because of politic over the future of a little one. Do you have sense at all? Is this how vile you guys are?

zed7:
How? People should stop making statements just to score political points.

Obi is my man but let's be real. Can you control a stubborn or drunk driver? These BRT bus drivers drive like they own the road. Same applies to container carrier drivers and all those lorry drivers.
They just want to oppress and intimidate others with smaller vehicles.

There is a limit to what the government can do, we as individuals should learn to do better.

I don't know what they are called but there barricades that intercept/stops vehicles whenever trains are a kilometer or thereabouts. It is used everywhere and even the BRT buses will have to stop for the train to move. It was used in Kaduna back then before APC came and even when I was a child those days, it was used so why not now?

Penguin2:
We should be able to get:-
Lagos
Abia
Enugu
Rivers
Delta
Plateau
Kaduna
Ebonyi(maybe)

Won’t be a bad start.

The structure they’ve been asking for will soon structure.

Kaduna will not happen except God

Kam2021:
Make una calm down. I'm not pro APC but I think Tinubu will perform better than Buhari in all areas.If he emerges the winner NOTHING will happen to WIKE.All the candidates are good and have done well.My only problem with him and his wife,is the lack of proper way to talk to people and agberoish politics, aside that,he will work.
Make una forgive WIKE,I still believe he weighed the benefits of a Tinubu presidency. Let peace reign.

Are you okay? Are you one of the docile youths we have in the country that adjust to every shit thrown at?

Fut9ure:
Dr Paul Enenche reacts to the massive election malpractice and manipulation witnessed yesterday


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6pA1toomvfs

My GO refused to say a word because his church member will again become a first lady so he has continually lost his voice to his congregants instead, put people for fasting for 51 days.
God resides in us and not this structure called church. I will worship my God in truth and in spirit in my heart. They have prayed for donkey of years and yet no result. I give up on this country wallahi. I should find my way out. I Thought things can work again but I am wrong about my thoughts... I hope we enjoy our demons we invite and wholely voted for. I did not but I know this God that I am serving has never forsaken me for one day and he is not about to do it now...

lhordspy:
See one of the strongest Atiku supporter on twitter, Sarkki already lamenting.

Obidient if any of you is still expecting Atiku to win North, so your Obi can win election. Cast away your calculations, throw away your calculator, your permutations just ended up in the mud.

Die the thought.. It is getting clearer,
Asiwaju is coming.

Na you go end for mud. The calculation was for NNPP to destroy themselves in the north..

Mjshexy:
Useless youth whose future is being stolen still doing the biddings of the criminals

You won't believe he just served. A real wasted being

CoronaVirusRelo:
Labour party attacking Asiwaju’s stronghold!

The 🐖🐷🐗🐽 squatting in Lagos are causing mayhem in all of Asiwaju’s stronghold’s

Ur grandfather is the pig. Animal like u. A miscreant with mobile device

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May ur grandfather be rolling in the grave because of ur stupidity and wasted generation that he has through u...

jeff1607:
After 3months she decided to file for a missing person! Your own husband?


This story doesn’t add up

Try to read to comprehend before you spew rubbish out...

membranus:


There is nothing to appreciate in Nigeria. The country with its new currencies is depressing.

You made me chuckled softly to myself. We are all tired...

MideMrPossible:


This is a post ranch poisoning video, it should calm your anger

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RivFPVD8rzU

Why do you through your dignity to some dogs who know nothing of this life? Why engage nonentities that will still masturbate on a thread if you were dead?
You need not respond to kids and empty headed youths with ambition within them. No plans to be successful, no business ideas to their Monika other than being vile humans who take pleasure in misleading and stoking anger in people who have done well for themselves. Pls take care of your business to the best of your abilities. I'm so angry that you were trying to debate kids that are being fed by their COWARD parents. You will only be a COWARD if you went and attack them. Take that to bank and have peace.

You are to deposit old notes and not be given new notes in return. Let's get that straightened out first cos it seems we are all missing the whole idea of the cashless policy by the CBN.

You guys just don't get it. Our new currency notes are monochrome colour and as such the cost of producing them has been drastically reduced. That was the real intents on the redesign. It cost more to print a multicolour note so, in it's bid to cut down cost, the redesign happened.
Appreciate the effort and move on.

victooman:
l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leave their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if the woman is good, perfect and beautiful.

Now l am in that position now, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt,
we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherish her.

Our sex life is great and perfect, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman, this has nothing to do with love or commitment, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman, chances keep springing up here and there and l don't want to do it, guilty conscience is already disturbing me.

Please guys who overcame this, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it?

Very normal. It just seems you're doing the right thing and the devil wants to truncate all your efforts. If she wasn't perfect, your resolve for her wouldn't be tested. So, try you possible best and stay off the she devils coming your way...
You'll be fine.

Kwankwaso is a BITTERED man. His biggest regrets now is that he failed to allow Labour party NNPP merger. He now sees himself as a distant 4th position candidate over Peter Obi he felt he was better than. The Obidient movement is way and far bigger than the Obi himself. If only Kwankwaso knew and was calculative enough, he would have seen it but he was just too clouded by his arrogance and self absorbent.
E too late...

breakthrough22:


If she stays too long in her father house,I will never accept her back .

Seriously, I have missed my family but I am not accepting her back if she spend the remaining days in January in his dad house and I will never send a dime to them

You have anger issues and it was good for her to find her true self. Your EGO will be your down fall and it has begun. You will end up a miserable man. From her respond to you, it is very evident you made her took that decision from your self afflicted wounds upon her. 2013 is no small years to be in constant mock by you. Things are hard, no doubt about it. We bliv things will get better. Everyone is experiencing the economic hardship so, it is up to you to manage your home. None of ours is better but you've got issues man. You're too proud and it will consume you. I bet you, the next woman you will find will finish you and show you shege since you don't appreciate what you had.
Help yourself and go and bring your family together. All those telling you she has gotten a new man, are leading you to destruction and if you ask, they have never been married in their lives and even if she has found another man, ask yourself who made her to find another man? Obviously your attitude did. Work on yourself and put your pride down else it consumes you.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Pls n pls, do not in anyway give her the money and begin to record every conversation between you both. She's a bad lady so marriage is a no no for you there else, don't come back here with stories that touches the heart.
If she decides to keep the pregnancy, accept the child but don't take back. Let the child be your only link with her and nothing more.
She's a bad woman and man, you age before your time with such woman. Happiness will be be very far from you. Do not let her tie you with that pregnancy no matter what happens.

Fabulozz:
My wife gave birth 2 months ago. She had resumed her duty in the bedroom 3 weeks ago but she doesn't want me to suck her breast saying that I should wait after she stopped exclusively breastfeeding the baby she will be 6 months. I love to suck breast and I can't wait until the baby is 6 months she said I am overeating which I am not.

Tell me if she is exaggerating or am overeating? Would love to hear from married women and men in the house ?

You're simply a foolish man with no sense left in you. How can you suck the nipples an infant is suckling upon? Do you want to endanger the baby? Do you think your baby will be able to withstand some bacteria or germs from your mouth to the nipple? Oga, your wife actually had a better adult teaching than you did before marriage. Don't you know even ordinary kissing of babies on their chicks can cause harm to them if the person is a carrier of a diesease.
You need to wait for that baby to finish his own before you can resume your own. Try and be getting sense small you hear?

Reinamaria:
Why do some men stop giving their wives attention after they marry them?
One foolish one once typed "Do politicians still campaign after winning elections?"
That foolish comment got over 2k likes as at when I saw it.

Dear men (husbands), you need to do better.
Women (your wives) love attention and you owe them that attention.
You need to give them as much attention as they need, so that no other man would matter to them.
Not everything is achieved with force and order.
You all need to do better.

You asked a very valid question that needs an answer in a most sincere manner.
Whether we like it or not, a family needs to be provided for and it can only be done when the man is involved in working to provide. When he works to provide, he sure will definitely have a divided mind and not like when he's courting. Responsibilities becomes so enormous and overwhelming to bare especially when he doesn't have enough or no helping hand.
He can give you that full attention as long as he will sit at home and not work and that itself, is a recipe for disaster on its own.
So, I'll put it to you to choose
He works and provide with a divided attention or He sits at home with you and love you.
Which will you prefer?
I know you will say what about other men, but have you cared to ask how they got to where they are today? It's a phase that will pass with a bit of support and encouragement from you as a woman. At the end, the marriage starts getting sweeter again. We need to work our ass out daily to provide and attend to people outside and as such, he barely focuses completely.
I do not support infidelity.

Your wife is looking for cheap labour to use n that's why she wants the bigger ones which eventually might become an issue tomorrow. Talk to her and make her see sense in you taking the little boy. Also, why are the kids not with their parents? Didn't hear you mentioned orphans so why? The best way to take care of someone else's child is through the owners less, one day you'll be punished for the help rendered. You can be responsible for whatever the child might need but through his parents. That way, you're safe n your wife is safer.

lhordspy:

God Bless Nigeria .

Is it street lights that makes a place beautiful. Do you know amount of fraud by NGOs happening in Maiduguri? And who told you there has been real war in Maiduguri town? Go and live in Borno state naw

holocron:
Sorry for your loss. Seems you squandered your youth. No husband, no children. Now living a wayward life that has exposed you to danger. What are you doing at 48 years with a 31year yahoo boy old enough to be your son. You want to live oyibo style life here in naija. Rest in peace. Last last, all is vanity.

Don't say that please. She's a nice person right from when I knew her. At least she tries to live a godly life in sight of human as we all do. I woke up this morning to this very sad news of her demise. I didn't see her Christmas posts from church activities this year and I wondered why, little did I know that Phyllis has been dead since October... I am so sad to see a friend's picture online with a sad caption... Pls, let's don't always think negative of people like this. Same way we destroyed Sammy Okposu and today his no more so also we to shall be casted without giving us a fair hearing.

OP, the 2nd one will do magic for me since I have just myself to celebrate the Xmas with. No families no friends in Kano.

Malami was never part of the committee but CJN as an advisory. Malami and the rest are all in the dark because it is claimed they are all beneficiaries of the ligase. As such,the fighting.The purported letter from SGF was not from the SGF but one Habiba, he the SGF has cleaned up his hand.
Mind you, Kazaure was not elected in primaries now so he can not be working for Tinubu because speaker's hands are dirty too according to the whistle blower Kazaure. The presidency has made sure they blocked him from seeing Buhari and that was wah led to the whistle blowing in berekete house. Try and watch the complete 3hr video and make a better summary of the events

Thegracefulness:
Let me try to explain this whole issue in ordinary and simple terms. You can form your decision on this.

It all began when Hon. Kazaure Gudaji claimed N89 trillion stamp duties was misappropriated and diverted by the Governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN), Godwin Emefiele.

However, Garba Shehu, the presidential spokesperson, debunked this Kazaure’s N89 trillion missing funds claim, and said that it was “ludicrous that a member of the parliament would claim to be secretary of an executive committee”.

If an executive committee has been appointed by the president, the spokesperson would be in the know. But now, the said spokesperson is denying the existence of any such committe.

Stay with me.

Or are they alleging that Buhari is not in control of his government? That he could make appointments and his actual spokesperson would claim he did not?

Hon. Kazaure claimed the committee was secretly constituted by President Muhammadu Buhari, with Adetola Adekoya and him as the chairman and secretary respectively.

He said the appointment came in a letter dated 8 August, and he asked Buhari to set up the committee that included the Minister of Finance, Zainab Ahmed, the Attorney-General of the Federation, Abubakar Malami, the Director General of the Department of State Services (DSS), Yusuf Bichi, Mohammed Wakili, a retired commissioner of police and one Mr Okafor, a retired staffer of the National Intelligence Agency.

Whatever it is, I’m hoping there’s some form of decorum and the president himself gets to make a statement on this and puts and end to it. Because it’s becoming disgraceful.

The governor of the Central Bank of a country is being chased by the Department of State Security.
Do you know the implication of this?